What would you do if you found out your child was a paedophile?

Oranage2 · 02-12-2011 04:16PM #1

So say you have a child, when in adulthood, he/she turned out having a sexual attraction to children -

- Would you still love your child?

- Would you disown them?

- Would you come to accept it?

Degsy · 02-12-2011 04:17PM

Ask them to join me in our emerging Peadophile Nation.

Snakeblood · 02-12-2011 04:18PM

Oranage2 wrote: »

So say you have a child, when in adulthood, he/she turned out having a sexual attraction to children -

- Would you still love your child?

- Would you disown them?

- Would you come to accept it?

Still love:
Yes

Disown:
Depends on whether they banged kids

Accept:
No.

John Doe1 · 02-12-2011 04:18PM

Bloody hell this is a bit too serious an issue for ah but id probably just give him/her over to guards/priests

Biggins · 02-12-2011 04:19PM

Oranage2 wrote: »

So say you have a child, when in adulthood, he/she turned out having a sexual attraction to children -

- Would you still love your child?

- Would you disown them?

- Would you come to accept it?

I still would love my child to an extent (that being if he/she had committed any crimes yet).
I would see them as mentally sick.
Accept it? No. I would seek them help - and report them if necessary.

AnonoBoy · 02-12-2011 04:20PM

Still having trouble making that phonecall to your folks, eh Oranage?

foxyboxer · 02-12-2011 04:20PM

So long as they remained 'virgins'.
Two scenario's:

You find out they are paedophile's from another source. I'd tend towards disowning them.

You find out from the horses mouth so to speak and they acknowledge it's a problem, then I'd have to support them.

TeddyTedson · 02-12-2011 04:21PM

Depends, is the child male or female ?

John Doe1 · 02-12-2011 04:21PM

TeddyTedson wrote: »

Depends, is the child male or female ?

No it doesnt:P

DEFTLEFTHAND · 02-12-2011 04:22PM

Unconditional love.

Saila · 02-12-2011 04:22PM

kill him before someone else does

Hangballlouie · 02-12-2011 04:23PM

Pay for his membership fees for NAMBLA!

TeddyTedson · 02-12-2011 04:23PM

I'd blame the wife because of this sort of thing

Guill · 02-12-2011 04:23PM

Eat them.

TeddyTedson · 02-12-2011 04:25PM

John Doe1 wrote: »

No it doesnt:P

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AkiQRB0P-5c

Posting it before someone else does!

hondasam · 02-12-2011 04:29PM

Oranage2 wrote: »

So say you have a child, when in adulthood, he/she turned out having a sexual attraction to children -

- Would you still love your child?

- Would you disown them?

- Would you come to accept it?

I would be devastated if my child was a paedophile. I dunno if I could love them the same tbh.
I would get help for them but would find it hard to trust them again.
I would never accept it but would not disown them.

Chuck Stone · 02-12-2011 04:31PM

I dunno. I mean, a four year old 'fancying' other children is pretty normal isn't it?

I think you may be overreacting a little.

maximoose · 02-12-2011 04:32PM

John Doe1 wrote: »

Bloody hell this is a bit too serious an issue for ah but id probably just give him/her over to guards/priests

Why would you want to protect them?

hondasam · 02-12-2011 04:33PM

Chuck Stone wrote: »

I dunno. I mean, a four year old 'fancying' other children is pretty normal isn't it?

I think you may be overreacting a little.

The op said adulthood? who is overreacting?

D1stant · 02-12-2011 04:34PM

Ship him off to be a priest

stovelid · 02-12-2011 04:35PM

I'd blackmail them to get the morgage paid off in double-time.

eyescreamcone · 02-12-2011 04:37PM

Ask him to move to another parish

Sunnyisland · 02-12-2011 04:38PM

hondasam wrote: »

I would be devastated if my child was a paedophile. I dunno if I could love them the same tbh.
I would get help for them but would find it hard to trust them again.
I would never accept it but would not disown them.

I would like to think Same as above and certainly have them watched and if need be under supervised watch.

BTH don't know what I do and going on my current state of mind would rather them be locked up and away from the general public.

Ray Palmer · 02-12-2011 04:42PM

Ok so says you find out and then it turns out your partner abused them which contributed to the problem by messing with their normal sexual development.:eek:

TeddyTedson · 02-12-2011 04:45PM

Ray Palmer wrote: »

Ok so says you find out and then it turns out your partner abused them which contributed to the problem by messing with their normal sexual development.:eek:

Get them down the Isle

hondasam · 02-12-2011 04:46PM

Ray Palmer wrote: »

Ok so says you find out and then it turns out your partner abused them which contributed to the problem by messing with their normal sexual development.:eek:

Then I would blame myself for marrying a paedophile and not protecting my child.

Immaculate Pasta · 02-12-2011 04:52PM

I'd probably try and keep it under wraps and send the child off somewhere in secret where someone can try and cure the child.

leonidas83 · 02-12-2011 04:57PM

Id take a long hard ****ing look at myself in the mirror then try and get her or him some pshyocoligical help

Ray Palmer · 02-12-2011 04:58PM

hondasam wrote: »

Then I would blame myself for marrying a paedophile and not protecting my child.

Are you going disown , stop loving etc ...
Nature and nurture argument comes in too

Chuck Stone · 02-12-2011 05:01PM

hondasam wrote: »

The op said adulthood? who is overreacting?

You?

I was kidding.

Real answer. I have no idea how I'd react but I'd imagine it's very hard to switch of loving/caring for someone even if they were a peadophile.

hondasam · 02-12-2011 05:02PM

Ray Palmer wrote: »

Are you going disown , stop loving etc ...
Nature and nurture argument comes in too

I have all ready said i would not disown them, I would still love them but it would not be the same.

What would you do if you found out your child was a paedophile?

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