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The Online Dating Thread Part II **Mod Warning** Read First Post/or Post 7389

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    #3482
    Dr. Manhattan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 190 ✭✭Dr. Manhattan


    JennyBurke101 wrote: »
    Men are dopes on these sites ...seriously.....


    You know where you are and who you're directing your silly genralisations at, yeh?


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    #3483
    Dravokivich
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,360 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    I read Jennys comment as more of an exclaimation of frustration, more so than a targeted statement.


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    #3484
    manafana
    Registered Users Posts: 3,484 ✭✭✭manafana


    got chatting girl i had messaged for bit but contact had ceased kind weird she didnt even mention time since last contact.

    Shes nervy about a date, trying say no point been on site if she doesnt make a leap to start going on them.


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    #3485
    foxinsox
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,080 ✭✭✭foxinsox


    I found a great guy (i hope)

    All looking great so far..

    Terrified it will be a big flop when we actually meet..

    Hard work this online dating lark..


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    #3486
    Galwayguy35
    Registered Users Posts: 16,312 ✭✭✭✭Galwayguy35


    fat__tony wrote: »
    Schoolboy error talking on the phone before meeting in person in my opinion.

    Better to meet to talk, less chance of awkwardness based on my experience.

    I think it is better to make some contact on the phone before meeting TBH.


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    #3487
    JennyBurke101
    Registered Users Posts: 169 ✭✭JennyBurke101


    Dravokivich wrote: »
    I read Jennys comment as more of an exclaimation of frustration, more so than a targeted statement.


    correct :) I wasn't targeting anybody ....I always seem to get in trouble on boards :/ without meaning to be offensive :/


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    #3488
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    I made the mistake one time of not speaking to a girl on the phone before we met and when we did meet up, it was a complete and utter train wreck. I'm convinced had I spoke to her on the phone first I could have sussed out we were incompatible from the start and we wouldn't have wasted each other's time.

    I kind of like texting a bit and chatting on the phone as it breaks the ice and makes the meeting up part a bit easier as you at least have an idea if you get on ok and can chat a bit. It also helps suss out if the person is a bit of a weirdo or something :)


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    #3489
    mood
    Registered Users Posts: 4,264 ✭✭✭mood


    But I would find talking to someone on the phone before meeting weird. Not everyone will be on for it.


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    #3490
    mood
    Registered Users Posts: 4,264 ✭✭✭mood


    But I would find talking to someone on the phone before meeting weird. Not everyone will be on for it.


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    #3491
    sharper
    Registered Users Posts: 1,216 ✭✭✭sharper


    JennyBurke101 wrote: »
    Men are dopes on these sites ...seriously.....

    Yep people are dopes in general.


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    #3492
    finipops
    Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭finipops


    I hate talking on the phone so i would rather keep the conversion for face to face because if you talk alot on the phone you might run out of things to say in person.


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    #3493
    princess-lala
    Closed Accounts Posts: 30,731 ✭✭✭✭princess-lala


    I'm so in love right now :rolleyes:

    "damn ;) would love to have you as my white slave slut. bet you could take my ******
    dick deep x"

    :eek: :rolleyes: :eek: :confused: :eek:


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    #3494
    Dr. Manhattan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 190 ✭✭Dr. Manhattan


    princess-lala wrote: »
    I'm so in love right now :rolleyes:

    "damn ;) would love to have you as my white slave slut. bet you could take my ******
    dick deep x"

    :eek: :rolleyes: :eek: :confused: :eek:


    Lovely, mind if I nick it?? :pac:


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    #3495
    Larianne
    Registered Users Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    princess-lala wrote: »
    I'm so in love right now :rolleyes:

    "damn ;) would love to have you as my white slave slut. bet you could take my ******
    dick deep x"

    :eek: :rolleyes: :eek: :confused: :eek:

    I never get these types of messages! :( Must be doing something wrong.


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    #3496
    Dr. Manhattan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 190 ✭✭Dr. Manhattan


    Larianne wrote: »
    I never get these types of messages! :( Must be doing something wrong.


    We could kill two birds here; since I'm about to nick it, perhaps I could practise on you, so to speak, for a first go.

    PoF? PM me a link to your profile :pac:


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    #3497
    The Big Red Button
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,390 ✭✭✭The Big Red Button


    Dr. Manhattan wrote: »
    We could kill two birds here; since I'm about to nick it, perhaps I could practise on you, so to speak, for a first go.

    PoF? PM me a link to your profile :pac:

    Smooth ... ;) :cool:


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    #3498
    princess-lala
    Closed Accounts Posts: 30,731 ✭✭✭✭princess-lala


    Lar you can have those type of messages if you want! I seriously don't want them :eek:

    He then had the cheek to mail back after I read the message and ask why I didn't reply to him :rolleyes:


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    #3499
    Larianne
    Registered Users Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Dr. Manhattan wrote: »
    We could kill two birds here; since I'm about to nick it, perhaps I could practise on you, so to speak, for a first go.

    PoF? PM me a link to your profile :pac:

    Hmmm.. well I'm currently talking to another dude. But if that doesn't work out, I'll keep you in mind. ;)


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    #3500
    Dr. Manhattan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 190 ✭✭Dr. Manhattan


    chatterpillar wrote: »
    Smooth ... ;) :cool:

    Wasn't it?? How am I still single??
    Larianne wrote: »
    Hmmm.. well I'm currently talking to another dude. But if that doesn't work out, I'll keep you in mind. ;)


    Best offer I've had in a long time. Eh...he's serial killer, I know him. Seriously, stop now, talk to me :cool:


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    #3501
    mood
    Registered Users Posts: 4,264 ✭✭✭mood


    princess-lala wrote: »
    Lar you can have those type of messages if you want! I seriously don't want them :eek:

    He then had the cheek to mail back after I read the message and ask why I didn't reply to him :rolleyes:

    Then he probably logs onto a forum such as this to b*tch about getting no replies for women and going on about what a great guy he is. :rolleyes:


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    #3502
    sharper
    Registered Users Posts: 1,216 ✭✭✭sharper


    princess-lala wrote: »
    I'm so in love right now :rolleyes:

    "damn ;) would love to have you as my white slave slut. bet you could take my ******
    dick deep x"

    :eek: :rolleyes: :eek: :confused: :eek:

    See one part of my brain wants to perform a statistical analysis on how many relationships started with the opener "would love to have you as my white slave...."

    My guess is these guys are like a dog yapping after a car, they'd have no idea what to do if they caught it.


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    #3503
    Larianne
    Registered Users Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Dr. Manhattan wrote: »
    Best offer I've had in a long time. Eh...he's serial killer, I know him. Seriously, stop now, talk to me :cool:

    Ah but I can never say no to a free meal. I'll take my chances. :D


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    #3504
    Dr. Manhattan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 190 ✭✭Dr. Manhattan


    Larianne wrote: »
    Ah but I can never say no to a free meal. I'll take my chances. :D


    Aw man, I can't even compete with known serial killers :(


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    #3505
    c u on the Darkside
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15 ✭c u on the Darkside


    Seems to me with online dating you have to kiss a lot of princesses before you find a frog.
    (A frog would do me just fine.)


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    #3506
    princess-lala
    Closed Accounts Posts: 30,731 ✭✭✭✭princess-lala


    c u on the Darkside wrote: »
    Seems to me with online dating you have to kiss a lot of princesses before you find a frog.
    (A frog would do me just fine.)

    Are you looking for a frog?


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    #3507
    c u on the Darkside
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15 ✭c u on the Darkside


    Ya I like frogs, .............nice legs.


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    #3508
    JennyBurke101
    Registered Users Posts: 169 ✭✭JennyBurke101


    sharper wrote: »
    See one part of my brain wants to perform a statistical analysis on how many relationships started with the opener "would love to have you as my white slave...."

    My guess is these guys are like a dog yapping after a car, they'd have no idea what to do if they caught it.

    I found the best way to respond to the messages is to pretend you are REALLY into it ...and then suggest you swap dirty videos of the stuff you like (you know briefly don't get really involved)..then say you will go first and that this video makes you really hot ...THEN forward them on this bad boy... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lS2BpORASX0

    they will NEVER message you again lol


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    #3509
    JennyBurke101
    Registered Users Posts: 169 ✭✭JennyBurke101


    sorry thought I quoted the original white slut post too my bad!!


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    #3510
    sharper
    Registered Users Posts: 1,216 ✭✭✭sharper


    JennyBurke101 wrote: »
    I found the best way to respond to the messages is to pretend you are REALLY into it ...and then suggest you swap dirty videos of the stuff you like (you know briefly don't get really involved)..then say you will go first and that this video makes you really hot ...THEN forward them on this bad boy... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lS2BpORASX0

    Hot stuff! How about I write you 365 letters and you wait for me for 7 years!?


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    #3511
    JennyBurke101
    Registered Users Posts: 169 ✭✭JennyBurke101


    sharper wrote: »
    Hot stuff! How about I write you 365 letters and you wait for me for 7 years!?


    Maybe ...only if after the seven years you build me a house....

    Oh and you have to ask me on our first date swinging from a ferris wheel...


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