A gay in the gym!!

starch4ser

cloptrop wrote: »

Holy **** dude , just cause their gay doesnt mean they are all gonna rape you . Im sure the fact that there is a gym full of gay men they wont feel the need to risk doing ten years just to do you . Do you rape all the girls you see in the gym .

I didn't say gang raped. The majority of men wouldn't report a rape as the humiliation and embarrassment of it being made public would be far greater than the humiliation of the rape and I know there's a slim chance of it actually happening at least in this country. It's just terrible when you catch another man perving on you. The thoughts that must be going through his mind. Probably imagining you in all kinds of positions and dressed in a gimp suit or a policemans unform.
I'd never rape a woman personally but there are plenty of sick men in this world that if you put them amongst a group of half naked women in a confined space they'd probably go for it.

starch4ser

gcgirl wrote: »

Rape has zero to do with sex, just because its gay friendly does not mean its a crusing spot, what age are you 15?

Rape has everything to do with sex. I take it from your username your a girl so how could you possibly claim to know the motivation for rape which is perpetrated by men almost exclusively?

Babybuff

ut oh

cloptrop

starch4ser wrote: »

I didn't say gang raped. The majority of men wouldn't report a rape as the humiliation and embarrassment of it being made public would be far greater than the humiliation of the rape and I know there's a slim chance of it actually happening at least in this country. It's just terrible when you catch another man perving on you. The thoughts that must be going through his mind. Probably imagining you in all kinds of positions and dressed in a gimp suit or a policemans unform.
I'd never rape a woman personally but there are plenty of sick men in this world that if you put them amongst a group of half naked women in a confined space they'd probably go for it.

That sounds like you imagine people in all kinds of positions and in policemens uniforms .

Babybuff

anyway..
just to get back on topic, I used play footy with a bunch of lesbians and none of them (us) ever used the changing rooms, despite being horribly sweaty from running around a pitch for an hour. I often thought about how nice it would have been if everyone were to have a nice hot soapy shower after training. yeah.

Oddjob

gcgirl wrote: »

Rape has zero to do with sex, just because its gay friendly does not mean its a crusing spot, what age are you 15?

That's true, figures have shown that 87% of rapists just put their big toe in victims ears.

beks101

Couldn't give a flying fuck at all, knock yourself out.

Sure as a straight woman I regularly sneak a peek in the changing rooms just to see what the competition looks like, sometimes you catch other women doing the same, could be competitive, could be sexual, a compliment either way.

Foghladh

starch4ser wrote: »

I didn't say gang raped. The majority of men wouldn't report a rape as the humiliation and embarrassment of it being made public would be far greater than the humiliation of the rape and I know there's a slim chance of it actually happening at least in this country. It's just terrible when you catch another man perving on you. The thoughts that must be going through his mind. Probably imagining you in all kinds of positions and dressed in a gimp suit or a policemans unform.
I'd never rape a woman personally but there are plenty of sick men in this world that if you put them amongst a group of half naked women in a confined space they'd probably go for it.

Well I for one think you made the right call in getting out of that gym.

It's better to have a little excess flab around the midriff than run the risk of ending up splayed across the rowing machine, dressed up as a member of An Garda Síochána, whilst a baying crowd of juiced up gym bunnies surround you with devious intent.

Better safe than sorry

PhlegmyMoses

starch4ser wrote: »

I once worked for a company that offered to pay 50% of the membership in a certain Dublin gym and thought why not join up. Noticed right from the start that other men in the changing rooms were looking at my tackle and at first thought maybe that's just the way some men are. Maybe they just want to compare. This one time I caught a guy kind of bent over and looking at me through his legs. Another time a middle aged guy with a goatie had one leg up on the sink as he dried his nuts in full view of anyone leaving the showers. I was starting to get worried. Then there was the pairs of men walking around the gym and I remember one time this one guy kind of looked at me a bit odd. Not a passing glance like most men but a kind of I'm prettier than you look. The last time I was at the gym which was only a few weeks after joining, I was using one of the resistance machines and there was this guy with the typical flat nose chatting with another guy. The one guy was asking the other if he had any exciting plans for the evening and the other guy replied, nah, just heading into the george for a few. When i got home from the gym that day, I googled the name of the gym and the word gay and wouldn't you know it, all the results were for gay messageboards describing the gym as a gay friendly one. I cancelled my membership as i genuinely feared being raped some day in the corner of the changing room. Some of those gay guys that lift weights are very well built and would be well able to overpower your avarage guy i'd say. And for a while after, I wondered if it was some cruel joke by the management at the company where I worked!

So much win.

Wouldn't the lads in a gay gym just be walking around on the horn the whole time?

naughtysmurf

Nothingbetter2d wrote: »

i wouldn't use the showers in a gym... not because of others looking at me but because its the best way to get fungal infections in your feet.

Flip flops?

Jimoslimos

starch4ser wrote: »

I googled the name of the gym and the word gay and wouldn't you know it, all the results were for gay messageboards describing the gym as a gay friendly one.

Indeed, that's what you were doing. Just 'researching' eh?

starch4ser wrote: »

Rape has everything to do with sex. I take it from your username your a girl so how could you possibly claim to know the motivation for rape which is perpetrated by men almost exclusively?

I guessing you're trolling (badly), but if not try engage your brain before posting. So you're saying women can't comment, oh I guess numbering the vast majority of victims doesn't really qualify as any sort of experience or insight does it. Using your logic, unless you yourself were a rapist, you wouldn't understand the motivation for rape.

Babybuff wrote: »

anyway..
just to get back on topic, I used play footy with a bunch of lesbians and none of them (us) ever used the changing rooms, despite being horribly sweaty from running around a pitch for an hour. I often thought about how nice it would have been if everyone were to have a nice hot soapy shower after training. yeah.

Wha....ya....ggggooo....mm:)

Eurovisionmad

I find the talent in my gym is rubbish anyway, couldn't be bothered perving, that's what the internet is for!

whatdoicare

Doesn't bother me at all - why would it? (im a married woman) I know for a fact that one of the trainers is lesbian and her partner works out regularly with me, changes with me, showers in next stall thingy- generally a whole lot of nakedness. I'm good friends with them- thoughts of them checking me out never occurred to me but if they did I'd be flattered not upset, nice boost to think someone likes the look of me after all my hard work in the gym - no different than a guy checking out my ass on the threadmill really.
I'd be more concerned with the pervert fella who hangs out in the jacuzzi and fiddles with his crotch when he thinks we're not looking.:mad:

Babybuff

Jimoslimos wrote: »

Wha....ya....ggggooo....mm:)

I write smut for a living

starch4ser

cloptrop wrote: »

That sounds like you imagine people in all kinds of positions and in policemens uniforms .

Yeah, your right. I have a filthy mind. People of the opposite sex though.

Indeed, that's what you were doing. Just 'researching' eh?

Your gonna be amazed when you find out what I actually do for a living. I'm genuinely a :

Researcher!

44leto

Originally Posted by starch4ser
I once worked for a company that offered to pay 50% of the membership in a certain Dublin gym and thought why not join up. Noticed right from the start that other men in the changing rooms were looking at my tackle and at first thought maybe that's just the way some men are. Maybe they just want to compare. This one time I caught a guy kind of bent over and looking at me through his legs. Another time a middle aged guy with a goatie had one leg up on the sink as he dried his nuts in full view of anyone leaving the showers. I was starting to get worried. Then there was the pairs of men walking around the gym and I remember one time this one guy kind of looked at me a bit odd. Not a passing glance like most men but a kind of I'm prettier than you look. The last time I was at the gym which was only a few weeks after joining, I was using one of the resistance machines and there was this guy with the typical flat nose chatting with another guy. The one guy was asking the other if he had any exciting plans for the evening and the other guy replied, nah, just heading into the george for a few. When i got home from the gym that day, I googled the name of the gym and the word gay and wouldn't you know it, all the results were for gay messageboards describing the gym as a gay friendly one. I cancelled my membership as i genuinely feared being raped some day in the corner of the changing room. Some of those gay guys that lift weights are very well built and would be well able to overpower your avarage guy i'd say. And for a while after, I wondered if it was some cruel joke by the management at the company where I worked!

I think mate you were really in a gay sauna, besides what is a gay friendly gym, is that opposed to a gay unfriendly gym.

booboo88

What I dont get is, unless you walk around with a big sign on your forehead, why you would advertise the fact?
Who cares if your gay or straight, you're at the gym?

ectoraige

Doc wrote: »

How do you know if a person you don't know who showers next to you is or isn't gay anyway? I don't really care one way or the other I shower get clean and get out.

He'd be the one with the pink shower cap and the feather boa.

newport2

rochey84 wrote: »

Let me state as well by the way I DO NOT USE THE CHANGING ROOMS AS AN OPPORTUNITY TO PERV ON LADS CAUSE THE GYM IS NOT THE PLACE FOR THAT!

If you did it would stick out like a sore thumb. Albeit quite a large one.

starbelgrade

whatdoicare wrote: »

one of the trainers is lesbian and her partner works out regularly with me, changes with me, showers in next stall thingy- generally a whole lot of nakedness.:

Nice.

KTRIC

starbelgrade wrote: »

whatdoicare wrote: »

one of the trainers is lesbian and her partner works out regularly with me, changes with me, showers in next stall thingy- generally a whole lot of nakedness.:

Nice.

Niiiiiiice

Pacifist Pigeon

starch4ser wrote: »

I cancelled my membership as i genuinely feared being raped some day in the corner of the changing room.

Ah yes, because we all know that an average gay man is far more likely to be a rapist than an average straight man...

Pacifist Pigeon

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