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Erectile Dysfunction and Porn

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  • 10-06-2011 6:05pm
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭


    Saw this earlier on reddit, I haven't watched it myself, but if it's as good as people are saying it is there then maybe some of you might find it interesting.



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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,265 ✭✭✭SugarHigh


    I think one of the big problems with Internet porn is how much variety you can have so easily. I think it will make you bored unless there is a lot of variety because you are so used to it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,289 ✭✭✭parker kent


    I'll watch this later (when my Dad isn't in the same room as me!). But I think the problem is from partly from excessive masturbation and also when it becomes a habit. You're not masturbating because you are horny, you are doing it because it is "what you do".


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,265 ✭✭✭SugarHigh


    Just finished part 4 and A scary amount of that rings true. I don't know if I'll stop watching porn all together as the video suggests but I will try and cut back.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 570 ✭✭✭Count Duckula


    What a surprise that a known anti-porn poster trundles in with a Youtube video telling us all how porn will mean we no longer get erections.

    "If they won't listen to me, I'll try to scare them into it."


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,101 ✭✭✭MitchKoobski


    Not sure if I can trust this video....

    ಠ_ಠ


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭liah


    What a surprise that a known anti-porn poster trundles in with a Youtube video telling us all how porn will mean we no longer get erections.

    "If they won't listen to me, I'll try to scare them into it."

    Seriously? What the heck did I do to provoke that? :confused:

    Regardless, I'm not trying to imply anything - from what I've gathered it's not exactly a propaganda piece. I didn't post this because of a personal axe to grind, and I honestly don't appreciate the implication. I genuinely thought some people might find it interesting because it's to do with Erectile Dysfunction, what is so bad about that?

    Either way, I'll not be coming back to the thread. Just felt that was really unfair.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,289 ✭✭✭parker kent


    What a surprise that a known anti-porn poster trundles in with a Youtube video telling us all how porn will mean we no longer get erections.

    "If they won't listen to me, I'll try to scare them into it."

    Ah here now, it's hardly an outlandish theory. I've rumbled with Liah about porn on here before, but there are genuine issues with porn and erections. Now it is not everybody, but it can happen. This video is not the first time I have heard or read about this topic.

    From a personal perspective, I got bored of porn and rarely to ever look at it nowadays. And looking back I can see how it might effect erections.


  • Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    A lot of this rings true for me.

    I'm a young guy who has had ED for years. I've tended to put it down to alcohol (it is always involved, I've never really had anything more serious than flings and one night stands) and anxiety, but it's something I've suspected for a while. I may try giving it up again for a while but I imagine the same thought process will eventually win over: I'm single anyway, so what does it matter?

    Of course watching porn may have an influence into why I'm single in the first place, but it is very difficult to put the long term interest over the short term pleasure, day after day after day.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    leave out the personal sniping please


  • Registered Users Posts: 237 ✭✭greengiant09


    liah wrote: »
    Seriously? What the heck did I do to provoke that? :confused:

    Regardless, I'm not trying to imply anything - from what I've gathered it's not exactly a propaganda piece. I didn't post this because of a personal axe to grind, and I honestly don't appreciate the implication. I genuinely thought some people might find it interesting because it's to do with Erectile Dysfunction, what is so bad about that?

    Either way, I'll not be coming back to the thread. Just felt that was really unfair.

    i have to say i've had problems with ED and i'm pretty damn sure it's to do with excessive porn use. I would have been a hard user of porn before i seen videos like this and linked it with my ED problems. basically, what happened to me was that i was finding the need to search for harder and harder porn to get aroused. i didn't conciously realise this when i was doing it but i can see thats what i was doing after.

    i mean i was starting to jack off to stuff i would never do in reality in a million years but the craziness of it all was the turn on. i never ever hard a problem getting a hard on when i was watching it....

    if you think back, can you remember when you were young and you could jack off to a porn magazine....i can look at one of these now and feel basically fock all....my mind has come accustomed to hardcore videos which are a lot more stimulating.

    if you're young (under 40) and have ED....and you masturbate a lot to porn, then i recommend cutting back big time


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  • Registered Users Posts: 12,746 ✭✭✭✭FewFew


    Me thinks this is going to be a case of ignorance is bliss. Must resist pressing play, damn my curious nature!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    i think smoking does more harm then anything else...
    but also none existant sex life and having some restrained and self controll its all to easy to bash one of... .


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,912 ✭✭✭HellFireClub


    I wonder how I might be received if I started a thread in tLL on women who might have an over reliance on their vibrators???

    Seriously Mods... :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,289 ✭✭✭parker kent


    I wonder how I might be received if I started a thread in tLL on women who might have an over reliance on their vibrators???

    Seriously Mods... :rolleyes:

    I have mentioned that there before. Nobody said anything to me. Once it is relevant, who cares who posted it?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,912 ✭✭✭HellFireClub


    I have mentioned that there before. Nobody said anything to me. Once it is relevant, who cares who posted it?

    Did you start a thread on the subject or just make some general comment on the topic within some other thread???


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,670 ✭✭✭✭Wolfe Tone


    Someone give me the jist of the video?

    I can't watch it unfortunately.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,912 ✭✭✭HellFireClub


    Wolfe Tone wrote: »
    Someone give me the jist of the video?

    I can't watch it unfortunately.

    It's like reading the Irish Catholic with one eye and watching porn with the other. ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,925 ✭✭✭Otis Driftwood


    I wonder how I might be received if I started a thread in tLL on women who might have an over reliance on their vibrators???

    Seriously Mods... :rolleyes:

    Im beginning to get seriously tired of the sniping posts that are constantly being directed at the Ladies Lounge.

    For the last time.

    This is The Gentlemen's Club.

    We are self moderating and as such it is of no concern how any other forum is moderated.

    Any further mention of tLL,or any other forum on boards,in a negative,bitchy or whiny manner will result in infractions and/or bans.

    If people cant post without behaving like bloody children then they will be treated as such.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    I wonder how I might be received if I started a thread in tLL on women who might have an over reliance on their vibrators???

    Seriously Mods... :rolleyes:

    a)I've seen such posts in the ladies lounge over the years, no big issue caused by them being there

    b) in any event we're not a mirror forum of tll and what's acceptable there may not be so here and vice versa

    c) you reported the op here, no need to drag the thread off topic by discussing moderation here and other fora.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    sorry Otis, just saw your post now.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,912 ✭✭✭HellFireClub


    The video claims that 16 year old lads have ED due to watching porn, somehow I very much doubt it, it sounds like a religiously inspired piece of work and a lot of what is claimed sounds like absolute and utter rubbish imo.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,289 ✭✭✭parker kent


    The video claims that 16 year old lads have ED due to watching porn, somehow I very much doubt it, it sounds like a religiously inspired piece of work and a lot of what is claimed sounds like absolute and utter rubbish imo.

    It happens to some people whether you believe it or not.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭liah


    The video claims that 16 year old lads have ED due to watching porn, somehow I very much doubt it, it sounds like a religiously inspired piece of work and a lot of what is claimed sounds like absolute and utter rubbish imo.
    Science teacher Gary Wilson explains the physiology of erections

    Doesn't seem religious imo.

    Nowhere does it say masturbation is wrong, or that porn is full of sin or anything. It contains no social commentary. It's for men who may be experiencing ED, not for all men in general. There's even guys on this thread who said it made sense to them.

    Can you explain where the religious parts come in, because I seem to have missed it? Or are you just making assumptions about the content because you think I have some problem with all porn (which I don't, by the way) and think I'm trying to make some social commentary (which I'm not)?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,265 ✭✭✭SugarHigh


    One thing I didn't fully understand was the "novelty" aspect. You start watching porn and then it loses novelty so you have to start looking at more extreme porn to get the same level of arousal but why doesn't real sex hold the same value. If you were used to watching porn surely real sex would then start to hold novelty value the same way extreme porn did?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,912 ✭✭✭HellFireClub


    liah wrote: »
    Doesn't seem religious imo.

    Nowhere does it say masturbation is wrong, or that porn is full of sin or anything. It contains no social commentary. It's for men who may be experiencing ED, not for all men in general. There's even guys on this thread who said it made sense to them.

    Can you explain where the religious parts come in, because I seem to have missed it? Or are you just making assumptions about the content because you think I have some problem with all porn (which I don't, by the way) and think I'm trying to make some social commentary (which I'm not)?

    My point is that to say, as your source does, that 16 year old's in general do experience ED as a consequence of watching porn is just rediculous and that men in their teens and early 20's will experience ED as a result of watching porn, this is not something that I think is credible in the slightest.

    There isn't religion mentioned in the source, and there is no mention of porn being wrong or immoral, but there is clearly something driving the author to come out with such idiotic statements such as that a teenager consistently watching porn could cause the person to experience ED, and my educated guess is that it is a religious mindset behind it. You are obviously free to form your own view but I don't believe I have ever heard such rubbish in my life.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,265 ✭✭✭SugarHigh


    My point is that to say, as your source does, that 16 year old's in general do experience ED as a consequence of watching porn is just rediculous and that men in their teens and early 20's will experience ED as a result of watching porn, this is not something that I think is credible in the slightest.

    There isn't religion mentioned in the source, and there is no mention of porn being wrong or immoral, but there is clearly something driving the author to come out with such idiotic statements such as that a teenager consistently watching porn could cause the person to experience ED, and my educated guess is that it is a religious mindset behind it. You are obviously free to form your own view but I don't believe I have ever heard such rubbish in my life.

    I don't know it's not like the video was saying anything too controversial. If you watch a lot of porn you do become desensitized to it. I do think it's possible to masturbate too much and I think porn makes it very easy to do that.

    If you've ever gone a few days without masturbating you realise you do start to feel different. I was on another forum where there was basically a challenge of not **** for a month and most guys said they felt more confident and energized. I do also think there is the other end of the spectrum where not doing it enough is bad for you.

    I don't really know how much of whats in the video is related to porn or just simply masturbating more because of porn.


  • Registered Users Posts: 10,511 ✭✭✭✭28064212


    My point is that to say, as your source does, that 16 year old's in general do experience ED as a consequence of watching porn is just rediculous and that men in their teens and early 20's will experience ED as a result of watching porn, this is not something that I think is credible in the slightest.

    There isn't religion mentioned in the source, and there is no mention of porn being wrong or immoral, but there is clearly something driving the author to come out with such idiotic statements such as that a teenager consistently watching porn could cause the person to experience ED, and my educated guess is that it is a religious mindset behind it. You are obviously free to form your own view but I don't believe I have ever heard such rubbish in my life.
    "Could cause" is not the same as "will"

    My reading of the site is that it's a resource for men who have ED where porn may be the cause of it. I don't see anywhere the author has said that watching porn will cause you to have ED

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭liah


    My point is that to say, as your source does, that 16 year old's in general do experience ED as a consequence of watching porn is just rediculous and that men in their teens and early 20's will experience ED as a result of watching porn, this is not something that I think is credible in the slightest.

    There isn't religion mentioned in the source, and there is no mention of porn being wrong or immoral, but there is clearly something driving the author to come out with such idiotic statements such as that a teenager consistently watching porn could cause the person to experience ED, and my educated guess is that it is a religious mindset behind it. You are obviously free to form your own view but I don't believe I have ever heard such rubbish in my life.

    It seems to be drawn from here:

    http://yourbrainonporn.com/book/export/html/301

    I can't find anything on there that looks religious or otherwise suspect tbh. I think you may be being a bit quick rejecting it out of hand like that. Again, this isn't a problem for the majority of men, but it clearly is an issue for some or else this wouldn't exist in the first place, and there wouldn't be anyone in here feeling like it may ring true for them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,289 ✭✭✭parker kent


    SugarHigh wrote: »
    If you've ever gone a few days without masturbating you realise you do start to feel different. I was on another forum where there was basically a challenge of not **** for a month and most guys said they felt more confident and energized. I do also think there is the other end of the spectrum where not doing it enough is bad for you.

    I don't really know how much of whats in the video is related to porn or just simply masturbating more because of porn.

    Due to injury and stitches on my penis (ouchies :o) I had to go 6 weeks without anything. I wouldn't say I felt more confident and energized, but afterwards I realised the benefits of not doing it so often. Too much masturbation easily leads to desensitizing the penis and erection difficulties and porn is linked to that in a large amount of cases.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,438 ✭✭✭5live


    What rubbish! At the start he states quite categoritically that watching porn causes ED.

    Then about 7 minutes in states that no studies have been done examining porn and ED.

    Well which is it:confused::confused::confused::confused:


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