Do ALL men cheat?

Well I THINK that this kind of thing is more prelevant with men. Most men I know would prob cheat at any chance they got. I went on a stag do two weeks ago to Eastern Europe with 23 others most of who are married or where to be married within the next year or so. I reckon there was 3 - 5 single guys out of the whole lot. From what I could see everyone except a handful went to a brothel and later that night had paired up with girls at the club. Others went back to the brothel and others brought girls back to the hotel. Myself and one of the lads had more or less worked out that 5 or 6 people did not hook up or pay for "services"
One of the strange things about it for me was that there was no stereotype or demographic. Most where in there late twenties and early to late 30's. One guy really shocked me and he is really successful who has a fantastic carrer and wife and a great home and 4 kids. I was thinking to myself why is this guy going to a brothel to be with women. This guy has it all as far as I can see. He has a great life and he is risking it all. The law of the Stag was evoked "What happens on the Stag do stays on the Stag do"

I think the sad thing about this is that the wives will probably never get to know what their supposedly besotted other half's do when there left alone for a weekend out of the country. I honestly fail to understand how people who are supposed to be in love with someone can just simply sleep with someone else.
I can't imagine a woman having a whip round to buy the hen a male prostitute. But then again I cpould be wrong. I think a lot of blokes who are perceived to be respectable, nice, normal can have this other side to them when the lads are around.
A good few of us went out to celebrate a birthday party a few nights later and I had to sit there beside their girlfriends, wives or soon to be wives thinking to myself my god your living a total lie or that you're about to make a huge mistake. Although I like the guys and enjoy their company.
The group I was with do about 5 or 6 of these trips of per year stag or golf trips and joke about the different sexual situations they found themselves in on previous weekends away.
Anyway I think men are slightly more likely to cheat then women but I think once you cheat, there's a chance that you'll cheat again. Man or women. You can more or less guarantee that anyone who does that isn't going to be faithful long while inside the marriage or relationship.
At the end of this whole thing and when I got home I was left thinking what kind of circles do you I move in or have I become part of.

Know feck all about women, gay men, the actual stats on cheating, psychology or biology but here is my humble and maybe simplistic opinion on why straight men cheat and can still be in love with their partner.
1) As men, we are naturally programmed to stick our mickeys into as many things as possible. All to do with spreading the seed.
2) As human beings, again naturally, we have a need of the garantees and fulfillment obtained from starting a family. To do this it is preferable to fall i love with a nice lady firts.

I can easily see how 2) comes into conflict with 1) for a married man on a stag do to Eastern Europe.

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Personally? I've known way more women than men to cheat. Physically and emotionally. Hell they've cheated with and on me. Do I think now that all women are cheats. Good god man, no. A daft notion IMH.

I've never cheated myself. No bigging myself up on that score BTW. It just doesnt nor never did occur to me. If it did? I probably would TBH. I'm impulsive. Hence Ive been the other guy in the past. So I can defo understand those who might. Even more I would admire those who are tempted then dont. I'm no saint simply because I'm not tempted. It's not my thing it seems.

I love Rented Mule.

Stupid bloody threads. Generalisations almost never work and so on...

I don't really see the corellation between women being / not being naggers & people (of either sex) being cheaters. It is one of the oddest polls I have seen.