31 year old single childess female

onelove1 · 19-10-2022 1:48pm

some of these comments are pretty depressing 😫 egg freezing and what not......

Daisy78 · 20-10-2022 10:43pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/119730089#Comment_119730089

In fairness it’s an awful term. They need to come up with something better than that.

Daisy78 · 21-10-2022 4:32pm

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/119729261#Comment_119729261

I often wonder what people mean when they say “join a club”. It sounds very generic and the reality is (well in my experience anyway) that men don’t tend to join clubs or partake in activities. Lots of women all right but sadly men of the eligible type are few and far between. The exception might be tennis or tag rugby but unless you are into sport that may not be an option.

Ann84 · 25-10-2022 9:06pm

I had my first child at 20 and just had my second at 38… based on my personal experience both ages suck for different reasons. I hate being a parent and am severely depressed since having my second child (got pressured into it over a number of years - major regrets)

My point is, there is no ideal time to have a family - try to appreciate your life, find things to really get passionate about because once you meet someone and have kids, you’ll not have that freedom to lie in, spontaneously travel, sit and read a book with a nice coffee, mooch around town, cook and enjoy a nice meal… go to the cinema… awww I’m gonna cry 😢

Demonique · 22-01-2023 8:13pm

Firstly, are you sure you actually want kids yourself?

I know someone who realised she only wanted them because her mother wanted grandchildren and didnt actually want them herself. Unfortunately she only realised this after she spent €30,000 on IVF

yourdeadwright · 24-01-2023 5:35pm

Your only 31 your grand, your only a young one . Just keep doing what your doing & itll all hopefully work out ,

For context my missus is pestering me for one last child , she's 40 so you've plenty time yet ,

31 year old single childess female

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