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Sweden Riots

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,575 ✭✭✭RandomName2


    I don't know, you brought up something about unwashed and underwear?


    Do you also make fun of them in person, or just spouting off on internet forums?


    I even know what a tracker mortgage is.
    As for fake outrage, well, you seem to enjoy our little back and forths, would hate to disappoint you.
    #itsonlyafcukinghandshake

    I'm afraid I am disappointed. You've ignored the points and conceded the argument.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 16,575 ✭✭✭✭dr.fuzzenstein


    I'm afraid I am disappointed. You've ignored the points and conceded the argument.

    I'm sorry, you're the one who has conceded that you're on a wind up.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,293 ✭✭✭✭Timberrrrrrrr


    Bootlegger wrote: »
    Do I move to Japan and refuse to bow? No because it's their culture and it's up to me to respect it if I want to live there.

    If I offer you my hand and you refuse to shake it then you have insulted me. If you are a fresh off the boat Muslim and you don't understand the culture, fine, but after awhile you need to start integrating.

    Amazing how liberals, who preach gender equality and secularism, fold instantly when it comes to Islam.

    You're easily insulted so.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,131 ✭✭✭malinheader


    You're easily insulted so.

    Apparently not as easy insulted as she was.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 16,575 ✭✭✭✭dr.fuzzenstein


    Apparently not as easy insulted as she was.

    40000 Kroner say she was right.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,293 ✭✭✭✭Timberrrrrrrr


    Apparently not as easy insulted as she was.

    He said if someone refused to shake your hand you would be insulted, thats a very petty reason to be insulted. Maybe I just have thicker skin than him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,131 ✭✭✭malinheader


    40000 Kroner say she was right.

    Yeah. We all know how that works.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,462 ✭✭✭blinding


    We expect to shake hands with people .

    We expect to see people faces .

    Why is our Culture not being respected .

    Perhaps people should be told of our social norms before they come here and then if they are not happy with this perhaps they should choose an alternative where they will be happier to fit in .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,221 ✭✭✭Greentopia


    tuxy wrote: »
    What happened here?(starting 4:11 where they had called the police after their camera man was run over by a migrant)



    The police were worried about going into an area because their presence would be provocative.
    All members of the crew filming ended up getting assaulted.


    Do you know anything about that area? Was the story somehow fabricated by the film crew?

    Ok well a camera crew rocking up to Rinkeby and filming the locals is not going to be welcomed by some of them and the producers would have known that before going there if they talked to anyone in Sweden. Imagine if RTE went into Southhill in Limerick (which btw looks far FAR worse than Rinkeby and has far higher rates of murder, car burning, joy riding, poverty and general social deprivation and decay and the inhabitants are all or mostly native Irish) and started filming some of the locals. How do you think that would go down?

    Yes the police didn't want to go in with a film crew because it would be seen as provocative, is that surprising given the information you learned about the area? you saw there was police there anyway so obviously they have no issues with being there, they just didn't want to be seen with camera crews.

    Of course it's not right and there is no excuse for assaults and hostility to anyone, but this area has long been the subject of political discussion in Sweden and has gotten a bad reputation because of the social problems that beset it. The locals are sensitive to this and some will take issue with camera crews that are obviously there to report yet again only the bad things that go on there.

    I've never been to Rinkeby by it looks similar to most other suburbs in Sweden with very high immigrant populations. I believe it's one of the million programme areas -a very ambitious building programme undertaken by the Soc Dems in the in the 1960's and 70s where property taxes from a thriving post war economy funded the building of over 1 million apartments and houses in suburban areas to house blue collar workers and students, not originally immigrants-they came later.
    They were no Ballymuns- they had a good range of services and amenities-hospitals, play areas, shops, schools, creches etc and were built to a high standard and had a mix of tenants. They look a bit uniform in uninspiring in design but have survived pretty well to today.

    Irish Government should take note-this is how you build on a large scale for social housing.

    The problems started when white Swedes moved out of these million programme working class areas like Rinkeby and joined the middle classes in the cities. Large scale immigration began to service a growing economy (similar to what happened in Germany) and the powers that be decided to put all these new arrivals into these areas. The economy stagnated, many lost their jobs and the areas turned into ghettos where second and third generations have grown up with high unemployment, lack of opportunities and social marginalisation.

    Most of the problems-the looting, burning cars in these areas are actually not done by newly arrived immigrants, they are the second generation of immigrants born in Sweden who feel locked out of the prosperity that white Swedes enjoy.

    As to your last question, no I don't think there was a fabrication but the film crew called Rinkeby a no-go area, and as I have shown that is actually not the case. They seemed to go there to get their prejudices confirmed, not with an open mind. They asked the opinion of a Swedish guy that is known to have a far right agenda against immigrants so hardly balanced reporting. I think it was a cynical exercise, they wanted to provoke a reaction there and they got what they wanted.

    Why didn't they meet with some local representative in a less public area and ask their opinions of what's going on there and what is being done to address the problems? no, that wouldn't make headline news and be good for their ratings. I'd like to see the rest of the programme- any links to that?


  • Posts: 1,690 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    why shouldn't they?


    The problem with equality is that when two opposing cultures meet, either one must submit to the other (which makes a mockery of equality), or, there is conflict, as happened in this case.



    jmreire wrote: »
    When in Muslim company, be it in their own Country, or your's, when greeting a Muslim woman, you wait for her to offer her hand first. If she doesn't, then don't offer her your's. Some of them will shake hands with you, and some will not. But thats the way it works.


    So, basically, you're saying we have to change our method of greeting, to accomodate people visiting our Country.


    Not only that, but we have to learn their customs, and adhere to them, because they wont adhere to ours.


    Where's the equality in that?


    Do you see predominantly Muslim Countries adapting their way of life to accomodate Western visitors? No?
    So, where does equality fit in, then?


    The next issue is Womens equality. How do we manage to ensure women are treated equally, where their religious beliefs ensure they are not treated equally?


    The whole thing is a minefield, and will eventually prove to be unworkable, I'm afraid.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,221 ✭✭✭Greentopia


    Kivaro wrote: »
    So here's the deal with Sweden.
    Since 2015, 18% of the current population was born outside the country. They have accepted 600,000 "refugees" in the last 5 years. This is unsustainable and there is now push back. Many in the country now believe that such immigration numbers is a danger to their welfare state e.g. Swedes have to wait longer to get access to welfare staples like hospital care.

    The Social Democrats caused this to happen, and as a result, their 100 year dominance of the political establishment will end in September if Swedes vote for the Nationalist party. It makes complete sense e.g. why would you surrender your access to the services that you were use to; irrespective of your good nature of welcoming all who want to come to the country. I will not mention the drastic increase in assaults against the female population of the country and crime in general since the recent change of the demographic.

    There is a tiny vocal minority in Ireland who want to replicate the Swedish experiment of open borders. It will not work.
    If the Swedish Democrats succeed in September then this will be a major blow to Sinn Fein's open border policy, but it is also verifies the natural order of things ..... sense eventually prevails.

    Do you live there? have you lived there? can you provide sources for your information please.

    Drastic increase in assaults on females? I go there several times a year and have never in all the years I've lived there and visited-over twenty years now, have I EVER felt unsafe there. Yes there are problems in some of the suburbs but they are still nothing like you find some other countries in Europe like France for example. I would be cautious of going to places like Rinkeby, Angered, Biskopsgården on my own, but Swedes don't generally go to these areas tbh and neither did I when I lived there or when I visit as they are all out in the suburbs and I have no reason to go there.

    Of course you might find trouble if you go looking for it but in general problems are confined to these suburban areas. The city centres are very safe for me as a woman to walk around. I feel far safer in Gothenburg or Stockholm than Dublin, I can tell you that.

    Also- the police there state most of the anti-social problems are caused not by newly arrived refugees and immigrants but by second and third generation immigrants that are growing up disaffected and marginalised.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,221 ✭✭✭Greentopia


    Bootlegger wrote: »
    Amazing how liberals, who preach gender equality and secularism, fold instantly when it comes to Islam.

    Nice that you have decided you know what our political beliefs are. I'm not a supporter of any so-called liberal (and that's an American misnomer btw) political party.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,462 ✭✭✭blinding


    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Txk-CZRFEoQ&t=8s&frags=pl%2Cwn

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t3GIfdxe5fY&frags=pl%2Cwn

    Interesting watch / listen . Its a two part-er . The second part is probably the best .

    Why would you willingly bring all these problems to your country ?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,462 ✭✭✭blinding


    Bootlegger wrote: »
    The Swedes have censored their crime stats since 2005 as they found migrants were overrepresented in the crime stats. They covered up sexual assaults on young girls at music festival. Can you explain this to me?

    Why would a country that boasts of its commitment to feminism want to censor the crime stats?
    The People wouldn’t like the truth and might expect changes to be made .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,293 ✭✭✭✭Timberrrrrrrr


    Bootlegger wrote: »
    I don't believe for one second you wouldn't be insulted if someone refused to shake your hand.

    Why would i be? I have had a handshake refused and have refused to shake hands with some people. As i said before you must be very easily insulted if having a handshake refused makes you feel insulted.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,462 ✭✭✭blinding


    I can’t understand why anyone would not want to shake the hand that shakes my Cock .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,293 ✭✭✭✭Timberrrrrrrr


    Bootlegger wrote: »
    A handshake is a basic sign of respect between between two people. Refuse to shake hands and I think you are rude and ignorant. But you know that. You are giving the woman in Sweden a free pass just because she is a Muslim.

    No it's not its a form of greeting!
    I wonder if a Christian man refused to shake hands with a woman would you be so accomadating?

    I wouldn't care!
    If a person has so little respect for the customs of their host country, maybe they should move somewhere else?

    I hate GAA, rarely drink and dislike drunks hugging me. Should i change this when in Dublin?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,070 ✭✭✭Franz Von Peppercorn


    Why would i be? I have had a handshake refused and have refused to shake hands with some people. As i said before you must be very easily insulted if having a handshake refused makes you feel insulted.

    Come on. If somebody refused a handshake without a good excuse (I’m contagious, or even I’m religious) then most people would be insulted.

    In fact most business deals wouldn’t happen.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 106 ✭✭Corb_lund



    I hate GAA, rarely drink and dislike drunks hugging me. Should i change this when in Dublin?

    No because the culture or this civilised country is to allow people to get up to what they want to. Its apples and oranges compared to showing a bit of respect and goodwill.

    If we met for an interview, I would not expect you to play GAA (even care about it!), be a heavy drinker and certainly not wanting to hug me...

    I would expect though as is per normal, that you would shake my hand in a gesture of politeness so I don't think you're going to be a pain in the arsé to deal with...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,131 ✭✭✭malinheader


    Whenever there getting there citizenship if there legal they should be made shake hands with our president. If refuse to do so taxi straight to airport with spouse and first flight out. One way of getting rid of the ones who have no notion of interaction.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,293 ✭✭✭✭Timberrrrrrrr


    Corb_lund wrote: »
    No because the culture or this civilised country is to allow people to get up to what they want to. Its apples and oranges compared to showing a bit of respect and goodwill.

    If we met for an interview, I would not expect you to play GAA (even care about it!), be a heavy drinker and certainly not wanting to hug me...

    I would expect though as is per normal, that you would shake my hand in a gesture of politeness so I don't think you're going to be a pain in the arsé to deal with...

    Contradicting yourself there a little.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 106 ✭✭Corb_lund


    Contradicting yourself there a little.

    Sorry pedant should have spelled it out clearer for you...

    Playing GAA/getting sloshed/getting hugged/ doing whatever in your own time ...

    ..is in no way comparable to exchanging a recognised form of respect during an interview..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,293 ✭✭✭✭Timberrrrrrrr


    Corb_lund wrote: »
    Sorry pedant should have spelled it out clearer for you...

    Playing GAA/getting sloshed/getting hugged/ doing whatever in your own time ...

    ..is in no way comparable to exchanging a recognised form of respect during an interview..

    Yet irish people get drunk talk GAA and try to hug me all the time when p1ssed, because it's seen as a social norm and "part of living in Ireland" are you saying i should allow this?

    One persons social norm wether its hugging strangers while drunk or a simple handshake is an intrusion into personal space for others.

    And please show evidence that a handshake is a "recognised form of respect".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,221 ✭✭✭Greentopia


    Bootlegger wrote: »
    The Swedes have censored their crime stats since 2005 as they found migrants were overrepresented in the crime stats. They covered up sexual assaults on young girls at music festival. Can you explain this to me?

    Why would a country that boasts of its commitment to feminism want to censor the crime stats?

    Again, show me some official unbiased sources that prove what you're saying about censorship and a cover up.


    Feminism is about equality for all, that includes refugees and migrants regardless of religious or ethnic backgrounds. I'm not getting into a discussion about feminism which will drag this thread even further off topic. There is a Feminist party (Feministiskt Initiativs) contesting the upcoming election in Sweden (they already have 13 municipal seats in local government) and I have read nothing in their literature or in the Swedish media that they or the Soc Dems who are in Govt (who also prioritise feminist policies) that they want to censor crime stats.

    Granted I don't live there any more so am a bit out of touch with what's happening on the ground, but I still visit, read Swedish newspapers online and chat to friends there.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,555 ✭✭✭Roger Hassenforder


    One persons social norm wether its hugging strangers while drunk or a simple handshake is an intrusion into personal space for others.

    If you regard a "simple handshake" as an "intrusion", unless you have serious dermatological or psychological issues, you have, well eh, serious issues.

    That's what is the "social norm" is in our part of the world. By rejecting it, you're rejecting our norm, ergo, rejecting the notion you would integrate.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,070 ✭✭✭Franz Von Peppercorn


    Yet irish people get drunk talk GAA and try to hug me all the time when p1ssed, because it's seen as a social norm and "part of living in Ireland" are you saying i should allow this?

    you have conversations in pubs you aren’t interested in? That’s general politeness. You can hardly tell people to shut up. But that’s up to you.
    One persons social norm wether its hugging strangers while drunk or a simple handshake is an intrusion into personal space for others.

    You’ve compared two non universal traits in Ireland - liking GAA (which in fact isn’t the most popular sport in Dublin) and “drunk hugging”, which isn’t also universal or even acceptable, with a common (almost) worldwide ritual of welcome, agreement or congratulations - the refusal of which is in fact always considered rude in the countries where it is used, including Muslim countries. (The difference there is that shaking hands is sometimes frowned on between sexes). This is a ludicrous analogy.

    If you have been refused a handshake or have refused one as often as you claim you’ve been in some very weird situations.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,293 ✭✭✭✭Timberrrrrrrr


    If you regard a "simple handshake" as an "intrusion", unless you have serious dermatological or psychological issues, you have, well eh, serious issues.

    I dont consider it an intrusion, thats not to say others don't.
    That's what is the "social norm" is in our part of the world. By rejecting it, you're rejecting our norm, ergo, rejecting the notion you would integrate.

    So is getting drunk and hugging strangers, should i just accept this as a way if life when in Dublin? If i refuse to let some drunken gobsh1te hug me and talk crap in my ear for an hour does that mean i am also not intergrating?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,040 ✭✭✭pearcider


    Greentopia wrote: »

    Most of the problems-the looting, burning cars in these areas are actually not done by newly arrived immigrants, they are the second generation of immigrants born in Sweden who feel locked out of the prosperity that white Swedes enjoy.

    So your solution is to import even more immigrants and double down on the mistakes of the past. 600,000 of them into an aging population of 9 million. National suicide. Mark my words, Sweden will be in the pits in less than 30 years.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,070 ✭✭✭Franz Von Peppercorn


    I dont consider it an intrusion, thats not to say others don't.



    So is getting drunk and hugging strangers, should i just accept this as a way if life when in Dublin? If i refuse to let some drunken gobsh1te hug me and talk crap in my ear for an hour does that mean i am also not intergrating?

    No. Getting drunk and hugging strangers isn’t in fact the same as a handshake. It’s not a ritual, it’s not universal, the refusal of it is not considered a rude gesture.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,671 ✭✭✭dav3


    Greentopia wrote: »
    Granted I don't live there any more so am a bit out of touch with what's happening on the ground, but I still visit, read Swedish newspapers online and chat to friends there.

    Your first hand experience doesn't matter. The only way you can get a real grasp of what is happening over there, is if you're watching 19 hour long youtube videos of red faced americans, with steam coming out of their ears, screaming about no-go zones in Sweden. All the rest is fake news.


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