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How long do you guys expect to wait before sex?

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  • Registered Users Posts: 13,623 ✭✭✭✭cj maxx


    The great outdoors. Every ****ing time. :D

    Its December !! Lying on a frozen lump of mucky ground ain't my idea of good sex !!


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,509 ✭✭✭Purgative


    paulbok wrote: »
    Till we get home, usually.


    Sure. Wouldn't want to get banned from Dunnes again.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,625 ✭✭✭Millionaire only not


    cjmc wrote: »
    Its December !! Lying on a frozen lump of mucky ground ain't my idea of good sex !!


    But summer is around the corner


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,394 ✭✭✭Pac1Man


    I shook hands with a woman once.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,777 ✭✭✭KathleenGrant


    cjmc wrote: »
    Its December !! Lying on a frozen lump of mucky ground ain't my idea of good sex !!

    Lying on the ground. :D Eh no!


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  • Registered Users Posts: 12,404 ✭✭✭✭mariaalice


    How are young people or even old people talking about this in 2019. I am amazed anyone gets together with anyone its sounds so convoluted and false and full of ego and pretense.


  • Registered Users Posts: 16,631 ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    mariaalice wrote: »
    How are young people or even old people talking about this in 2019. I am amazed anyone gets together with anyone its sounds so convoluted and fals and full of ego and pretense.

    I don't think this actually exists in real life, it happens when it happens.


  • Registered Users Posts: 13,623 ✭✭✭✭cj maxx


    But summer is around the corner

    True. I had an outdoor sex encounter in a November, in England . She was the instigator and really seemed to enjoy it , not the sex necessarily as it was Baltic :(
    But being out in the cold


  • Registered Users Posts: 991 ✭✭✭Notmything


    And colour me shocked....mr fegelin has a thread up about never having sex again. Must have had the chat with ILYV


  • Registered Users Posts: 16,123 ✭✭✭✭Loafing Oaf


    Pac1Man wrote: »
    I shook hands with a woman once.

    You still beat this guy

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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 784 ✭✭✭LaFuton


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  • Registered Users Posts: 15,176 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    listermint wrote: »
    Is sex not something for both of you to decide and want ?

    Mad concept altogether I know...


    In reality no. Because the guys i date want it earlier ...but are prepared to wait ..so in the end ..i end up deciding just because it takes me longer to be ready than them


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,176 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    LaFuton wrote: »
    IMG-20191208-210807.jpg


    This is my fav internet pic ....no matter what the words are ..i love it


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,176 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    Answering anything posted by the OP is bizarre.

    *except this :D

    DONT LET THE DOOR HIT YOU ON THE ASS AS YOU WALK OUT

    ACTUALLY NO LET IT HIT YOU!:mad:


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I feel the Hot crazy matrix would be particularly relevent in relation to the OP..



  • Registered Users Posts: 15,176 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    I feel the Hot crazy matrix would be particularly relevent in relation to the OP..



    I'm very hot ....and totally crazy. I pity any guy who dates me.

    Don't date me ....just be my mate ..im an awesome mate! :)

    I wouldn't want to be anyone but me though :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,310 ✭✭✭Quantum Erasure


    20Wheel wrote: »
    Most guys I know go by the 3 date rule.

    what happens at the end of the third date? you seem pretty into her, she says 'lets meet tomorrow night' .... ?


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,176 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    what happens at the end of the third date? you seem pretty into her, she says 'lets meet tomorrow night' .... ?
    In his HEAD ...he says no...i think i have wasted enough time ..

    In reality he says ..yes ...i would love to ...then has sex on around date 6 -8 like she planned from the beginning.

    Or he moves on to the next lady ...and the same thing happens ...and it goes on and on .


  • Posts: 17,378 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    In his HEAD ...he says no...i think i have wasted enough time ..

    In reality he says ..yes ...i would love to ...then has sex on around date 6 -8 like she planned from the beginning.

    Or he moves on to the next lady ...and the same thing happens ...and it goes on and on .

    What factors go into a 6-8 date plan, out of interest? If I am exceptionally handsome, can I get a bespoke plan more suitable to my needs? Is there an additional cost to such customisation of the relationship?


  • Registered Users Posts: 15,176 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    What factors go into a 6-8 date plan, out of interest? If I am exceptionally handsome, can I get a bespoke plan more suitable to my needs? Is there an additional cost to such customisation of the relationship?
    My love don't cost a thang ....;)

    Exceptionally handsome men must wait longer ..you guys have more options i have to be sure you are serious i have to penalize you!

    Hand jobs and fondling may be possible on date 5.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 15,176 ✭✭✭✭ILoveYourVibes


    Date 3 sex is like the worst most awkward sex ever tho...you would probably never see me again after date three sex .....and its unlikely i would sleep the night ...but hey you got sex!


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,363 ✭✭✭corner of hells


    Date 3 sex is like the worst most awkward sex ever tho...you would probably never see me again after date three sex .....and its unlikely i would sleep the night ...but hey you got sex!

    Vibes , did you let the dog in and willya stop hoggin' the duvet ?


  • Registered Users Posts: 930 ✭✭✭robertpatterson


    I've never understood the whole rule/make them wait thing.
    It all smacks of game playing imo, if it feels right at the time then go for it if it doesn't don't its really that simple
    If I was dating someone and they told me they had 'rules' I'd be out of there.
    Lifes too short for such BS
    Ive had relationships in the past where there has been sex on the first night and it hasn't impacted negatively on the relationship .


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 964 ✭✭✭Reviews and Books Galore


    In his HEAD ...he says no...i think i have wasted enough time ..

    In reality he says ..yes ...i would love to ...then has sex on around date 6 -8 like she planned from the beginning.

    Or he moves on to the next lady ...and the same thing happens ...and it goes on and on .


    Hmmmm, really?



    Eh, I guess it depends on the guy tbh. If the girl was cool, I'd probably hang around with her, but if she wasn't, I'd probably just politely disengage. Life's too short and time is finite imo.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 964 ✭✭✭Reviews and Books Galore


    My love don't cost a thang ....;)

    Exceptionally handsome men must wait longer ..you guys have more options i have to be sure you are serious i have to penalize you!

    Hand jobs and fondling may be possible on date 5.


    I am getting flashbacks I love Your Vibes :P


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,625 ✭✭✭Millionaire only not


    cjmc wrote: »
    True. I had an outdoor sex encounter in a November, in England . She was the instigator and really seemed to enjoy it , not the sex necessarily as it was Baltic :(
    But being out in the cold


    Outdoor is simply the best , I always get my female friends into it and once they get the taste of it , everywhere and anywhere !
    Always wondered what the lay-bys are used for on the dual carriageways ! - lol


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,045 ✭✭✭Mister Vain


    The fear of getting caught makes it more exciting. Even getting a handjob while driving up the motorway is great.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,777 ✭✭✭KathleenGrant


    The fear of getting caught makes it more exciting

    Agreed but it isn't so nice if almost caught. Happened me twice. Very close calls.


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,618 ✭✭✭Feisar


    I had one (what I intended to be) one night stand and he wanted a relationship. So if that's what worries you, it doesn't seem to be an issue for men. They'd be a bit hypocritical it was, but sure, double standards are not new.

    I would never have thought less of a woman for having sex with me the same night as meeting me. Why wouldn't they, I'm awesome!

    First they came for the socialists...



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  • Registered Users Posts: 6,618 ✭✭✭Feisar


    Outdoor is simply the best , I always get my female friends into it and once they get the taste of it , everywhere and anywhere !
    Always wondered what the lay-bys are used for on the dual carriageways ! - lol

    Used to have a GF like that, windy rainy day up around Sally Gap. She used to pull moves that'd make a Brazzer's model baulk so what's a lad to do?

    First they came for the socialists...



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