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What would you do - a bit of a situation with male friend

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  • #62
    Super-Rush
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    Was his name Jake Le Motta by any chance?


  • #63
    Prof.Badass
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,931 ✭✭✭Prof.Badass


    SoulTrader wrote: »
    But your genitals are still lined up...

    I had a long winded explaination written out, but basically due to the length of the bed and the fact that your feet have to end before the other person's face, it's unlikely to happen....although i suppose it is possible :(. Even if you turned around still having your asses touch occasionally would feel kinda sexual (for someone who is drunk and into the other person). Damn you soultrader :mad::pac:.

    OP, still one thing i don't understand (and what i'm most curious about). What was his response when you told him the next morning?


  • #64
    Delicate_Dlite
    Closed Accounts Posts: 250 ✭✭Delicate_Dlite


    Yes, I've shared a bed/couch with many plantonic friends numerous times and nothing like that has ever happened*. But, well if it had happened to me, my relationships with my friends are perhaps a little different.

    Depending on the guy, I would have ignored it, never mentioned it, but not share a bed again...or....just laugh about it and let it be one of those funny/embarassing stories all friendships have. I'm sure the guy is probably just as mortified as you are creeped out. It just depends on your relationship, and whether he was asleep/awake.


    * Once while snoozing on a chair with a friend he kissed me, it woke me up but we did go out for nearly 2 years after that and it was more of a sweet kiss than a random "attack kiss".


  • #65
    DonkeyStyle \o/
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,144 ✭✭✭DonkeyStyle \o/


    nicegirl wrote: »
    Would you have done the same?
    Maybe, but I wouldn't have made as much noise :pac:


  • #66
    nicegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 560 ✭✭✭nicegirl


    Prof.Badass wrote: »
    I had a long winded explaination written out, but basically due to the lenght of the bed and the fact that your feet have to end before the other person's face, it's unlikely to happen.

    OP, still one thing i don't understand (and what i'm most curious about). What was his response when you told him the next morning?

    I said it to him the next day about what happened. He denied it of course, but had a face of filthy guilt. I was disgusted, and he left then after. Haven't spoke to him since. Awful the entire thing


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  • #67
    Mick Daly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 558 ✭✭✭Mick Daly


    Did you have any clothes on?
    Did he have any clothes on?


  • #68
    jordan..
    Closed Accounts Posts: 262 ✭✭jordan..


    i sleep beside my friends that are girls a good bit, a couple of times it has led to sumtin but if I was mad for it and there was a girl asleep next to me I wouldnt start smellin her hair and wankin on her back haha
    Id wait till mornin and drop d hand :cool:


  • #69
    GoldCobra
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 122 ✭✭GoldCobra


    What would you do - A bit of a sticky situation with male friend

    fixed the thread title.


  • #70
    Motley Crue
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,382 ✭✭✭Motley Crue


    nicegirl wrote: »
    About 10 minutes later, I was half asleep, and heard some rather "Strange" noises beside me......he was getting off on himself beside me..... I was completely freaked out, said it to him the next day and haven't spoke to him since.

    I wouldn't speak to him again. No, you haven't overreacted, this is NOT the right thing to do.


  • #71
    Mick Daly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 558 ✭✭✭Mick Daly


    nicegirl wrote: »

    I was half asleep, and heard some rather "Strange" noises beside me......he was getting off on himself beside me..... I was completely freaked out,

    Would you have done the same? It seriously freaked me out

    Did you turn on the light to see what he was doing?

    Why were you so freaked out? It's anatural thing to do.

    If it were me I would be freaked out but I wouldn't have a man sleeping with me in the first place.


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  • #72
    nicegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 560 ✭✭✭nicegirl


    Delicate_Dlite wrote: »
    Yes, I've shared a bed/couch with many plantonic friends numerous times and nothing like that has ever happened*. But, well if it had happened to me, my relationships with my friends are perhaps a little different.

    Depending on the guy, I would have ignored it, never mentioned it, but not share a bed again...or....just laugh about it and let it be one of those funny/embarassing stories all friendships have. I'm sure the guy is probably just as mortified as you are creeped out. It just depends on your relationship, and whether he was asleep/awake.


    * Once while snoozing on a chair with a friend he kissed me, it woke me up but we did go out for nearly 2 years after that and it was more of a sweet kiss than a random "attack kiss".

    Have many other girls shared a bed with a plotonic male friend, anything like this ever happened? That why I put in this thread wondering if it happened to any other girls, and how horrifying the whole thing was


  • #73
    Mick Daly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 558 ✭✭✭Mick Daly


    jordan.. wrote: »
    i sleep beside my friends that are girls a good bit, a couple of times it has led to sumtin but if I was mad for it and there was a girl asleep next to me I wouldnt start smellin her hair and wankin on her back haha
    Id wait till mornin and drop d hand :cool:


    I know what you mean. I'd be divin' below the bed covers to get a sniff of the panties.


    :pac:


  • #74
    nicegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 560 ✭✭✭nicegirl


    Mick Daly wrote: »
    Did you have any clothes on?
    Did he have any clothes on?

    Jesus of course


  • #75
    Gummy Panda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    what if he spooned you during the night for a cuddle?


  • #76
    Mick Daly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 558 ✭✭✭Mick Daly


    nicegirl wrote: »
    Jesus of course


    So what did he do with his juice? Were the sheets stained?

    Now that would be a problem.


  • #77
    Ryann Shy Frisbee
    Posts: 81,310 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Ryann Shy Frisbee


    nicegirl wrote: »
    Have many other girls shared a bed with a plotonic male friend,

    I guess that's a step up from "plutonic" :D

    Oh and no.


  • #78
    Saibh
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,431 ✭✭✭✭Saibh


    nicegirl wrote: »
    Have many other girls shared a bed with a plotonic male friend, anything like this ever happened? That why I put in this thread wondering if it happened to any other girls, and how horrifying the whole thing was
    Did you stay in the same bed for the rest of the night and able to sleep after?


  • #79
    Mick Daly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 558 ✭✭✭Mick Daly


    Would you be vexed if he snuggled up behind you to take in a whiff of your scent during the night?


  • #80
    alanajane
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 252 ✭✭alanajane


    My mother in law once said to me, when hubby was still de boyfriend, "a standing prick has no conscience".


    Nicegirl if you were a 'nicegirl' you wouldnt have invited a man into your bed friend or not...in my day (god i sound like my mother saying that) what you did was leading him up the garden path.


  • #81
    nicegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 560 ✭✭✭nicegirl


    Mick Daly wrote: »
    So what did he do with his juice? Were the sheets stained?

    Now that would be a problem.


    Don't know. I was so disgusted. Extra strong bleach was used the next day. Maybe I should have burned the sheets


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  • #82
    Gummy Panda
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    Saibh wrote: »
    Did you stay in the same bed for the rest of the night and able to sleep after?

    Maybe she was dreaming and is over reacting.

    OP, you sure you were dreaming of your friend jerking off in some weird wet jerking off fetish dream?


  • #83
    jordan..
    Closed Accounts Posts: 262 ✭✭jordan..


    Mick Daly wrote: »
    I know what you mean. I'd be divin' below the bed covers to get a sniff of the panties.


    :pac:

    once you have consent! its gettin nasty time :D That little weird chap should check out sex, he could be converted from his strange ways :pac:


  • #84
    nicegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 560 ✭✭✭nicegirl


    Gummy Panda wrote: »
    Maybe she was dreaming and is over reacting.

    OP, you sure you were dreaming of your friend jerking off in some weird wet jerking off fetish dream?


    No definately not dreaming, and the look on his face the next day said it all. Disgusting git


  • #85
    Mick Daly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 558 ✭✭✭Mick Daly


    nicegirl wrote: »
    Don't know. I was so disgusted. Extra strong bleach was used the next day. Maybe I should have burned the sheets


    Put it into perspective. Would you rather he went pantie diving while you were asleep?


    Maybe he was and you never knew it! :pac:


  • #86
    Cheap Thrills!
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,723 ✭✭✭Cheap Thrills!


    nicegirl wrote: »
    Have many other girls shared a bed with a plotonic male friend, anything like this ever happened? That why I put in this thread wondering if it happened to any other girls, and how horrifying the whole thing was


    Anytime I girls I know went to bed with a 'platonic male friend' ......well we they...yes THEY were never plantonic in the morning.

    It usually goes thusly:

    He: You can stay in my room, I won't do anything, I promise.
    She: ok great, I am too drunk to get a taxi
    He: Come on then, I'm SO hornytired

    Both stumble to bed, chat, chat, chat....

    He: Let me just cuddle you, I won't do anythin, I promise.
    She: ok *snuggles into bloke comfily and trustingly*
    He: I won't do anything *while taking off her knickers and poking her with a boner*

    Platonicnesss ends.

    OP, when you go to bed with a bloke, chances are he wants to pork ya, you were a bit naive petal !!! Or a pr1ck tease!!


  • #87
    Mike 1972
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,018 ✭✭✭Mike 1972


    Zen65 wrote: »
    This man is a bit naive,

    All things considered hes hardly the only one if that is the case


  • #88
    Mick Daly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 558 ✭✭✭Mick Daly


    nicegirl wrote: »
    No definately not dreaming, and the look on his face the next day said it all. Disgusting git


    Why didn't you just give him a rub down for the craic? It would have made his evening.

    Is he a nice man? Are you attracted to him?


  • #89
    nicegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 560 ✭✭✭nicegirl


    Cheap Thrills! wrote: »
    Anytime I girls I know went to bed with a 'platonic male friend' ......well we they...yes THEY were never plantonic in the morning.

    It usually goes thusly:

    He: You can stay in my room, I won't do anything, I promise.
    She: ok great, I am too drunk to get a taxi
    He: Come on then, I'm SO hornytired

    Both stumble to bed, chat, chat, chat....

    He: Let me just cuddle you, I won't do anythin, I promise.
    She: ok *snuggles into bloke comfily and trustingly*
    He: I won't do anything *while taking off her knickers and poking her with a boner*

    Platonicnesss ends.

    OP, when you go to bed with a bloke, chances are he wants to pork ya, you were a bit naive petal !!! Or a pr1ck tease!!

    Ladies, any opinions?


  • #90
    stupidusername
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,762 ✭✭✭✭stupidusername


    nicegirl wrote: »
    Have many other girls shared a bed with a plotonic male friend, anything like this ever happened? That why I put in this thread wondering if it happened to any other girls, and how horrifying the whole thing was

    Hmmm, I was going to write back to this with my experience, but now that I've thought about how it'd all seem written down,it wouldn't look good on my part. But ya, this hasn't happened, but have had a friend kiss me when he thought I was asleep. Made me quite uncomfortable, but I got over it after telling him I was really pissed off over it.


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  • #91
    Armin_Tamzarian
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,833 ✭✭✭✭Armin_Tamzarian


    nicegirl wrote: »
    Ladies, any opinions?

    This thread might be so much better if you posted photos of yourself.


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