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What do you think is equal sex?

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  • 05-05-2017 3:09pm
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    midlandsmissus
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,838 ✭✭✭


    Is sex, where the man orgasms, and doesn´t attempt to make the woman orgasm: Abusive sex?


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    Winterlong
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,759 ✭✭✭Winterlong


    Selfish -perhaps, crap in bed -definitely, but not abusive.


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    Digital Solitude
    Registered Users Posts: 11,397 ✭✭✭✭Digital Solitude


    Abusive?

    Selfish lover more like, you'd be making quite a stretch to call it abusive.


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    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 21,679 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Ah now. How do you see that as being abusive? He might not be the most attentive lover but hardly warrants being deemed abusive.


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    #5
    Irish Guitarist
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,736 ✭✭✭Irish Guitarist


    That's very abusive. Typical of cis males and rape culture.


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    #6
    greencap
    Registered Users Posts: 2,102 ✭✭✭greencap


    Its like a science lab in the dark down there. Pure luck.

    Make it equally easy and you get equal results.

    discussion/2058195983/russia-threadbanned-users-in-op/p3135

    😁



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    RobertKK
    Registered Users Posts: 33,730 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    Not with a prostitute.


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    Hector Bellend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,667 ✭✭✭Hector Bellend


    You cant beat a good ride


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    brevity
    Registered Users Posts: 8,500 ✭✭✭brevity


    What do you think OP? Could you give an reasoning why you think it might be abusive?


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    osarusan
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    Sex dolls can't orgasm. I've tried.


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    uch
    Registered Users Posts: 7,008 ✭✭✭uch


    As an ould lad I used to work with used to say "I don't Care, I always Cum"

    21/25



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    kunst nugget
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    Kate asked me to bring her to orgasm after I had finished but I replied "I'm eating my breakfast Kate".


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    #13
    flutered
    Registered Users Posts: 6,672 ✭✭✭flutered


    equal sex, that has to be taking turns on who is on top


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    #14
    [Deleted User]
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    midlandsmissus wrote: »
    Is sex, where the man orgasms, and doesn´t attempt to make the woman orgasm: Abusive sex?

    No. It's a race with one prize. Not everyone gets a finishers medal.

    What else do you expect someone to answer to that? Seriously. No.

    The notions and bitterness are strong with this one.


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    ancapailldorcha
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 37,548 CMod ✭✭✭✭ancapailldorcha


    midlandsmissus wrote: »
    Is sex, where the man orgasms, and doesn´t attempt to make the woman orgasm: Abusive sex?

    Of course not. Stop trying to invent forms of abuse. There are already plenty of real problems that need solving without internet feminists adding their pet hates to the mix.

    We sat again for an hour and a half discussing maps and figures and always getting back to that most damnable creation of the perverted ingenuity of man - the County of Tyrone.

    H. H. Asquith



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    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 26,052 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    midlandsmissus wrote: »
    Is sex, where the man orgasms, and doesn´t attempt to make the woman orgasm: Abusive sex?

    I've never claimed to be abused by a restaurant because I didn't enjoy the meal.

    One sided =/= abusive.


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    One eyed Jack
    Registered Users Posts: 23,695 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    midlandsmissus wrote: »
    Is sex, where the man orgasms, and doesn´t attempt to make the woman orgasm: Abusive sex?


    That's a different question to the question you ask in the thread title!


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    RobertKK
    Registered Users Posts: 33,730 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    The song for this thread



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    #19
    andekwarhola
    Registered Users Posts: 4,638 ✭✭✭andekwarhola


    That's some grudge you've got there.


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    #20
    kunst nugget
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    Is it abusive sex if I pull out before I come and squirt it in her eye?


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    #21
    gerrybbadd
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    A buddy of mine used to say if he came first and the girl complained, he would tell her "you had the same chance I had"


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    Hector Bellend
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    She can have an orgasm if she wants.

    It will involve me sticking golf balls up her anus though


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    kfallon
    Registered Users Posts: 25,775 ✭✭✭✭kfallon


    midlandsmissus wrote: »
    Is sex, where the man orgasms, and doesn?t attempt to make the woman orgasm: Abusive sex?

    For the love of f?cking Jaysus! No wonder I'm getting more & more sick of this place!

    Abusive me f?cking hole, Christ on a bike!


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    [Deleted User]
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    midlandsmissus wrote: »
    Is sex, where the man orgasms, and doesn´t attempt to make the woman orgasm: Abusive sex?

    In all seriousness, if someone consistently shows no interest in your satisfaction and you've made the point repeatedly to them and taken steps to help yourself, find someone else.

    Big difference between self-centredness and abuse. You belittle abuse by conflating the two.


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    kunst nugget
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    gerrybbadd wrote: »
    A buddy of mine used to say if he came first and the girl complained, he would tell her "you had the same chance I had"

    Tis a pity his combination of microscopic penis and persistent premature ejaculation meant the women hadn't even realised he'd finished when they were waiting for him to start.


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    Hector Bellend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,667 ✭✭✭Hector Bellend


    kfallon wrote: »
    For the love of f?cking Jaysus! No wonder I'm getting more & more sick of this place!

    Abusive me f?cking hole, Christ on a bike!

    I bet he had an orgasm


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    kunst nugget
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,375 ✭✭✭✭kunst nugget


    Hector Bellend wrote: »
    I bet he had an orgasm

    Well, he was laid in the tomb…


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    [Deleted User]
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    kunst nugget wrote: »
    Well, he was laid in the tomb…

    :pac:


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    drunkmonkey
    Registered Users Posts: 28,119 ✭✭✭✭drunkmonkey


    midlandsmissus wrote: »
    Is sex, where the man orgasms, and doesn´t attempt to make the woman orgasm: Abusive sex?

    ztjym.jpg


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    givyjoe
    Registered Users Posts: 3,287 ✭✭✭givyjoe


    ancapailldorcha wrote: »
    Of course not. Stop trying to invent forms of abuse. There are already plenty of real problems that need solving without internet feminists adding their pet hates to the mix.

    This poster has a particular knack for it in their posts.


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    #31
    [Deleted User]
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    kunst nugget wrote: »
    Well, he was laid in the tomb…

    Yeah, but it took him 3 days to rise again. Imagine the OP's disappointment with that kind of poor performance.


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