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Partners having sex toys

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  • 29-11-2011 12:06am
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    El Guapo!
    Registered Users Posts: 12,432 ✭✭✭✭


    Purely hypothetical question here.
    I was chatting to a mate of mine today and the conversation got on to girls using vibrators (don't ask how the conversation got there!) and it got me thinking, how would you react if you found out your partner regularly used a sex toy?
    I know there's been a few threads about if you mind your partner playing with themselves and I've always thought "yeah that doesn't bother me one bit". But if I found out my gf had a giant 14" dildo that she used regularly, I dunno how I'd react. I suppose something like that would make you feel inadequate or something.
    So how would you react in that situation? For the lads....what would you do if you found out your gf had a monster sex toy that she regularly used?
    And to the girls....what if your fella had a Fleshlight tucked away under the bed that he broke out every time you weren't home?!

    Would it bother you if your partner regularly used a sex toy? 335 votes

    Yes it would bother me.
    0% 1 vote
    No it wouldn't bother me.
    9% 33 votes
    I'm not sure how I'd react.
    77% 261 votes
    Forever Alone.... :(
    11% 40 votes
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    Amirani
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 12,523 Mod ✭✭✭✭Amirani


    Couldn't care less. I fap away all day, she can use whatever she wants as long as it's not alive.


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    Millicent
    Registered Users Posts: 4,559 ✭✭✭Millicent


    Hypothetical. :pac: OP, hide the batteries or she'll leave you after an Ann Summers party.


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    cson
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    Dean09 wrote: »
    Purely hypothetical question here.

    Yeah yeah I bet it is ;)
    Dean09 wrote: »
    But if I found out my gf had a giant 14" dildo that she used regularly

    She has and she does.


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    stupidusername
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,762 ✭✭✭✭stupidusername


    While I find the idea of a guy using a fleshlight odd,i would have no problem with it at all.

    I do want to know do they actually make 14" dildos? :eek:


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    #6
    Mrmoe
    Registered Users Posts: 2,212 ✭✭✭Mrmoe


    Sex toys are a lot more fun when you don't use them on your own :)


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    #7
    Super-Rush
    Registered Users Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    I am my partners sex toy.

    Giggidy.


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    Immaculate Pasta
    Registered Users Posts: 1,663 ✭✭✭Immaculate Pasta


    I am way out of my depth with this question :cool:


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    mad m
    Registered Users Posts: 9,002 ✭✭✭mad m


    Duracell FTW....


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    Liam Byrne
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    stupidusername wrote: »
    While I find the idea of a guy using a fleshlight odd,i would have no problem with it at all.

    Freudian slip ?


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    El Guapo!
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    Millicent wrote: »
    Hypothetical. :pac: OP, hide the batteries or she'll leave you for after an Ann Summers party.
    :D


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    #12
    44leto
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,137 ✭✭✭44leto


    I object when they use them on the bus.


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    Princess Peach
    Registered Users Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    Few of mine were gifts from boyfriends. I got one for my boyfriend, but its one we use together.

    If I could get a fleshlight replica of myself I genuinely would. My boyfriend doesn't want one. I have asked, cause I would get him one if he wanted.


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    rcaz
    Registered Users Posts: 4,034 ✭✭✭rcaz


    Are you worried about being superceded by a piece of plastic? :pac:


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    Millicent
    Registered Users Posts: 4,559 ✭✭✭Millicent


    You should be delighted if she's using one. Cures hysteria, doncha know? :D Invention predates the vacuum cleaner--good auld Victorian priorities. :pac:


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    stupidusername
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,762 ✭✭✭✭stupidusername


    Liam Byrne wrote: »
    Freudian slip ?

    What?


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    seanybiker
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    stupidusername wrote: »
    What?

    Its when you say one thing but mean your mother.




    why would it bother me? pfft fook that.


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    Millicent
    Registered Users Posts: 4,559 ✭✭✭Millicent


    seanybiker wrote: »
    Why would it bother me? pfft fook that.

    You can with a fleshlight. :pac:


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    LighterGuy
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    Since a guy can jerk off .... I guess a woman using a toy to do the same isnt bad.. I wouldnt have such an issue with it.

    However, if the girl preferred the toy to the real thing. yeah, get lost!


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    stupidusername
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,762 ✭✭✭✭stupidusername


    Thanks sean,i do know what a freudian slip is,i'm just not getting what mine was meant to be.


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    Princess Peach
    Registered Users Posts: 11,698 ✭✭✭✭Princess Peach


    LighterGuy wrote: »
    Since a guy can jerk off .... I guess a woman using a toy to do the same isnt bad.. I wouldnt have such an issue with it.

    However, if the girl preferred the toy to the real thing. yeah, get lost!

    If she preferred the toy to the real thing, that's really just a bad reflection on you hun.


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    #22
    3rdDegree
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    One of our partners used to have a penis pump. Didn't bother me too much, but everyone else hated it when he used it in meetings.


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    #23
    krudler
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    wouldnt bother me in the slightest, have bought them for girlfriends, some women can't climax through just penetration so using a toy as well helps, tis all fun anyway. Dunno why people get so insulted, everyones different, what works for one woman like just sex, oral, rubbing her etc wont work for all of them, half the fun is finding out what does work and going with it.


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    stupidusername
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    Princess Peach wrote: »
    If she preferred the toy to the real thing, that's really just a bad reflection on you hun.

    Yeah he should learn to vibrate better


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    alwaysadub
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    Wouldn't bother me in the slightest.


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    El Guapo!
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    I actually suppose it wouldn't be too bad as long as she didn't prefer it to the real thing. And they can be good fun when used together.


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    Fart
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    3rdDegree wrote: »
    One of our partners used to have a penis pump. Didn't bother me too much, but everyone else hated it when he used it in meetings.

    Ours, penis pump, everyone else, meetings :eek:


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    #28
    Millicent
    Registered Users Posts: 4,559 ✭✭✭Millicent


    stupidusername wrote: »
    Yeah he should learn to vibrate better

    Hahahaha! I couldn't just thank this, I had to applaud that comment!


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    #29
    LighterGuy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,243 ✭✭✭LighterGuy


    Princess Peach wrote: »
    If she preferred the toy to the real thing, that's really just a bad reflection on you hun.

    :rolleyes:
    even if it was,
    why should I continue to date a person I couldnt please?

    So in my example, if that was the case, yes i'd have an issue with it and pack my bags. The same could be said about a woman who cant get her guy off. He prefers his hand. She'd have an issue too.


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    #30
    44leto
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,137 ✭✭✭44leto


    I envy women their sex toys seem so satisfying

    And yeah I am not getting any.


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    #31
    flutterflye
    Registered Users Posts: 3,538 ✭✭✭flutterflye


    For some reason in my head, it's fine for girls, but weird for guys.
    I don't know why.
    It's completely hypocritical, but that's how I feel.
    Probably just because it's socially acceptable for girls these days.
    I wouldn't insist that he stops using it, it would just take me a while to get used to it I think.


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