Do ALL men cheat?

Boxoffrogs

i.need.a.job wrote: »

wow. wish my ex was like some of you guys.

tbh i dont think i can trust a man again after my ex. and its made me a bad person. found myself cheating on my last two *short-term* partners. i think when you've been treated bad by the person you're in love with, the next few relationships aren't going to work until you can get passed bad expierences. well in my case anyway.

cheating isn't nice.

Ha, that's marvellous logic.

To be fair to the OP, she's not alone in her insecurity, I have plenty of friends who regularly spout this nonsense. From experience, the cheaters I've known have been a rough split 50/50 male to female.

Actually begs the question, are we too obsessed with monogamy??

monkeyfudge

diddledum wrote: »

Actually begs the question, are we too obsessed with monogamy??

I know I am. My coffee table is made out of it.

mikom

i.need.a.job wrote: »

i didnt mean it like that, i just found it hard to give a sh** after my failed relationship. still do .

Remember to use lube next time.

Greyfox

I've never cheated and certain I never will. My current girlfriend was cheated on by her first love and I know it took her a few years to fully move on, knowing how much he hurt her I could never do such a disgusting thing, cheaters and the worst kind of scum on the planet

I'm a bit annoyed with such a stupid thread and it's a pity so many are happy to make sweeping generalisations which is the most annoying thing ever. Yes, it's because many women have been hurt by cheaters but I'm sure the % of women that cheat is close to even

I honestly believe that if a man or a women is genuinely in love with their partner their pretty much certain not to cheat as they realise they have something special...sadly theirs so many pathetic pieces of crap of both sexes out their that don't have the backbone to break up with a partner they don't love and remain open to temptation!

x PyRo

I've never cheated before, Never will. Decency FTW.

i.need.a.job

mikom wrote: »

Remember to use lube next time.

lol

Tar.Aldarion

i.need.a.job wrote: »

wow. wish my ex was like some of you guys.

tbh i dont think i can trust a man again after my ex. and its made me a bad person. found myself cheating on my last two *short-term* partners. i think when you've been treated bad by the person you're in love with, the next few relationships aren't going to work until you can get passed bad expierences. well in my case anyway.

cheating isn't nice.

No, it reinforced the fact that I don't want to be an utter **** of a person and cheat on somebody. /bitter (:

starbelgrade

Biggins wrote: »

Honestly, no.
If I was single, I'd be on her faster than Marlon Brando reaching for the butter in the fridge.
But I'm with someone who loves me, considers me special so I would respectfully decline immediately.
Sorry to be boring.

Evangaline has only one thing to say to that rebuffal...

http://www.thevancouverite.com/pictures/evangeline-lilly-vancouver-.jpg

cafecolour

Most studies I've seen don't put men's infidelity rates that much higher than women's, if at all higher. Most put them around 50% for each gender.

a-k-47

21 yes 205 no

lieing bunch of fkrs

The_B_Man

Havent read the thread but meh.
Who invented monogomy? Was it around during the cavemen times? Or was it more like the animal kingdom back then, where a bullock could have a whole field full of cows to himself?
When did the idea of having one mate for life come into human existence? Was it after the time of jesus when christianity was introduced and the idea of marriage appealed to the female of the species, so it was adopted as standard practice?

When we were little single celled organisms i doubt sticking with one other single cell lump of goo was the done thing, in fact, the natural thing would be to crawl all over everyone and doo the doo with all different types of goo, not just the one!

Fast forward millions of years when im pretty sure it must have been a woman who convinced a bloke to stick with her. Womens make-up seems more suited to the one "provider", where as men are "naturally designed" to go forth and multiply with anyone and everyone they can!

Monogomy is a human created thing, like shaking someones hand, weating clothes, or living in a house! Just coz the majority of humans do them things, doesnt mean they're natural. They're just done coz its how people act. In fact, those things arent even normal for some people on this planet!

On top of that, if a bloke cheats, a lot of men might say fair play, whereas all women would be appalled. Its easy to tell from that where the original idea of monogomy came from!

In saying that, I wouldnt do it! Women have sharp nails and testicular skin can be very brittle!

Tar.Aldarion

It's not human, other animals can be monogamous.

bluto63

I'm all for promiscuity, but if you're in a committed relationship, you're in a committed relationship. I've never cheated and never intend to.

The_B_Man

Tar.Aldarion wrote: »

It's not human, other animals can be monogamous.

Other animals can have lotsa little animal critters chasing after it as well! But theres none of this "human stigma" we get here in the west.

if a penguin cheats on his missus, what happens? I'm no penguinologist but i reckon the other penguin just gets on with it. no friends of the "victim" penguin givin the "cheatin bastard" penguin evil looks and scratching the paint on the auld Nissan Penguino! No trauma from the baby penguins seeing their parents separated. All in all, it wouldnt be a big deal at all!

Also, men and women react totally differently to getting cheated on, with parallels to the way they each think of sex in general.

brendansmith

Im cheating right now!

Tar.Aldarion

The_B_Man wrote: »

Other animals can have lotsa little animal critters chasing after it as well! But theres none of this "human stigma" we get here in the west.

if a penguin cheats on his missus, what happens? I'm no penguinologist but i reckon the other penguin just gets on with it. no friends of the "victim" penguin givin the "cheatin bastard" penguin evil looks and scratching the paint on the auld Nissan Penguino! No trauma from the baby penguins seeing their parents separated. All in all, it wouldnt be a big deal at all!

Also, men and women react totally differently to getting cheated on, with parallels to the way they each think of sex in general.

what would you say the differences are in the way we act, man vs woman

Goldenquick

Hogzy wrote: »

What a retarded poll!

I bet the people who voted that all men cheat are women :rolleyes:

Wrong.

No, all men do not cheat, the same as all women do not cheat.

candy-gal1

no, i think when your in the right relationship, you can talk about ANYTHING together, you can ogle people together and if you dont have to hide anything and can be completely honest with each other then I think theres no need for cheating in a relationship.

johnny_knoxvile

all men don't cheat...but we all lie, so the results of your poll maybe be wrong and your bum doesn't look big in those jeans.

MagicMarker

i.need.a.job wrote: »

wow. wish my ex was like some of you guys.

tbh i dont think i can trust a man again after my ex. and its made me a bad person. found myself cheating on my last two *short-term* partners. i think when you've been treated bad by the person you're in love with, the next few relationships aren't going to work until you can get passed bad expierences. well in my case anyway.

cheating isn't nice.

What a fúcking hypocrite. The fact you know how much it hurts yet happily do it yourself makes you tens times worse than your ex tbh.

PK2008

robbie_998 wrote: »

you can't spell "funeral" without "fun"

You cant spell non-consensual without sensual

Abi

No, not all men cheat, same for women.

Hogzy wrote: »

I bet the people who voted that all men cheat are women :rolleyes:

Ah don't be at it... its an anon poll, what have a few guys got to lose by answering honestly? A mix of male and female voters in there I'd say.

padz wrote: »

whoop whoop i want the yes side to win,...its heating up on this thread, im a guy ive cheated in the past but im happy now so why would i cheat, maybe we should discuss why men/women cheat...

bonerm wrote: »

Do all men cheat? No

Would all men cheat (if it was 100% no chance no-one would find out and/or there would be no negative ramifications)? Yes

Kiera

No they dont, just like not all women cheat. That's like me asking if all men have small winkys. Not all of them do

Kasabian

I hate cheats with good reason. :mad:

Ardennes1944

they obviously dont like. thats like sayin, are ALL BMW drivers retards?

Kasabian

stevefinn wrote: »

they obviously dont like. thats like sayin, are ALL BMW drivers retards?

Not the best comparison to get your point across. :pac:

PK2008

Kiera wrote: »

No they dont, just like not all women cheat. That's like me asking if all men have small winkys. Not all of them do

*In the voice of Chandler*


I KNEW it!!!!!!!!!

Kiera

stevefinn wrote: »

they obviously dont like. thats like sayin, are ALL BMW drivers retards?

Nah they’re not. BMW’s just don’t have indicators. :P

carrot_flowers

I think it's very sexist to assume that all men cheat. There's a lot of bullox stereotypes like that. For example I'm a woman and I only own one pair of shoes, only go shoe shopping 1-2 times a year when they're worn out. I'm not much amused by chick flicks, I could give a damn for makeup (ok, except lipgloss) I don't like talking on the phone and I love to play outside. However, I am a woman, I dress like one and am glad to be one. So, I'm a fine example of just how stupid these statements really are.

carrot_flowers

carrot_flowers wrote: »

I think it's very sexist to assume that all men cheat. There's a lot of bullox stereotypes like that. For example I'm a woman and I only own one pair of shoes, only go shoe shopping 1-2 times a year when they're worn out. I'm not much amused by chick flicks, I could give a damn for makeup (ok, except lipgloss) I don't like talking on the phone and I love to play outside. However, I am a woman, I dress like one and am glad to be one. So, I'm a fine example of just how stupid these statements really are.

Oh yeah, and I LOVE spiders.