Post for everyone who QUIT evil fags

annadoll1985

stick in there tommyonbomb im on day 2 and am feeling so frustrated and bored without my cigarettes, but then i think its just i habit and if i can just get through the first few days the habit will be broken,so be strong we can do this,don't let cigarettes have the power over you.:)

HalloweenJack

Day 22 now. It's been going really well so far.

I was watching a film with a friend last night and, in it, there was a scene where one character was having a cigarette to settle his nerves. I was really tempted, the worst I've been since I quit, but, thankfully, it was around 11pm so no chance of getting any smokes. Got through it by clenching my fists (don't know why, just instinctively did it) and am feeling fine today.

celticcrash

HalloweenJack wrote: »

Day 22 now. It's been going really well so far.

I was watching a film with a friend last night and, in it, there was a scene where one character was having a cigarette to settle his nerves. I was really tempted, the worst I've been since I quit, but, thankfully, it was around 11pm so no chance of getting any smokes. Got through it by clenching my fists (don't know why, just instinctively did it) and am feeling fine today.

Thats great, your well on your way to being a non smoker. Another good thing about being off the cigs for a while is that my nervious system calmed down. I dont sweat things anymore, not in a physical sence. I am just a lot calmer these days.
That feeling of nervousness around stressfull situations has gone. Of course I can feel stress but having nicoteen in my system used to make stressfull situations feel a lot worse than they were.
It took a few months for it to calm.
Its a good feeling, for a few years there I forgot what it felt like without having a stimulant in my system.
And you can look forward to that. Cool calm and collected.:cool:

username123

Just thought Id drop in and say hi and encourage the newer quitters.

Im into my 9th month off the dirty smokes - yes, NINTH!!! Crazy, had never even attempted a quit in my previous 20+ years of smoking. I recently made it to the end of my couch to 5k program, me, who literally couldnt run for more than 10 or 20 seconds without my heart feeling like it was bursting in my chest and my head pounding so badly that I thought I was having a stroke!! I had myself well fooled, was doing plenty of exercise, but it was all anerobic exercise, never got that heart rate right up!

Anyway, I feel fitter than ever, and so happy Im not a slave to the cigarettes anymore. Ive been through pretty much every situation that I feared and its all been fine.

Its the best thing you can ever do for yourself, my only regret is how much money and time and health I wasted smoking for so many years!!! Why didnt I quit 10 years ago??? Who knows, at least Im off them now.

Vizzy

Well done username.

I knew that I was coming up to my 6 month anniversary and it is/was actually one hour ago.

For any new quitters,4 bits of advice;

1. Really want to give up before you start
2. Excercise more than you did before quitting
3. Don't worry about putting on weight/weird dreams/moodiness.
These all pass and you will feel brilliant after a while
4. The cravings stop !

Best of luck.

Amazingfun

I was off them for nearly 10 years and for some bizarre reason I started up again in the last month.

Yep: it's like riding a bicycle, you never lose the 'skill'.

I am not going to buy another pack and get back on track. The price of the things now have me (and my wallet) in shock!

BunShopVoyeur

Back on the little deckers after a few too many drinks at the weekend. That was a waste of a month.

I'm booking the Allen Carr seminar this evening.

Anybody else gone to this? Effective?

username123

BunShopVoyeur wrote: »

Back on the little deckers after a few too many drinks at the weekend. That was a waste of a month.

It so was not a waste of a month!! Physical changes will have taken place in your brain with the receptors and if you are only just back on them you wont have had time to regrow those receptors so just stop again, right now!

BunShopVoyeur

Cheers for that. I haven't had one today and don't intend to. Going through it all again just seems daunting.

I'm definitely trying the seminar. Hopefully this weekend.

Korvanica

Failed miserably last time...

5 days in now...

sick of smelling like crap... everytime I have one I realise how bad my fingers smell... disgusting!

username123

BunShopVoyeur wrote: »

Cheers for that. I haven't had one today and don't intend to. Going through it all again just seems daunting.

I'm definitely trying the seminar. Hopefully this weekend.

Have you tried the book? I read it when I was a day or two in, I did think it was good, although I had already made the decision to quit when I started it - so like your frame of mind, want to, ready to.

Dont be worrying about it being daunting, its a big thing, and what you are going through is a learning curve, you know now that a few too many drinks is a risk, so maybe avoid that for a while this time? I was afraid to drink, I didnt have more than one or two drinks until I was over 3 months in and the night I did was a hens party and I worried about it for weeks in advance - but it was fine!

BunShopVoyeur

Yeah I read the book about four years ago. It was amazing, it was like a switch flipped and I didn't need or want to smoke at all.

However it doesn't seem to hit home the same way the second time...it helps a little but it's not the same.

I am quitting this time despite this hiccup so I'd rather spend the €300 for the six hour course and be done with it.


That's good advice about simply avoiding alcohol, seems like the sensible thing to do.

username123

BunShopVoyeur wrote: »

That's good advice about simply avoiding alcohol, seems like the sensible thing to do.

I still had 2 or 3 drinks on occasion, I just didnt go past 3 drinks because I knew that that would be my possible area of failure and I really really wanted to be free of the bloody things!

Youre gonna do it. Your head is in the right place and thats half the battle.

youcancallmeal

BunShopVoyeur wrote: »

Yeah I read the book about four years ago. It was amazing, it was like a switch flipped and I didn't need or want to smoke at all.

However it doesn't seem to hit home the same way the second time...it helps a little but it's not the same.

I am quitting this time despite this hiccup so I'd rather spend the €300 for the six hour course and be done with it.


That's good advice about simply avoiding alcohol, seems like the sensible thing to do.

I haven't done the course but from what I've read and also what a friend who has done it has said it is just the same concepts that are presented in the book. That "revelation" you talk about having the first time you read the book is what they want you to have when you are doing the course. Also they expect you to be still smoking during the course.

Sure if you really think it will help go for it but if it was me I would re-read the book and put that money towards a reward for myself if I'd stay off the smokes for the next say 3 months?

BunShopVoyeur

I suppose you're right, it is a lot of money. I'm going to try the book once more or maybe listen to it this time.

Will take username123's advice too and be very careful with alcohol for the next while.

I hate this shît, only back smoking a couple of days and could barely breath on the bike this morning.

Crazy. Has to stop.

username123

Youre thinking 'I need something to get me off them' - but the truth is that your head is playing games with you, you dont need anything, you can do it yourself - youve already done it yourself!!

Think of the past few days as a slip, youre still off them.

girlonfire

^ True. I gave up back in January of this year and have managed to stay off them. Glad to have that crap out of my system now:)

BunShopVoyeur

I'm attending the Allen Carr seminar at one o'clock. Really nervous but also very excited.

Fingers crossed

sarahbro

I'm off them 6 days now and was doing great!
Woke up with mad cravings today and all i want to do is run to the shop and buy a pack of smokes :-/

Riamfada

Im off them now 10 months. My trick was not to think about it as "quitting smoking" but just "stopping buying cigarettes".

I also got n aquarium. They are very time consuming.

Amazingfun

I am on day three off the ciggs again: thank da Lord.

I like what was said above: if you have a slip, think of it as that--a slip, noting more! I was off smokes for 10 years and have been back smoking for only a couple of months but wow, do my lungs (and my wallet) feel the damage. I got myself one of those e-cigarette (vaping) packages and it has indeed helped a bit. Early days again, and I even though I admit I do feel the pull towards buying another pack of Malboros, lol, but I have resisted as I am not going back.
I am a Non-smoker who had a brief detour, and now I am getting back on track.

The story we tell ourselves is very important I think

sarahbro

sarahbro wrote: »

I'm off them 6 days now and was doing great!
Woke up with mad cravings today and all i want to do is run to the shop and buy a pack of smokes :-/

I bought them so pissed off with myself and feeling like a guilty teenager smoking while himself is away

Maggie 2

I quit 28 years ago, after a number of failures! I bought a cardboard calendar an every night crossed of the day. It was small enough to keep in my purse and during the day, when I'd get a longing, I'd count the days and tell myself that I'd suffered that long, that I wasn't going to fail now. That was in August. I kept that calendar and still have an odd peek! I also gave up drinking for the remainder of that year and took up knitting. It was one of the hardest thing I've ever done in my life and one of the most worthwhile.

Amazingfun

I bought them so pissed off with myself and feeling like a guilty teenager smoking while himself is away

Hey don't be too hard on yourself. Tomorrow is another day to do things differently.

Ps: I hope you enjoy them

youcancallmeal

BunShopVoyeur wrote: »

I'm attending the Allen Carr seminar at one o'clock. Really nervous but also very excited.

Fingers crossed

Let us know how you got on and what you think of the course?

2 months of them myself today, cold turkey!

BunShopVoyeur

Ok, so I went to the Allen Carr seminar yesterday.


I feel great today and even (under instruction) went out like it was a normal Saturday night. Had a few too many beers last night but didn't want a smoke. Delighted with that.

It lasted from one until half six and to be honest if you've read one of his books the first three hours may seem a little boring because you'll no doubt have his mantras already drilled into your head. (It's worth it)

We were sent out for a cigarette every hour and it was bizarre watching people gradually becoming more reluctant to go outside for one and openly not enjoying them towards the end. The "final cigarette" made me and from what I could tell, everybody else, feel ill.

It's only been a day so i'll reign in the praise a little bit but I've never gotten drunk and not wanted to smoke before, that was a big first for me so I'm naturally very excited by that. (I even laughed when my drunken girlfriend suggest we share one on the way home, crazy how other smokers will try to draw you back in if the sense you're free )

It may seem expensive but if it works for you as well as i think it has for me then it's cheap.


I will of course post here if I have a spectacular failure This time feels different though.

pajodublin

BunShopVoyeur wrote: »

I even laughed when my drunken girlfriend suggest we share one on the way home, crazy how other smokers will try to draw you back in if the sense you're free

She doesn't sound like a very nice girlfriend

BunShopVoyeur

pajodublin wrote:

She doesn't sound like a very nice girlfriend

Ah she is usually. I went mad at her yesterday morning though.

She is trying to quit herself and we'd usually crack after a few beers. Not anymore though.

I've told her that i'll let it go once.

username123

BunShopVoyeur wrote: »

She is trying to quit herself and we'd usually crack after a few beers. Not anymore though.

Why dont ye knock off the few beers for a few weeks to get yourselves well bedded in as non smokers? Avoid the danger zone.

BunShopVoyeur

username123 wrote:

Why dont ye knock off the few beers for a few weeks to get yourselves well bedded in as non smokers? Avoid the danger zone.

I'll certainly be taking it easier but the lady who ran the seminar was adamant that you shouldn't change anything at all. If I find I'm thinking about smoking excessively I'll just go home earlier.