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Inappropriate hugs

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    #92
    Yellow121
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 737 ✭✭✭Yellow121


    Rasheed wrote: »
    Ohh challenge accepted! If I catch you I'm impounding your ass.

    My ass is a good mover, you wont be catching us easy.
    We move by night,
    we sleep by day,
    we scheem and plan,
    make our enemies pay!


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    #93
    cantdecide
    Registered Users Posts: 11,465 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    pharmaton wrote: »
    can someone make it stop?
    Yellow121 wrote: »
    My ass is a good mover, you wont be catching us easy.
    We move by night,
    we sleep by day,
    we scheem and plan,
    make our enemies pay!

    It's all gone wrong :pac:


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    #94
    pharmaton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    cantdecide wrote: »
    It's all gone wrong :pac:
    yellow does know Rasheed is a 28 stone South African guy with a beard and hairy back right?


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    #95
    Yellow121
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 737 ✭✭✭Yellow121


    pharmaton wrote: »
    yellow does know Rasheed is a 28 stone South African guy with a beard and hairy back right?

    My ass is the only company I need.


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    #96
    pharmaton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    tell us how you hug your ass


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    #97
    Mariasofia
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,887 ✭✭✭Mariasofia


    Czarcasm wrote: »
    Silage bales, pits, hay? I grew up in the country and all and never realised any of these things!

    "Silage" was just the nauseating smell that came in the windows of the already roasting yellow school bus as we travelled back to school around September? That half hour journey we were luc
    ky we hadn't passed out by the time we got to school! :(

    Stop. You're ruining Rasheed and yellow121's buzz:).


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    #98
    Yellow121
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 737 ✭✭✭Yellow121


    pharmaton wrote: »
    tell us how you hug your ass

    I hug it with a smile on me face and a twinkle in me eye.


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    #99
    pharmaton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    Mariasofia wrote: »
    Stop. You're ruining Rasheed and yellow121's buzz:).

    I've no doubt the two guys have a wonderful future together and hopefully they will continue buzzing with each other in private through the wonderful messaging system boards has provided for members interested in hugging each others members


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    #100
    cantdecide
    Registered Users Posts: 11,465 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    pharmaton wrote: »
    yellow does know Rasheed is a 28 stone South African guy with a beard and hairy back right?

    I'm going to allow it...

    :pac:


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    #101
    Norwesterner
    Registered Users Posts: 725 ✭✭✭Norwesterner


    Was visiting a dying relative in hospital last year, and it was just me and the comatosed relative in the room....and a nurse checking some reports etc.
    I was in deep meditation and remembering some good moments between the two of us, and I suppose I looked like I was going to cry. But I felt really calm and strangely wanted to cry silently to let out some stress.
    I was in another place. A peaceful moment.
    Then the Nurse, obviously saw my eyes welling up came over and said "You look like you need a hug" and hugged me.
    I've no idea if this is some kind of new policy, but I didn't need a hug or a chat.
    I wanted some privacy and time to reflect. I obviously didn't tell her that and said "Thanks"
    Anyway, the hug threw me altogether, and I personally didn't want it.


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    #102
    cantdecide
    Registered Users Posts: 11,465 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    Norwesterner wrote: »
    Was visiting a dying relative in hospital last year, and it was just me and the comatosed relative in the room....and a nurse checking some reports etc.
    I was in deep meditation and remembering some good moments between the two of us, and I suppose I looked like I was going to cry. But I felt really calm and strangely wanted to cry silently to let out some stress.
    I was in another place. A peaceful moment.
    Then the Nurse, obviously saw my eyes welling up came over and said "You look like you need a hug" and hugged me.
    I've no idea if this is some kind of new policy, but I didn't need a hug or a chat.
    I wanted some privacy and time to reflect. I obviously didn't tell her that and said "Thanks"
    Anyway, the hug threw me altogether, and I personally didn't want it.

    It's unfortunate that that's the way you felt because I think it was a lovely gesture.


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    #103
    Yellow121
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 737 ✭✭✭Yellow121


    Where's that conniving Rasheed gone? It's a trap, time to move me ass.


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    #104
    Mariasofia
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,887 ✭✭✭Mariasofia


    pharmaton wrote: »
    I've no doubt the two guys have a wonderful future together and hopefully they will continue buzzing with each other in private through the wonderful messaging system boards has provided for members interested in hugging each others members

    What is this wonderful messaging system you speakl of??


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    #105
    pharmaton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    Mariasofia wrote: »
    What is this wonderful messaging system you speakl of??

    they call it private messaging, it's an amazing system where people can write to each other privately and no one else can see what they are saying!


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    #106
    pharmaton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    cantdecide wrote: »
    It's unfortunate that that's the way you felt because I think it was a lovely gesture.

    a lot of people in that kind of situation don't want to be interrupted, sometimes a hug can be jarring to the system and I can understand the place Norwestern was in and why it might have felt intrusive.


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    #107
    Rasheed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,117 ✭✭✭Rasheed


    Yellow121 wrote: »
    Where's that conniving Rasheed gone? It's a trap, time to move me ass.

    I'm loading up the shot gun in case you appear. Anyway we better stop or everyone will want a piece of your ass. Ill be watching though, waiting.


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    #108
    cantdecide
    Registered Users Posts: 11,465 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    pharmaton wrote: »
    a lot of people in that kind of situation don't want to be interrupted, sometimes a hug can be jarring to the system and I can understand the place Norwestern was in and why it might have felt intrusive.

    Sure. It's a judgement call on the nurse's part and it was obviously a wrong one but I think it would be worse if they didn't or weren't permitted.


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    #109
    Yellow121
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 737 ✭✭✭Yellow121


    Rasheed wrote: »
    I'm loading up the shot gun in case you appear. Anyway we better stop or everyone will want a piece of your ass. Ill be watching though, waiting.

    Right, I'll hold me whist. I'll only appear when you're sleeping!

    Tip toe, as quiet as a mouse,
    Me and me ass are in your house,
    Have sweet dreams as you sleep,
    All about, your nightmare creeps.


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    #110
    massdebater
    Registered Users Posts: 2,251 ✭✭✭massdebater


    BeerWolf wrote: »
    Hugs are easy for women towards both genders, but there's this stigma of men doing it - specially with other men.

    I'm male.


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    #111
    Hande hoche!
    Registered Users Posts: 7,506 ✭✭✭Hande hoche!


    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QdE62pb7B5Q


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    #112
    Norwesterner
    Registered Users Posts: 725 ✭✭✭Norwesterner


    cantdecide wrote: »
    Sure. It's a judgement call on the nurse's part and it was obviously a wrong one but I think it would be worse if they didn't or weren't permitted.
    It may be a Male/Female thing.
    We all deal with death and dying in different ways I suppose.
    It was a nice gesture on her part, but I felt uncomfortable and awkward.
    Like I'd been awoken from a sweet dream.
    May even be a generational thing.


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    #113
    pharmaton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    cantdecide wrote: »
    Sure. It's a judgement call on the nurse's part and it was obviously a wrong one but I think it would be worse if they didn't or weren't permitted.
    true, not that I'm touting for nurse hugs mind but many of them work hands on with patients and are as affected by loss as the rest of us so sometimes a good mutual hug at the end of the day, when it's all over with is good for everyone.


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    #114
    Mariasofia
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,887 ✭✭✭Mariasofia


    pharmaton wrote: »
    they call it private messaging, it's an amazing system where people can write to each other privately and no one else can see what they are saying!

    Ah....im too boring to get one of them :):(


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    #115
    pharmaton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭pharmaton


    Mariasofia wrote: »
    Ah....im too boring to get one of them :):(

    *hug*


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    #116
    Mariasofia
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,887 ✭✭✭Mariasofia


    pharmaton wrote: »
    *hug*

    Appropriate yes .......great :).


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    #117
    travis1976
    Closed Accounts Posts: 751 ✭✭✭travis1976


    I'm currently hating hugs and cuddles in support of ihatecuddles..


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