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Boyfriend won't stay over.

bones123 · 2015-05-25 00:18:51

I'm currently in a relationship for the last year and a half with a lovely guy. However there's a major stumbling block for me, he refuses to stay over with me, we might hang out all evening and nap together etc, but he'll then get up and go home. This is regardless of the time, it could be 3 am and he'll still get up and…

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#122 28-05-2015 8:40pm
kylith

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Matteroffact wrote: »

I know he has said the problem lies with you living with a previous b/f but that excuse doesn't make sense at all. I believe he doesn't want to admit that he doesn't feel comfortable not going home at night to his own house because his parents would be asking questions. It doesn't matter how old he is, that's the reason as far as I can see. He won't admit it though for fear of looking like a wimp, so don't expect him to. He also would not feel comfortable getting up in the morning and facing your flatmates and their b/fs. That's just the way it is. I would not be getting rid of him just because he doesn't want to sleep over in your place either, I really think that is ott. However, this is just my opinion.

If that's true he's tried to avoid looking like a wimp by making himself look like an arsehole.

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