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Would you care if your friend told you they used escorts/prositutes

  • 02-09-2011 8:31pm
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,571 ✭✭✭


    So if an friend approached and told you they regularly used them,would you care?,would you past judgement on them?.

    Would you care 143 votes

    Yes
    13% 20 votes
    No
    86% 123 votes


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,899 ✭✭✭✭BBDBB


    "friend"????

    riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,183 ✭✭✭✭Will


    Couldn't care, doesn't effect me or how I view my friendship with them. Who am I to judge?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,443 ✭✭✭Bipolar Joe


    I'm libertarian. I've thought about getting a hooker to play video games with me and watch movies.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭The King of Moo


    I might laugh a little.

    They could have got it for free!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,303 ✭✭✭Temptamperu


    nah i wouldnt care... unless they were married with kids i suppose.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,030 ✭✭✭✭Chuck Stone


    I don't think I would.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 70 ✭✭Breadcrusts


    Depends on the friend.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,778 ✭✭✭✭Kold


    You don't pay her to stay, you pay her to f*ck off afterwards.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,379 ✭✭✭Skuxx


    So if an friend approached and told you they regularly used them,would you care?,would you past judgement on them?.

    Which one are you? The friend who got told or the friend who is thinking about telling??


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I regularly use prositutes. Is this normal?

    Fyp


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,018 ✭✭✭Mike 1972


    So if an friend approached and told you they regularly used them,would you care?,would you past judgement on them?.

    That would pretty much depend on whether or not they were single.

    If the client is single and the prostitutes are not being forced into it then its absolutly fine and dandy as far as Im concerned.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,751 ✭✭✭Saila


    have you seen them bitches! :eek:

    damn a lot look unbelieveably fine -->escourt.ie


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,828 ✭✭✭stimpson


    No problem with hookers, but I'd draw the line at a Ford.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,303 ✭✭✭Temptamperu


    Saila wrote: »
    have you seen them bitches! :eek:

    damn a lot look unbelieveably fine -->escourt.ie


    :eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 24,878 ✭✭✭✭arybvtcw0eolkf


    So if an friend approached and told you they regularly used them,would you care?,would you past judgement on them?.

    I wouldn't give a bollox tbh.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 732 ✭✭✭Kadongy


    well I might be inclined to think less of them; but then a prostitute is just a more honest version of two of my ex gfs, so I guess I'm not in a place to judge


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,018 ✭✭✭Mike 1972


    Kadongy wrote: »
    but then a prostitute is just a more honest version of two of my ex gfs,

    You dont still have their numbers by any chance :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 324 ✭✭Unique User Name


    Absolutely not. None of my business who they want to do in their spare time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,455 ✭✭✭weemcd


    My friend tells me about his experiences with prostitutes all the time

    yeah my friend


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,436 ✭✭✭c_man


    So if an friend approached and told you they regularly used them,would you care?,would you past judgement on them?.

    It's their own choice.






    My undercut them with an offer for my gf though. Recession like.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 579 ✭✭✭spoofilyj


    It depends on the situation tbh.
    I worked in Abu-Dhabi a few years back and was on contract living in a hotel.
    Anyway one morning I opened the door and across the hallway a collegue was opening the door to let the Lady of negociable affection out, it changed my opinion a bit of that person, especially since I knew he had a wife and kid back in Sweden...

    The whole paying for sex issue does not sit well with me for some reason.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,239 ✭✭✭✭WindSock


    No, but it depends on their attitude towards them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 189 ✭✭WinstonOno


    yea, id be disgusted with her


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 519 ✭✭✭flyaway.


    Is the friend single...? If so, I don't care.

    I would be upset to find out that a friend was cheating on someone though!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,477 ✭✭✭✭Raze_them_all


    one my mates spent 4 grand on hoookers booze and probably coke in oz in 3-4 weeks. Fair play to him living his life as he wants I say


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,288 ✭✭✭pow wow


    Only if they owed me lotsa cash that wasn't being repaid because of the aforementioned hooker habit.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,482 ✭✭✭Kidchameleon


    Na using hookers is scummy. Its a form of rape.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 6,869 ✭✭✭Mahatma coat


    Nothin wrong with Using a Prostitute, you can get them to do all sorts of mental things that 'nice Girls' would give you funny looks for askin.

    Also if yer in the mood for a bit of cock you can pick up and make a few quid in the process WinWin


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,674 ✭✭✭Dangerous Man


    Na using hookers is scummy. Its a form of rape.

    Tell me about it - the prices these days...


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,228 ✭✭✭epgc3fyqirnbsx


    Well, as long as you're not hurting anyone...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,751 ✭✭✭Saila


    Na using hookers is scummy. Its a form of rape.

    like bailing out private banks.. for 90+ Billion! I call that rape


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 644 ✭✭✭wolf moon


    So if an friend approached and told you they regularly used them,would you care?
    Why would I?
    It's a most obvious answer to this question.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,303 ✭✭✭Temptamperu




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,224 ✭✭✭barone


    if your 'friend' was female and was using male prostitutes would you look at her differently?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 644 ✭✭✭wolf moon


    barone wrote: »
    if your 'friend' was female and was using male prostitutes would you look at her differently?
    The only sexual life I care about is mine.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 519 ✭✭✭AnneElizabeth


    Yes, it would severely lower my opinion of them. I don't care what other people think of them, to me anyone that uses prostitutes has serious problems, it's pathetic.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,288 ✭✭✭TheUsual


    Most of my friends are prostitutes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,752 ✭✭✭pablomakaveli


    What two consenting adults do behind closed doors is no concern of mine.

    Though if the person using the prostitute had a girlfriend/boyfriend i would think that was bad form.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 809 ✭✭✭Ditch


    Saila wrote: »
    damn a lot look unbelieveably fine


    Indeed. I've personally called out several Escorts. Perfectly nice girls. Well presented and mannered. Had I money to burn? I'd probably pay some to just spend the evening in my company and be nice company :)


    Prostitutes? Here I think of the types who stalk about on street corners, leaning into motors windows. I'm thinking micro skirts. Dead eyes. Tracks .....

    Fraction of the price of an Escort. But; err ..... Naah!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,303 ✭✭✭Temptamperu


    Ditch wrote: »
    Indeed. I've personally called out several Escorts. Perfectly nice girls. Well presented and mannered. Had I money to burn? I'd probably pay some to just spend the evening in my company and be nice company :)


    Prostitutes? Here I think of the types who stalk about on street corners, leaning into motors windows. I'm thinking micro skirts. Dead eyes. Tracks .....

    Fraction of the price of an Escort. But; err ..... Naah!

    Durty fecker :D


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,049 ✭✭✭discus


    Yes, it would severely lower my opinion of them. I don't care what other people think of them, to me anyone that uses prostitutes has serious problems, it's pathetic.

    God, I didn't see that opinion arriving from the blatently salt-of-the-earth AnneElizabeth!

    There's guys who never marry. It's not their fault, or their wish. They're lonely, they're sad and probably a bit angry at the world. Why should we deprive them the chance to have sex, with a woman who's more than happy to take his cash?*

    * this person isn't discus by the way, I'm angry at myself in life more than anything :mad:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,725 ✭✭✭charlemont


    No. I had a few Bulgarian neighbours on the game and to be honest it didn't bother me in the least.

    They were making savage money too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 174 ✭✭VenusPlays


    Big difference between using an escort service, kerb crawling and even the lower than low scum who pretty much imprison girls in scummy brothels. A mate with money to burn who wants or feels the need to pay for an escort, as long as he's single I wouldnt care. Anything else and I reserve the right to be judgemental


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,731 ✭✭✭Bullseye1


    I'd have a problem with it to be honest. The women are most likely sex slaves Eastern European or African. Passports taken away and sold from one scumbag to the next.

    If prostitution was legalised and legislated for it might be different.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,933 ✭✭✭Logical Fallacy


    So if an friend approached and told you they regularly used them,would you care?,would you past judgement on them?.

    Wouldn't care beyond asking them if they are using it as a crutch to deal with insecurity or loneliness.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 821 ✭✭✭temply


    nope, their private parts are their own business, why would I care where they stuck em?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,921 ✭✭✭2 stroke


    Of course I'd care, wouldn't want to have sex with anyone he'd been with.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,425 ✭✭✭gargleblaster


    Bullseye1 wrote: »
    I'd have a problem with it to be honest. The women are most likely sex slaves Eastern European or African. Passports taken away and sold from one scumbag to the next.

    If prostitution was legalised and legislated for it might be different.

    The problem is that where buying sex is legal, demand for it goes up. And since many men like to refuse to wear condoms, ask prostitutes to do horrible dehumanizing things that they wouldn't normally ask of someone they cared for, and buy sex from underage people, that includes rising demand for buying sex illegally. It enables some people to think of other people as things (e.g. body parts such as a "gash"), and not people. Encouraging dehumanization makes things worse, not better.

    So as for me, yes, I'd care.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 51 ✭✭Ciks


    I completely agree GargleBlaster.
    This article was in the times last year http://www.womenlobby.org/spip.php?article344

    The clear lack of respect that this clients have for the women and the extent to which they dehumanize them, is illustrated perfectly in this 'review' left for a woman on one of these escort sites:
    “Met this thing a number of months ago. She went by a different name then . . . She hates her clients, hates the job, hates the world. Stay well away from it.”

    "thing", "it". This sickens me...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,089 ✭✭✭DjFlin


    I'd probably use it as Ammo to slag them from time to time, but otherwise, I probably wouldnt care.


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