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The Online Dating Thread Part II **Mod Warning** Read First Post/or Post 7389
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Its actually the one thing I say on my profile,
"you will know where you stand with me".
Its the one thing about dating, online or otherwise I hate feeling, not knowing where I stand. I know you girls like to be chased, that's fine, don't play completely aloof though. Guys, just be honest, maybe not blunt, but straight forward.
PS : Date on Saturday I thought went really well, flirting from both....havent heard from her since Sunday morning
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Rattlehead_ie wrote: »Its actually the one thing I say on my profile,
"you will know where you stand with me".
Its the one thing about dating, online or otherwise I hate feeling, not knowing where I stand. I know you girls like to be chased, that's fine, don't play completely aloof though. Guys, just be honest, maybe not blunt, but straight forward.
PS : Date on Saturday went really well....havent heard from her since Sunday morning :P
maybe it wasn't that well for her :P0 -
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I don't know what it's like for everybody else but for me when I've been chatting to somebody and a date has been organised I loose a bit of interest in chatting to others so go offline until the date. Lets say date goes well and date no 2 is organised I still don't bother going back online even if I may have got a message.
It's not me thinking oh this is it I don't need to bother chatting to anyone else....it's just me focusing on the person and seeing where it goes. I for one cannot multiple date just don't have the time, money or memory for it
I'd probably end up mixing their names up! One guy I went on 3 dates with was telling me about him still being online (which he is obviously free to do) but I dunno why I just felt like he was still looking for something else while dating me, not really giving it a chance. Personally I couldn't do it.
P.s Date number 3 lined up with a very nice guy
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I deffo need more pics up id say!
How many do you have up now? I think a minimum of 3 needs to be up, so people can get a look at you from different angles/lighting. :pac:That's carp
Well it is Plenty Of Fish.
(Can't think of a better joke to go with that quote, damnit!)P.s Date number 3 lined up with a very nice guy
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I don't know what it's like for everybody else but for me when I've been chatting to somebody and a date has been organised I loose a bit of interest in chatting to others so go offline until the date. Lets say date goes well and date no 2 is organised I still don't bother going back online even if I may have got a message.
It's not me thinking oh this is it I don't need to bother chatting to anyone else....it's just me focusing on the person and seeing where it goes. I for one cannot multiple date just don't have the time, money or memory for it I'd probably end up mixing their names up! One guy I went on 3 dates with was telling me about him still being online (which he is obviously free to do) but I dunno why I just felt like he was still looking for something else while dating me, not really giving it a chance. Personally I couldn't do it.
P.s Date number 3 lined up with a very nice guy
Ammsy500 I am like you. I tend to do the same as you but I find guys tend to get frightened off when they see I'm not going online or I mention it. I like to concentrate on one person at a time and if i'm willing to meet them for dates then i think i should focus on giving it a reasonable shot.
I tried multiple dates in one week once, all first dates, but I felt like I was messing guys about and I couldn't remember who had said what
I have found most guys I've met have continued online and I guess it's because they think there are better options out there. A bit of the cake and eat it some else mentioned earlier.
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How many do you have up now? I think a minimum of 3 needs to be up, so people can get a look at you from different angles/lighting. :pac:
some of them using wicked angles myspace-styleWell it is Plenty Of Fish.
(Can't think of a better joke to go with that quote, damnit!)
I don't think I could do it worse
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Well looks like im on the hunt again
The guy i was seeing for last 6 weeks has lost interest but took it for me to ask him what was going on as he couldnt seem to able to tell me himself.
Got the whole i have no time, busy with work crap, but yet hes in his friends practically every eve of the week:rolleyes:
Just wish people could be honest and just say they arent interested in you that way anymore, i had bull sh** excuses and lies.
Honestly think i need to give OD a break for a while as ive had no luck really on it for the last year or more.
The last 6 weeks for you imo has been luck? Would be better to have that than still be messing about on the internet. 0 -
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Ammsy500 I am like you. I tend to do the same as you but I find guys tend to get frightened off when they see I'm not going online or I mention it. I like to concentrate on one person at a time and if i'm willing to meet them for dates then i think i should focus on giving it a reasonable shot.
I have found most guys I've met have continued online and I guess it's because they think there are better options out there. A bit of the cake and eat it some else mentioned earlier.
Good luck with date 3
I know my sister always says I should still go online as the guy might get scared off that I'm not online and to honest with you I wouldn't care. Even when I am on it I might go on it for a week and go off it for 2 weeks. Havent actually said it to guy I've gone on two dates with but we don't really talk about the online thing anyway have plenty more things to be chatting about
Definitely agree with the you that some guys(and girls) have a 'cake and eat it attitude' it's like hmm maybe I could do better what about that girl who messaged me the other day...on to the next one. Unless your lucky enough to meet somebody every weekend on a night out you will never have as much options I think.0 -
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The last 6 weeks for you imo has been luck? Would be better to have that than still be messing about on the internet.
I have had that twice. The "2 month itch" I call it. All goes well, they chase you, full on and then all of a sudden the texts arent daily, and they back off and yes you get the story about.....I am really busy in work, I dont think I have time for a relationship bla bla bla!!!!
Sick of it at this stage0 -
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Would you say this is a "copy & paste" job and he sends it out to all the girls
Well it certainly hurt my eyes trying to decipher it!It is just sooooooooo frustrating......I fell your pain!!!
It's ok! He did introduce me to Game of Thrones....I have much to occupy myself with now 0 -
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