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  • #62
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 0 ✭ [Deleted User]


    Watching porn y made with an ex girlfriend is probably not a good idea.


  • #63
    Dinarius
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,465 ✭✭✭Dinarius


    As a wise person once said,

    "I don't care where you get your appetite, as long as you come home for your dinner."

    D.


  • #64
    GarIT
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,641 ✭✭✭GarIT


    NinetyTwoTeam wrote: »
    So you purposely position your bodies to ensure the penetration is captured by the camera angle?

    Or are you a taxi driver who frequently picks up women who have forgotten their purse and need to arrange an alternative method of payment?

    Obviously not the ridiculous scenes and backstory. But positions, sex acts, toys, language, etc would be copied often.
    LadyMacBeth_ wrote: »
    I'm not talking about position exactly but more like the guy always has to finish on her/their faces or that she's blowing him like she's going to vomit.

    There's nothing wrong with making of mess of their face, I do it regularly, as would and of my friends (male and female) that have talked about it, the last ex would be happy to wear it around the house as a trophy of a job well done with a smile beaming from her face. The same ex has vomited a couple of times, she'd be a great sport about it, she always made it to the bathroom, she would apologise and try to keep going if she felt up to it, and she'd be back the next day just as eager as ever. There's no harm in it, we both enjoy it, my current FWBs enjoy it, it's great and I'd be lost without it.


  • #65
    Ash.J.Williams
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 23,380 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams


    Skatedude wrote: »
    I wouldn't have any problem with it myself.

    But I do draw the line at gay midget circus clown porn.

    Homophobe :)


  • #66
    Outlaw Pete
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,423 ✭✭✭✭Outlaw Pete


    Dinarius wrote: »
    As a wise person once said,

    "I don't care where you get your appetite, as long as you come home for your dinner."

    D.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qj5ou9z0H4g


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  • #67
    Dr Crayfish
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,960 ✭✭✭Dr Crayfish


    I can only speak from a male perspective obviously, but the women in porn these days all seem to be perfect and everything is neat and tidy etc, maybe what these women look like and are doing is putting pressure on ordinary women these days to live up to perhaps the warped expectations of males? I wonder what the effect of porn available whenever or wherever you want is having on todays yoof?


  • #68
    PucaMama
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,129 ✭✭✭PucaMama


    Dr Crayfish wrote: »
    I can only speak from a male perspective obviously, but the women in porn these days all seem to be perfect and everything is neat and tidy etc, maybe what these women look like and are doing is putting pressure on ordinary women these days to live up to perhaps the warped expectations of males? I wonder what the effect of porn available whenever or wherever you want is having on todays yoof?
    They aren't "perfect" if it's not natural 😂


  • #69
    murpho999
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,956 ✭✭✭✭murpho999


    From my own experience I remember living in pre-internet almost pornless Ireland.

    Porn was only around via secret 'blue movie' tapes that did the rounds. Playboy magazine was even banned.

    Then around 1995 Playboy was made available and I remember buying it out of curiosity at the time as Pamela Anderson at her peak was in it!

    I had a girlfriend at the time that was extremely possessive and jealous and she found the mag and went berserk.

    I really found it odd as it was just pictures of naked women.

    Relationship was doomed after that.

    Looking back i realise that she had a lot of issues herself and I now have a lovely wife who does not have these hang ups andlikes to watch porn with me from time to time and it spices things up in a normal healthy sexual relationship.

    Any person who has an issue with their partner watching "normal" porn has issues themselves and in my opinion would be best avoided as they're potential 'bunny boilers'.


  • #70
    GarIT
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,641 ✭✭✭GarIT


    Dr Crayfish wrote: »
    I can only speak from a male perspective obviously, but the women in porn these days all seem to be perfect and everything is neat and tidy etc, maybe what these women look like and are doing is putting pressure on ordinary women these days to live up to perhaps the warped expectations of males? I wonder what the effect of porn available whenever or wherever you want is having on todays yoof?

    Some studies have interestingly found that men are under much more pressure than women.

    To achieve the ideal (most popular) body shape for women requires carefully eating healthily the correct amount of food that one person should eat but that's about it. The ideal male body shape requires eating enough food for 4 people and intensely working out for 2 or more hours per day. Women of different heights are usually found equally attractive while men are found to be more attractive the taller they are. Women with very small boobs are still often seen as very attractive, while men with small penises take more of a hit to their attractiveness.

    The tides have turned in the media too, acceptance of the use of phrases like "ideal woman" in the media is decreasing, while "ideal man" is just as popular and accepted as ever.

    Women are less accepting of non-ideal partners than women. Typically with men, their standards in women are closely related to their own attractiveness. While women's standards in men are typically unrelated or are slightly related with their attractiveness.

    Women are speaking out about being judged while men aren't so the tables of who is under more pressure are turning.

    Tinder has released statistics in 2016 on swiping patterns, they say that 95% of women carefully select men to swipe right on while 5% of women will swipe right on most people. The numbers were the exact opposite for men. Men are under pressure to meet women's expectations and women choose carefully who to date while most men would date most average or above women.


  • #71
    Dr Crayfish
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,960 ✭✭✭Dr Crayfish


    GarIT wrote: »
    Some studies have interestingly found that men are under much more pressure than women.

    To achieve the ideal (most popular) body shape for women requires carefully eating healthily the correct amount of food that one person should eat but that's about it. The ideal male body shape requires eating enough food for 4 people and intensely working out for 2 or more hours per day.

    2 hours. You haven't a clue what you're talking about. In fact your whole post sounds like something from that incel movement.


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  • #72
    GarIT
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,641 ✭✭✭GarIT


    Dr Crayfish wrote: »
    2 hours. You haven't a clue what you're talking about.

    Do you think that's too high or too low? Have you seen how much some celebrities who would be considered ideal work out? Dwayne Johnson for example.


  • #73
    Dr Crayfish
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,960 ✭✭✭Dr Crayfish


    GarIT wrote: »
    Do you think that's too high or too low? Have you seen how much some celebrities who would be considered idea work out? Dwayne Johnson for example.

    What does his workout schedule have to do with the real world?


  • #74
    GarIT
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,641 ✭✭✭GarIT


    Dr Crayfish wrote: »
    What does his workout schedule have to do with the real world?

    His build is what many women would find ideal. The point is that a build like The Rock is harder to achieve than a build like Emily Ratajkowski or Beyonce.

    There is so much talk about unrealistic standards for women, while standards for men are much more unrealistic but not talked about.


  • #75
    Dr Crayfish
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,960 ✭✭✭Dr Crayfish


    Well I for one don't feel under pressure to meet any standards


  • #76
    PucaMama
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,129 ✭✭✭PucaMama


    GarIT wrote: »
    Dr Crayfish wrote: »
    What does his workout schedule have to do with the real world?

    His build is what many women would find ideal. The point is that a build like The Rock is harder to achieve than a build like Emily Ratajkowski or Beyonce.

    There is so much talk about unrealistic standards for women, while standards for men are much more unrealistic but not talked about.
    It really really is not what most women want. Also the belief that women don't have to work out to achieve the magical "ideal". Off to the incel Reddit with you.


  • #77
    GarIT
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,641 ✭✭✭GarIT


    Dr Crayfish wrote: »
    Well I for one don't feel under pressure to meet any standards

    I don't actually either.


  • #78
    RWCNT
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,430 ✭✭✭RWCNT


    GarIT wrote: »
    His build is what many women would find ideal. The point is that a build like The Rock is harder to achieve than a build like Emily Ratajkowski or Beyonce.

    There is so much talk about unrealistic standards for women, while standards for men are much more unrealistic but not talked about.

    The Rock is one of my favourite people ever, but I'd be shocked if his body would be considered "ideal" for the majority of women or gay men. It's an extreme physique with a niche appeal, I'd imagine he's more likely to be admired by fellow bodybuilders.


  • #79
    myshirt
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,245 ✭✭✭myshirt


    What about those of us who are watching to see if the plumber finally managed to fix that sink? Do we get put in the same category as the degenerates watching for other intentions?


  • #80
    retro:electro
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,039 ✭✭✭✭retro:electro


    GarIT wrote: »
    His build is what many women would find ideal. The point is that a build like The Rock is harder to achieve than a build like Emily Ratajkowski or Beyonce.

    There is so much talk about unrealistic standards for women, while standards for men are much more unrealistic but not talked about.

    Are you being serious? I literally could not have Emily's body without undergoing surgery. If it was possible then I'd already have it.
    You wouldn't have to undergo surgery to have a body like Dwayne. Just a lot of hard work and severe dedication- but nothing invasive and "unnatural".


  • #81
    PucaMama
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,129 ✭✭✭PucaMama


    RWCNT wrote: »
    GarIT wrote: »
    His build is what many women would find ideal. The point is that a build like The Rock is harder to achieve than a build like Emily Ratajkowski or Beyonce.

    There is so much talk about unrealistic standards for women, while standards for men are much more unrealistic but not talked about.

    The Rock is one of my favourite people ever, but I'd be shocked if his body would be considered "ideal" for the majority of women or gay men. It's an extreme physique with a niche appeal, I'd imagine he's more likely to be admired by fellow bodybuilders.
    He's probably a lovely person but he wouldn't appeal to me sexually


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  • #82
    GarIT
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,641 ✭✭✭GarIT


    RWCNT wrote: »
    The Rock is one of my favourite people ever, but I'd be shocked if his body would be considered "ideal" for the majority of women or gay men. It's an extreme physique with a niche appeal, I'd imagine he's more likely to be admired by fellow bodybuilders.

    It doesn't have to be the rock. Even if you go less muscular it is still typically more difficult for a male to obtain their ideal than it is for a woman.


  • #83
    NinetyTwoTeam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 619 ✭✭✭NinetyTwoTeam


    GarIT wrote: »
    His build is what many women would find ideal. The point is that a build like The Rock is harder to achieve than a build like Emily Ratajkowski or Beyonce.

    There is so much talk about unrealistic standards for women, while standards for men are much more unrealistic but not talked about.

    Sorry but you're completely wrong there. I've never heard a woman describe the Rock as their ideal. I've heard far more women describe the bodybuilder build as gross. I think just a general toned and non-flabby build is more appealing based on what I hear from women, and I've heard many more slender guys being described as attractive than musclehead types. Also have heard often that a man's physique is not a main factor in choosing a partner and certainly doesn't mean we all need to be gym rats to find a partner.


  • #84
    whoopsadoodles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,058 ✭✭✭whoopsadoodles


    I dunno. From what I have seen, if a woman has even the tiniest bit of weight on her, the porn she's starring in becomes a fetish category whereas there are men of every single size and shape featuring across all categories.


  • #85
    GarIT
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,641 ✭✭✭GarIT


    I don't have time for all these replies. It looks like a lot of people disagree with me. There are actual studies that show pressure for men is increasing while pressure for women is decreasing. If yous want to say I'm wrong that's ok with me :P


  • #86
    murpho999
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,956 ✭✭✭✭murpho999


    GarIT wrote: »
    I don't have time for all these replies. It looks like a lot of people disagree with me. There are actual studies that show pressure for men is increasing while pressure for women is decreasing. If yous want to say I'm wrong that's ok with me :P

    I know.

    That's why I never let my wife order a pizza or have a kitchen sink repaired unless I'm around.


  • #87
    Grayson
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,442 ✭✭✭✭Grayson


    whoopsadoodles wrote: »
    I dunno. From what I have seen, if a woman has even the tiniest bit of weight on her, the porn she's starring in becomes a fetish category whereas there are men of every single size and shape featuring across all categories.

    That because porn is mainly made for men. A lot of porn doesn't even have men in it.

    It does surprise me that a woman of over 25 is a MILF and under 25 is a teen. Women go from teenagers to MILF and there's nothing in-between. But I guess that's how porn objectifies women. Chubby/fat is everything from slightly curvy to huge.


  • #88
    Dial Hard
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 15,922 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    whoopsadoodles wrote:
    I dunno. From what I have seen, if a woman has even the tiniest bit of weight on her, the porn she's starring in becomes a fetish category whereas there are men of every single size and shape featuring across all categories.

    Exhibit A: Ron Jeremy.

    Can you imagine a woman that unattractive becoming a mainstream porn megastar? It quite literally would never, ever happen.


  • #89
    Samaris
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,544 ✭✭✭Samaris


    GarIT wrote: »
    It doesn't have to be the rock. Even if you go less muscular it is still typically more difficult for a male to obtain their ideal than it is for a woman.

    I don't really think it is. It is more difficult for people with unsuitable body types to obtain their..whatever this ideal is though, male or female.

    Say we take the ideal male physique as being muscled out the ears, although I'm not quite sure why we would. There are relatively few males (more and less depending on physical racial factors, general nutrition access, environmental factors, etc) who can achieve that build. Even narrowing down to sectors of populations who have access to enough food and time to work at it, many of those will not be able to achieve it either. If your genetics dictate that you will be five foot two with a narrow ribcage and rounded shoulders, you are not going to be able to build a body like Dwayne Johnson's.

    Exactly the same applies to women - if you are genetically predisposed to narrow hips, small breasts and wide ankles, your silhouette is never going to look like Jessica Rabbit. Women have more opportunity for creating the illusion of it with clever dressing than men do (although men used to be pretty good at it and some will defy fashion and do it anyway :P).

    And that's even before touching off genetic influence on fat storage (environment or habits is a separate matter) or genetic predisposition to illnesses such as asthma or muscular or skeletal problems.

    Actually, given the stresses pregnancy puts on the female body, if anything, it is harder to keep a "perfect" body shape as a child-bearing female as one gets older, whereas more men can manage (with a hell of a lot of work or else really good genetics!) to stay in shape until they're fairly well on in age, assuming they got their ideal shape to begin with.


  • #90
    Outlaw Pete
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,423 ✭✭✭✭Outlaw Pete


    Dial Hard wrote: »
    Exhibit A: Ron Jeremy.

    Can you imagine a woman that unattractive becoming a mainstream porn megastar? It quite literally would never, ever happen.

    Are you kidding me? There are fat women gernes. BBW etc.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/April_Flores

    Also, Ron Jeremy did not become a porn star because women wanted to see him. He was purely there for so fat guys could relate to him while watching him bang babes they never would.


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  • #91
    RWCNT
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,430 ✭✭✭RWCNT


    GarIT wrote: »
    I don't have time for all these replies. It looks like a lot of people disagree with me. There are actual studies that show pressure for men is increasing while pressure for women is decreasing. If yous want to say I'm wrong that's ok with me :P

    In fairness, you didn't post any links to the studies!


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