Its something wrong if i am to servile to females?

crisdublin6

Hi my question sounds litlle weird but its real,whats your opinion?im 30 im male and some males friends told me im to servile to women,but its something wrong?

biko

My opinion is that Carthage must be destroyed

Gavlor

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Servile

Just to save everybody else the hassle.

jungleman

it would be worse if you were too Saville towards females.

syklops

Had to google servile. I thought it was a typo for "so vile". Turns out its the opposite.

Are these same friends of the "Treat em mean, keep em keen" variety, by any chance?

ihavenoname3

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WsnXQdkqChg

crisdublin6

not slave!!!!!too servile,too obey i meant!!!

Mesrine65

crisdublin6 wrote: »

Hi my question sounds litlle weird but its real,whats your opinion?im 30 im male and some males friends told me im to servile to women,but its something wrong?

http://dublin.backpage.com/Domination/punishment-room-for-naughty-boys-are-you-ready-now-portobello/3510376 :eek:

Dimithy

Gavlor wrote: »

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Servile

Just to save everybody else the hassle.

No, Im pretty sure he meant this:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serval

Any woman who wants to turn you into a medium-sized African wild cat is not worth it.

crisdublin6

no cat!!!no slave!!! just i meant be too kind,too polite etc

osarusan

Serve oil to females?

You dirty dawg.

somefeen

Put them on a pedestal. They love that

LDN_Irish

That's bull**** and racist man. You can't help it if you're too much from Seville. Tell them to feck off.

crisdublin6

i meant too

Mesrine65

biko wrote: »

to and too doesn't mean the same thing.

http://www.reshareit.com/wp-content/uploads/I-must-correct-you-anyway.jpg

Dimithy

crisdublin6 wrote: »

no cat!!!no slave!!! just i meant be too kind,too polite etc

There's you problem. If you got a slave, no one would ever say you were too kind, or polite.

crisdublin6

its diffrent between slave and be too kind or too polite

somefeen

How are you too polite? Do you grovel at their feet?

crisdublin6

for example,at work my female friends broke glass and i came to her and i told her i clean that instead you or...at home my homemate invite friend and ask me can i come for coffee and cake coz was missing in house,and genty i went....that kind of polite,kindness

looksee

The word comes from the word slave (via latin), and presumably service comes from the same definition. Whatever turns you on OP it could be worse! (Dislaimer: am female, could be biased)

Samaris

Tell 'em to eff off.

The commenters, that is, not the women.

Although if you want you can always tell them to eff off too.


Sounds like you're just being a nice guy. If you get on well with women, have female friends, you're apparently acting like a human they enjoy being around.

Menas

Nah, you are just walkover. Some people like that trait in others.

mikom

crisdublin6 wrote: »

for example,at work my female friends broke glass and i came to her and i told her i clean that instead you or...at home my homemate invite friend and ask me can i come for coffee and cake coz was missing in house,and genty i went....that kind of polite,kindness

Ah, you sound decent.

I presume you had some "dick for brains" tell you to you to "treat a whore like a lady and a lady like a whore".
There is always some dapper laughs type tool advising everyone while he himself is just a walking character flaw.

Dimithy

crisdublin6 wrote: »

for example,at work my female friends broke glass and i came to her and i told her i clean that instead you or...at home my homemate invite friend and ask me can i come for coffee and cake coz was missing in house,and genty i went....that kind of polite,kindness

Would you do the same for your male friends? If the answer is yes, then you're just an awesome guy. I'm suspecting the answer is no.

crisdublin6

goos suspect...i would say no....

somefeen

crisdublin6 wrote: »

for example,at work my female friends broke glass and i came to her and i told her i clean that instead you or...at home my homemate invite friend and ask me can i come for coffee and cake coz was missing in house,and genty i went....that kind of polite,kindness

Why did you feel you had to clean it up for her?

Dimithy

crisdublin6 wrote: »

goos suspect...i would say no....

Why?

crisdublin6

why i felt to clean.....just was my reactions,just wanted be kind thats all...

crisdublin6

somefen i dont know why

Sir Osis of Liver.

Do you wear a Gimp suit while you're being servile to the ladies?

Buona Fortuna

crisdublin6 wrote: »

why i felt to clean.....just was my reactions,just wanted be kind thats all...

Did you think - if I clean this for you, maybe you'll let me ride you?

If so its no problem, just sounds a bit like being married.

crisdublin6

no!!!

biko

Being serval with the ladies

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yd0zqD3FYlA

LETHAL LADY

Sometimes I think is this dress too sexy for my sister.

NachoBusiness

'Yes' if don't want to be.. but 'No' if you do.

DeadHand

Well, if you're going to have personality flaws I suppose being too polite and too kind aren't the worst you could possibly have.

Having said that, people need to clean up their own messes. I mean help, sure, but don't take full responsibility- she is an adult after all. She is worse for wandering off and letting you at it.

If your excessive selflessness extends only to women it is probable that, consciously or not, you are only behaving that way in the vague hope of sex.

Are you also "servile" toward children, men, old people and women you do not find attractive?

Colser

crisdublin6 wrote: »

why i felt to clean.....just was my reactions,just wanted be kind thats all...

Considering sending a pm but is this too good to be true...Id love some niceness and kindness:pac:

crisdublin6

what you consider?

Greenmachine

Mesrine65 wrote: »

http://dublin.backpage.com/Domination/punishment-room-for-naughty-boys-are-you-ready-now-portobello/3510376 :eek:

Damn you clicked that without thinking. Delete, Delete, before she she it and thinks I'm straying.

crisdublin6

if you are woman and i would have time i think yes i would do,but what exacly i would to do in your house?

Colser

Moontitan wrote: »

So you just want to be kind, will you clean my house for me, that would be very kind. If not can you explain why not?

Get in the queue:D

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1

crisdublin6 wrote: »

if you are woman and i would have time i think yes i would do,but what exacly i would to do in your house?

cris, this is no dating site.

But I think you know that

OneOfThem

You've posted about this before Cris? The context is you can't get a ride and you're wondering if this behaviour of yours is a contributing factor?

The answer is yes. If you consitently behave in a way that suggests you are beneath someome, like cleaning up a mess they have made etc, those people will probably see you as beneath them. And women don't want to ride guys they think are beneath them.

crisdublin6

coz i say so...im too kind too polite for females...

Colser

OneOfThem wrote: »

You've posted about this before Cris? The context is you can't get a ride and you're wondering if this behaviour of yours is a contributing factor?

The answer is yes. If you consitently behave in a way that suggests you are beneath someome, like cleaning up a mess they have made etc, those people will probably see you as beneath them. And women don't want to ride guys they think are beneath them.

Dont we?;)

crisdublin6

Colser wrote: »

Dont we?;)

you need ask females

Dial Hard

Anyone else wondering how you gently go for coffee and cake?

crisdublin6

everyone knows im male,but you,who responded,who you are?cos nick say nothing about your sex

mikom

mikom wrote: »

Ah, you sound decent.

I presume you had some "dick for brains" tell you to you to "treat a whore like a lady and a lady like a whore".
There is always some dapper laughs type tool advising everyone while he himself is just a walking character flaw.

Enter stage left.......

Moontitan wrote: »

If you want women to fancy you, you need to behave as though you are the prize, so if they want the chance of sleeping with you they need impress you and win you over. Even if a woman does agree to be your girlfriend she won't fancy you with your supplication. She will give you the bare minimum sex so you stick around as her personal butler. The best dirty talk you will get out of her is "hurry up and get this over with".

crisdublin6

Dial Hard wrote: »

Anyone else wondering how you gently go for coffee and cake?

it was example,for me its ok to do that but if you think its wrong or something its your opinion.

c_man

Stand up for yourself man for gods sake. People will walk all over a doormat.




I suggest joining a motorcycle gang.