What would you do - a bit of a situation with male friend

nicegirl

Met up with one of my male friends recently. Ended up having a few drinks, so I said he could stay in my house. I share a house, and said it would be alright if he stayed in the bed with me, as we were friends for quite some time. I made it clear to him there would be no funny business, and to go to sleep.

About 10 minutes later, I was half asleep, and heard some rather "Strange" noises beside me......he was getting off on himself beside me..... I was completely freaked out, said it to him the next day and haven't spoke to him since.

Would you have done the same? It seriously freaked me out

Random

Would you have done the same?

it depends - are you female? are you good looking?

alwaysadub

What did you say to him-'Were you fapping beside me last night'?

Indubitable

A man has gotta do what a man has gotta do.

Xavi6

nicegirl wrote: »

said it to him the next day

Nice of you to let him finish.

Interrupting mid-toss would have been bad form.

nicegirl

Random wrote: »

it depends - are you female? are you good looking?

Ehh my name is "Nicegirl", so that would make me female!
As for the second part I have been told I am, but I don't think so myself

SeaFields

Random wrote: »

are you female?

note username...

laugh

nicegirl wrote: »

I share a house, and said it would be alright if he stayed in the bed with me, as we were friends for quite some time. I made it clear to him there would be no funny business, and to go to sleep.

No couch?

nicegirl

Xavi6 wrote: »

Nice of you to let him finish.

Interrupting mid-toss would have been bad form.

I knew what he was at, and was half asleep myself. I am just annoyed I didn't wake up properly and toss him out of my house....wouldn't that freak out any girl?

InkSlinger67

You should have taken the pornographic images of yourself off the wall beside the bed before allowing him in the room. You only have yourself to blame OP!

jordan..

thats too weird. chaps a bogey!!

TheZohanS

nicegirl wrote: »

I am just annoyed I didn't wake up properly and toss him out of my house....wouldn't that freak out any girl?

Good girl, now you're thinking.

jd007

Now thats a danger ****!

In fairness, at least he didn't wipe it in your hair. Count your blessings.

SeaFields

nicegirl wrote: »

Would you have done the same?

Is this directed at the males or the females here?

Deus Ex Machina

Do you really need boards for this one?

nicegirl

Deleted User wrote: »

In fairness, at least he didn't wipe it in your hair. Count your blessings.

Oh Jesus! Annoyed I didn't kick him out of the house, imagine a male friend doing that in the bed beside you

kwalshe

there's fup all on tv, this thread has an all nighter written all over it. Happy days

FearDark

Lol. This guy is my new hero. Laugh it off OP!

MagicMarker

OP, really, what do you expect inviting a guy into your bed? A drunk guy no less. Just be glad he didn't rape your cat.

jordan..

if in doubt, skullfcuk! I live by it

nicegirl

FearDark wrote: »

Lol. This guy is my new hero. Laugh it off OP!

Your hero, oh God! Ladies, whats your views on this? I am still freaked out thinking about it...

FearDark

nicegirl wrote: »

Your hero, oh God! Ladies, whats your views on this? I am still freaked out thinking about it...

Bad idea inviting a drunk guy into your bed even though you made it clear there would be no funny business. He's a man, a dirty man.

Armin_Tamzarian

nicegirl wrote: »

About 10 minutes later, I was half asleep, and heard some rather "Strange" noises beside me......he was getting off on himself beside me.....

...and the response is "Hey, can I give you a hand?"

You should have given him a happy ending.

kwalshe

op, if he is on boards, he's probably fapping away like the bejeysus now as your talking about it.

nicegirl

MagicMarker wrote: »

OP, really, what do you expect inviting a guy into your bed? A drunk guy no less. Just be glad he didn't rape your cat.

I was not drunk and he was not drunk, but he was suppose to drive and couldn't. Thought I'd give him a bed for the night, as we were friends, and the last thing I expected was what happened.. I couldn't send him to sleep on the coach as I have no bed clothes for the couch. I am annoyed with myself in a way, but imagine this happening, if you were friends with a lad

GoldCobra

This sounds like a sticky situation

Prof.Badass

nicegirl wrote: »

Your hero, oh God! Ladies, whats your views on this? I am still freaked out thinking about it...

I'm not a lady, but my thoughts on this is that somebody has taken control of your account and this is most likely an istance of frape brape :pac:.

SeaFields

nicegirl wrote: »

I was not drunk and he was not drunk, but he was suppose to drive and couldn't.

Ahhh, the old "I've had too many lemonades to drive" trick...

stepbar

nicegirl wrote: »

I was not drunk and he was not drunk, but he was suppose to drive and couldn't. Thought I'd give him a bed for the night, as we were friends, and the last thing I expected was what happened.. I couldn't send him to sleep on the coach as I have no bed clothes for the couch. I am annoyed with myself in a way, but imagine this happening, if you were friends with a lad

I hope you cleaned the sheets......

dinneenp

Was it a few drinks or could he have been so plastered that he thought he was alone in his own bed?
As someone else mentioned why didn't u offer him d couch?
Opposite sex in bed = always something might happen

It's all fun and games until your best friend comes in your bed.

eoinbn

nicegirl wrote: »

I knew what he was at, and was half asleep myself. I am just annoyed I didn't wake up properly and toss him out of my house....wouldn't that freak out any girl?

Maybe he was asleep?! I have been woken up by GF's entertaining her in her sleep and entertaining me in her sleep.... must be that multi-tasking that we hear so much about!

WindSock

nicegirl wrote: »

Your hero, oh God! Ladies, whats your views on this? I am still freaked out thinking about it...

LL that way ---> tbh.

And I don't know what you expected. Letting him sleep beside you in your bed leaves it open for any sorts of funny business to happen. At least he didn't try to 'hug' you or poke you with his lad.

He was probably hoping you would join in or something. Or he could have been half asleep himself with a horn and forgot where he was.

DarkJager

nicegirl wrote: »

I was not drunk and he was not drunk, but he was suppose to drive and couldn't. Thought I'd give him a bed for the night, as we were friends, and the last thing I expected was what happened.. I couldn't send him to sleep on the coach as I have no bed clothes for the couch. I am annoyed with myself in a way, but imagine this happening, if you were friends with a lad

You do know a couch is fine to sleep on without bed clothes??

Delicate_Dlite

Yes, I think it's safe to say any female would find that weird/awkward and more than a lil gross, not to mention inappropriate but only if he was fully awake if he was asleep it's not really his fault.

I've shared a bed with most of my male friends and thank the lord none of them have ever done that... ~*goes to send thank-you-cakes to them*

Drake66

nicegirl wrote: »

I was not drunk and he was not drunk, but he was suppose to drive and couldn't. Thought I'd give him a bed for the night, as we were friends, and the last thing I expected was what happened.. I couldn't send him to sleep on the coach as I have no bed clothes for the couch. I am annoyed with myself in a way, but imagine this happening, if you were friends with a lad

Perhaps it would be best not to be friends with him anymore. Pretty disgusting thing for a "friend" to do to you.

Armin_Tamzarian

nicegirl wrote: »

I am annoyed with myself in a way, but imagine this happening, if you were friends with a lad

Don't worry nicegirl.
You're not the first boardsie that this has happened to.

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=56964355&postcount=1

SeaFields

Delicate_Dlite wrote: »

I've shared a bed with most of my male friends and thank the lord none of them have ever done that...

Well, not that you know of anyway...:p

shampon

nicegirl wrote: »

I knew what he was at, and was half asleep myself. I am just annoyed I didn't wake up properly and toss him off of myself....

Yeah!

nicegirl

Drake66 wrote: »

Perhaps it would be best not to be friends with him anymore. Pretty disgusting thing for a "friend" to do to you.

Am no longer talking to this dude. Too disgusted and freaked out about the entire thing tbh

MitchKoobski

Geez I offered to sleep on the couch but nooooooo.........

Xavi6

What were you wearing OP?

Prof.Badass

dinneenp wrote: »

Opposite sex in bed = always something might happen

60% of the time it works every time :pac:.

Seriously though, a prudish statement. Nothing sexual about sleeping in the same bed as someone as long as it's "head to foot"......well there really shouldn't be :mad:.

Delicate_Dlite

Well, not that you know of anyway...

Well thank you, I intended on spending the night rocking back and forth mumbling..*no...they wouldn't.....they couldn't ....I'd have noticed...wouldn't I....* anyway.

GoldCobra

Xavi6 wrote: »

What were you wearing OP?

nothing at all.......(nothing at all)

nicegirl

Delicate_Dlite wrote: »

Yes, I think it's safe to say any female would find that weird/awkward and more than a lil gross, not to mention inappropriate but only if he was fully awake if he was asleep it's not really his fault.

I've shared a bed with most of my male friends and thank the lord none of them have ever done that... ~*goes to send thank-you-cakes to them*

Ya, cos you are friends with them, and even the notion of something like this happening would not happen....apart from this dude

Hank_Jones

Was your back sticky in the morning OP?

SoulTrader

Prof.Badass wrote: »

Nothing sexual about sleeping in the same bed as someone as long as it's "head to foot"......well there really shouldn't be :mad:.

But your genitals are still lined up...

Speculator

nicegirl wrote: »

Ya, cos you are friends with them, and even the notion of something like this happening would not happen....apart from this dude

Agnes O'Reilly is that you?

And for your information I was scratching myself cause I think I caught something from sleeping in your bed :mad: