Where are you right now? Part 5

Kitty6277 · 13-01-2019 3:40pm

Armchair side. Did a tough workout and now I’m resting my poor legs

lbc2019 · 13-01-2019 3:50pm

In my folks, watching rugby after visiting my new nephew

lbc2019 · 13-01-2019 3:50pm

AndyBoBandy wrote: »

Dublin Airport T1 departures. About to board a flight to Frankfurt, and then on to Warsaw.

Bon Voyage!

Sephiroth_dude · 13-01-2019 3:52pm

Deskside sleepy headed

wildwillow wrote: »

I certainly take strength from your posts.

+1 for this

islanderre · 13-01-2019 3:53pm

Geneva airport; in transit for Malaga airport. €14 for a Coke and panini!!!

No snow on the ground either....

To the sun next:)

Trigger Happy · 13-01-2019 3:57pm

Am finishing off a spring clean. Knobs and knockers, the lot.

Grandeeod · 13-01-2019 4:02pm

Succubus_ wrote: »

Ah NG, I know you're going through a tough time but Grandeeod had good intentions and didn't mean to insult you. I'm guilty of wallowing myself at times but it really doesn't help you to feel any better.

It was indeed meant with the best of intentions.

Ariadne · 13-01-2019 4:23pm

wildwillow wrote: »

Northgirl, people who don't suffer as you do find it hard to undertand how you sometimes cannot cope, no matter what.
I've had a lot of sorrow in my life, losing close family members and being on my own now. But I was always cherished and loved and really have no understanding how hard it is for you to bear how some of your family have treated you.

My mood drops and sometimes I lock myself away but I am a possitive person really and can talk myself into doing things and mix with people.

I'm self employed and have a home so don't have your problems with work colleagues and house mates. When I add everything up for you, I'm actually amazed how often you get the strength to bounce back and try again.

Telling you to cheer up is so counterproductive that it's hard to think anyone would say it. But mostly they are well meaning and have no clue how upsetting it can be to hear it.

I wish you well for your birthday and the new year. I hope you continue to show what a remarkable person you are, and continue the struggle to reach some kind of a satisfactory life.
I certainly take strength from your posts.

I'm sorry but nobody has the monopoly on suffering. I've had some very dark months the last few months but I choose not to share everything I go through. It doesn't mean I have no idea what it feels like to be at your lowest ebb.

northgirl · 13-01-2019 4:30pm

Succubus_ wrote: »

I'm sorry but nobody has the monopoly on suffering. I've had some very dark months the last few months but I choose not to share everything I go through. It doesn't mean I have no idea what it feels like to be at your lowest ebb.

who mentioned monopoly?

i choose to post what i do and similarly you choose to post what you do.

That's our right.

I've personally never judged or tried to influence you only offered support if and when applicable.

Ariadne · 13-01-2019 4:31pm

northgirl wrote: »

who mentioned monopoly?

i choose to post what i do and similarly you choose to post what you do.

That's our right.

I've personally never judged or tried to influence you only offered support if and when applicable.

I was responding to wildwillow who seems to think I don't understand and have never had a bad day in my life.

Kitty6277 · 13-01-2019 4:33pm

I’m back armchair side after straightening my hair. Gonna try and finish my Erasmus report today so I can stop thinking about it. Not on the roster at work this week so if I get this done today I can chill for the week

Sephiroth_dude · 13-01-2019 4:34pm

Kitty6277 wrote: »

I’m back armchair side after straightening my hair. Gonna try and finish my Erasmus report today so I can stop thinking about it. Not on the roster at work this week so if I get this done today I can chill for the week

and play batman :pac:?

northgirl · 13-01-2019 4:36pm

wildwillow wrote: »

Northgirl, people who don't suffer as you do find it hard to undertand how you sometimes cannot cope, no matter what.
I've had a lot of sorrow in my life, losing close family members and being on my own now. But I was always cherished and loved and really have no understanding how hard it is for you to bear how some of your family have treated you.

My mood drops and sometimes I lock myself away but I am a possitive person really and can talk myself into doing things and mix with people.

I'm self employed and have a home so don't have your problems with work colleagues and house mates. When I add everything up for you, I'm actually amazed how often you get the strength to bounce back and try again.

Telling you to cheer up is so counterproductive that it's hard to think anyone would say it. But mostly they are well meaning and have no clue how upsetting it can be to hear it.

I wish you well for your birthday and the new year. I hope you continue to show what a remarkable person you are, and continue the struggle to reach some kind of a satisfactory life.
I certainly take strength from your posts.

Thank you for your post and even thought all these things are going on it's only when someone writes them out for you, you realise what you are actually doing.

I'm not presenting myself as someone with "a monopoly" on suffering. Everyone has something, relatively no-one escapes.

I'm continually told I'm one of the strongest people they know but I don't feel it but this is a lifelong battle and battled I have, every damned day.

NONE of this is self-pity. Thanks so much for your understanding wildwillow. I hope you too are doing well.

I certainly won't being changing who I am or what I post to suit the tastes of posters that recklessly pass judgement.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 13-01-2019 4:38pm

My life is a perpetual sh1tshow

sometimes there’s nothing for it only put on your wellies and plough through it regardless. We all hurt we all over react we all laugh at inappropriate things we all feel things differently, I like this thread because like good ole Marilyn Monroe does say on Facebook, if yezzer can’t deal with me at my worst you don’t deserve me at my best, and I would hate anyone missing out on me at my foul mouthed sarcastic and melodramatic best.

Sirius Boner · 13-01-2019 4:56pm

Any more love for me old bruised balls?

Trigger Happy · 13-01-2019 4:59pm

Sirius Boner wrote: »

Any more love for me old bruised balls?

You have milked them enough!

Ilovethe bonesofyou · 13-01-2019 5:05pm

It's the end of the world as we know it and I feel fine!

Kitty6277 · 13-01-2019 5:52pm

Sephiroth_dude wrote: »

and play batman :pac:?

Of course, I wanna get it finished before I go back to college :pac:

Grandeeod · 13-01-2019 5:53pm

northgirl wrote: »

@Grandeeod

Oh thanks so much. Yes I must pull myself right out of this self pity that a complete stranger has diagnosed.

Yes, you have a clue of what I've been through for most of my life and how is drastically gone downhill since then.

Maybe you'd be happier if I didn't post at all anymore. If I don't then maybe I won't be around. Maybe THAT will make you happier BABE.

By the way think before you post. If you must know I am in a very low place and your words have made a difficult weekend even more so. I don't need sympathy but I don't need or deserve your judgement either.

This is completely out of context to what I posted last night. I can't let this go without explaining myself despite really believing that I shouldn't have to. It was a genuine attempt to cheer you up and you have taken it as an insult and way beyond its intention. I never even suggested that I'd be happier if you didn't post here anymore.

northgirl wrote: »

I certainly won't being changing who I am or what I post to suit the tastes of posters that recklessly pass judgement.

I assume this is directed at me. I never asked you to post here to suit my tastes and I certainly didn't recklessly pass judgement. I wasn't judging you at all. I was simply trying to cheer you up. Nothing more than that. No judging, no malice intent. Nothing but an innocent attempt to cheer someone up.

Grandeeod · 13-01-2019 6:09pm

Sirius Boner wrote: »

Any more love for me old bruised balls?

That sounded painful alright. Nothing worse than damaging the oul balls. I had a bad experience with a harness once and it was all captured on video. Thankfully it was pre internet days and the tape was wiped. I cried with the pain.

La.de.da · 13-01-2019 6:18pm

Trigger Happy wrote: »

Am finishing off a spring clean. Knobs and knockers, the lot.

I have all the utensils in for a spring clean just waiting on the energy

Dog keeps farting, fùckin disgusting she is

Autosport · 13-01-2019 6:21pm

La.de.da wrote: »

I have all the utensils in for a spring clean just waiting on the energy

Dog keeps farting, fùckin disgusting she is

That's not the dog, that's gifted

Somewhere in the south east

retro:electro · 13-01-2019 6:21pm

northgirl wrote: »

Maybe you'd be happier if I didn't post at all anymore. If I don't then maybe I won't be around. Maybe THAT will make you happier BABE.

Sorry but what a monumental overreaction, not to mention a grossly unfair reply to someone whose comment read as nothing more than some light hearted advice.

I’m in the queue for the self service in super value. There’s a mouth breather behind me.

Autosport · 13-01-2019 6:22pm

Sirius Boner wrote: »

Any more love for me old bruised balls?

Calling gifted

Someone needs a hand drop and you're the best man for the job

northgirl · 13-01-2019 6:25pm

retro:electro wrote: »

Sorry but what a monumental overreaction, not to mention a grossly unfair reply to someone whose comment read as nothing more than some light hearted advice.

I’m in the queue for the self service in super value. There’s a mouth breather behind me.

Yeah people breathe..

Sorry? I think not.

Glad I know who's on here now.

harry Bailey esq · 13-01-2019 6:25pm

Cooking and drinkin' happy mondays playing in the background. Sh*ts starting to smell good.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 13-01-2019 6:27pm

On my way to Harry’s

Now that would be an entertaining dinner!

Trigger Happy · 13-01-2019 6:28pm

Make love, not war people!

Ilovethe bonesofyou · 13-01-2019 6:28pm

harry Bailey esq wrote:

Cooking and drinkin' happy mondays playing in the background. Sh*ts starting to smell good.

Just don't step on the cooker harry..

northgirl · 13-01-2019 6:28pm

Edward M wrote: »

A Girlie fight, yeah I'm up for that.
NG, you're great, keep letting out how you feel, a trouble shared is a trouble halved.
Succ, I know your and GDs posts are meant in the best way too.
Let's all try to support who's on here, it's a great bunch really.

That's all I ever intended. We ALL have enough going on.

Where are you right now? Part 5

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