Took my shot with the girl from work - now my head is spinning

JackTaylorFan

Pint of milk... wrote: »

This all seems like a windup, especially considering the original thread. But let's run with it for now...

OP, I thought the big night was planned for tonight (Saturday)?!

I'm leaning towards this explanation too

afkasurfjunkie

If she went to the guards and cried rape due to being drunk would you be so proud of yourself then op?

HONKEY TONK

I for one will look forward to the OP,s next thread titled

"I suspect my new girlfriend cheated on me"

Myself and most others will enjoy the following moment

"If you look closely you can actually pinpoint the exact moment his heart breaks in two.”

Tell me how

HONKEY TONK wrote:

I for one will look forward to the OP,s next thread titled

Nah. It'll be looking for legal advice after getting a clip which was totally unprovoked.

waffleman

There are mugs like the OP in every town - sniffin round other peoples partners then thinkin theyve won the lotto if anythin happens.

Even if they get a relationship out of it they still lose because when its all bills and nappies they are standin in corners of bars with big sour faces thinkin shes eyein up someone else all the time. What these dummies dont realise is that in the long run its always important how a relationship starts.

TomOnBoard

Tell me how wrote: »

Nah. It'll be looking for legal advice after getting a clip which was totally unprovoked.

Wont be a thread.. Unless he gets someone to type it up for him.. In which case: " How do I create threads on Boards with two broken arms?"

sexmag

Intentionally getting a girl drunk to sleep with her is rape, plain and simple.

I really hope she A, Calls the guards and B, finds these threads so they can be used against you in court.

I won't result to name calling but you are a see you next Tuesday

fiveleavesleft

Noticed you use the word "adult" quite a lot on boards. Any issue/disagreement you bluntly use it "be an adult", "like an adult". You did it again to the girl this morning when she was upset. Admonishing her to grow up, ditch her bf & come round yours for a bunk up. Curiously in your advice to her you were quick telling her "keep my name out of it!"

Isn't the point of adulthood responsibility. Yet you've dodged it twice. Honesty? pfft nah ply her full of drink instead then haughtily pass the responsibility onto her. Now encourage her to wreck her relationship but its "nothing to with me"!

Your one of these high nosers who scoff at others failings & foibles yet if you yourself have an issue you prefer to creep, skulk in the shadows plot, scheme & cause trouble.

A Pint of Goo

A couple of points to make having read over the responses so far.

The plan was to meet Saturday, that got changed to Friday. Secondly the idea that I am taking advantage is ridiculous. The 'plying' of alcohol I did was to buy her a shot to celebrate her new job. She is a woman in her mid twenties, not a child.

More importantly she finally got back to me. Said she really likes me and wants to make a go of it. Yes!

So now she has to tell the bf. She said she'll tell him what happened. I suggested she just say she's tired of the relationship but she wants to be honest.

Anyway I'm glad I went for it. It's going to be a good summer.

A Pint of Goo

sexmag wrote: »

Intentionally getting a girl drunk to sleep with her is rape, plain and simple.

I really hope she A, Calls the guards and B, finds these threads so they can be used against you in court.

I won't result to name calling but you are a see you next Tuesday

Such a puritanical attitude. By your logic half the male population of Ireland would be in jail.

Tell me how

A Pint of Goo wrote:

Anyway I'm glad I went for it. It's going to be a good summer.

Not for bf it isn't.

I've just checked Paddy Power. Odds ye ending the summer together are long.

Katgurl

He said they went out drinking, he didn't say he poured alcohol down her throat, he didn't say she was falling down drunk. He fancies her, he took his shot, he doesn't know the boyfriend.

OP is not the devil he is being painted as here.

However, she has been flirting, out drinking and now cheating with you. She's untrustworthy, needy, attention-seeking.

There is nothing you can do now except wait. And by her reaction she won't leave him because now she's got even more attention than she had before. If she does eventually leave him for you then you'll always be wondering what she's up to.

Btw, I'm speaking from experience. I was once (a long long time ago) that attentionention seeking tw@t. I ended up with neither of them.

If at all possible, forget about her.

A Pint of Goo

Katgurl wrote: »

He said they went out drinking, he didn't say he poured alcohol down her throat, he didn't say she was falling down drunk. He fancies her, he took his shot, he doesn't know the boyfriend.

OP is not the devil he is being painted as here.

I appreciate you saying that.

endacl

Were you not perma-banned a few days ago?

Sardonicat

A Pint of Goo wrote: »

So now she has to tell the bf. She said she'll tell him what happened. I suggested she just say she's tired of the relationship but she wants to be honest.

Anyway I'm glad I went for it. It's going to be a good summer.

Why did you suggest she not tell him about sleeping with you? Do you know the guy?

sexmag

A Pint of Goo wrote: »

Such a puritanical attitude. By your logic half the male population of Ireland would be in jail.

Most males don't premeditate their attempts to **** a girl they like by opening threads about it and then say theyll get her drunk.

Most woman are out drinking yes but you intentionally mentioned you were going to do it.

Well done for destroying a relationship (she's also not blameless) but you planned this out and that makes you worse.

Mike Myers as Austin powers wouldn't sleep with Liz Hurley as Vanessa Kensington because she was drunk and he was a down right sex deviant.

Says a lot about you and if she cheated on her by with you nothing will stop her cheating on you with another guy, well done you've got a keeper there

A Pint of Goo

Sardonicat wrote: »

Why did you suggest she not tell him about sleeping with you? Do you know the guy?

No, never met. I figure it's less painful for him if she lies.

waffleman

A Pint of Goo wrote: »

A couple of points to make having read over the responses so far.

The plan was to meet Saturday, that got changed to Friday. Secondly the idea that I am taking advantage is ridiculous. The 'plying' of alcohol I did was to buy her a shot to celebrate her new job. She is a woman in her mid twenties, not a child.

More importantly she finally got back to me. Said she really likes me and wants to make a go of it. Yes!

So now she has to tell the bf. She said she'll tell him what happened. I suggested she just say she's tired of the relationship but she wants to be honest.

Anyway I'm glad I went for it. It's going to be a good summer.

Post an update in this thread again in a year - long road ahead for you after the honeymoon period.

sexmag

A Pint of Goo wrote: »

No, never met. I figure it's less painful for him if she lies.

Why do you care about his pain? You F****d his gf

begbysback

This story sure does raise the fear an insecurities of some people on here.

Single guy takes a shot at a non-single girl because she has shown interest and the guy is the villain in this?

Fair play op - I wouldn't be of the opinion that anyone should be obliged to remain in a relationship if it's not the wishes of that person, man or woman - due to catholic influences throughout the years many marriages have gone on for much longer than they should have - hopefully that will change, though reading through this thread makes me think that the majority of people are still caught up in the ideal one partner for life.

lawred2

A Pint of Goo wrote: »

Original thread here https://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2057876222

Mods, I know there was problems with the last thread but I'm asking you to keep this one open, at least for a while anyway. Thanks.

So basically, I fell big time for a girl at work who is taken. My plan was to take her out, buy her a few drinks and then go in for a kiss. Well last night I put my plan into action and it worked. We spent an amazing night at my place, really one of the best things that's ever happened to me.

So this morning, as she's leaving, she gives me the saddest little smile I've even seen. I kiss her and tell her it'll be ok.

Later I message her to see how she is and she replied she hasn't stopped crying since she got home, she can't believe she cheated, she would never do this but for the alcohol (hmm). So I replied back she needs to be an adult about this and that I really like and she should leave her boyfriend (don't tell him about me) and come over to mine tonight. Her reply was she needs time to think.

So here I am going out of my mind with anxiety. I went out earlier and bought some wine just to take the edge off. Anyone got any advice on what I should do? Anything at all?

I hope she leaves you hanging

sexmag

begbysback wrote: »

Single guy takes a shot at a non-single girl because she has shown interest and the guy is the villain in this

It's not about religion its about respecting the fact someone is in a relantionship with someone else. They are with that person for a reason,if they didn't want too be with them then they wouldn't be.

Also this isn't about marriage but as you brought it up by that logic everyone is fair game in your opinion married or not.

Let's see how you feel if you're married for years , madly in love and some guy plows your wife with drink and then plows here. Not a nice feeling I'm betting

The Moldy Gowl

A Pint of Goo wrote: »

A couple of points to make having read over the responses so far.

The plan was to meet Saturday, that got changed to Friday. Secondly the idea that I am taking advantage is ridiculous. The 'plying' of alcohol I did was to buy her a shot to celebrate her new job. She is a woman in her mid twenties, not a child.

More importantly she finally got back to me. Said she really likes me and wants to make a go of it. Yes!

So now she has to tell the bf. She said she'll tell him what happened. I suggested she just say she's tired of the relationship but she wants to be honest.

Anyway I'm glad I went for it. It's going to be a good summer.

Thats all well and good but one of ye will eventually succumb to what ye did and how ye treated the other lad and will end it. Its not like you saved her from a prick of a boyfriend, yer relationship is off to the worst start.

It will most likely be her after the trill of a new man paying her attention wears off.

Sure update us in 2/3 months. Would be interesting to see what has gone on and how she deals with breaking the heart of the man she loved and turning his life upside down.


I was in your position before but i left her go because its not fair on anyone.

The Specialist

I sincerely hope her fella finds out and gives you the beating of your life, whatever about her but you absolutely deserve it. You are scum and you will hopefully find out very soon what happens when you weasel your way in between 2 people.

A Pint of Goo

The Specialist wrote: »

I sincerely hope her fella finds out and gives you the beating of your life, whatever about her but you absolutely deserve it. You are scum and you will hopefully find out very soon what happens when you weasel your way in between 2 people.

Well he should beat her so since she is the one who cheated.

Dtp1979

Katgurl wrote: »

she has been flirting, out drinking and now cheating with you. She's untrustworthy, needy, attention-seeking.

This says a lot about the type of woman she is. Looks like she’s a real prize OP.
Soon it’ll be your turn, when the next guy comes along to catch her eye.

The Specialist

A Pint of Goo wrote: »

Well he should beat her so since she is the one who cheated.

As I said whatever about her, but you have planned and pursued it as per your thread 6 days ago. You absolutely deserve it.

Says a lot about you as well saying he should beat her, now you've had your fun. You ****ing scumbag.

lawred2

A Pint of Goo wrote: »

Well he should beat her so since she is the one who cheated.

Lol

Your love for her is strong alright

Definitely a windup

theoldbreed

Just in case this isn't your idea of a wind up, because let's face it this whole situation is pathetic, seriously....here's some advice.

Your relationship with her will never work out. Ever. It might for a year, even two but ultimately ye will mess each other around again because you've proven you're extremely selfish. Your attitude is disgusting and if you believe that you won't reap what you sow you're deluded. I actually hope it does work out for you both. You deserve each other.

A Pint of Goo

The Specialist wrote: »

As I said whatever about her, but you have planned and pursued it as per your thread 6 days ago. You absolutely deserve it.

You won't be on your high horse if found yourself in my situation. Sometimes you have to put yourself first.