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Would ya ever go out with black women/man??

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,565 ✭✭✭southsiderosie


    Mad amount of people not attracted to black people. I couldn't imagine a heterosexual male not being attracted to most of the black women I see out and about.

    Well, I'm mixed race, grew up in a neighborhood (in the US) that was mainly mixed race or black people, and I was never really attracted to white people. I did have a crush on this one white guy when I was 16, but that was mainly because he had big legs and an enormous ass, and he liked A Tribe Called Quest as much as I did. I never dated white guys until I was in my 30s and living in Ireland. As I get older, I think my tastes are more cultural than racial/ethnic.

    However, given the current demographics in Dublin, I'm hoping that in a decade or so there will be a significant subset of hot Afro-Irish 20-something boy-toys that I can prey upon are head-turners. :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 295 ✭✭shrewd


    easynote wrote: »
    When I look back, it seems like the older I get, the less attracted I am to people not my race...

    Strange, never thought of that before.

    could it be that you've become less curious


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    shrewd wrote: »
    could it be that you've become less curious

    ...penis function shutting down too.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Anybody like an average looking thirty something pink guy \o/


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,272 ✭✭✭✭Max Power1


    Mad amount of people not attracted to black people. I couldn't imagine a heterosexual male not being attracted to most of the black women I see out and about.
    I doubt one red blooded male would seriously pick an ugly white girl over a stunning black girl?

    EG choose between Beyonce or Janice from Coronation Street.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 137 ✭✭Banji


    bubbaloo wrote: »
    I don't really get the question because to me it depends on the guy. I could'n generalise by saying I wouldn't find someone of a certain skin colour attractive. There are attractive black guys and attractive white guys - the same way there are ugly black guys and ugly white guys! :confused:

    The question is not that difficult to understand.

    I've never been attracted to a black girl who has very dark skin before.


  • Registered Users Posts: 927 ✭✭✭Hasmunch


    I definately would, i find most mixed-race and some black people very attractive.

    Well as long as she's not a nagger....
    I don't like naggers


  • Registered Users Posts: 295 ✭✭shrewd


    Banji wrote: »
    The question is not that difficult to understand.

    I've never been attracted to a black girl who has very dark skin before.
    Would you say that after watching an erotic film or display by a very dark skin girl


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 7,458 Mod ✭✭✭✭CathyMoran


    No because I am happily married. When I was younger I had a crush on http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tunde_Baiyewu - lead singer Lighthouse Family.


  • Registered Users Posts: 112 ✭✭easynote


    shrewd wrote: »
    could it be that you've become less curious

    Probably. Or more conservative, unwillingly.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 412 ✭✭MCMLXXXIII


    I've always said: try everything twice, in case the first time was a fluke.

    I tried it, twice, and I didn't have any thoughts (good or bad). I'm quite selective though :cool:

    ...my sister's into it though!


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,212 ✭✭✭Mrmoe


    I definitely would but it would all depend on where they grew up and what culture they were exposed to. I have that women born and raised in somewhere like Nigeria do not have attractive personalities where as other people who would have Nigerian ancestry but born and raised in Ireland, UK or France are much easier to get along with. Physically there are many stunning black women so I would have no hesitation on that side either.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,565 ✭✭✭southsiderosie


    Wibbs wrote: »
    Funny what was noted earlier that light toned women feature much more in the sexy category and with men it makes no diff. I recall reading somewhere that in a fair few parts of the world, including africa lighter colour in women is considered more attractive among all sorts of populations. Chances are its probably cultural though. Though you would think black guys would be included in that?

    The whole light skinned/long haired girl thing is HUGE within the black community in the US. And there is definitely a cultural and media bias favoring women who fit that description. The history of it is too long to go into here, but it's ****ed up. Suffice to say that it was a big deal for a lot of black women that Barack Obama not only married a black woman, but married a darker-skinned black woman.

    I think it is less of an issue for black men because it's a bit faddish... sometimes the "light-skinned pretty boy" look is popular, and sometimes, it's the dark-skinned 50-cent/Tyson Beckford look that's in. I think that in general though, the "Chocolate brothas" get more love than the "chocolate ladies".


  • Registered Users Posts: 112 ✭✭easynote


    Mrmoe wrote: »
    I definitely would but it would all depend on where they grew up and what culture they were exposed to. I have that women born and raised in somewhere like Nigeria do not have attractive personalities where as other people who would have Nigerian ancestry but born and raised in Ireland, UK or France are much easier to get along with. Physically there are many stunning black women so I would have no hesitation on that side either.

    Maybe because the women that grew up in Nigeria had to put up with a lot of abuse, possibly including female circumcision.


  • Registered Users Posts: 7,450 ✭✭✭Blisterman


    Black girls are definitely an acquired taste, but there's definitely some truth in the saying "once you go black, you never go back".


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,212 ✭✭✭Mrmoe


    easynote wrote: »
    Maybe because the women that grew up in Nigeria had to put up with a lot of abuse, possibly including female circumcision.

    Quite possibly and it generally only seemed to be the women as well. Although it could just be the very small sample that I have met.


  • Registered Users Posts: 32,370 ✭✭✭✭Son Of A Vidic


    I'd go out with anyone, the question is - where are we going out to?


  • Registered Users Posts: 295 ✭✭shrewd


    Mrmoe wrote: »
    I have heard that women born and raised in somewhere like Nigeria do not have attractive personalities where as other people who would have Nigerian ancestry but born and raised in Ireland, UK or France are much easier to get along with. .

    True, but let's not jump to conclusion here. i think their personalities are not just attractive to us.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,102 ✭✭✭Stinicker


    Would I go out with an African black woman? No, I don't think I would even a one night stand tbh. I find them intimidating to be honest.

    Mixed race women are different and having had a one night stand with a half German/Jamaican I can't say their is anything special. Wouldn't date one either.

    I like Asian women alot especially Thai and Filipino and would date them but never marry or have kids with. I find Caucasian/Thai mixed race women to be irresistible (google Terra Patrick maybe NSFW) and Thai/White mixed race would be about the only non Caucasian I'd ever consider for marriage and kids but it all comes down to compatibility etc.

    I'd say in Irish society, White Men and Asian women and White Women and Black men are the biggest interracial parings.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,587 ✭✭✭Pace2008


    Stinicker wrote: »
    I like Asian women alot especially Thai and Filipino and would date them but never marry or have kids with. I find Caucasian/Thai mixed race women to be irresistible (google Terra Patrick maybe NSFW) and Thai/White mixed race would be about the only non Caucasian I'd ever consider for marriage and kids but it all comes down to compatibility etc.
    Eh?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 6,810 ✭✭✭phill106


    Stinicker wrote: »
    Would I go out with an African black woman? No, I don't think I would even a one night stand tbh. I find them intimidating to be honest.

    Mixed race women are different and having had a one night stand with a half German/Jamaican I can't say their is anything special. Wouldn't date one either.

    I like Asian women alot especially Thai and Filipino and would date them but never marry or have kids with. I find Caucasian/Thai mixed race women to be irresistible (google Terra Patrick maybe NSFW) and Thai/White mixed race would be about the only non Caucasian I'd ever consider for marriage and kids but it all comes down to compatibility etc.

    I'd say in Irish society, White Men and Asian women and White Women and Black men are the biggest interracial parings.
    Pace2008 wrote: »
    Eh?
    He'd ride 'em, then hide 'em!
    What would mammy say if he brought home a lady from outside of ireland, good god!


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,615 ✭✭✭Hail 2 Da Thief


    Personally I don't have a preference or dislike for any particular race. A good looking girl is a good looking girl in my book.
    One of the hottest looking girls I've ever seen was a black girl who asked me for directions in Paris. Sweet Jesus she was some woman!

    There's nothing racist about being unattracted to black people or any other particular race for that matter. If it doesn't float your boat it doesn't float your boat. I know white guys who are unattracted to white girls


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,277 ✭✭✭poisonated


    I don't think I could go out with anyone who doesn't speak English as their first language.

    Just to be on the safe side, I understand that quite a few black people do speak English as their first language. I would happily go out with them.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,102 ✭✭✭Stinicker


    Pace2008 wrote: »
    Eh?

    I don't think I would ever marry a Thai or Asian woman, Terra Patrick is a Caucasian/Thai mix, however she is also a huge pornstar (given shes so damn hot) and the NSFW means Not Safe for Work which is a polite warning to boardies if they google her they may return something unsafe for work.


  • Registered Users Posts: 295 ✭✭shrewd


    Stinicker wrote: »
    I don't think I would ever marry a Thai or Asian woman, Terra Patrick is a Caucasian/Thai mix, however she is also a huge pornstar (given shes so damn hot) and theNSFW means Not Safe for Work which is a polite warning to boardies if they google her they may return something unsafe for work.
    should have said that before i search for her. thank goodness, i was using bing. it's didn't display any images.

    I kinda guess searching for her would be unsafe though


  • Registered Users Posts: 112 ✭✭easynote


    Stinicker wrote: »
    I don't think I would ever marry a Thai or Asian woman, Terra Patrick is a Caucasian/Thai mix, however she is also a huge pornstar (given shes so damn hot) and the NSFW means Not Safe for Work which is a polite warning to boardies if they google her they may return something unsafe for work.

    I thought Pace 2008 meant "eh?" as in 'what?!', not as in 'please clarify'.


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,559 ✭✭✭Millicent


    Ladies, I give you Taye Diggs. Homina homina homina!

    Also: Blair Underwood. Youtube him to hear him talk... *drools*


  • Registered Users Posts: 13,083 ✭✭✭✭How Soon Is Now


    Right so to answer some people no my family aint racist my grandfather is Indian ffs lol my father is dark.

    My whole point was simple as this just a question to men/women would you go out with black person do you find them as attractive as white people thats all.

    Ya theres good looking people of all races of course all i was saying was that ive never found black women to be my thing at all that goes for the movie stars and pop stars and whoever just never did it for me.
    And i was just curious to see what other people taught.

    And by way ya i noticed someone said maybe there black people on boards cool maybe there is but i wasnt asking them was i ? lol


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,700 ✭✭✭fonecrusher1


    You lot saying you just don't find black women attractive aren't racist, your just blind.

    TyraBanks.jpg

    Rihanna5.jpg

    beyonce.jpg

    Get'da-fack-atta-hee....

    :pac:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,587 ✭✭✭Pace2008


    easynote wrote: »
    I thought Pace 2008 meant "eh?" as in 'what?!', not as in 'please clarify'.
    I was wondering why he'd date an Asian but wouldn't marry or have children with them.


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