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What do you find attractive?
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I’m not looking but if I was...
I love confident, intelligent and opinionated men - if I can’t have a heated debate with him, there will be zero passion in the bedroom.
Accents - certain accents are a big turn on for me.
Rugged looking - I’m not attracted to men who are overly groomed.
I’m happy to do most DIY/Gardening projects myself but I love a man with a skill I haven’t got - ie: the ability to fix cars, wiring/plumbing and setting mouse traps
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Is that really what it's called or did you make that up?
:D:D
It's not a medical term so I wouldn't use it in an official capacity but yeah, that's what it's known as.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.urbandictionary.com/define.php%3fterm=DickRoot&=true0 -
Candyspain wrote: »The majority of women do not find their husband attractive. Only a small percentage of men are sexually attractive to women, say around 10% or so for argument's sake.
A study on OK Cuppid for example found that women find around 80% of men below averagein terms of attractiveness if I recall correctly. This makes sense evolutionarily, a woman's eggs are expensive, she should avoid wasting them on suboptimal men so the attraction mechanism in her head only gives her attraction for the top men. Most men for example would have sex with an average woman as sperm is cheap, most women would not have sex with an average man as eggs are expensive
This leaves women with a dilemma, if they want a family most women need to settle down with a man who they don't find sexually attractive. There is a reason there are so many memes based on sexless marriages, because there is a lot of truth to it that people can recognise. Even when there is sex in these marriages it is usually transactional in nature rather than out of genuine desire as the wife knows that she has to at least give her husband sex occasionally, even if that means boring routine sex.
The husband infers from his married sex life that his wife just isn't really into sex, the truth is she just isn't into sex with him
Little does he realise that there is a good chance his wife had genuine desire sex with desirable men in her younger, where she begged for her partner to cum on her ass/tits/face and fukc her in the ass. He couldn't fathom that as a possibility as he never gets to see her true sexual nature as it lies dormant within her. But it is a lot more likely than many husbands realise.
These husbands are often controlled in subtle ways by their wives, the wives use their sexual agency to control them. This is why the sex is transactional, they only get it if they are a good little boy and do what their told. As a result their wives lose respect for them which makes the husbands even more unappealing sexually.
Many of these huaband's believe that their wives wouldn't have casual sex as they were made to wait for months. Little do they know that it just takes the right man in the right place and they would have casual sex.
As a rule of thumb, if a woman makes you wait for sex it usually isn't worth the wait. Before a man has a monogomous relationship he should ensure that he can regularly have casual sex with attractive women so that he knows he has value sexually to women.
That's all for now folks, feel free to subscribe to my newsletter.
I don't know how you get through the day.0 -
Candyspain wrote: »The majority of women do not find their husband attractive. Only a small percentage of men are sexually attractive to women, say around 10% or so for argument's sake.
A study on OK Cuppid for example found that women find around 80% of men below averagein terms of attractiveness if I recall correctly. This makes sense evolutionarily, a woman's eggs are expensive, she should avoid wasting them on suboptimal men so the attraction mechanism in her head only gives her attraction for the top men. Most men for example would have sex with an average woman as sperm is cheap, most women would not have sex with an average man as eggs are expensive
This leaves women with a dilemma, if they want a family most women need to settle down with a man who they don't find sexually attractive. There is a reason there are so many memes based on sexless marriages, because there is a lot of truth to it that people can recognise. Even when there is sex in these marriages it is usually transactional in nature rather than out of genuine desire as the wife knows that she has to at least give her husband sex occasionally, even if that means boring routine sex.
The husband infers from his married sex life that his wife just isn't really into sex, the truth is she just isn't into sex with him
Little does he realise that there is a good chance his wife had genuine desire sex with desirable men in her younger days, or even while in their current relationship, where she begged for her partner to cum on her ass/tits/face and fukc her in the ass. He couldn't fathom that as a possibility as he never gets to see her true sexual nature as it lies dormant within her. But it is a lot more likely than many husbands realise.
These husbands are often controlled in subtle ways by their wives, the wives use their sexual agency to control them. This is why the sex is transactional, they only get it if they are a good little boy and do what their told. As a result their wives lose respect for them which makes the husbands even more unappealing sexually.
Many of these huaband's believe that their wives wouldn't have casual sex as they were made to wait for months. Little do they know that it just takes the right man in the right place and they would have casual sex.
As a rule of thumb, if a woman makes you wait for sex it usually isn't worth the wait. Before a man has a monogomous relationship he should ensure that he can regularly have casual sex with attractive women so that he knows he has value sexually to women.
That's all for now folks, feel free to subscribe to my newsletter.
You should either run for cover, or tone down the truth a little0 -
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Candyspain wrote: »It's only transactional for unattractive men, ie most husbands
Are you another poster that just wants to throw negative comments towards people, I'm afraid you won't get the reaction you're looking for.
Not at all. It's my genuine impression of you. I actually feel a bit sad for you, I suspect you're very lonely.
Happy new year though. 0 -
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Candyspain wrote: »Why do you feel the need to compulsively comment on what I post, I'm sure there are other things you could be doing if you aren't interested in genuine discussion.
The whole point of a discussion forum is to respond to one another. But since you seem to feel uncomfortable I'll leave you to it. Enjoy. 0 -
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