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Anxiety and depression thread (Please read OP)

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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,359 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    Depends what you want. The CBD vape oil is sold in vape shops.

    CBD oil in a tincture (where you put drops on your tongue, or into a glass of water) is available in pharmacies, and health shops. Also online, in Irish online stores. It's legal, as long as there's 0% THC in it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 632 ✭✭✭waxmelts2000


    Not looking for medical advise .


    I was on 15mg of mirtazapine at night but off it last 5 weeks or so. Anyone know do I need a prescription for phenergan or can I just get over the counter at the chemist? I am not sleeping very well



  • Registered Users Posts: 3,813 ✭✭✭One More Toy


    Try Panadol Night, I found it effective & over the counter



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 433 ✭✭GoogleBot


    Why would you refer to medication before trying natural ways. Once you have adapted to drugs its most likely point of no return.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,359 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    This isn't really a medical/ debate forum. Whatever works for the individual, works for the individual. I'd say very few of us are in the medical field.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,446 ✭✭✭apache


    Anybody ever try a Grow online meeting? I think I'm gonna try one. Any others out there and what do you think of groups in general?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 433 ✭✭GoogleBot


    As far as I see on this thread people debating what drugs best to use. I am not against but have to be careful consideration beforehand, there is many natural ways to heal Anxiety and depression.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 433 ✭✭GoogleBot


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,891 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    id have to agree with this to a point, even though i can understand why some would do so, after exhausting everything else, theres nothing worse than a period of crap sleep. id try the usual, regular heavy exercise, good diet, meditation, yoga, good sleep hygiene etc etc, before going down the road of drugs. im really glad ive my sleep routine down now, and it works for me, requires a lot of discipline though

    shur give it a go, only you can be the true judge, im luck i have access to regular group meetings with people that have the same diagnosis as myself, autism, it helps me a lot to know ive trained professionals to turn to and others that experience the world in a similar way to myself



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,446 ✭✭✭apache


    This would be more peer to peer support, not trained professionals. But still I'll give it a shot. Everybody will be in the same boat. What's the worst that could happen?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,446 ✭✭✭apache


    Ah no, not what I'm looking for. That looks more like an online game.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,891 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    definitely give it a shot, it could be a great experience



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,446 ✭✭✭apache


    Cheers Wanderer. I'll report back.



  • Registered Users Posts: 3,813 ✭✭✭One More Toy


    Back at the doctor today. Confirmed depressive episode. Increased my medication. Not really doing much apart from sleeping


    Was going to ring the samaritans but hung up as soon as I rang as I'm not sure what to say exactly. I feel like if I go through everything with them it'll take too long



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,357 ✭✭✭SuperBowserWorld


    Don't worry about that. Just call them. Maybe during the day if you can as it's less busy for them.



  • Registered Users Posts: 44 eyeheartcapybara


    Hi I’m new here. I’ve been diagnosed with GAD and agoraphobia. I was supposed to have a phone call with my psychiatrist this week but I panicked and turned off my phone. I just couldn’t deal with talking to them, I feel like rubbish after our meetings, and the last appointment I had face to face, when I entered the room there was a student doc sitting behind my chair. I hadn’t been asked beforehand. I didn’t feel comfortable at all. Not sure what to do



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,446 ✭✭✭apache


    I'd say you should discuss this with your Psychiatrist. You have every right to feel annoyed about the student Dr. He should have asked you.

    It's best to discuss it with him. Can you look into changing Psychiatrist if you don't like his reponse? I am doing this myself at the moment because of my insurance but finding it not as easy as I thought it would be.

    I went to the online meeting. It was allright but they use the 12 step programme which I'm not a fan of. I said I'd give it a few trys though to give it a chance.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,446 ✭✭✭apache




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  • Registered Users Posts: 3,813 ✭✭✭One More Toy


    Hey thanks for asking


    Still feeling crap and off work, waiting on new meds to kick in



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,446 ✭✭✭apache


    Hopefully you see some improvement soon....



  • Registered Users Posts: 3,813 ✭✭✭One More Toy


    Thank you, its an awful struggle at the moment I'm having nothing but nightmares. No restful sleep



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,359 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    Kind of similar at the moment, OMT.

    Had a very bizarre sleep last night (slept 14 hours, even going to bed earlier than usual). I thought I was coming down with a flu, just flop sweats, and so on. I think I may have taken something that didn't agree with me. Didn't eat right on Thursday, so it might have played into it.

    Had to sit next to a radiator too, because I was cold as hell. Probably down to the sweats. Funny how the mind can mess up the body so much.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,891 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,359 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    This was more of a panic thing-like, there was the feeling of being sick (stomach and drained of energy kind of thing) but no actual sickness.

    When I get really anxious or panicky (even as a kid) I sweat so bad you'd think I'd stood out in the rain for hours. Bad sleep and weird dreams didn't help. I do do anti-gen tests every now and then, especially after something like grocery shopping or having to go to a funeral, like I did a few weeks back. It's me trying to make sure I don't infect anyone, despite being vaccinated. No positive result yet.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,891 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    fair play to you, ive only had one antigen done, but that was to go on holidays, and i dont think it was done right at all



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,359 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    Well, I bought mine online. You can get bulk packs from mybio (among other places). I haven't gone to get one in a doctor's office. I think the last time I tried, it got cancelled (not by my choice).



  • Registered Users Posts: 44 eyeheartcapybara


    Thanks for your reply Apache. I have another app in a few weeks. Hoping things improve by then.



  • Registered Users Posts: 44 eyeheartcapybara


    I’m having nightmares every night also. I’m exhausted from them. They’re like something you’d see in a really disturbing horror movie. I can’t seem to shake them off during the day.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,357 ✭✭✭SuperBowserWorld


    Completely burned out, anxious and depressed for a long long time now. Getting no joy out of anything. All just problems, big and small and work.



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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Regional West Moderators Posts: 60,478 Mod ✭✭✭✭Gremlinertia


    I am supposed to be having a good time.. I'm disappointing myself, it all feels very empty.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,891 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78




  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Regional West Moderators Posts: 60,478 Mod ✭✭✭✭Gremlinertia


    Nothing in particular just a general anxiety



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,446 ✭✭✭apache




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,357 ✭✭✭SuperBowserWorld


    Scrolling on my phone, reading the news, buying crap, watching crap, playing crap video games,

    ... is not going to fix my problems.

    It's just filling my mind up with ****. And giving me no space to breathe.

    It's **** junk food. And I keep falling into this trap.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,359 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    Sometimes, when I feel the 'trap' coming on--as in similar behaviour you describe, I try to just write down how I feel. Like, handwriting, not typing it out-something about our handwriting and the whole 'motion' is more cathartic. Then take that piece of paper, and just rip it up (some people throw it in the fire and watch it burn. It's honestly up to you).

    It takes away the thought's power.

    Helps a lot.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,357 ✭✭✭SuperBowserWorld


    Thanks. Nice.

    Going to take some time tomorrow to sort some things out.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,359 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    Definitely do. Today was me sleeping off whatever it was that was bugging me for the last day or two. I kind of think it was something related to taking meds on an empty stomach. Either way, it's less so today. Still groggy.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,446 ✭✭✭apache


    Have been feeling very unwell the past few days. Took me ages to get a Covid test appointment but eventually got one for tomorrow morning.

    What bugs me I was on leave from work last week and didn't even have any interactions with anyone so don't know where I picked it up. I'm pretty sure I have it though as I have all the symptoms.

    Was supposed to be back in work today. That's that knocked on the head.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,359 ✭✭✭RabbleRouser2k


    My cousin had it about a month ago. She went out for groceries, came back feeling crappy. It doesn't take much to get infected. (I think being only in contact with someone who's infected for 15 minutes can mean you catch it).

    Just take care of yourself. And if you start feeling really bad, don't hesitate to go to hospital.



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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Regional West Moderators Posts: 60,478 Mod ✭✭✭✭Gremlinertia


    @apache How are you getting on?.

    I've been quiet because of a bad few weeks of pain flare, still not right but more manageable this evening than it's been in a while. Talking to psychologist weekly currently which is helpful.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,446 ✭✭✭apache


    Thanks guys, just back from my test. Glad I went but an awful chore to get washed and dressed this morning. Hot/cold, aching bones, sore throat and terrible cough, no smell or taste and no appetite.

    @ Grem what's the difference between a psychologist and a good therapist? I know they are more expensive and more specialised but what exactly is it?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    Still in peaceful isolation here. Not sure I said this way back? But when we tried to find out how folk managed with CFS/ME in old age (I am looking 80 in the face) we were told that that was not known as so few lived to old age. And the main cause of death was "overwhelming infection" Which makes sens e as we have immune system damage. So even before covid I was in strict isolation and had supply lines set up. Vaccines are contraindicated for me. I have minimal health care here and that is fine as few drs have a clue re CFS/ME and put it down to mental health issues. After 30 years of misdiagnosis in the UK ..

    I think we have in common the need to pace ourselves? Yesterday was stressful for various reasons and I have felt that today and SAD has moved in.

    re pain relief and sleep? Very happy still with Tylex ie codeine with paracetamol. If there is good physical health then natural ways sure; but where there is physical damage?

    Admiring you all tremendously.



  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Regional West Moderators Posts: 60,478 Mod ✭✭✭✭Gremlinertia


    @apache Very little difference in a psychologist and therapist in patient terms i think. Both have studied though psychologists usually have done a fair bit more.. I'm just lucky that i actually am getting somewhere with this fella as he is from HSE so not costing me, could never afford what i need on my own.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,446 ✭✭✭apache


    That's good to hear. If you find you're getting somewhere that's a result.

    I'm seeing a therapist for quite some time. He costs €60 a session. Worth every cent.



  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Regional West Moderators Posts: 60,478 Mod ✭✭✭✭Gremlinertia


    A fdew years ago i could afford it better but didn't click with a few people, or perhaps wasn't ready i'm not sure now i think of it.. Glad you found someone you can communicate with freely



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,446 ✭✭✭apache


    It's important to have a connection.



  • Registered Users Posts: 19 kit2021


    I’ve just came across this thread and read the last 10 or so pages and I’d like to share…

    I’ve been suffering with severe depression and anxiety for a few years now which has been exacerbated by the pandemic, working in healthcare and struggling to smile and do my job every day when this demon is eating me up inside. I also went through a traumatic breakup of a 6 year relationship. When I started dating after I had some really negative experiences and I feel like giving up now. I’m 33.

    My GP put me on sertraline and I had to come off it due to awful night sweats and worsening suicidal thoughts, I was then put on molipaxin and it made me extremely sedated, like fall out of bed in the morning sedated, I’ve recently started venlafaxine and I’m tapering up, no bad side effects so far.

    When I first started having suicidal I confided in close friends and family to keep myself accountable as I was terrified I’d do something. Recently I’m having them again and keeping it to myself. I dread waking up every morning, don’t get proper sleep as it’s plagued with unsettling and disturbing dreams, then when I’m in work I’m sort of ok as I’m distracted but then I dread coming home to an empty house alone with my thoughts.

    I’ve tried a few therapists but didn’t find it really helped me. Most of my friends have drifted probably because I’m no longer fun to be around.

    I used to be so motivated and a ‘get up and go’ but now tasks like cleaning and laundry seem so daunting.

    I’ve also dropped from 60kg to 50kg in the last year or so even though I eat plenty.

    I feel like I want to go to sleep and not wake up.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,891 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    great to hear from you grace, looking forward to hearing your winter storm stories, look after yourself



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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Regional West Moderators Posts: 60,478 Mod ✭✭✭✭Gremlinertia


    @kit2021 gosh you've been through a lot, I'd say you are early enough days on the latest meds?. Can take time to sort out the right dosage.. Keep at it, your post reminded me of me at some points in my life, it's not nearly over yet.



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