Would you care if your friend told you they used escorts/prositutes

7sr2z3fely84g5 · 02-09-2011 9:31pm #1

So if an friend approached and told you they regularly used them,would you care?,would you past judgement on them?.

BBDBB · 02-09-2011 9:33pm

"friend"????

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Will · 02-09-2011 9:33pm

Couldn't care, doesn't effect me or how I view my friendship with them. Who am I to judge?

Bipolar Joe · 02-09-2011 9:36pm

I'm libertarian. I've thought about getting a hooker to play video games with me and watch movies.

The King of Moo · 02-09-2011 9:36pm

I might laugh a little.

They could have got it for free!

Temptamperu · 02-09-2011 9:39pm

nah i wouldnt care... unless they were married with kids i suppose.

Chuck Stone · 02-09-2011 9:39pm

I don't think I would.

Breadcrusts · 02-09-2011 9:40pm

Depends on the friend.

Kold · 02-09-2011 9:41pm

You don't pay her to stay, you pay her to f*ck off afterwards.

Skuxx · 02-09-2011 9:49pm

Nicholas Wet Hoagie wrote: »

So if an friend approached and told you they regularly used them,would you care?,would you past judgement on them?.

Which one are you? The friend who got told or the friend who is thinking about telling??

Bobeagleburger · 02-09-2011 9:51pm

Nicholas Wet Hoagie wrote: »

I regularly use prositutes. Is this normal?

Fyp

Mike 1972 · 02-09-2011 9:52pm

Nicholas Wet Hoagie wrote: »

So if an friend approached and told you they regularly used them,would you care?,would you past judgement on them?.

That would pretty much depend on whether or not they were single.

If the client is single and the prostitutes are not being forced into it then its absolutly fine and dandy as far as Im concerned.

Saila · 02-09-2011 9:52pm

have you seen them bitches! :eek:

damn a lot look unbelieveably fine -->escourt.ie

stimpson · 02-09-2011 9:54pm

No problem with hookers, but I'd draw the line at a Ford.

Temptamperu · 02-09-2011 9:54pm

Saila wrote: »

have you seen them bitches! :eek:

damn a lot look unbelieveably fine -->escourt.ie

:eek:

arybvtcw0eolkf · 02-09-2011 9:55pm

Nicholas Wet Hoagie wrote: »

So if an friend approached and told you they regularly used them,would you care?,would you past judgement on them?.

I wouldn't give a bollox tbh.

Kadongy · 02-09-2011 9:55pm

well I might be inclined to think less of them; but then a prostitute is just a more honest version of two of my ex gfs, so I guess I'm not in a place to judge

Mike 1972 · 02-09-2011 9:57pm

Kadongy wrote: »

but then a prostitute is just a more honest version of two of my ex gfs,

You dont still have their numbers by any chance :pac:

Unique User Name · 02-09-2011 10:22pm

Absolutely not. None of my business who they want to do in their spare time.

weemcd · 02-09-2011 10:31pm

My friend tells me about his experiences with prostitutes all the time

yeah my friend

c_man · 02-09-2011 10:33pm

Nicholas Wet Hoagie wrote: »

So if an friend approached and told you they regularly used them,would you care?,would you past judgement on them?.

It's their own choice.

My undercut them with an offer for my gf though. Recession like.

spoofilyj · 02-09-2011 10:38pm

It depends on the situation tbh.
I worked in Abu-Dhabi a few years back and was on contract living in a hotel.
Anyway one morning I opened the door and across the hallway a collegue was opening the door to let the Lady of negociable affection out, it changed my opinion a bit of that person, especially since I knew he had a wife and kid back in Sweden...

The whole paying for sex issue does not sit well with me for some reason.

WindSock · 02-09-2011 10:40pm

No, but it depends on their attitude towards them.

WinstonOno · 02-09-2011 10:40pm

yea, id be disgusted with her

flyaway. · 02-09-2011 10:42pm

Is the friend single...? If so, I don't care.

I would be upset to find out that a friend was cheating on someone though!

Raze_them_all · 02-09-2011 10:43pm

one my mates spent 4 grand on hoookers booze and probably coke in oz in 3-4 weeks. Fair play to him living his life as he wants I say

pow wow · 02-09-2011 10:46pm

Only if they owed me lotsa cash that wasn't being repaid because of the aforementioned hooker habit.

Kidchameleon · 02-09-2011 11:00pm

Na using hookers is scummy. Its a form of rape.

Mahatma coat · 02-09-2011 11:01pm

Nothin wrong with Using a Prostitute, you can get them to do all sorts of mental things that 'nice Girls' would give you funny looks for askin.

Also if yer in the mood for a bit of cock you can pick up and make a few quid in the process WinWin

Dangerous Man · 02-09-2011 11:08pm

Kidchameleon wrote: »

Na using hookers is scummy. Its a form of rape.

Tell me about it - the prices these days...

epgc3fyqirnbsx · 02-09-2011 11:09pm

Well, as long as you're not hurting anyone...

Saila · 02-09-2011 11:09pm

Kidchameleon wrote: »

Na using hookers is scummy. Its a form of rape.

like bailing out private banks.. for 90+ Billion! I call that rape

wolf moon · 02-09-2011 11:10pm

Nicholas Wet Hoagie wrote: »

So if an friend approached and told you they regularly used them,would you care?

Why would I?
It's a most obvious answer to this question.

Temptamperu · 02-09-2011 11:12pm

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3omQikQYmgY

barone · 02-09-2011 11:15pm

if your 'friend' was female and was using male prostitutes would you look at her differently?

wolf moon · 02-09-2011 11:18pm

barone wrote: »

if your 'friend' was female and was using male prostitutes would you look at her differently?

The only sexual life I care about is mine.

AnneElizabeth · 02-09-2011 11:23pm

Yes, it would severely lower my opinion of them. I don't care what other people think of them, to me anyone that uses prostitutes has serious problems, it's pathetic.

TheUsual · 02-09-2011 11:23pm

Most of my friends are prostitutes.

pablomakaveli · 02-09-2011 11:24pm

What two consenting adults do behind closed doors is no concern of mine.

Though if the person using the prostitute had a girlfriend/boyfriend i would think that was bad form.

Ditch · 02-09-2011 11:31pm

Saila wrote: »

damn a lot look unbelieveably fine

Indeed. I've personally called out several Escorts. Perfectly nice girls. Well presented and mannered. Had I money to burn? I'd probably pay some to just spend the evening in my company and be nice company

Prostitutes? Here I think of the types who stalk about on street corners, leaning into motors windows. I'm thinking micro skirts. Dead eyes. Tracks .....

Fraction of the price of an Escort. But; err ..... Naah!

Temptamperu · 02-09-2011 11:32pm

Ditch wrote: »

Indeed. I've personally called out several Escorts. Perfectly nice girls. Well presented and mannered. Had I money to burn? I'd probably pay some to just spend the evening in my company and be nice company

Prostitutes? Here I think of the types who stalk about on street corners, leaning into motors windows. I'm thinking micro skirts. Dead eyes. Tracks .....

Fraction of the price of an Escort. But; err ..... Naah!

Durty fecker

discus · 02-09-2011 11:32pm

AnneElizabeth wrote: »

Yes, it would severely lower my opinion of them. I don't care what other people think of them, to me anyone that uses prostitutes has serious problems, it's pathetic.

God, I didn't see that opinion arriving from the blatently salt-of-the-earth AnneElizabeth!

There's guys who never marry. It's not their fault, or their wish. They're lonely, they're sad and probably a bit angry at the world. Why should we deprive them the chance to have sex, with a woman who's more than happy to take his cash?*

* this person isn't discus by the way, I'm angry at myself in life more than anything :mad:

charlemont · 02-09-2011 11:36pm

No. I had a few Bulgarian neighbours on the game and to be honest it didn't bother me in the least.

They were making savage money too.

VenusPlays · 02-09-2011 11:41pm

Big difference between using an escort service, kerb crawling and even the lower than low scum who pretty much imprison girls in scummy brothels. A mate with money to burn who wants or feels the need to pay for an escort, as long as he's single I wouldnt care. Anything else and I reserve the right to be judgemental

Bullseye1 · 02-09-2011 11:45pm

I'd have a problem with it to be honest. The women are most likely sex slaves Eastern European or African. Passports taken away and sold from one scumbag to the next.

If prostitution was legalised and legislated for it might be different.

Logical Fallacy · 02-09-2011 11:46pm

Nicholas Wet Hoagie wrote: »

So if an friend approached and told you they regularly used them,would you care?,would you past judgement on them?.

Wouldn't care beyond asking them if they are using it as a crutch to deal with insecurity or loneliness.

temply · 02-09-2011 11:48pm

nope, their private parts are their own business, why would I care where they stuck em?

2 stroke · 02-09-2011 11:54pm

Of course I'd care, wouldn't want to have sex with anyone he'd been with.

gargleblaster · 02-09-2011 11:55pm

Bullseye1 wrote: »

I'd have a problem with it to be honest. The women are most likely sex slaves Eastern European or African. Passports taken away and sold from one scumbag to the next.

If prostitution was legalised and legislated for it might be different.

The problem is that where buying sex is legal, demand for it goes up. And since many men like to refuse to wear condoms, ask prostitutes to do horrible dehumanizing things that they wouldn't normally ask of someone they cared for, and buy sex from underage people, that includes rising demand for buying sex illegally. It enables some people to think of other people as things (e.g. body parts such as a "gash"), and not people. Encouraging dehumanization makes things worse, not better.

So as for me, yes, I'd care.

Ciks · 03-09-2011 12:02am

I completely agree GargleBlaster.
This article was in the times last year http://www.womenlobby.org/spip.php?article344

The clear lack of respect that this clients have for the women and the extent to which they dehumanize them, is illustrated perfectly in this 'review' left for a woman on one of these escort sites:

“Met this thing a number of months ago. She went by a different name then . . . She hates her clients, hates the job, hates the world. Stay well away from it.”

"thing", "it". This sickens me...

DjFlin · 03-09-2011 12:02am

I'd probably use it as Ammo to slag them from time to time, but otherwise, I probably wouldnt care.

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