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Any other women here vote NO for the 8th?

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  • Registered Users Posts: 431 ✭✭Jeremy Sproket


    So should we have a referendum every 10 years or so to reintroduce the 8th amendment?

    The anti-lifers kept throwing tantrums to get another referendum despite (in their petulant words) "losing" several times prior.

    Abortion is the premeditated killing of an innocent child.

    Didn't a fella with a funny ronnie advocate "getting rid" of those with disabilities or who became a burden? Hmmmm?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,651 ✭✭✭wench


    You keep saying this, but it's not true.

    Here are a list of all the constitutional referendums that have been held in Ireland.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amendments_to_the_Constitution_of_Ireland#List_of_amendments_and_referendums

    Please point out which ones restricted rights to an abortion.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,807 ✭✭✭✭Loafing Oaf


    This is a complete misrepresentation of history. Most of the presuure for the 1992 and 2002 referenda came from anti-abortionists anxious to 'close the suicide loophole'. But many of them didn't like the wording they were given either time and voted and campaigned against the referenda.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,643 ✭✭✭✭Mr. CooL ICE


    Wtf is an "anti-lifer" anyway?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,684 ✭✭✭FatherTed


    My attitude to abortions is if you're against it then don't have one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,844 ✭✭✭RobbieTheRobber


    Don't have a clue but anti life is a straight to DVD bruce willis film released in 2020 for which he was nominated for a raspberry for worst supporting actor. So maybe it is someone who likes that movie.



  • Site Banned Posts: 12,341 ✭✭✭✭Faugheen


    Exactly, and I can guarantee you those who voted to repeal the 8th won't judge you for not having one.

    Can't say the same about the other way around, mind.

    Repeal won comprehensively. The same usual bad-faith arguments are being had as well as the provocative choice of words.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6 CardMagic


    I would lean to being pro life but I am quite open minded on the matter and find it hard to say there is a right answer. Would appreciate pro-choice views on some qustions I ask myself.

    Having read this thread, one thing that jumps out at me - The whole "Men shouldn't control womens' bodies" attitude and protecting the sanctity of bodily autonomy for females comes as across as a reductionist argument.

    Maybe someone can educate me (and I mean this sincerely) on the below questions I have:

    - Where does the bodily autonomy of the baby come into this? At 12 weeks they have arms and legs and a heartbeat. If all men really are created equal endowed by their creator with the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness then why does this not apply to a baby of 12 weeks?

    - If you really believe its a womans body and therefore her choice, why not allow late term abortion? Is making that illegal not a violation of the womans rights too? 12 weeks just seems entirely arbitrary to me given all the human features already developed at that stage

    - If people really care about the sanctity of bodily autonomy, why is there not more people passionate about euthanasia rights?

    - While I dislike how people call abortion a form of contaception, I do have concerns about how common it is. 150-200k abortions per year on the UK (20% of pregnancies) and more than 50 million in the US since Roe vs Wade. It just doesn't sit right with me. Similarly I dislike how the birth for down syndrome children is close to 0% for babies in countries that allow abortion. That feels like a form of discrimination to me.

    I mainly see this as a moral issue and given I believe life starts at conception, it is hard to overcome those thoughts. Happy to hear a different perpspective as I ackowledge that I am in the minority here



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,698 ✭✭✭Feisar


    Exactly, if someone else wants to kill their unborn child off with them. It's a disgusting thing to do but no skin off my nose.

    First they came for the socialists...



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  • Registered Users Posts: 431 ✭✭Jeremy Sproket


    The opposite of pro-lifer. But you knew that already.

    If the pro-aborts insist on calling the pro-life side "anti-choice" then why not call the "pro-choice" side anti-life?



  • Registered Users Posts: 431 ✭✭Jeremy Sproket


    The murders, rapes, burglaries, crimes, etc. that happen every day have nothing to do with me, but I'm still allowed to be appalled by them.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,643 ✭✭✭✭Mr. CooL ICE


    I'm pro-choice, but I have had two children since the 8th was abolished. Calling me a "pro-abort" doesn't make any sense because it implies I got my girlfriend pregnant so we could just abort the babies. And "anti-life" makes me sound like I'm some sort of super villain intent on genocide. It's almost as if we, you know, had the choice! The choice to do what suited us in our circumstances.


    On the other hand, "pro-birth" and "anti-choice" are actually fairly accurate terms for the viewpoints of those that label themselves "pro-life". Those that label themselves "pro-life" are against other people from having the choice in proceeding with a pregnancy, regardless of their circumstances. They also want the baby born at all costs and don't spare a thought for either them or their mothers once they are born.


    The established terms are "pro-life" and "pro-choice", and have been for a long time. You can throw in whatever makey uppey labels you want to a discussion but if you want any sort of serious discussion, you can leave this belligerence at the door.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,513 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,476 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    This is complete nonsense. The Supreme Court ruled (before repeal) that no constitutional rights existed for an embryo/foetus apart from the 8th amendment. Which we then repealed, and replaced with wording that says that abortion can be legislated for. The Dail can change the 12 week limit to whatever it chooses. The 12 week limit was chosen primarily out of political cowardice.

    Scrap the cap!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,476 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    I'm sure your "friends" are thrilled at your judging them and their life choices, and that you voted to force them to go abroad for essential healthcare. Who has "dozens" of friends anyway? Acquaintances and facebook "friends" are not friends.

    Scrap the cap!



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,686 ✭✭✭Day Lewin


    In the course of my life I have had dozens of friends; and I didn't judge them, so don't you judge me on no evidence, either.

    I can still have a view on the ethics of an action without "judging" those who chose it.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,810 ✭✭✭✭Igotadose


    You judged them not in dire circumstances - your words. Pretty clear you're judging the person not the action. Saying "I voted no, I'm against abortion" is a view on ethics. Saying someone didn't need to have one, is judging their behavior. Consider if you were a Taliban judge and someone in court before you had an abortion - you'd be in your rights, if you JUDGE that they broke your 'not in dire circumstances' law, to order them beheaded.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,643 ✭✭✭✭Mr. CooL ICE


    It's amazing how it always seems to be people who label themselves pro life that know "dozens" or "loads" of people who have had abortions.


    I'm a man and I don't know of any female friends that have had abortions. My girlfriend doesn't know if any of her friends have had any. Collectively, some probably have but just haven't told us. Or maybe we're the only people in this country who don't get told by their friends when they have abortions.



  • Moderators, Computer Games Moderators Posts: 15,237 Mod ✭✭✭✭FutureGuy


    I voted yes because we were on the ferry in 2016. Because our first son was likely to live an hour or two filled with strokes, heart attacks and suffering without any guarantee he could be pain-free. Because my wife collapsed in week 12 and week 19 (requiring hospitalization) due to the issues with the pregnancy and the chances of something even more serious happening as she came to term.

    Let me talk about it. We get the diagnosis after multiple tests. Imagine waking at 4-5 am every morning for 6 weeks after little/no sleep and spending the day googling ANY study that would give you hope. Imagine breaking down several times a day because no one could really advise you properly. Imagine spending a week googling a foreign healthcare system trying to select the hospital where your wife needs care, hoping she doesn't die along the way. Imagine being left with paranoia, stress disorders, anxiety. Imagine bringing your son's coffin home on an overcrowded ferry where people were enjoying the football - going down to the hold as often as it was allowed to be with him. Imagine having to get home at such short notice that almost no one could attend the service.

    I don't care if you were in our position or you decided you didn't want to be pregnant. No one should be forced to make a journey like that. Ever.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,643 ✭✭✭✭Mr. CooL ICE


    I cannot empathise with anybody that can read a post like this and still think that voting no was the right thing to do.



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    "I knew where it would lead. Unconditional and limitless abortions and essentially being used as a contraceptive."

    Despite the fact you "knew" that would happen - do you draw consolation for the fact it in fact in no way has happened that way? Rather it was just scare mongering tactics used by the "no" side which back fired on a public who did not like being patronised by lies and voted overwhelmingly enough in the opposite direction because the "no" side while lying to us failed to remember to put forward any actual arguments about why they thought abortion is a moral wrong in the first place.

    As for "rape" - both the no side and the yes side in the Boards.ie debates argued very convincingly as to why it is a terrible argument in the abortion discussion. I was convinced by one user of Boards in particular to entirely abandon it as a supporting argument for allowing access to abortion services. That user pretty much does not post on Boards any more but he let a few of us know to summon him back if ever required :) I might link him to the thread.

    Also the "used as a contraceptive" argument is really a very poor one for two reasons. The first being that it just shows you have no idea what the word "contraceptive" actually means. The second and more important one however is that if you can not show abortion itself to be a bad thing or immoral thing - then the reasons why someone might seek to have one are simply none of your business. Either abortion is immoral or it is not. If it is not - then the reason any given individual does it is a full on meal of red herring.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    "endowed by their creator with the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness" ???

    That's a quote from the American Declaration of Independance. This is not the US.

    You're not one of those crazy pro-lifer American's who gets overly-invested in abortion legislation in other countries, are you?



  • Site Banned Posts: 12,341 ✭✭✭✭Faugheen


    This is absolutely horrific. I'm so, so sorry.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,698 ✭✭✭Feisar


    I don't know you however you have my deepest condolences and respect.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,810 ✭✭✭✭Igotadose


    Let's not underestimate the reach of the crazy pro-lifers. Here's a rant from FB that pretty much encapsulates the state of anti-abortion legislation in the US, it's worse than the middle ages.

    https://ifunny.co/picture/i-ve-had-at-least-5-whore-friends-share-this-xkoAsKRk8?s=cl



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 948 ✭✭✭Burt Renaults


    Because most decent people are, at the very least, sympathetic towards people dealing with unwanted pregnancies, I don't think that sort of language from the 'No' side did their own cause any favours during the referendum campaign. I often wonder, if the likes of you had said nothing at all during that campaign, would the result have been closer?



  • Registered Users Posts: 431 ✭✭Jeremy Sproket


    What if a man didn't want to be a dad?


    Should there be an option for him?


    If your answer to that is "abstinence", then does that not also apply to the woman? (outside of rape, FFA and life threatening grounds).



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,513 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    you think the man should decide that the woman must get an abortion? have a word with yourself.



  • Registered Users Posts: 1,064 ✭✭✭secondrowgal


    If he doesn't want to be a dad, get a vasectomy. Easy. It's easier, and safer, than a woman having to take birth control pills for 30 or more years.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,202 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack



    What’s nonsense about it? I’m not even sure what part of my post you’re saying is nonsense when you acknowledge that it was because of the existence of the 8th amendment in the first place was the State’s acknowledgment of the right to life of the unborn. “Apart from the 8th” is doing a hell of a lot of the heavy lifting in your post to suggest that I’m talking nonsense.

    Do you not remember the X case in 1992 when the family asked Gardaí could DNA from the aborted foetus would be admissible as evidence in Court? Do you not remember what happened next?



    It was the introduction of the 8th amendment that legislated for abortion, before then it was unlawful, and legislation introduced after the 8th limited the conditions under which an abortion was lawfully permissible. It’s why we had the referendum in 1992 and the proposed 12th amendment was rejected, while the 13th and 14th amendments passed.

    Because of the 13th it was possible for women to travel outside the State for an abortion, but because aftercare was not provided by the State upon their return, it led to the A, B and C case v Ireland -



    Which led to the POLDPA legislation being introduced in Irish law some 20 years after the outcome of the referendum which followed the X case -



    And all of this was BEFORE the death of Savita Halapannavar and the repeal of the 8th amendment which led to the introduction of THIS Act in 2018 -



    STILL limiting the conditions under which an abortion could either be regarded as lawful or unlawful, and whether or not we agree it was political cowardice or what I would consider pure stupidity which makes absolutely no sense, made no sense at the time, and still makes no sense - the 12 week limit was touted long before the referendum as a means to assuage “fears” of what some people refer to as “abortion on demand”, and politicians at the time caving under pressure stuck it in there as yet another shìtty “compromise” the same as they did when proposing the wording of the 8th amendment in the first place to assuage “fears” that Ireland might follow Roe v Wade in the States.

    The 12 week limit is balls, frankly, when it can lead to outcomes of legal uncertainty and medical professionals reluctant to act for fear they might fall foul of the legislation such as in cases like this -





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  • Registered Users Posts: 431 ✭✭Jeremy Sproket


    Who said that ??? Where did I say that?


    If a woman has the option to end a baby's life through abortion simply because she doesn't want to be a mother* with no medical reasons, then logically there should be an equivalent for me (ie, they can abdicate all responsibilities and rights) should the woman choose to keep the baby.


    I'm staunchly against this an abhor abortion. I'm simply testing the argument of the so called "pro-choice people".

    I'm a woman btw.



  • Registered Users Posts: 431 ✭✭Jeremy Sproket


    If you don't want to be a mother, abstain or take birth control. Works both ways n'est pas?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,202 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack



    The equivalent for men is that should they ever find themselves in similar circumstances, they too would have the same rights (and limitations on those rights) as a woman in those circumstances. Effectively, you’re into this sort of territory -



    And we came pretty damn close to it and all -





  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,202 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack



    No, it really doesn’t, seeing as men do not have the capacity to become pregnant. They have the same rights as women do in those circumstances should they ever find themselves expecting rather unexpectedly and they do not wish to become a father. It has no bearing upon whether or not a pregnant woman may seek a termination of her pregnancy in any case.



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    No. It's none of his business. If a woman wants to terminate a pregnancy at any point she should be free to do so, because it is her body, her right to bodily integrity and her right to privacy that is in question. In my opinion she should not do so - but she should be completely free to make that choice herself, and neither I not my community should have any authority to stop her from freely and safely exercising that choice.

    In the same way, if a person is suffering from a life-threatening disease, and their only prospect of survival is a kidney transplant from a parent or a relative, that parent or relative should be completely free to refuse to co-operate, because it is their body, their right to bodily integrity and their right to privacy that is in question.

    And you need to make up your mind what gender you are.



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    My mother wore one of those when I was in my early teens. 😲



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    The thread should have been titled "Any other WUMs..."



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,513 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail




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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,064 ✭✭✭secondrowgal


    If you don’t want to be a father, abstain or use birth control. See what I did there?


    Women could have sex 24/7 without risk of pregnancy if there are no viable sperm around.


    Men can also have sex 24/7 if they keep their viable speed away from any eggs


    Also, men can’t get pregnant so it doesn’t affect them in any way.


    Birth control can fail (approx 9% for pill, 13% for condoms). Get a vasectomy (<1% and reversible.) Much better don’t you think?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,476 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    Or just go and kick for the other team for a few years, it's got to be better than no sex at all, right? 😁

    Scrap the cap!



  • Registered Users Posts: 431 ✭✭Jeremy Sproket


    How is it a Freudian slip?


    I meant to type "options for men" instead of "options for me".


    It's funny how pathetic people always resort to abusive language and correcting people's spelling and grammar when they run out of arguments. I pity you actually.


    Life begins at conception.



  • Registered Users Posts: 431 ✭✭Jeremy Sproket


    So why doesn't the abstinence mantra apply to women then?


    Don't want to get pregnant, keep your knees together.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,513 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    and around in circles we go. It is no wonder that your side lost so badly in the referendum.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,476 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    It appears that in some cases the internet can act as a portal back to the 1950s, it's uncanny.

    Scrap the cap!



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  • Registered Users Posts: 431 ✭✭Jeremy Sproket


    Your side also lost several previous referendums.


    That didn't stop the people who wanted to kill babies from throwing shapes until they got a referendum.


    Why should the option exist to kill a baby in the womb for simply being disabled?


    Didn't a bloke with a funny stache in the 1930's and 1940's advocate a similar strategy?? Help me remember who that was... he was born in the Austro-Hungarian Empire in the 1880's, went on to become Chancellor of Germany .....



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,476 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    The pro-choice side only lost one referendum, in 1983, when the power of the Catholic Church was still at its height, its feet of clay had not been exposed. Oh and there was millions of pounds flooding in from the US for leaflets, posters etc. all totally unregulated. Of course the reason we had that referendum in the first place was nothing whatsoever to do with Ireland or Irish politics, we were simply being used as a battleground for US politics. Abortion was already totally illegal here.

    I'm not even going to dignify any of the rest of that excreta with a reply.

    Scrap the cap!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,807 ✭✭✭✭Loafing Oaf


    but it makes it impossible to have a rational discussion...



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,810 ✭✭✭✭Igotadose


    Godwinized. Didn't take long.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Lol. Look it up.

    And spare me your proselytizing. Speaking for myself, I couldn't care less when life begins. Nor will I lose any sleep over another women's abortions or her reasons for wanting to end a pregnancy. None of my business.

    But if I was asked for input, I would prioritise the life of the already born woman over foetus every time. Thats where my sympathy lies, and where yours would be better directed.

    You, on the hand, are one of those type of pro-lifers who likes to loudly declare how wrong you think abortion is, how much you abhor abortion but then goes on to qualify it with an "except when..." e.g. rape.

    How does that work? If you believe so strongly that "all life is precious" and "all life begins at conception" how do you justify in your own mind allowing an exception for abortions in rape cases? If your focus is on the foetus, and not the woman, explain to us the difference between a foetus in the womb that was conceived through rape, and one that was not, and then explain why it should be allowable in the case of the former, but not the latter. Explain why - given your so strongly held beliefs - why that foetus conceived through rape does not deserve the same protection that you so strongly argue for every other foetus?

    Because that just strikes me as hypocritical. You're either all life is precious - including the one conceived through rape - or you're not.

    Something I could never understand about some so called "pro-lifers". Its a bit like being one of those "a la carte" catholics who choose the bits they want to comply with and ignore the bits they don't.

    At least pro-choice are exactly that. Pro-choice.

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