What do you find attractive?

ebbsy

I like snatch.

mvl

so often i think its my imagination's fault for being attracted to someone who is tall, creative, self taught; and very important, can talk more than I do (we're both foreign, so cultural differences constantly "enrich" our communication).

Faugheen

Tig ol' bitties.

Joking aside, I like someone who doesn't take themselves seriously. Someone who asks you about you rather than asking about themselves because it shows to me they're not self-centred.

I also like a nice smile. They can be infectious.

demanufactured

mvl wrote: »

so often i think its my imagination's fault for being attracted to someone who is tall, creative, self taught; and very important, can talk more than I do (we're both foreign, so cultural differences constantly "enrich" our communication).

You and AVB should hook up.

4068ac1elhodqr

A nice elbow triangle on a lady is great, ideally 45 degree angle, using only the left arm.
http://waterfordwhispersnews.com/2018/11/15/****-this-im-taking-back-control/

Careful not to use both arms, as visualy it's just too much all at once.

Larbre34

Humour. Properly funny women are sexy women, doesn't matter much what they look like physically. Any well known women i might find attractive are known more for their comedic writing or performance than hollywood good looks.

Other than that, women that might catch my eye in the real world tend to look very natural and highlight what God gave them rather than a plastic pastiche, confidentally curvy, dark hair, dark eyes. And I agree with others before, glasses are cute AF.

Autosport

For starters they should at least be Male

Sense of humour
Honesty
Doesn't take themselves too seriously
Easy going

Basically me

And none of this Ghosting crap.

ginandtonicsky

Eyes. Dark and brooding or light and twinkly. Noteworthy eyes, especially when staring at you intensely.

Good teeth, strong arms, infectious laugh, hint of aftershave, pokes fun at himself and a massive flirt. I'll probably fall for any guy that flirts with me hard.

Prominent_Dawg

The wrong men

Triceratops Ballet

ginandtonicsky wrote:

I'll probably fall for any guy that flirts with me hard.

Same! Can't beat a good flirt!

honeybear

Someone who is kind. Think a guy who is kind to animals is generally speaking a nice person.

Galwayguy35

Deleted User wrote: »

I'm impatient, selfish, a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.

I've lost count of the number of profiles I've seen that quoted on dating sites, to me it makes the person sound like a right drama queen.

completedit

can't flirt
slight build
a goof but not funny

I'm screwed tbh.

completedit

completedit wrote: »

can't flirt
slight build
a goof but not funny

I'm screwed tbh.

EH I think you're hilarious

Ariadne

I've learned that I just cannot stand arrogance or someone who is very tight with money.

Kindness, intelligence and also emotional intelligence are very important. Someone who is direct, I overanalyse too much to have someone be vague or play mind games with me.

A nice tattoo doesn't hurt, and green eyes.

Edited to say similar sense of humour to my own.

Paddy Cow

Succubus_ wrote: »

I've learned that I just cannot stand arrogance or someone who is very tight with money.

Kindness, intelligence and also emotional intelligence are very important. Someone who is direct, I overanalyse too much to have someone be vague or play mind games with me.

A nice tattoo doesn't hurt, and green eyes.

Money is one of the biggest issues in relationships. Someone who is tight or someone who spends excessively is a pain in the ar$e. There is a happy medium.

Dalomanakora

Aside from a pulse as I mentioned earlier -


Kindness.
Nice smile, or at least a frequent smile.
Honesty.
Someone who treats people in service or retail with respect.
Loyalty.
Dark hair.
Nice eyes.

BilboBagOfCans

Dalomanakora wrote: »

Someone who treats people in service or retail with respect

Is this common that people don't do this? I always see this listed but I have never been out with anyone who wasn't polite to service staff,maybe I've been lucky!

Dirtdrifter

Succubus_ wrote: »

I've learned that I just cannot stand arrogance or someone who is very tight with money.

Kindness, intelligence and also emotional intelligence are very important. Someone who is direct, I overanalyse too much to have someone be vague or play mind games with me.

A nice tattoo doesn't hurt, and green eyes.

If you overanalyze what happens when someone direct approaches you

I get chatted up a lot -not boasting, I'm usually still thinking of a reply a week later after the ship has sailed

Dalomanakora

BilboBagOfCans wrote: »

Is this common that people don't do this? I always see this listed but I have never been out with anyone who wasn't polite to service staff,maybe I've been lucky!

Without getting into the treatment I've experienced first hand in those industries, I've unfortunately met several people in my personal life who show utter disdain for retail workers.


Thankfully I know far, far more who treat them with respect, but it's a huge red flag for me if a guy I'm seeing doesn't.

Ariadne

Dirtdrifter wrote: »

If you overanalyze what happens when someone direct approaches you

I get chatted up a lot -not boasting, I'm usually still thinking of a reply a week later after the ship has sailed

Outside of a bar I don't pick up on someone flirting with me because I don't expect it to happen outside that setting. It'd be a week before I even realised never mind responded!

bfa1509

BilboBagOfCans wrote: »

Don't think I've seen a thread like this here but mods please move if not!
My friends and I were talking about those little things you notice which make someone go from meh to something a bit more interesting.

What does it for you?
As a woman, I can't resist broad shoulders and a guy who can drive really well ��

I work with a girl who doesn't wear makeup but she still looks gorgaeious. Body parts do nothing for me unless the face passes. The "downside" is that she keeps talking to me at work and I can never get a bloody thing done!

Just a question for the OP. What is it with broad shoulders?? I've heard this many times before. I like to think I have broad shoulders but never had a girl comment on or compliment them!

BilboBagOfCans

bfa1509 wrote: »

Just a question for the OP. What is it with broad shoulders?? I've heard this many times before. I like to think I have broad shoulders but never had a girl comment on or compliment them!

They are typically a manly feature, great for hugs

Badly Drunk Boy

myshirt wrote: »

They all look the same face down in the pillow.

I saw Les Dawson's daughter on telly recently where she showed the tattoo she had done of her father...gurning, on the nape of her neck.

How would you like this view?

mohawk

There is the usual stuff like shared sense of humour.
Love broad shoulders and strong arms.
Someone who has a sense of fun about them.
Someone not tight but not a spendthrift either.


My partner is very emotionally intelligent he is first guy I have dated who is and it is a seriously attractive trait.

In my younger days I would of said tall but my partner isn’t tall and I have never been this attracted to anyone ever. Who the person is matters most for me.

Triceratops Ballet

Succubus_ wrote:

Outside of a bar I don't pick up on someone flirting with me because I don't expect it to happen outside that setting. It'd be a week before I even realised never mind responded!

I don't think I ever flirt with men in bars, unless I already knew them in advance of going to the bar with them!

orourkeda1977

I have a real thing for girls who have a nice voice or a sexy accent (preferably both)

Provided they are not a complete mess I love girls who sound good.

BilboBagOfCans

orourkeda1977 wrote: »

I have a real thing for girls who have a nice voice or a sexy accent (preferably both)

Provided they are not a complete mess I love girls who sound good.

I love when men have a deep, almost base-y voice!

ZX7R

DrPhilG wrote: »

Surely you mean bite their bottom lip?



Sucking their bottom lip might look a bit rare!

Same thing either does it for me

padd b1975

Dark hair.

Red lips.

Doesn't wear trousers all the forking time.