Women adjusting tops in public

allibastor

A thing I have noticed over the weekend while shopping with my family.

Was in a large shopping centre and I was looking at a window of a shop, but there was a lady, her partner and child in my line of sight.
The lady then proceeded to pull at her top to cover the top of her cleavage. I found this odd as I was not even looking at her or making eye contact.
I said it to my Mrs as it was odd and she says she does it all the time also if a guy looks in her direction, just in case.

I noticed it happen again at with a lady who was at the opposite side of an ice-cream stand to us. Neither had anything to wrote home about either!!

Ha anyone else noticed this, and if so why do it, why even wear a low top if you need to pull it up every time?

Generic Dreadhead

Me Gusta

















Also, you're a filthy, mucky, disgraceful, misogynistic, sexist pig

mathie

allibastor wrote: »

A thing I have noticed over the weekend while shopping with my family.

Was in a large shopping centre and I was looking at a window of a shop, but there was a lady, her partner and child in my line of sight.
The lady then proceeded to pull at her top to cover the top of her cleavage. I found this odd as I was not even looking at her or making eye contact.
I said it to my Mrs as it was odd and she says she does it all the time also if a guy looks in her direction, just in case.

I noticed it happen again at with a lady who was at the opposite side of an ice-cream stand to us. Neither had anything to wrote home about either!!

Ha anyone else noticed this, and if so why do it, why even wear a low top if you need to pull it up every time?

... yet you saw it?

Caprica6

Sometimes tops can loosen around the neckline after been in the wash they can slide down a bit showing more then what you want .....I always adjust myself incase, its to avoid embarrassment more then anything

blade1

Mind ya Business!!!!

Caprica6

Also somethimes when you buy a top you don't realise how low it can be until your put it on

andrew

allibastor wrote: »

Ha anyone else noticed this, and if so why do it, why even wear a low top if you need to pull it up every time?

For the same reason sometimes you might still wear a pair of trousers you have to pull up every so often?

Scannal

Why you going round perving?

gramar

allibastor wrote: »

A thing I have noticed over the weekend while shopping with my family.

Was in a large shopping centre and I was looking at a window of a shop, but there was a lady, her partner and child in my line of sight.
The lady then proceeded to pull at her top to cover the top of her cleavage. I found this odd as I was not even looking at her or making eye contact.
I said it to my Mrs as it was odd and she says she does it all the time also if a guy looks in her direction, just in case.

I noticed it happen again at with a lady who was at the opposite side of an ice-cream stand to us. Neither had anything to wrote home about either!!

Ha anyone else noticed this, and if so why do it, why even wear a low top if you need to pull it up every time?

The fact that neither had anything to write home about is hardly the point but I do know what you mean. If they feel uncomfortable then cover up.

The most annoying adjustment I've ever seen are strapless tops and dresses and seeing women the whole time yanking them up. Not that I'd be looking.

whiskeyman

Perhaps you need to pull up your pants and stop touching yourself when walking around in public.
It's likely to make women feel uncomfortable.

allibastor

mathie wrote: »

... yet you saw it?

Yes, In my eye line about 8 feet in front of me. hard to miss as she was staring at me as she did it.

And no, I wasn't perving. I just have eyes like a hawk.

smash

OP it seems like you notice it because you're actually staring. Maybe it's subconscious, like the way I can't help but look back at a nice arse!

BBJBIG

Stop gawkin at de wimmins Kabongas ...

Karl Stein

Maybe you have an unusual face? Like, a bit mad looking or something?

_Kaiser_

I like boobies!

That's what this thread is about, right?

Caprica6

Optionstraddle wrote: »

Seems like it would be easier to just wear normal t shirts. Then you wouldn't have to adjust your top.

I agree with you but it can accidentaly happen like I don't want kids or people seeing my stuff but you can buy something you really like try it on fine only to find the next time you wear it the fibres have loosened up and its now hanging of you....Generally once that happens me I mend it or bin it....

I never buy strapless stuff I don't trust just elastic to do the job

josip

Top adjustment is the same as running her hands through her hair.
She was flirting with you at a primitive, subconscious level.

allibastor

smash wrote: »

OP it seems like you notice it because you're actually staring. Maybe it's subconscious, like the way I can't help but look back at a nice arse!

Maybe sometimes, but in this case 100% not!! I was actually looking behind the family at the Xbox one on display and your ones movement in front caught my eyes as she was looking at me.

It just makes you feel like they think you are actually staring down their tops is all. Even my Mrs had a joke about it, but still made me feel uncomfortable. I was only trying to see how much the xbox was!!!!!!

Gatling

It's only a bit of skin .


Women can be weird sometimes

Caprica6

allibastor wrote: »

Maybe sometimes, but in this case 100% not!! I was actually looking behind the family at the Xbox one on display and your ones movement in front caught my eyes as she was looking at me.

It just makes you feel like they think you are actually staring down their tops is all. Even my Mrs had a joke about it, but still made me feel uncomfortable. I was only trying to see how much the xbox was!!!!!!

Hahahaha I wouldn't worry about it chances were she thinks shes super fit or self conscious. ..

Caprica6

Gatling wrote: »

It's only a bit of skin .


Women can be weird sometimes

Bag full of crazy more like but we're just self conscious really...and sometimes some men can leer a lot etc

Generic Dreadhead

Was there a person in front of her with a Backpack Video Camera? If so, by your reaction alone expect to see yourself in "10 hours of walking through a shopping centre as a woman with her family"

allibastor

HA, yeah is aw that thread alright.
Last time I wore pants where my junk was on show I did get a few looks, was told later that it was very noticeable.

Never wore them again.

I just find it odd, In my job I have face to face interviews with people, I Always keep eye contact yet the amount of ladies who wear cleavage out tops and then spend ages pulling them up baffles me.

smash

Great peripheral vision is a god send!

Remmy

If I have stuff in my pockets sometimes I need to hike up my jeans. I don't automatically assume someone is staring at my junk

Talib Fiasco

It's called preening. Basically it's most often a subconscious thing where one fixes their appearance in order to look their best in front of the opposite sex. Same thing with women constantly playing with their hair or lads fixing their suit jacket.

allibastor

Talib Fiasco wrote: »

It's called preening. Basically it's most often a subconscious thing where one fixes their appearance in order to look their best in front of the opposite sex. Same thing with women constantly playing with their hair or lads fixing their suit jacket.

From the look I got I doubt that very much. Kind of a "what are you looking at stare"

Just look at my feet may be the answer

nc19

allibastor wrote: »

A thing I have noticed over the weekend while shopping with my family.

Was in a large shopping centre and I was looking at a window of a shop, but there was a lady, her partner and child in my line of sight.
The lady then proceeded to pull at her top to cover the top of her cleavage. I found this odd as I was not even looking at her or making eye contact.
I said it to my Mrs as it was odd and she says she does it all the time also if a guy looks in her direction, just in case.

I noticed it happen again at with a lady who was at the opposite side of an ice-cream stand to us. Neither had anything to wrote home about either!!

Ha anyone else noticed this, and if so why do it, why even wear a low top if you need to pull it up every time?

The biggest question here is what was she doing out of the kitchen?

allibastor

Optionstraddle wrote: »

I hope you kept looking at the X box.

No, Looked away when I was stared at. Did go back to looking though once the family moved a bit.

smash

nc19 wrote: »

The biggest question here is what was she doing out of the kitchen?

Buying cheese and ham?

endacl

Caprica6 wrote: »

Also somethimes when you buy a top you don't realise how low it can be until your put it on

Have you considered 'trying them on'? I believe some establishments provide changing facilities which are ideal for this purpose.

anncoates

Excellent pervert strategy.

Have a good stare and then attempt justify it by moralizing.

Buona Fortuna

OP did you have your hand down your trackie bottoms while this took place?

I'm not making any judgements just could explain a lot

allibastor

Hahaha, No, I don't ever wear tracksuit bottoms. Jeans all the way.

nelly17

How much was the Xbox One and did they have 3 games with it like they do up north? Also do they take trade ins?

Caprica6

endacl wrote: »

Have you considered 'trying them on'? I believe some establishments provide changing facilities which are ideal for this purpose.

No need to be snotty, sometimes if your in a rush and need a new item of clothes in a hurry and the dressing rooms are filled its a case of grab and pay

SparkySpitfire

endacl wrote: »

Have you considered 'trying them on'? I believe some establishments provide changing facilities which are ideal for this purpose.

Wow.

Have you considered not being a sarcastic [insert farmyard animal here]?

Do you try on every piece of clothing you buy? You never shop online? You've never been in a shop without a changing room? You've never seen something you like and just bought it?

Give me a break.

stimpson

allibastor wrote: »

HA, yeah is aw that thread alright.
Last time I wore pants where my junk was on show I did get a few looks, was told later that it was very noticeable.

Like this?


http://weknowmemes.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/man-cleavage.jpg

Caprica6

SparkySpitfire wrote: »

Wow.

Have you considered not being a sarcastic [insert farmyard animal here]?

Do you try on every piece of clothing you buy? You never shop online? You've never been in a shop without a changing room? You've never seen something you like and just bought it?

Give me a break.

Agreed!!! And also its not nice for anyone to talk down to anyone else so !!!!!!! Nah nah nah nah :P *cough* 0.o

smash

stimpson wrote: »

Like this?


http://weknowmemes.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/man-cleavage.jpg

Where can I get those pants....

crazygeryy

allibastor wrote: »

Yes, In my eye line about 8 feet in front of me. hard to miss as she was staring at me as she did it.

And no, I wasn't perving. I just have eyes like a hawk.

that is the quote of the week for me anyway,:D

Aubrey loves Joe

andrew wrote: »

For the same reason sometimes you might still wear a pair of trousers you have to pull up every so often?

Only if some weirdo like op is looking at my knob

stimpson

smash wrote: »

Where can I get those pants....

The OP can hook you up.

SMJSF

I've seen men/guys adjusting themselves in public, and nothing is ever said about them!! And that's worse!

I was on the bus today (number 16) coming back from town and the man sitting opposite me was happy enough to shuffle his bits around with not a care in the world that a child and its mother was beside me, straight opposite him!!

Caprica6

As bad as what they say women can be I find some men very judgmental

Buona Fortuna

SMJSF wrote: »

I've seen men/guys adjusting themselves in public, and nothing is ever said about them!! And that's worse!

I was on the bus today (number 16) coming back from town and the man sitting opposite me was happy enough to shuffle his bits around with not a care in the world that a child and its mother was beside me, straight opposite him!!

I think if he was shuffling, he could be arrested for it

myshirt

crazygeryy wrote: »

that is the quote of the week for me anyway,:D

They looked at him first. It would have been rude not to look back.

moc moc a moc

allibastor wrote: »

why even wear a low top if you need to pull it up every time?

This is the crux of the matter. If they didn't want people looking at their cleavage then they wouldn't be wearing cleavage-revealing tops, so I say have at it.

catallus

Burqas seem to be the only solution here......

jacool

allibastor wrote: »

I was actually looking ......... at the Xbox one on display

Wow, I didn't realise it was that low cut!
Wondering what the "X" stands for?

martinedwards

moc moc a moc wrote: »

This is the crux of the matter. If they didn't want people looking at their cleavage then they wouldn't be wearing cleavage-revealing tops, so I say have at it.

abso-flippin-lutely

ladies, guys love boobies, pure and simple.

if you wear tops that show a lot of cleavage then guys will LOOK.

if you don't want guys to look then wear a higher neckline.

you can't have it both ways!

don't put your wares on display and then get grumpy when the passing trade look at the goods!