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Religion and Engaging with the Teacher

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,667 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Enrollment in church schools isn't a measure of the number of parents who want religious education. It is a measure of the number of parents who don't have any other options other than religious education.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,180 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack




    That’s a fair point Andrew, a typical example being the original poster who, in spite of the fact that they knew what was involved in a religious education, and couldn’t possibly have thought otherwise, felt they had no choice for their child’s education other than to be economical with the truth so their child would get a place in the school.

    If parents continue to do that, then it means the school will continue to be provided with funding and resources from the State for that child’s education, up to and including providing teachers who feel they have no choice but to be there either but they too have to be economical with the truth if they wish to maintain their employment.

    I’m fully aware that I’ve been incredibly fortunate that I’ve never been in that position, and I don’t meet too many teachers in that position, and my child’s experience of formal education has been a positive experience for them as a result of being surrounded by a community of people who genuinely wanted to be there and genuinely cared about the children’s welfare. Other children’s experience of education shouldn’t be any less than my own child’s experience.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 21,285 ✭✭✭✭Bass Reeves


    When you think your child's the education is dependent on there teachers, that is the rock that they will perish on. In the be modern world at primary school 50%+ if a child's education is provided Is NN be home. It's the 60-90 minutes that a parent spend with a child at home that decides there education future

    It's amazing but the more time parents have the less they give to there children. If you want something give it to the busy man or woman.

    This is the basic of education.

    People that get caught up on religious education are getting involved in the sand of life and forget about the marbles and the golf balls.

    https://www.logicalpros.com/no-geek-zone/2018/6/15/life-lessons-from-a-jar-golf-balls-pebbles-sand-and-coffee

    Slava Ukrainii



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,667 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Sand gets everywhere though. It's awful hard to clean it out.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 21,285 ✭✭✭✭Bass Reeves


    Sand is an immaterial thing in life. It's only gets everywhere if you allow it to. It's when you cannot see the real detail. If you think a teacher can indoctrinate your children, then that is what will happen, in reality they will fall by the wayside and be lead others.

    That is your fault not the education systems. They be ten times better off learning the teachings of Jesus Christ.

    https://www.history.com/.amp/topics/religion/history-of-christianity


    Than following the idiot at post primary that is behind the wall smoking a cigarette or worse.

    Slava Ukrainii



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,667 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    It's gets stuck between your toes, on your shoes, even in unmentionable places, depending on what you've gotten up to on the beach. And it takes weeks to wash it away, you keep finding little grains in those awkward places that you have already cleaned out twice.

    Just like the indoctrinated Christianity that you've managed to shoehorn into your post.

    PS the smoker behind the shed might have some valuable insights into life's great problems, more so than the celibate old man who spent his life in fairly cosseted circumstances. But either way, there are better, more structured options for education too.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 21,285 ✭✭✭✭Bass Reeves


    A swim in the sea clears the sand in the awkward places. As you leave the water you do not lie on the sand. So only between your toes is the problem. When you leave the beach you sit for ten minutes and it dries off. Your should always see the solution not the problem in life.

    No I just put up a historical view point on Christianity.

    I knew a lot of smokers behind sheds , very few managed to solve any problems. They all found problems, none saw the solutions. It's easy to see a problem, it's harder to see a solution.

    As for celibate old men, you pick a city in Ireland that a religious order is not involved in providing for the less well off. It's easy to be critical of these celibate old men, it's a bit harder to wear there shoes.

    Are they all saints, is the church blameless accross itself, no I do not think so. But neither is it the painted evil that many want to believe it is.

    Slava Ukrainii



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,667 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    “A swim in the sea” isn’t great advice for a couple who’ve been necking cans all night before mooching off to a quieter spot for some lovin. They’ll be coming home with sand on their knees, sand on their elbows, sand in the cracks of their ass and the folds of their groin, and their jocks and their shoes and their socks. They’ll be picking up grains of sand under the bed and in the sheets and off the couch for weeks. Just like religious indoctrination, it gets everywhere, like the rugby player who slipped in a “please god” in an interview on the radio this morning.


    The smoker behind the shed in my class is now CEO of a large public body btw.


    Arent the oul priests great with the oul charidee all the same, dropping a few crumbs from the table, crumbs funded largely with other people’s money. Just a shame that they didn’t educate their subjects in practical life skills, how to cook, how to manage money, how to use contraception, instead of beating the modh coinnealach and Latin declensions into them.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 21,615 ✭✭✭✭Cyrus


    CEO of a large public body, i wouldnt trot that out as evidence of anything 😁


    and please god is just a saying here now, the same way ah for jesus sake, jesus christ and other similiar religious 'curses', people pick them up from their parents and grand parents.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,667 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    The CEO thing is evidence of ability to solve problems, despite Bass's tired old stereotype.

    And the Please God thing, that's the sand.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 21,615 ✭✭✭✭Cyrus


    CEO of a public body is evidence of ability to solve problems? certainly not in all cases thats for sure.

    And the sand is harmless, it only bothers you if you allow it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,667 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Do you really think you get to CEO level without being able to solve problems?

    Given that sand is harmless, you won't mind if I sprinkle it liberally all over your kids at school each day, on their clothes, their bags, their hair, their food. It's just my tradition, so everyone else should just put up with it. Sure, it's harmless, right?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 21,615 ✭✭✭✭Cyrus


    yes i think people can get to CEO level without being able to solve problems, really depends what they are CEO of.

    And if i elect to send my kids to a place where i know there will be sand ill be fine with it, instead of moaning about it like you ;)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,667 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko



    What kinds of CEOs of medium or large organisations don't have problem solving ability? Can you give any examples please?

    And if you've no choice but to send your kids to the school on the beach with the daily sand-throwing activities, sand-throwing at start and end of each day, sand-throwing at the start and end of term events for families, you won't, for example, think that maybe sand-throwing could be done at a different time or different place to schooling for your kids?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,066 ✭✭✭mumo3


    My children went to a RC school, I choose it, not on the bases of religion but on the education standard in the school.

    I remember being at the enrolment meeting and the principal stating that the school was taught in the Roman Catholic ethos and if any parent in the room had an issue with that, that their child should be enrolled elsewhere.

    Now my point here is, there are plenty of educate together school's now popping up and national schools, I know you claim they are over subscribed, but you had 4/5 years to get your child's name on the list for any one of those schools. If you choose to enrol your child in a religious school, well then you need to except they will be educated about the same. You can make the decision for your child not to partake in the sacraments, as plenty of children did when my kids where there, but to throw a tantrum about the religious education your child does and does not receive is ridiculous.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 21,615 ✭✭✭✭Cyrus


    I wouldnt like to name names Andew so ill decline your request.

    Dont send your kids to places where there is sand if its that important to you, as has been repeated ad nauseum, you keep saying there is no choice but as i said it depends on the strength of ones convictions, where there is a will there is a way.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,667 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Choice depends on the availability of other schools - nothing to do with strength of convictions. And for many people, there are no choices other than church schools.

    Isn't there something just a little bit off at the State funded principal standing up in the State funded school and telling some citizens that they are 2nd class citizens, because they have a different belief system?

    ET schools are very far from 'popping up'. They exist in tiny numbers, with 1 or 2 being added each year. Schools cannot use 'first come first served' enrolment policies now, so it doesn't matter how many years you had to put your child's name down. Opting out of sacraments is not opting out of religion, as church schools pride themselves on deeply embedding religion into all school activities.


    It's strange to see the deep grip being held onto religious education by those who tell me that I'm ridiculous to be concerned about religious education.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 21,615 ✭✭✭✭Cyrus


    its strange how much you care about it to be honest, if its a good school that should be your primary concern.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,066 ✭✭✭mumo3


    It wasn't a state funded principal or maybe she was? But she was a nun from the adjoining convent.

    Correct me if I'm wrong, but does every parish not have a national school now?

    In relation to enrolment, schools are not allowed use "religion" as part of their policies anymore, but it can definitely use duration on the registration for acceptance, especially if you are from the locality.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,667 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Must have been a good while ago so, not many nuns or brothers still teaching (which says a lot in itself). You can be damn sure she was drawing a principal's salary from the State.


    Check the link I provided above- schools can't use time on waiting list as enrollment criteria.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,066 ✭✭✭mumo3


    Many moons ago my daughters now in college, and the principal is now a state principal, but I remember being sh1t scared of her myself, but the kids loved her 😂

    I am actually a member of a school BOM and when you've filtered down through the catchment, siblings and the other points, if it comes down to one place two people those who are there first get the place.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35 BettyBlue22


    Oh, I don't doubt it, but the reputation it had as a school led to the vast majority of children in the area being sent to Doon, Tipperary Town, Newport or Limerick. Perpetuating the nonsense that religious is best, despite the best secondary schools I know of within reasonable distance from where I live being a Community College and what was formerly known as "The Tech" in my local town too. That's a whole other issue - I'm not certain on the background there but I would hazard a guess it comes from the result of Donogh O'Malley's free secondary education and the snobbery between the families who would have sent their kids to boarding schools which went on to become the religious schools, and community schools for kids who would only have been able to attend the religious schools prior to that on a scholarship. Just an assumption, so I'm open to correction on that.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,667 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Members of BOM should be keeping up with changes in legislation. From the link shared above.

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    You cannot use date of application as an admission criteria and you're exposing the school to legal action if do.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,667 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    For me, a good school is one that doesn't indoctrinate children in a particular belief system. That's not an unreasonable position to hold, or an unusual one by any means.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 21,285 ✭✭✭✭Bass Reeves


    They do not indoctrinate them. There is choice. Any parent can remove there children from religious instruction. It's your choice just like it's you choice to send your children to a religious ethos school.

    At all stages it's your choice. It back to joining the army and wearing the boots.

    Slava Ukrainii



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 21,615 ✭✭✭✭Cyrus


    for me a good school is well run and gives kids a good education and self confidence, far more important than fretting about fables about men in the sky.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,180 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack



    It’s not an unreasonable position to hold, nor is it unusual, it’s just as idealistic as any other belief though, because for the providers of any education, their intention is the indoctrination and promotion of their own beliefs. The national curriculum is a separate curriculum on top of their own educational philosophy.

    The DE doesn’t concern itself with whether or not a school is religious, the criteria is that the school must have an ethos, ie -

    the distinguishing character, sentiment, moral nature, or guiding beliefs of a person, group, or institution

    @BettyBlue22 alluded to it earlier but while you’re perfectly entitled to your own criteria for how you determine whether a school is a good school or not, you can’t ignore the fact that other people too have their own criteria for determining a school which will provide the best education for their children.

    There is undoubtedly an element of snobbery in the Irish education system among people, but it isn’t just based solely upon religion, it’s based upon numerous factors such as social class, stereotypes, and socioeconomic circumstances. It’s a well-recognised phenomenon that people don’t want children mixing with children from other social groups, for whatever their reasons are. Combine these factors together and you get a result like this -


    Laurel Hill Coláiste FCJ (Irish: Coláiste Cnoc na Labhras), formerly known as Laurel Hill Convent, is an all-girls secondary school in LimerickIreland where all subjects are taught in Irish (gaelcholáiste).The school has around 400 students and has been ranked the top secondary school in Ireland for six years in a row.



    There aren’t too many future CEOs smoking out the back of the bicycle shed in that school 😂



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,667 ✭✭✭✭AndrewJRenko


    Give me a child till he is seven years old,' said St Ignatius Loyola, ' and I will show you the man.

    They know exactly what they are doing and it is literally indoctrination. 'Removing from religious instruction' usually means they sit through it at the back of the class anyway. And you don't get to remove children from the religious ethos that is deeply embedded into school activities and culture.

    There is no choice for many parents in Ireland.

    It's more like mandatory conscription to the army and the boots.


    So you'll have no difficulty in supporting cutting the fables about the man in the sky then? They're not worth fretting about, right?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 21,615 ✭✭✭✭Cyrus


    if it happens fine, why would i support or oppose something i am ambivalent about.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,180 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack



    Give me a child till he is seven years old,' said St Ignatius Loyola, ' and I will show you the man.


    He got that from Aristotle though.



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