Porn and partners

Shenshen wrote: »

We seem to do it all the time, we even have special rooms for certain bodily functions. We call them bathrooms or toilets

As a man I whip it out anywhere if no one's looking......but then :rolleyes:

Isn't the internet great for so many? The internet gave porn to the pornless. I'm going back to food. It's much better.:D

Every woman I've ever been with has, to my knowledge. I don't think it's nearly as rare among women as people seem to assume, they're just not necessarily as comfortable openly discussing it as lads are. Regardless, I have no problem with it, and I regard having a problem with it as basically a form of 'thought crime' to be honest.

How do you know you are watching too much porn ?

Look she has a new tatoo


Why do wimmins look at porn?

To see if they get married at the end

NinetyTwoTeam wrote: »

So you purposely position your bodies to ensure the penetration is captured by the camera angle?

Or are you a taxi driver who frequently picks up women who have forgotten their purse and need to arrange an alternative method of payment?

Taxi driver .... eh you wouldn't have something smaller than that luv ?

LadyMacBeth_ wrote: »

I'm not talking about position exactly but more like the guy always has to finish on her/their faces or that she's blowing him like she's going to vomit.

I'm a man and I have never understood that.

Bukakke is supposed to origin in Japan or somewhere.

Men actually pay to go to such parties..... so i'm told:P

CPTM wrote: »

But I have seen one of my mates grow a bad addiction towards it. Between that and alcohol he's really difficult to be around now. You can't walk down the street without him quite aggressively talking about what he "wants to do" to girls walking by. Every few seconds. Some of it's fairly dark and I'm not sure he even realises himself how annoying it is. I think that it's a mindset that has come from too much porn over the years. He used to be a good friend, we're not sure what to do, because he's watching more (and drinking more) out of frustration of not finding a girl that's interested in him. It's a bit of a bad descent but I hope he gets a balance back on track.

That...actually does set off a couple of alarm bells. Obviously, only have what you wrote there, but he sounds like he's in a bad place that's affecting him negatively and ..depending on various other factors, such as if he's more of a talker than a doer, so to speak, could hurt someone else. He sounds so fixiated on just "getting" a woman, like in a porn film, that the women he passes on the street are just objects to satisfy him rather than people. Not saying he can't tell the difference or anything, but that's a bloody unhealthy mindset and could be dangerous (IF other factors are there, like his being likely to act on it). Either way, I wouldn't like to be in the position of meeting this guy in a potential more-than-just-social way as a woman, knowing that his mindset around women and sex is that...well, warped. I hope for his sake (and hypothetical potential partners sakes) that he can clear his head up.

Btw, although the above might imply it, I don't strictly mean rape. Just...that whole attitude is deeply poisoned and could harm himself and someone else.

I dunno. You know him better than I do, but something about all that thoroughly creeps me out.

Day Lewin wrote: »

Tractor Porn - SO not my cup of tea!

You're a brave man/woman. Also, how...no...why...no...wtf?!

123shooter wrote: »

How can you be insecure about your partner looking at an anonymous image? Unless you know the participants, but that makes it more interesting.

I'd say it's mostly the insecurity issue, the fear of "why isn't he satisfied with me, what am I doing wrong, does he prefer that to sex?" One partner feels left out and worried that it "means" something when the porn-watching partner doesn't intend anything of the sort. Although others might object because of the dodgier elements around the porn industry, so ethical grounds, I guess.

Others might well be freaked out at finding the midget clown porn.

Everything in moderation, meaning the only time I'd have a problem with porn is that if I felt it was getting more attention than I was.

Also, why do men always think that women all watch that awful porn aimed at women? I don't want to hear about love in porn 😂😂😂

Winterlong wrote: »

It's when your partner appears in porn that things become a problem.

You mean without you knowing?:D