How many married people do you know have cheated on partner?

LighterGuy

Sink The Banana wrote: »

I used to do shift work a number of years ago and one of the guys went home early (3 am) on a Friday night shift to find his wife getting banged by a stranger she met in a night club earlier that night.

I wonder how many times she had done that when he was on nights?


The stupid fool forgave her and they're still together.

No offense to him, but he is a stupid wa*ker.
As you spot on pointed out, how many times was she doing it behind his back? ... im willing to bet it was "the first time" and she swore blindly to that too, right? :rolleyes:

If someone cheats. kick their ass to the curb. I know if you're married or kids involved might make the decision tougher .... but the relationship is over. Trust is broken. Your world is turned upside down. And thats not to mention the emotional f-up you go through.

LighterGuy

DWCommuter wrote: »

Are you ****ing serious? Someone else sticking one in your wife or your hubby sticking one in someone else, wouldn't bother you that much? It would only bother you if there was a "relationship" involved?

Has sex been debased to such a selective level that you'll accept the act, but not the emotional attachment? ****in hell, if my wife had a one night stand, that would be the end. I have self respect.

Couldnt agree more with you mate.
Hate all these people who say "well if it was just sex?" - thats BS. 100% bulls*it.

If your girl (or guy) has sex with someone else ... and you rationalise it as "it was just sex" - you have no sack. No self respect. Nothing. You are a push over.

7sr2z3fely84g5

LighterGuy wrote: »

No offense to him, but he is a stupid wa*ker.
As you spot on pointed out, how many times was she doing it behind his back? ... im willing to bet it was "the first time" and she swore blindly to that too, right? :rolleyes:

If someone cheats. kick their ass to the curb. I know if you're married or kids involved might make the decision tougher .... but the relationship is over. Trust is broken. Your world is turned upside down. And thats not to mention the emotional f-up you go through.

That can happen to anyone,the heart overrules the mind,the bloke/girl sees their hot love one off enjoying themselves with other partners so they do anything to get them back together,and sometimes,the chalk and cheese couples stick together.

LighterGuy

Rory Chilly Plate wrote: »

That can happen to anyone,the heart overrules the mind,the bloke/girl sees their hot love one off enjoying themselves with other partners so they do anything to get them back together,and sometimes,the chalk and cheese couples stick together.

I know that. We have all made bad decisions when feelings were involved. But thats why you have to stop and think in life. Applies for everything.

But lets look into the "forgiveness" option more...
Your partner does the dirt. You forgive them. Often you find trust issues destroy things then. But hey, lets be honest aswell, out of the all those "forgived partners who cheated" how many honestly never cheat again?

I tell ya, theres been many a person who "forgave" only to get the dirt been done on them again.

pappyodaniel

I know a guy who's been busy riding his German au pair for the last two months.

reap-a-rat

hidinginthebush wrote: »

A person I used to work with cheated on his wife with another coworker (also married), it destroyed 2 families, I lost any semblance of respect for them there and then. It is a horrible thing to do to someone which you have promised to love until the day you die.

My mam had a full blown relationship with a married fella, friend of my dads! He found out a few years into it, never forgave her but stuck around coz my sister and I were quite young when it came out. Thing is, the affair was still going on, and my sister and I knew all about it, the guy would call to the house and everything and we got in trouble if we were rude to him:(!

As soon as we were old enough, Dad left for good. They're divorced now and dad's married again to somebody who's an all round better match for him! Mam's over with the affair after realising the ass your man was. Hope she's not lonely but I think its deserving that dad is happy with somebody now and mam isn't! Even as a child its difficult to get over an affair, so I commend the way Dad dealt so well with the divorce!

So yeah, I guess my point is that its a **** thing to do especially with kids in the mix! Speaking from experience here!

bitchstalker

if you're in the mind of cheating, then u should get out the relationship simple

Joey the lips

i dont know many married couples who cheat. I dont know many married people though other than the mas and das generation.

I know a couple of people doing it and from listening it seems to be for the sex. This surprises me from the womens side. I always knew men to be shallow.

I cannot see the point in cheating. I think if you cannot talk about your problems then there is something wrong.

As a married man i could never see myself marry again if it broke up. Its on this opinion i imagine to marry will be a minority thing in the future.

helimachoptor

I know a few people one has a couple of kids that's a guy also know a woman and the guy has 2 kids but she's just the latest in long line..

Big Nasty

helimachoptor wrote: »

I know a few people one has a couple of kids that's a guy also know a woman and the guy has 2 kids but she's just the latest in long line..

Eh, wut?

MCMLXXV

MCMLXXV wrote: »

Eh, wut?

"I know a few people who have cheated, and one of them has a couple of kids - that one is a guy. I also know a woman who has cheated with a guy who's got 2 kids, and she's only the latest in a long line of women he's cheated with".

I think I am getting better at this - all this time on AH! :pac:

YFlyer

stupidusername wrote: »

I only knew one person that was cheating/up for cheating,a boardsie actually.haven't known anyone else myself that was doing it.but have heard loads of experiences from friends of married men trying it on

:cool:

John Mason

i know one girl currently seeing a married man but its okay because they are only together for the kids :rolleyes:

i have been cheated on by on ex.

have never cheated on anyone

Know loads of people who have affairs - half my office have left husbands for their affairs and the other half are broken hearted woman who had affairs with married men but they refused to leave their wives

karaokeman

Surprisingly I don't know any couples where one has cheated.

But hey I'm only 20 so you never know.

Smyth

Marriage = vow of monogamy

Married people shagging around != monogamy

Married people. Y U get married?

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du Maurier

bluewolf wrote: »

"I know a few people who have cheated, and one of them has a couple of kids - that one is a guy. I also know a woman who has cheated with a guy who's got 2 kids, and she's only the latest in a long line of women he's cheated with".

I think I am getting better at this - all this time on AH! :pac:

Well done! Do you think the original author might sit down to peruse the amended version and think long and hard about what he wrote; and of how you painstakingly deciphered the few lines for the rest of us?! Somehow I can't see him deign to bother..:pac:

El Horseboxo

Only talking bout this topic on Saturday. Me and a mate counted that we know 11 couples. Out of them 22 people we know of 15 that have cheated. That's 13 out of 14 couples and it's not based of rumors. A good few of them cheat regularly and most are males. Still 5 were females. Stuff like that puts me off the idea of serious relationships and marriage.

iPlop

As I said previously, I know a few people that have cheated, but one guy I know cheats with the same ugly person all the time and guess what, his wife is a stunner.

Scanlas The 2nd

Sink The Banana wrote: »

As I said previously, I know a few people that have cheated, but one guy I know cheats with the same ugly person all the time and guess what, his wife is a stunner.

I think men with stunners cheating with mingers confuses women. Men do this because their wife who is a stunner is not new pussy. That's why men do it, for new pussy.

iPlop

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

I think men with stunners cheating with mingers confuses women. Men do this because their wife who is a stunner is not new pussy. That's why men do it, for new pussy.

Why though when the new pussy is fat and ugly?

sunflower27

Sink The Banana wrote: »

Why though when the new pussy is fat and ugly?

Why don't you ask your friend?

Scanlas The 2nd

Sink The Banana wrote: »

Why though when the new pussy is fat and ugly?

The fact that pussy is new tends to temporarily make the fat and ugly woman a couple of notches ( the amount of notches varies for each man) more attractive for a man.

iPlop

sunflower27 wrote: »

Why don't you ask your friend?

We usually just pretend it's not happening, everyone knows except his wife, it's kind of like you know but you don't, he knows that we know and we know that he knows we know and she knows that he knows that we know and we all know that. LOL:pac:

gcgirl

A guy i know who is getting married in 2 weeks has a ad in rude finder looking for sex his a freaking Dog.

Anyone who cheats has low self esteem personally i don't and there for i have no reason to cheat, basic rule if you wanna **** around don't get in a relationship!

Abi

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

That's why men do it, for new pussy.

Ugh, jesus




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Scanlas The 2nd

gcgirl wrote: »

A guy i know who is getting married in 2 weeks has a ad in rude finder looking for sex his a freaking Dog.

Anyone who cheats has low self esteem personally i don't and there for i have no reason to cheat, basic rule if you wanna **** around don't get in a relationship!

Not necessarily, someone could have high self esteem, strong sex drive and weak will power or lack or respect for their partner and still cheat. I wouldn't throw around the low self esteem cliche around so fast.

Dyr

Zen65 wrote: »

What of those relationships where one party decides to opt out of the relationship without involving a third party? What if one party decides to opt out by choosing drugs, food, gambling, porn, golf, religion or abstinence as the alternative to a loving relationship with their partner? Why are we more tolerant of these behaviours and call them "addictions" rather than "cheating"?

Because they're not replacing like with like?

Someone post the link about biological imperatives behind cheating and wimmen looking for men to rear their kids etc etc, that's always fun.

stovelid

Bipolar Joe wrote: »

Saw a video online of a chick giving head at her hen night to a male stripper whilst she was wearing her wedding dress. Classy bint if there ever was one.

No less classy than finding and watching the video really.

Abi

stovelid wrote: »

Bipolar Joe wrote: »

Saw a video online of a chick giving head at her hen night to a male stripper whilst she was wearing her wedding dress. Classy bint if there ever was one.

No less classy than finding and watching the video really.

I can feel the heat from that burn from here :pac:

nicowa

Speaking of personal ads looking for sex/relationship - I read the personals in the back of the Irish Times Saturday mag. Some of them are real looking but some are just funny... Like the guy looking for a classy lady in high heels and stockings...

But there's an ad there from a "London based gentleman" in his 40's who's a "regular visitor to Dublin" looking for a "relationship". I'm quoting, not just making fun...

But seriously, first time I read that I simply thought "married..."

Who would reply to that?