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Just be honest with yourself. You're not a Catholic. That's ok.

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  • Registered Users Posts: 7,955 ✭✭✭_Whimsical_


    Akrasia wrote: »
    The question on the form was worded very poorly

    It asked 'What is your religion?' and then followed it with boxes to tick, and then at the very end it had 'no religion' box

    Census-Extract.gif

    What the questions should have said was

    1. Do you practice a religion?
    2. If yes, what is your religion?

    A simple change like that would have made the information much more trustworthy

    I'm inclined to agree with you here but then I can't help thinking from the result that for a majority of people it must not be as simple as whether they attend mass weekly or adhere to every obligatory practice. If it's something else like living by the central tenants or values or an appreciation of teachings and traditions then maybe they still want that reflected in their society and want that voice heard in debate.

    It's a strange one. At first I thought it was crazy and obviously inaccurate but then I had to think there's no other similarly large majority that I'd dismiss. Even in parsing it out by asking more detailed questions as you suggest I can't help thinking there's a chance we'd be overlooking something significant by bypassing it and ignoring it completely.


  • Registered Users Posts: 919 ✭✭✭Danjamin1


    What the OP proposed doesn't really infringe on anyone else's beliefs, people are entitled to believe what they like. All that's asked is that people actually think before they blindly state that they are Catholic. I've mentioned I'm going to get married in a Catholic ceremony despite not considering myself Catholic because this doesn't hurt anyone, I won't baptise any children I may have as it is something that should be a personal choice which I don't feel comfortable making for someone else.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,191 ✭✭✭Eugene Norman


    Macavity. wrote: »
    It seems like any criticism of faith in any possible way (however reasonable) will have you labeled as "one of those damn atheists" or in some cases an "islamophobe".

    ITT: Freedom of Speech 0. Semantics 1.

    :(

    Are you confusing debate with lack of free speech?.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,030 ✭✭✭Lau2976


    Zamboni wrote: »
    There are also statistics showing that over 30% of couples did not get married in a church in Ireland last year. Life will be difficult for them when they have children as the majority of state funded schools are allowed to refuse children without baptism certs.

    My experience has nearly always been that couples who don't get married in a church still have a christening, it is very much a cultural thing.


  • Registered Users Posts: 355 ✭✭WeHaveToGoBack


    Knex. wrote: »
    Does anyone really believe in that[transubstantiation], though? Genuine question.

    Even as a kid, back when I still had faith, that bit never stuck with me.


    No, which is exactly why they shouldn't be considered Catholics.

    And if they do believe it, then they should be dropped off at the nearest mental hospital, after a test is carried out on said "body of Christ" which I'm pretty sure will prove it is not flesh.


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  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 9,453 Mod ✭✭✭✭Shenshen


    Except, I gave the example of an Irish person naturalised elsewhere.

    He lives in Canada, his wife is a Canadian, they sew maple leaves on their backpacks and they're crazy about ice hockey. Ireland is a now pretty irrelevant to his life, nor does he consider himself Irish in any meaningful way, but it is somewhere he has fond memories about, and that upbringing has positively shaped his life.

    I don't see why it should matter to anybody but him. Imagine he ticked 'Irish' on the Canadian census. Imagine yourself getting worked up about that. Imagine how pathetic that would be.

    I'm not getting worked up, it doesn't affect me at all. I don't have children and don't think I ever will.

    But I've met a number of actual Catholics who got rather upset by it, and people in this thread have voiced the same opinion. And I would agree with them, it's a rather impolite thing and disrespectful to believers.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,070 ✭✭✭✭pq0n1ct4ve8zf5


    Are you confusing debate with lack of free speech?.

    Are you confusing "debate" with:

    "People should consider the implications of identifying as Catholic, especially when they're not practicing"

    "ATHEISTS ARE SO ANNOYING I AM SO A CATHOLIC SHUT UP"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,191 ✭✭✭Eugene Norman


    Are you confusing "debate" with:

    "People should consider the implications of identifying as Catholic, especially when they're not practicing"

    "ATHEISTS ARE SO ANNOYING I AM SO A CATHOLIC SHUT UP"

    What i see is the exact opposite of course.

    HOW DARE PEOPLE SIGN FORMS IN A WAY I DISAGREE WITH.

    and

    We'll sign them how we please, if we consider ourselves cultural catholics, so be it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,191 ✭✭✭Eugene Norman


    Shenshen wrote: »
    I'm not getting worked up, it doesn't affect me at all. I don't have children and don't think I ever will.

    But I've met a number of actual Catholics who got rather upset by it, and people in this thread have voiced the same opinion. And I would agree with them, it's a rather impolite thing and disrespectful to believers.

    Can somebody link to an actual upset Catholic in this thread? Someone who says

    "I am a believer, and I don't like the cultural Catholics" rather than
    "I am an atheist and I don't like the cultural Catholics".


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,070 ✭✭✭✭pq0n1ct4ve8zf5


    What i see is the exact opposite of course.

    HOW DARE PEOPLE SIGN FORMS IN A WAY I DISAGREE WITH.

    and

    We'll sign them how we please, if we consider ourselves cultural catholics, so be it.

    Well it's probably fairest to say the truth lies somewhere between our respective interpretations of the thread, tbh :pac:


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  • Posts: 13,712 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Catholicism=Republicanism (or at least=not-Unionism), which is another very important part of a lot of people's identities.
    Somewhere in Paradise, Tone, Emmet, Markiewicz, Hobson, Casement, Childers, Ernest Blythe, Capt White and Sean O'Casey just vomited.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,197 ✭✭✭Eutow


    Can somebody link to an actual upset Catholic in this thread? Someone who says

    "I am a believer, and I don't like the cultural Catholics" rather than
    "I am an atheist and I don't like the cultural Catholics".


    Here you go, quite simple when you read.
    lukesmom wrote: »
    I totally agree with the op. I can't understand why people go along with the Catholic traditions like church weddings/baptism when they never step foot inside a church otherwise. What's the point????? I go to mass weekly and that is my own perogitive and beliefs but thousands pretend they are Catholics just to get the kids into schools and to please parents/in laws when getting married. Worse still having your little girl/boy make their communion when they receive no religious teachings outside of the home I.e going to mass etc, just so little Mary can dress up like her friends and not be left out. Sigh


  • Registered Users Posts: 594 ✭✭✭The_Pretender


    Can somebody link to an actual upset Catholic in this thread? Someone who says

    "I am a believer, and I don't like the cultural Catholics" rather than
    "I am an atheist and I don't like the cultural Catholics".

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=95016923&postcount=179

    This post right here.

    EDIT: Eutow got in just before me :o


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,070 ✭✭✭✭pq0n1ct4ve8zf5


    Somewhere in Paradise, Tone, Emmet, Markiewicz, Hobson, Casement, Childers, Ernest Blythe, Capt White and Sean O'Casey just vomited.

    I know, but it was a pretty successful PR job that deValera and co managed. I'm talking about how people feel about their Catholic identities. At least in the North and border counties, and in a few pockets of the Republic, it's a highly politicised thing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,113 ✭✭✭shruikan2553


    What i see is the exact opposite of course.

    HOW DARE PEOPLE SIGN FORMS IN A WAY I DISAGREE WITH.

    and

    We'll sign them how we please, if we consider ourselves cultural catholics, so be it.


    Yeah...

    Precisely because it annoys the new atheist I'll stick to calling myself Catholic although I haven't believed since I was 8.

    And this is what you call "debate"


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,305 ✭✭✭Zamboni


    Lau2976 wrote: »
    My experience has nearly always been that couples who don't get married in a church still have a christening, it is very much a cultural thing.

    It's a fear of no school place thing.
    I know couples who have no real belief in Catholicism or god and reluctantly baptise their children for a state funded school place. This is so sad :(
    I feel so sorry for the obviously frustrated priests during these ceremonies. They know that the participants have no commitment to the church. The attendees have no idea of etiquette, times to stand, kneel, or sit and don't know the variety of responses psalms or prayers.
    We are all being let down by this. Christians and non-Christians alike.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,633 ✭✭✭wench


    Macy0161 wrote: »
    The CSO (maybe again due to the influence or perceived influence of the Church) have been pretty slow to address this imo. The tick box religion question is a pretty meaningless stat, given the way church attendances have been going. It'll be disappointing it they don't address this with some question about practicing a faith. (e.g. how many times outside of family ceremonies/ school, have each in the household attended mass/ prayer service/ service of worship).

    The CSO worship at the altar of the Almighty Time Series.

    Changing the question would break the link to previous answers, and that is something they are loath to do.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,957 ✭✭✭Magenta


    Polo_Mint wrote: »
    Would I tick a box saying im Catholic - Yes, See Above
    Polo_Mint wrote: »
    If people selected their religion later on in life come tomorrow, in the next 20 years I believe you would have 100s of thousands of people with no religious beliefs and not registered to any religion.

    And....? So what?
    Polo_Mint wrote: »
    For all the people who are baptised Catholic and say they are an Atheist, Have they actually contacted the Church to denounce their Religion?

    If they haven't then they are registered Catholics and should tick the box.

    In Ireland you can't.
    A Catholic telling others what to do despite not knowing what they're even talking about. How unusual.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,030 ✭✭✭Lau2976


    Zamboni wrote: »
    It's a fear of no school place thing.
    I know couples who have no real belief in Catholicism or god and reluctantly baptise their children for a state funded school place. This is so sad :(
    I feel so sorry for the obviously frustrated priests during these ceremonies. They know that the participants have no commitment to the church. The attendees have no idea of etiquette, times to stand, kneel, or sit and don't know the variety of responses psalms or prayers.
    We are all being let down by this. Christians and non-Christians alike.

    I don't disagree with getting rid of that, i was never baptised as a child and I know my parents were particlarly worried about it. But I do think part of it would be a cultural thing, I know multiple people myself who held baptisms for the party because they identify as catholic without practicing it, like i identify as jewish without really practising it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,191 ✭✭✭Eugene Norman


    Since Dawkins is a cultural anglican I can't see what the fuss is about.


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  • Moderators Posts: 51,726 ✭✭✭✭Delirium


    Since Dawkins is a cultural anglican I can't see what the fuss is about.

    Really doubt he ticks Anglican in the English census.

    If you can read this, you're too close!



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,802 ✭✭✭beks101


    People are lazy. They will sit in the pub all day having all kinds of critical debates about the status quo but ultimately avoid ever doing anything to upset it.

    That and we live in a fish bowl and don't like the idea of being fodder for gossip.

    People will continue to marry in churches and baptise their kids and bitch about how obsolete the church is but would probably still find themselves praying to God if their plane goes down.

    We are creatures of habit and we don't trust change.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,191 ✭✭✭Eugene Norman


    Yeah...

    And this is what you call "debate"

    Yes, yes it is. Although that was more a statement, being my first foray into the thread. Statements, I believe are not illegal under the terms of the forum charter.

    (I am not sure that quoting something and saying "is that a debate" is much of a debate either, but lets leave that pass.)

    I would describe myself cultural catholic much in the same way as Dawkins describes himself as a cultural Anglican ( which he very much is), or an atheist orange order member would describe himself as a cultural protestant. This is true even though I grew up in a largely atheist family, and didn't spend much time at Catholic schools -- with the exception of two years or so.

    Its probably fair to say the modern New Atheist, influenced by the Dawkins, Hitchens et al. are cultural protestants though; that is they are influenced by a view of "history" which over over-emphasises the harshness of Catholicism in Britain pre-reformation, downplays the protestant revolution -- a revolution and religiosity unmatched until the Taleban or ISIS, and fetishes the Enlightenment which in fact killed millions.

    the rather excellent Camille Paglia sees herself as a cultural Catholic ( or a Catholic Pagan)

    The angry mob of New Atheism leave me cold. And isn't there a forum where they can all get very angry indeed together?


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,305 ✭✭✭Zamboni


    The angry mob of New Atheism leave me cold. And isn't there a forum where they can all get very angry indeed together?

    I'm sorry that is what you are getting from this thread.
    It is really to raise awareness of the practical implications to future parents that their current self identification can affect how the children will access education. Outlined (non-angrily) here :)
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=95016362&postcount=152


  • Posts: 17,378 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I don't get all this "atheism" stuff.. Sure the opening post could have been written by a priest appealing for less fakers.

    Seriously, reread it as a priest before going off an "atheism" rant.


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,305 ✭✭✭Zamboni


    I don't get all this "atheism" stuff.. Sure the opening post could have been written by a priest appealing for less fakers.

    Seriously, reread it as a priest before going off an "atheism" rant.

    To be fair, a priest would have just cause to write the OP.
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=95017959&postcount=227


  • Registered Users Posts: 17,371 ✭✭✭✭Zillah


    This whole "I can call myself anything I want" thing is so utterly childish. Words mean things. I can't go around calling myself a toaster because I am not what the world generally understands a toaster to be.

    If you think the Pope is a silly old man, you don't go to mass, don't believe Jesus is your personal lord and saviour etc, then you are not a Catholic - or even a Christian - and calling yourself a Catholic makes no sense, and I cannot for the life of me manage any disposition other than some mix of contempt and confusion for anyone that would insist otherwise.

    Your weird feelings around giving yourself a title that makes no sense shouldn't count more than reality.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,106 ✭✭✭catallus


    The pagan hordes, in their wilful blindness, revel in their sinfulness; but that is not enough to sate the demons of avarice and pride in their collective soul! They are dazzled at the bliss of the faithful as one is dazzled by the brilliance of the sun, and the arid despair which is their ultimate lot causes such baleful wailing and desperate gnashing of teeth, who knows in what circle of hell they languish! Knowing their fate is due to their own nescience, how can they bear to know their true God?!!


  • Registered Users Posts: 13,364 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    I know two people who have told me they don't believe in god at all and another who isn't sure but 'definitely doesn't believe in some of the weirder Catholic stuff'. They go to mass because it's what they've always done and the parish is their way of being part of the community, much like the pub or the GAA club. The Holy Trinity of rural life. Electro-bitch's post is spot on; church, state and culture are a tangled mess.


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  • Moderators Posts: 51,726 ✭✭✭✭Delirium


    catallus wrote: »
    The pagan hordes, in their wilful blindness, revel in their sinfulness; but that is not enough to sate the demons of avarice and pride in their collective soul! They are dazzled at the bliss of the faithful as one is dazzled by the brilliance of the sun, and the arid despair which is their ultimate lot causes such baleful wailing and desperate gnashing of teeth, who knows in what circle of hell they languish! Knowing their fate is due to their own nescience, how can they bear to know their true God?!!

    3/10.

    If you can read this, you're too close!



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