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Took my shot with the girl from work - now my head is spinning

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  • #52
    lawred2
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,505 ✭✭✭✭lawred2


    A Pint of Goo wrote: »
    Original thread here https://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2057876222

    Mods, I know there was problems with the last thread but I'm asking you to keep this one open, at least for a while anyway. Thanks.

    So basically, I fell big time for a girl at work who is taken. My plan was to take her out, buy her a few drinks and then go in for a kiss. Well last night I put my plan into action and it worked. We spent an amazing night at my place, really one of the best things that's ever happened to me.

    So this morning, as she's leaving, she gives me the saddest little smile I've even seen. I kiss her and tell her it'll be ok.

    Later I message her to see how she is and she replied she hasn't stopped crying since she got home, she can't believe she cheated, she would never do this but for the alcohol (hmm). So I replied back she needs to be an adult about this and that I really like and she should leave her boyfriend (don't tell him about me) and come over to mine tonight. Her reply was she needs time to think.

    So here I am going out of my mind with anxiety. I went out earlier and bought some wine just to take the edge off. Anyone got any advice on what I should do? Anything at all?

    I hope she leaves you hanging


  • #53
    sexmag
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,303 ✭✭✭sexmag


    begbysback wrote: »
    Single guy takes a shot at a non-single girl because she has shown interest and the guy is the villain in this

    It's not about religion its about respecting the fact someone is in a relantionship with someone else. They are with that person for a reason,if they didn't want too be with them then they wouldn't be.

    Also this isn't about marriage but as you brought it up by that logic everyone is fair game in your opinion married or not.

    Let's see how you feel if you're married for years , madly in love and some guy plows your wife with drink and then plows here. Not a nice feeling I'm betting


  • #54
    The Moldy Gowl
    Closed Accounts Posts: 19,889 ✭✭✭✭The Moldy Gowl


    A Pint of Goo wrote: »
    A couple of points to make having read over the responses so far.

    The plan was to meet Saturday, that got changed to Friday. Secondly the idea that I am taking advantage is ridiculous. The 'plying' of alcohol I did was to buy her a shot to celebrate her new job. She is a woman in her mid twenties, not a child.

    More importantly she finally got back to me. Said she really likes me and wants to make a go of it. Yes!

    So now she has to tell the bf. She said she'll tell him what happened. I suggested she just say she's tired of the relationship but she wants to be honest.

    Anyway I'm glad I went for it. It's going to be a good summer.

    Thats all well and good but one of ye will eventually succumb to what ye did and how ye treated the other lad and will end it. Its not like you saved her from a prick of a boyfriend, yer relationship is off to the worst start.

    It will most likely be her after the trill of a new man paying her attention wears off.

    Sure update us in 2/3 months. Would be interesting to see what has gone on and how she deals with breaking the heart of the man she loved and turning his life upside down.


    I was in your position before but i left her go because its not fair on anyone.


  • #55
    The Specialist
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,539 ✭✭✭The Specialist


    I sincerely hope her fella finds out and gives you the beating of your life, whatever about her but you absolutely deserve it. You are scum and you will hopefully find out very soon what happens when you weasel your way in between 2 people.


  • #56
    A Pint of Goo
    Site Banned Posts: 218 ✭✭A Pint of Goo


    The Specialist wrote: »
    I sincerely hope her fella finds out and gives you the beating of your life, whatever about her but you absolutely deserve it. You are scum and you will hopefully find out very soon what happens when you weasel your way in between 2 people.

    Well he should beat her so since she is the one who cheated.


  • #57
    Dtp1979
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,861 ✭✭✭✭Dtp1979


    Katgurl wrote: »
    she has been flirting, out drinking and now cheating with you. She's untrustworthy, needy, attention-seeking.

    This says a lot about the type of woman she is. Looks like she’s a real prize OP.
    Soon it’ll be your turn, when the next guy comes along to catch her eye.


  • #58
    The Specialist
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,539 ✭✭✭The Specialist


    A Pint of Goo wrote: »
    Well he should beat her so since she is the one who cheated.

    As I said whatever about her, but you have planned and pursued it as per your thread 6 days ago. You absolutely deserve it.

    Says a lot about you as well saying he should beat her, now you've had your fun. You ****ing scumbag.


  • #59
    lawred2
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,505 ✭✭✭✭lawred2


    A Pint of Goo wrote: »
    Well he should beat her so since she is the one who cheated.

    Lol

    Your love for her is strong alright

    Definitely a windup


  • #60
    theoldbreed
    Registered Users Posts: 405 ✭✭theoldbreed


    Just in case this isn't your idea of a wind up, because let's face it this whole situation is pathetic, seriously....here's some advice.

    Your relationship with her will never work out. Ever. It might for a year, even two but ultimately ye will mess each other around again because you've proven you're extremely selfish. Your attitude is disgusting and if you believe that you won't reap what you sow you're deluded. I actually hope it does work out for you both. You deserve each other.


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  • #61
    A Pint of Goo
    Site Banned Posts: 218 ✭✭A Pint of Goo


    The Specialist wrote: »
    As I said whatever about her, but you have planned and pursued it as per your thread 6 days ago. You absolutely deserve it.

    You won't be on your high horse if found yourself in my situation. Sometimes you have to put yourself first.


  • #62
    sexmag
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,303 ✭✭✭sexmag


    A Pint of Goo wrote: »
    Well he should beat her so since she is the one who cheated.

    She deserves to be dumped for sure but you prelanned and intentionally slept with a person in a relationship to break up said relationship.

    You're the villain for sure and she is only saying she wants to be with you because she's afraid to be alone after being in a relationship

    This is doomed to fail man


  • #63
    Big Bag of Chips
    Administrators Posts: 14,690 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Big Bag of Chips


    As you don't seem to be looking for any advice, and you 2 seem to have come to an agreement, there's no point in letting the thread run.

    All the best.


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