The life of ridiculously good looking people

Wattle

Having to have my face constantly set to Blue Steel. It's not easy but I soldier on.

circular motion

Madam_X wrote: »

Any woman I know who is stunningly beautiful encounters unbelievable jealousy and hatred; the assumption that she's gonna be a right bitch.

Probably doesn't stop her from spending hours putting on make up.

Praetorian Saighdiuir

Micky Dolenz wrote: »

Beauty is subjective etc etc.

So you are saying yer in bits like a big bag of lego?

Me too

Jogathon

I find that people think that I am a bit dim, and guys talk down to me because I'm good looking. Also, people presume that I'm no fun, that I'm boring, but I'm fantastic craic (I swear like!!). I'm not shallow, I don't care but people do judge.

Another thing that I find is that guys compliment my looks, but the compliments that I love to get are nothing to do with my looks but are to do with my personality. Tell me I'm funny and I swoon because I know then that the guy isn't shallow and doesn't care about how I look.

I hope that I don't sound vain, because I'm not. I'm a soccer and camogie playing girl, who is tough out and I wouldn't be into spending hours getting ready for a night out. Sorry if this sounds like I'm full of it.

franktheplank

circular motion wrote: »

Probably doesn't stop her from spending hours putting on make up.

Why should she stop? Should she ugly herself up before going out?

Scanlas The 2nd

Cheerful Spring wrote: »

They probably were not going good looking in the first place, if their looks fade. Looks tend to last if you look after yourself and keep healthy.

Looks fade, I've never seen an attractive 80 year old man or woman, it's the cycle of life, we all lose our looks.

Potatoeman

franktheplank wrote: »

How much of a ridiculously good looking woman being a bitch is just down to them turning lots of guys down?

Granted there are of course genuine bitches and woman who think they're really good looking when they're not but I do think some of them get undeserved bad press.

That also has an impact on ego. I was trying to get to the bar in a pub and was asking two girls to move but only got as far as 'excuse me' before one of them said she was not interested. I was there with my girlfriend so I wasn’t about to hit on some randomer blocking the bar. I had to laugh at the assumption I was trying it on with them.

scarymoon1

Potatoeman wrote: »

That also has an impact on ego. I was trying to get to the bar in a pub and was asking two girls to move but only got as far as 'excuse me' before one of them said she was not interested. I was there with my girlfriend so I wasn’t about to hit on some randomer blocking the bar. I had to laugh at the assumption I was trying it on with them.

thats hilarious - you should have said something smart to that girl like no sorry love - your blocking the bar! cant believe the big head on some people lol

The King of Moo

Jogathon wrote: »

I find that people think that I am a bit dim, and guys talk down to me because I'm good looking. Also, people presume that I'm no fun, that I'm boring, but I'm fantastic craic (I swear like!!). I'm not shallow, I don't care but people do judge.

Another thing that I find is that guys compliment my looks, but the compliments that I love to get are nothing to do with my looks but are to do with my personality. Tell me I'm funny and I swoon because I know then that the guy isn't shallow and doesn't care about how I look.

I hope that I don't sound vain, because I'm not. I'm a soccer and camogie playing girl, who is tough out and I wouldn't be into spending hours getting ready for a night out. Sorry if this sounds like I'm full of it.

You have great paragraphing.

franktheplank

Potatoeman wrote: »

That also has an impact on ego. I was trying to get to the bar in a pub and was asking two girls to move but only got as far as 'excuse me' before one of them said she was not interested. I was there with my girlfriend so I wasn’t about to hit on some randomer blocking the bar. I had to laugh at the assumption I was trying it on with them.

For some probably, not all.

And maybe it's not ego, let's say rather than hitting on you people are often making fun of you. You'd probably be quite likely to misinterpret some innocent actions as people making fun.

A lot depends on the context also, was she happy to think you we're hitting on her and she turned you down (ego) or was she embarrassed, apologetic or not bothered either way (probably fair enough?)

GalwayGuy2

I think its all down to personality and the way they were brought up. I know lot of pretty girls who're so nice, then you have what i called the "others" just bitchy ignorant girls and if you tried to talk them. They would walk away and not even knowledge you're there.

Hmmm, if it was men the woman could have learned that that's the easiest way to deal with flirting from people they're not interested in. Freindliness is probably misconstrued as flirting back:P

I wonder how good looking women who are "one of the lads" are treated by other women?

Cheerful Spring

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

Looks fade, I've never seen an attractive 80 year old man or woman, it's the cycle of life, we all lose our looks.

Men and women can still have their looks at 80, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sean_Connery i think he looks fairly well for his age.

Potatoeman

scarymoon1 wrote: »

thats hilarious - you should have said something smart to that girl like no sorry love - your blocking the bar! cant believe the big head on some people lol

I was confused for a few seconds as I though she was refusing to move then I realised she assumed I was hitting on her. I just replied ‘I’m just trying to get by’ and pushed my way through.

seven_eleven

Good lucking people have it easy, they dont even have to ask people out everybody just asks them

Teyla Emmagan

Where's Eden Hazard when we need someone to talk about the day to day perils of being genuinely ridiculously good looking!?






....I am only joking Eden

Jogathon

seven_eleven wrote: »

Good lucking people have it easy, they dont even have to ask people out everybody just asks them

Not true.

Tom_Cruise

I would consider myself to be a strong 8/10.

The_Gatsby

I just like to give the little people something nice to look at in this destitute and poverty-stricken country. I'm really doing the people a favour

Scanlas The 2nd

I'd be curious what it would be like to walk through a shopping centre looking like this guy. Minus the fame of course.

http://m.yahoo.com/w/search/lp/web/mmimage/detail.bp%3B_ylt=A2KL8xer2uFQv38A_gYYzSA5%3B_ylu=X3oDMTJnYWNoYTAxBGNiaWQDBGNvbmNlcHQDBGNwb3MDBGNzZWMDBHBvcwM0BHF1ZXJ5A2plc3NlIG1ldGNhbGZlIGltYWdlcwRzZWMDaW1hZ2UEc2xrA2ltYWdl?i=3&q=jesse+metcalfe&s=1&iu=&.tsrc=apple&.intl=IE&.lang=en-ie

Cheerful Spring

franktheplank wrote: »

How much of a ridiculously good looking woman being a bitch is just down to them turning lots of guys down?

Granted there are of course genuine bitches and woman who think they're really good looking when they're not but I do think some of them get undeserved bad press.

Do you need to be a bitch to turn down a guy? Not sure i understand the logic of that. If hes falling all over you or getting nasty with you then ya you need to put your foot down with him. But you can least acknowledge there is someone who's speaking to you ( for me ignoring will give the impression you're not a very nice person )

Like even you don't find him attractive, he make actually be an interesting person to get to know, once you talk!

The King of Moo

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

I'd be curious what it would be like to walk through a shopping centre looking like this guy. Minus the fame of course.

http://m.yahoo.com/w/search/lp/web/mmimage/detail.bp%3B_ylt=A2KL8xer2uFQv38A_gYYzSA5%3B_ylu=X3oDMTJnYWNoYTAxBGNiaWQDBGNvbmNlcHQDBGNwb3MDBGNzZWMDBHBvcwM0BHF1ZXJ5A2plc3NlIG1ldGNhbGZlIGltYWdlcwRzZWMDaW1hZ2UEc2xrA2ltYWdl?i=3&q=jesse+metcalfe&s=1&iu=&.tsrc=apple&.intl=IE&.lang=en-ie

It really wouldn't be that bad. Sure people will look, but that's very easily got used to, and it's not like anyone's going to throw themselves upon him.

Red Hand

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

I'd be curious what it would be like to walk through a shopping centre looking like this guy. Minus the fame of course.

http://m.yahoo.com/w/search/lp/web/mmimage/detail.bp%3B_ylt=A2KL8xer2uFQv38A_gYYzSA5%3B_ylu=X3oDMTJnYWNoYTAxBGNiaWQDBGNvbmNlcHQDBGNwb3MDBGNzZWMDBHBvcwM0BHF1ZXJ5A2plc3NlIG1ldGNhbGZlIGltYWdlcwRzZWMDaW1hZ2UEc2xrA2ltYWdl?i=3&q=jesse+metcalfe&s=1&iu=&.tsrc=apple&.intl=IE&.lang=en-ie

Shopping centre? Whew, glamorous!

Galwayguy35

In my last job I worked with a woman who was really good looking, she was sound as a pound.

Being a bitch or a c**t is more to do with generally just being a tool than anything to do with looks I think.

I think whats worse is people who actually think they are great looking when in reality they would be average at best.

Galwayguy35

Tom_Cruise wrote: »

I would consider myself to be a strong 8/10.

But Tom you are only 5ft6"

wuzziwig

I know a few gorgeous girls who have zero self confidence. I don't know what they see in the mirror but it isn't how beautiful they are. I also know one or two woofters who think they are God's gift. Seriously deluded.

Cungi

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

Looks fade, I've never seen an attractive 80 year old man or woman, it's the cycle of life, we all lose our looks.

72 year old woman. Still hot
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Raquel_Welch

scarymoon1

Cungi wrote: »

72 year old woman. Still hot
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Raquel_Welch

with the help of plastic surgery

Wanderer2010

They have no personality because they rely soly on their looks for free drinks, top jobs, superficial friends etc, they never needed to develop their personalities so a lot of them are dumb idiots.

Fox_In_Socks

Wanderer2010 wrote: »

They have no personality because they rely soly on their looks for free drinks, top jobs, superficial friends etc, they never needed to develop their personalities so a lot of them are dumb idiots.

Nice generalising there.

9959

Tom_Cruise wrote: »

I would consider myself to be a strong 8/10.

I'm a weak 9/10 myself.