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"Significant" numbers of babies remains actually found

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    Hagar7 wrote: »
    Paddy,Hitler's birthday was celebrated by the Vatican Church during WW2,the Pope blessed his and Mussolini's army.
    Josef Stalin wanted to become a priest,he later killed 7/8 million of his own people.:mad:

    and?

    relevance?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    Zebra3 wrote: »
    Will you ever give over with your propaganda ffs? :rolleyes:

    There is no proof "God" exists. Zero. Nada.

    So please stop making statements that are untrue.

    And your "beliefs" are not evidence. There's grown ups here trying to debate things, nobody is interested in your made up claims that you can't back up with one iota of evidence.

    Oh dear! Oh very dear! Oh very very very dear! Praying for thee


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 177 ✭✭Dionysis


    pilly wrote: »
    Not offended at all, just irritated that your posts asks questions that have been answered in a lot of ways since Friday.

    Do some reading and you'll find the answers.

    And I'll do it because you said so?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    valoren wrote: »
    I welcome into the debate opinions such as Donahue's. I welcome them with open arms. Let them talk. Let their mask of respectability slip. let their hatred shine through.

    I don't believe in God. That's just my outlook. But I do believe there was a preacher called Jesus Christ. His message was simple yet dangerous.

    Love each other. Don't be a dick. Be grand. He preached using fable like and easy to understand analogies.
    He was like a nomad Tony Robbins, just without the power point slides or the veneers. His message, his sermons developed into Jesus mania as he toured. While there were other preachers who made similar pronouncements, they didn't get their message across in simple terms or as effectively as Jesus.

    But his message was dangerous and it was spreading uncontrolled. It's what got him eventually killed by the Romans. He was essentially a celebrity in his own time but he was just a mortal man. He became bigger than 'God'. He was given a 'god' like status such was the power of his basic message of Love one another. This status brought a charge of blasphemy against him. He was executed. He died for his hippy like beliefs of a common humanity, of love. He became a threat to Roman such was his popularity and they got rid.

    He, and his 'God' like attribution was subsequently exploited. He was re-invented to be divine, a figure head for a new religion, created by subsequent generations of his fan base. They called it Christianity. Such was the lack of documentation and historical artefacts of the time, his life, his legacy and his message was a blank canvas for this new Church. Church leaders were free to create 'scripture' as they saw fit. e.g. He died to save our souls. Follow him and save yourself. He'll be back. You'll be sorry if you don't. Purple Monkey Dishwasher.

    He was re-imagined as being the son of God, the sky phantom who had created the earth, water, fire and air. The message of Christ thus became a fable, an exaggeration of his hippy philosophers message of love. But the exploitation didn't end there. While most used this new church to practice what they preached, an element within, which grew over time, came to understand how the growing popularity and globalization of it (see The Crusades), could be exploited to achieve such wonderful things as; subjugation, suffocating control, and dominance. The best way to look at the church in Ireland is that it is a Wolf in Sheeps clothing.

    While elements within the church will preach love, forgiveness, understanding and respect of each other under the love of 'God', there were other elements within who would exploit the idea of this God as a tool to scaremonger, intimidate and frighten. The whole organisation was based on suspension of disbelief. That a sky wizard had created everything, including us. The world was 6,000 years old. And that was that. If you had the intelligence to see it was all BS, you also had the intelligence to shut up about it too. Because when you're in a nest of vipers, you dare not move or make a sound. This inertness in society became normalized over time. A stifling, suffocating status quo was established. It was this inertness, submissiveness to the all ruling Church that resulted in such a scandal as the Tuam M&B homes.

    While many would clash openly with the elements in the church, they were in the minority. A defence mechanism was developed by the church. Anyone questioning it, asking pointed questions, demanding accountability was being tempted by the devil. This worked beautifully. The church and the authority it carried steadily became infallible in our country. Anyone openly questioning it risked social isolation. It became too much of a risk to toy with Excommunication, a serious consequence, a proverbial death sentence for many.

    The church in Ireland focused on children. They grasped control of the education system here. They got them young. The same negative elements recognized the enormous power and influence they could wield within such a framework. A coup of Irish hearts and minds. People who were inherently decent human beings, corrupted by a nefarious cult which was thoroughly enmeshed in society and our value system.

    Such was the power given to the Church by the early state, it attracted such people who were attracted to having power, who were heartless bullies, ambitious socipaths, sadistic bitches, malignant narcisists and power hungry and violent psychopaths. Those of such an otherwise perverted persuasion would exploit being a 'wolf in sheep's clothing' as cover for decades of horrific, endemic child sexual abuse, rape. They would intimidate, harass and belittle anyone, who would dare question them. Even from their own order. They would suppress criticism. The domineering church became normalized.

    The mother and babies homes were a product of all of this. Of exploitation, subjugation, dominance, control, manipulation, abuse, bullying, harassment. These women had babies. The most natural thing in the world. Absurd as it seems now, they did not have those babies within the framework society had been brainwashed into believing was the correct way. Not within a marriage, which was conducted in the eyes of holy God. 'God' needed to be witness to the marriage. A toxic dichotomy developed between 'pure' children, born under God, and 'unclean' babies, whose souls were corrupted by their mother, herself tempted by The Devil. Her covert punishment was deserved, she was a sinner, undeserving of care, help, love or support.

    Thrown to the wolves. Of Mercy. Of Charity.

    It was all as far away from the message of compassion that Christ had espoused and preached about as was possible.

    When I read opinions from clowns like Donahue, I only see the wolf in sheeps clothing. So let the wolves show up. And let them vindicate people like Catherine Corless.

    saul of tarsus reincarnated? "Blind unbelief is sure to err and scan His work in vain. God is His won interpreter and He will make it plain."

    Praying for thee.. As someone who owes literally her life to the direct intervention of God in Jesus. Please do not let the evil ones blind thee to truth and beauty


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    Well, my dears. I had a request late last night to work again on the book I abandoned when the abuse scandals first broke when I was first in Ireland. ( I Posted about that way back; on the Catholic Church in the early decades of the 21st century)

    Request came from an impeccable source who know my existing books .

    What I see here is an overbalance and a deep and wondrous caring. And tumult that time will alleviate and deepen.

    And which has freed me to work on this and to know how true my beliefs are.

    Blessings and peace to all

    oh and I am not RC Deeply grateful for that.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 177 ✭✭Dionysis


    222233 wrote: »
    Please, :( do not tell me there are genuinely people alive in Ireland today who could even ever possibly imagine, conceptualise, intend to or anyway try to defend anything to do with this situation. It is vile beyond belief, every single aspect of it from the point where those pregnant women were taken in there, to the point where they died or their babies died, to the manner in which they were "disposed" of. We show more dignity today for animals that are slaughtered.

    I honestly think this is the most gruesome thing I have learnt of throughout my lifetime.. I'm not sure if this is true but I heard on the radio today that allegedly if women did not have the capacity to work or be of "some use" they were sent to mental institutions? Does anyone know if this is true.

    I wouldn't even begin to defend the nuns, but who brought the pregnant women in there, why did they have to go there. The general populace of the time hold the vast majority of the blame here. It's akin to saying the German people are in no way responsible for the atrocities of WW2, it was Hitler's and his relatively few henchmen. He had to be empowered the same as the Catholic Church did. The people of this country are very quick to point the finger at others for our failings as a community. The same happened again regarding who was responsible for the financial collapse in 2008, yet everyone voted FF into power time and again between '97 and '10.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,687 ✭✭✭✭Penny Tration


    Graces7 wrote: »
    saul of tarsus reincarnated? "Blind unbelief is sure to err and scan His work in vain. God is His won interpreter and He will make it plain."

    Praying for thee.. As someone who owes literally her life to the direct intervention of God in Jesus. Please do not let the evil ones blind thee to truth and beauty

    Please stop trying to convert people in a thread about the atrocities committed by the RCC. it's vile and in extremely poor taste.


    You're entitled to your beliefs, as we're entitled to ours


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    Please stop trying to convert people in a thread about the atrocities committed by the RCC. it's vile and in extremely poor taste.


    You're entitled to your beliefs, as we're entitled to ours


    exactly so .. I have condemned the perps at every level but you need some balance. I am not to blame. And I am not by the way trying to convert anyone. Stating my beliefs. Intolerance ?

    You are stating your beliefs and I mine.

    PS I am not Roman Catholic. Please do not tar other Christians with that brush, Thank you sincerely.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,971 ✭✭✭laoch na mona


    The disgusting alliance of church and state and the readiness of respectable middle Ireland to look the other way is truly sickening.

    By all means blame the church but remember that the Communist party published articles about abuse in industrial schools in the 1930s, and that Peter Tyrrell was ignored when he tried to tell his story in the 1960s.

    While the church carried out the abuse they were aided and abetted by the state and 'respectable' people who didn't care what was done with the poor.

    While the church is on the way out the indifference towards the suffering of the worst off and most vulnerable sadly isn't


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,166 ✭✭✭✭whisky_galore


    800 SOCIAL OUTCASTS MOTHERS CHILDREN AND REJECTED BY SOCIETY WHY AND NO ONE CARED WHY THE WHERE LOWER SOCIAL CLASS AND THE POOREST . IRELAND IS ABOUT CLASS ITS LIKE INDIA FULL OF UPSTARTS TALKING OUT THERE CROOKED NOSES

    We cod ourselves thinking Ireland is somehow 'classless' in that we don't have a House of Lords or a Peerage.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,933 ✭✭✭smurgen


    Dionysis wrote: »
    I wouldn't even begin to defend the nuns, but who brought the pregnant women in there, why did they have to go there. The general populace of the time hold the vast majority of the blame here. It's akin to saying the German people are in no way responsible for the atrocities of WW2, it was Hitler's and his relatively few henchmen. He had to be empowered the same as the Catholic Church did. The people of this country are very quick to point the finger at others for our failings as a community. The same happened again regarding who was responsible for the financial collapse in 2008, yet everyone voted FF into power time and again between '97 and '10.

    Go away with that crap.the vast majority of the blame here?did everyone in the country know the realities,the actual physical details of what was being done to the children?did the priest let them know?and if not why didn't they let them know?lots of people are to blame but some are more to blame than others and that some are the religious orders.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,990 ✭✭✭nhunter100


    Dionysis wrote:
    And I'll do it because you said so?

    Do it because it'll educate you if nothing else.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭pilly


    gctest50 wrote: »
    Strange / dodgy bloke - believes he was destined to survive to torment someone






    qIK5SDj.jpg

    I'm surprised he wasn't elected!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭pilly


    Dionysis wrote: »
    And I'll do it because you said so?

    No, because you might come back with a more educated answer than a 12 year old.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,946 ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    ChikiChiki wrote: »
    What an absolute freakish person. :-/

    A good example of how brainwashed people are is my mother. She is afraid to miss mass on a Sunday yet doesn't believe in the afterlife. That generation I think suffered things that my generation (Im 29) will never fully understand.

    I do think that there is some form of Stockholm Syndrome going on - I see similar in my own relatives from time to time.

    In lots of ways I feel sorry for them - they had deep faith and were very devout in the way that Jesus taught. They put their trust in the Church and the abuse scandals have absolutely destroyed them and everything they believed in for years.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 724 ✭✭✭Hagar7


    What lies beneath?
    Hidden away beneath the Vatican for centuries,some items have been shown to the public and learners but some artifacts will never be revealed,what have they got to hide?

    https://cruxnow.com/church/2014/09/01/whats-hidden-in-the-vatican-archives/


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 724 ✭✭✭Hagar7


    If priests were a board game they'd be called Draughts,commit abuse,move here, move there,move anywhere you want, just don't say anything at all,what a sad existence.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,593 ✭✭✭Wheeliebin30


    The nuns were to blame.

    But as people say the church had brainwashed the public into thinking certain things were wrong.

    The way I see it the nuns were equally brainwashed.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭pilly


    Graces7 wrote: »
    They have shown love and caring all these years. And have made some peace

    But for them, who knpws but that houses would have been built over the graves
    Graces7 wrote: »
    Everyone always knew. But yes painful.
    Graces7 wrote: »
    No one has said they have found 800 bodies. There are 800 death certificates . One article mentioned concern re the playground andmorebodies under that.

    Incidentally those criticising Tuam residents? It was they who stopped the burial place being made into a playground, And can you imagine the situation there with all the reporters and cameras etc?

    I would certainly close my curtains and stay inside.

    Sorry but you're totally contradicting yourself all over the place here Grace.

    1. They have shown love and caring all these years but at the same time everybody knew??

    2. They stopped houses and a playground being built and yet there are concerns about more bodies being buried underneath both?

    3. If there are 800 death certs there are certainly 800 bodies. They haven't been found yet but they are somewhere, hopefully.

    And finally, close the curtains and stay in is exactly the attitude that was around back then.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,476 ✭✭✭neonsofa


    Neyite wrote: »
    I do think that there is some form of Stockholm Syndrome going on - I see similar in my own relatives from time to time.

    In lots of ways I feel sorry for them - they had deep faith and were very devout in the way that Jesus taught. They put their trust in the Church and the abuse scandals have absolutely destroyed them and everything they believed in for years.

    Exactly. It's very clear to see in my own mother. She resents the immense backlash and sees it as a personal attack so remains loyal and tries to downplay scandals or say "it should be left in the past" etc and it's not malice I don't think, it's blind loyalty and almost a fear that if they admit to it then it was all for nothing. Like they don't want to even show a glimmer of betrayal to the church so they strongly deny. I don't think they believe entirely what they are saying but they would rather absolute denial than risk admitting/partial blame and that being seen as a weakness or a proof that the church is corrupt in its entirety. It's a want to protect their church I think and it's out of fear rather than malice. Not that it makes it ok at all, but I think that's the reason.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,274 ✭✭✭Mr.Wemmick


    There are certainly different reactions/ ways of dealing with this news. For sure, it is like trauma to think all you personally believed in to be good wasn't at all - deeply affects many subjectively as a result. Those of us who are less affected by the RCC can make a clear objective accurate call for criminal action to happen. This really highlights the difficulty in Ireland, a country saturated in religious dogma meaning many can no longer see the wood from the trees..

    A crime is a crime is a crime. Fact. No escaping it.

    “Female is real, and it's sex, and femininity is unreal, and it's gender.

    For that to become the given identity of women is a profoundly disabling notion."

    — Germaine Greer



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,946 ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    Mr.Wemmick wrote: »
    There are certainly different reactions/ ways of dealing with this news. For sure, it is like trauma to think all you personally believed in to be good wasn't at all - deeply affects many subjectively as a result. Those of us who are less affected by the RCC can make a clear objective accurate call for criminal action to happen. This really highlights the difficulty in Ireland, a country saturated in religious dogma meaning many can no longer see the wood from the trees..

    A crime is a crime is a crime. Fact. No escaping it.

    The problem is that we know what was done was disgusting, immoral, wrong, unchristian and brutal (I could go on and on here!) We want someone to answer for this. But establishing what is actually a crime within a legal definition in this situation will be very difficult. It will be impossible to establish a cause of death. The death certificates in all 796 cases was signed off by a doctor and a housekeeper, not the nuns. Witnesses are few and far between, many dead or simply unwilling to talk. Nuns have clammed up. Diocese claim they knew nothing.

    What crimes could be alleged and what could be proven in a court of law by the DPP? And if they get that far, would there be anyone alive or fit to stand trial for it? I'm not holding my breath tbh.

    As much as I'd love to string up the people that did this, I think the best we can hope for is that the inquiry leaves no stone unturned, is far reaching, and victims and their families get as many of their questions answered as possible.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,274 ✭✭✭Mr.Wemmick


    Neyite wrote: »
    The problem is that we know what was done was disgusting, immoral, wrong, unchristian and brutal (I could go on and on here!) We want someone to answer for this. But establishing what is actually a crime within a legal definition in this situation will be very difficult. It will be impossible to establish a cause of death. The death certificates in all 796 cases was signed off by a doctor and a housekeeper, not the nuns. Witnesses are few and far between, many dead or simply unwilling to talk. Nuns have clammed up. Diocese claim they knew nothing.

    What crimes could be alleged and what could be proven in a court of law by the DPP? And if they get that far, would there be anyone alive or fit to stand trial for it? I'm not holding my breath tbh.

    As much as I'd love to string up the people that did this, I think the best we can hope for is that the inquiry leaves no stone unturned, is far reaching, and victims and their families get as many of their questions answered as possible.


    How many more enquiries are we going to have tho', how many more reports? Doesn't change the fact they get away with it and have failed to pay what they owe to victims and their families.

    It certainly needs to go go down the criminal road and the head/representative of the Nuns order should be held accountable, fully and completely. Malnutrition and starvation, avoidable diseases can be proven with thorough medical investigations. Then at least if they don't pay what they owe, their property can be seized/their power broken. It would be the turning in the road for lawful prosecutions against religious orders in this country. The law is the only way to make these changes now.

    The law of the land should have the power, not the religious orders/RCC.

    “Female is real, and it's sex, and femininity is unreal, and it's gender.

    For that to become the given identity of women is a profoundly disabling notion."

    — Germaine Greer



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,877 ✭✭✭take everything


    Watched Claire Byrne last night.
    Heartbreaking watching the list of names of babies who died there.
    What a pathetic little country we were (and still are).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,877 ✭✭✭take everything


    Neyite wrote: »
    I do think that there is some form of Stockholm Syndrome going on - I see similar in my own relatives from time to time.

    In lots of ways I feel sorry for them - they had deep faith and were very devout in the way that Jesus taught. They put their trust in the Church and the abuse scandals have absolutely destroyed them and everything they believed in for years.

    My mother is pretty much devout and I really feel for her when this **** happens.
    How can she reconcile her faith with this.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,457 ✭✭✭✭beauf


    I don't think the RCC is the sole guilty party in this. Irish society in general all had a part to play in this. Kids from these schools attended local schools. This was all over the country, Dublin etc. The families the mothers and kids came from were from all parts of the country.

    Irish society at large is culpable.

    Are we really more enlightened now when have current crisis in care homes, hospitals, housing. Where is our outrage about that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,457 ✭✭✭✭beauf


    Watched Claire Byrne last night.
    Heartbreaking watching the list of names of babies who died there.
    What a pathetic little country we were (and still are).

    I think it was important to link past events with current events as they did last night.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭pilly


    My mother is pretty much devout and I really feel for her when this **** happens.
    How can she reconcile her faith with this.

    I still have some faith left and the only way I can reconcile it is by believing in God and not the church.

    These acts were carried out by evil people full stop.

    It's very hard for older people though as they feel they still have to go to mass to show their faith.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 40,059 ✭✭✭✭Harry Palmr


    Is there scope for a class action against the Church and those who facilitated their deeds, or would that almost by definition mean suing just about everyone? Catholic Church, the state, doctors, and the general public?


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