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    #32
    El Guapo!
    Registered Users Posts: 12,431 ✭✭✭✭El Guapo!


    flutterflye wrote: »
    For some reason in my head, it's fine for girls, but weird for guys.
    I don't know why.
    It's completely hypocritical, but that's how I feel.
    Probably just because it's socially acceptable for girls these days.
    I wouldn't insist that he stops using it, it would just take me a while to get used to it I think.

    I think that's because it's bred into us that in todays society if a girl uses a sex toy then she's an independant, cosmopolitan, "sex in the city" type girl who's to be applauded.
    But if it's a guy then he's somehow a perverted sexual deviant!

    Totally hypocritical but that seems to be how it's perceived.


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    #33
    stupidusername
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    44leto wrote: »
    I envy women their sex toys seem so satisfying

    And yeah I am not getting any.

    You cant cuddle a vibrator


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    #34
    AnnaGram85
    Registered Users Posts: 200 ✭✭AnnaGram85


    THEY MAKE 14" DILDOS?!?!?!

    Seriously? No, I wouldn't have an issue. Then again, if I had my way, he wouldn't have the TIME or ENERGY for any other sex toy ;)

    I use mine fairly often, although 'fairly often' could mean different things to different people. I agree that it's more fun if used WITH the partner. I wouldn't hide the fact that I have one - even my housemate knows at this stage [nothing to do with noise, something to do with the fact that I left my drawer open and she was sitting on my bed chatting to me..........., only noticed when she was gone!! ]


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    #35
    starbelgrade
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    flutterflye wrote: »
    For some reason in my head, it's fine for girls, but weird for guys.
    I don't know why.
    It's completely hypocritical, but that's how I feel.
    Probably just because it's socially acceptable for girls these days.
    I wouldn't insist that he stops using it, it would just take me a while to get used to it I think.

    How would you feel if you found out your boyfriend liked to take it up the ass from women wearing a strap on?

    Would you ride that horsey all the way home or would you gallop out of there like a frightened mare?


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    #36
    flutterflye
    Registered Users Posts: 3,538 ✭✭✭flutterflye


    starbelgrade wrote: »
    How would you feel if you found out your boyfriend liked to take it up the ass from women wearing a strap on?

    Would you ride that horsey all the way home or would you gallop out of there like a frightened mare?

    Gallop, definitely gallop!
    There are some things I could get used to in time, but strap ons up the ass are not one of them!


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    #37
    Millicent
    Registered Users Posts: 4,559 ✭✭✭Millicent


    How do you know a blonde's been using your vibrator?
    She's chipped her teeth. :pac:


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    #38
    44leto
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,137 ✭✭✭44leto


    stupidusername wrote: »
    You cant cuddle a vibrator

    LOL
    Speaking for a lot of males that is a big plus.


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    #39
    Millicent
    Registered Users Posts: 4,559 ✭✭✭Millicent


    starbelgrade wrote: »
    How would you feel if you found out your boyfriend liked to take it up the ass from women wearing a strap on?

    Would you ride that horsey all the way home or would you gallop out of there like a frightened mare?

    There's a whole world of pleasure points up your (as in the male "your") bum, Star. But you already know that. You wouldn't be asking Flutterflye to test the waters by any chance, would you? :pac:


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    #40
    starbelgrade
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    Millicent wrote: »
    There's a whole world of pleasure points up your (as in the male "your") bum, Star. But you already know that. You wouldn't be asking Flutterflye to test the waters by any chance, would you? :pac:

    I was working my way up to seeing if she likes a bit of backdoor action.

    But you've blown my cover now.


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    #41
    AnnaGram85
    Registered Users Posts: 200 ✭✭AnnaGram85


    starbelgrade wrote: »
    I was working my way up to seeing if she likes a bit of backdoor action.

    But you've blown my cover now.
    You should never start with the 'But' anyway ;)


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    #42
    smash
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    At this stage it's acceptable for girls to have toys, I thInk ever girl I know has at least one and has no problem admitting it. But it would be weird if I knew a guy friend had a rubber pussy or something.


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    #43
    flutterflye
    Registered Users Posts: 3,538 ✭✭✭flutterflye


    starbelgrade wrote: »
    I was working my way up to seeing if she likes a bit of backdoor action.

    But you've blown my cover now.

    Oh darn it.
    Sorry, I should have told you earlier - I'm not a gay man.


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    #44
    starbelgrade
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    flutterflye wrote: »
    Oh darn it.
    Sorry, I should have told you earlier - I'm not a gay man.

    :confused:


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    #45
    Millicent
    Registered Users Posts: 4,559 ✭✭✭Millicent


    starbelgrade wrote: »
    I was working my way up to seeing if she likes a bit of backdoor action.

    But you've blown my cover now.

    I think "blown" is an unfortunate choice of words here. :D


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    #46
    flutterflye
    Registered Users Posts: 3,538 ✭✭✭flutterflye


    starbelgrade wrote: »
    :confused:

    Don't mind me!
    Wheeee...... Off I go.

    (If you have to explain, there's no point. The moment's gone. Let it die.:))


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    #47
    Jemmy
    Registered Users Posts: 3,385 ✭✭✭Jemmy


    Wouldn't bother me in the slightest!


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    #48
    exaisle
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    Whats sauce for the goose is lubricant for the gander.....


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    #49
    Briany3
    Registered Users Posts: 49 ✭Briany3


    When playing with your partner,? would you take up the A H.


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    #50
    Briany3
    Registered Users Posts: 49 ✭Briany3


    No would not be able for it. Not gay. In anyway never done it.:confused:


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    #51
    stupidusername
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,762 ✭✭✭✭stupidusername


    LighterGuy wrote: »
    here is an interesting question ...

    What if your partner was using some big 12 inch toy? .. would you still be accepting of its use.

    But the original question was posed with a 14",are you saying what if it was a different size,or what? :confused:


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    #52
    LighterGuy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,243 ✭✭✭LighterGuy


    stupidusername wrote: »
    But the original question was posed with a 14",are you saying what if it was a different size,or what? :confused:

    I didnt read the op's post in full :o just peoples replies :o

    But just read it. yeah, i would be uncomfortable. A toy is one thing. A giant toy ... too much.


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    #53
    Briany3
    Registered Users Posts: 49 ✭Briany3


    Na don't think it would fit.:cool:


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    #54
    stupidusername
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,762 ✭✭✭✭stupidusername


    LighterGuy wrote: »
    I didnt read the op's post in full :o just peoples replies :o

    But just read it. yeah, i would be uncomfortable. A toy is one thing. A giant toy ... too much.

    But why?


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    #55
    Briany3
    Registered Users Posts: 49 ✭Briany3


    When playing would yis be into squirting, while in the act.
    :o


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    #56
    patwicklow
    Registered Users Posts: 1,937 ✭✭✭patwicklow


    Well if she gets a bigger one then what you have then its time to wonder:D


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    #57
    Briany3
    Registered Users Posts: 49 ✭Briany3


    stupidusername wrote: »
    But why?
    To much dodgy work.:(


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    #58
    LighterGuy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,243 ✭✭✭LighterGuy


    stupidusername wrote: »
    But why?

    well think of it this way,
    say i preferred using my fleshlight than sex with my girlfriend because she isnt as "tight" as i like her to be.

    Think she'd have an issue upon finding that out?
    Damn right she would.


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    #59
    Kintarō Hattori
    Registered Users Posts: 14,976 ✭✭✭✭Kintarō Hattori


    stupidusername wrote: »
    Thanks sean,i do know what a freudian slip is,i'm just not getting what mine was meant to be.

    I'm guessing the poster in question has never heard of fleshlight and thought you meant flashlight.


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    #60
    Briany3
    Registered Users Posts: 49 ✭Briany3


    DO think she would like to reverse on you. Would you be able for it. ( i never have ):D


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    #61
    stupidusername
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,762 ✭✭✭✭stupidusername


    LighterGuy wrote: »
    well think of it this way,
    say i preferred using my fleshlight than sex with my girlfriend because she isnt as "tight" as i like her to be.

    Think she'd have an issue upon finding that out?
    Damn right she would.

    But there you're implying a girl using a large dildo means she cant still enjoy sex with a smaller version.that may not be the case


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