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Would ya ever go out with black women/man??

  • 22-09-2010 2:08pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,173 ✭✭✭✭How Soon Is Now


    Now im not trying be racist so dont think i am!!

    My point is if your white do u personally find black people sexy ??
    I ask this cause i dont and never have guess just way i am :p but i have once or twice got african women come on to me and kinda half surprised me.

    Just told them wasnt interested does this come across as being racist so??


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,348 ✭✭✭KTRIC


    Now I'm not a racist but .....







    Well actually I am :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,442 ✭✭✭MickShamrock


    In before the lock! :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,565 ✭✭✭✭Cookie_Monster


    well you could never go back so you'd want to be pretty sure they're the one ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,461 ✭✭✭--Kaiser--


    Never seen a photo of Halle Berry before, no?


  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Beatrice Green Scalpel


    Why is "women" pluralised and "man" isn't?
    Do I even want to know why?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,838 ✭✭✭✭3hn2givr7mx1sc


    Yes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭liah


    Based on looks alone? Probably not. There's something about their bone structure that just doesn't appeal to me. Crackin' bodies on some of them, though. And there are a few I find immediately attractive, but they tend to be mixed race (e.g. that black dude on CSI Las Vegas, daaamn!)

    I'm sure I could end up in a relationship with someone of any colour if they won me over personality-wise, but black people (and Asian men) do little for me.

    I'm not sure what it is, probably some evolutionary leftover that means people of a certain colour stick together to propagate or what have you.

    Really doubt it makes anyone racist, though, nobody can force themselves to be attracted to someone or control who they're attracted to.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,530 ✭✭✭TheInquisitor


    But what would my mother say ????????


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,351 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    Personally no. I know some people might find it strange but I am actually never attracted to coloured/black men. He could be drop dead gorgeous for all I care, he wouldn't do anything for me. I'm sorry if that comes out spiteful but its just the way it is for me. I grew up in very much a white people environment. I'd have no problems being friends with someone coloured/black but I wouldn't go out with them cause I have never been attracted to them ever and due to other reasons too. The obvious, culture, values, religious reasons and my family wouldn't approve of it especially my mam, I wouldn't approve it myself. I am more attracted to white men simple as.

    I don't think it comes across like that for you, you just simply told him you aren't interested thats fine. Don't worry about it, hope he didn't take it too heart.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,063 ✭✭✭✭Kintarō Hattori


    Everyone is different and if you don't think a black person sexy/attractive then that's fine. Just look aroud you though and you'll see that plenty of other people do. A sexy/attractive/adorable person is just that and the colour of their skin doesn't matter.

    Personally I have seen many stunning black ladies and as long as they have a good personality then that's all that matters. I wouldn't let the colour of their skin bother me- attraction is more than just the colour of a persons skin.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,293 ✭✭✭✭Mint Sauce


    Do you assume that none of us are black OP?

    But in answer to your question, yes i would, if i met one who i found attractive, that i got on well with, had a good personality (and i have) and she felt the same about me. The same rule would apply regardless of their race.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    Would ya ever go out with black women/man??

    No.
    Signed
    Tiger Woods.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,241 ✭✭✭Sanjuro




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,704 ✭✭✭squod


    n


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,595 ✭✭✭bonerm


    I'm not narrow minded like that. I don't judge a woman by the colour of her skin.

    I instead judge her by her nationality, culture, upbringing and family wealth.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,327 ✭✭✭Sykk


    Ye I would.. Never been with a black woman before.. I'd love one of those big ghetto booties :D
    Fap


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,944 ✭✭✭✭Links234


    My point is if your white do u personally find black people sexy ??

    that's a bit of a broad question, isn't it?
    like, there are people I'm attracted to, and some of them can be black

    I think Sophie Okonedo is sexy


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,941 ✭✭✭thebigbiffo


    well...

    i like big butts and i cannot lie,
    no other brother can deny,
    when a chick walks in with an ityy bitty waist and a round thing in your face you get ssssspruuuung

    ehhhh, thats a yes then ted


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,725 ✭✭✭charlemont


    black woman have a personality that irish women will never have....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 758 ✭✭✭bubbaloo


    I don't really get the question because to me it depends on the guy. I could'n generalise by saying I wouldn't find someone of a certain skin colour attractive. There are attractive black guys and attractive white guys - the same way there are ugly black guys and ugly white guys! :confused:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    Sykk wrote: »
    Ye I would.. Never been with a black woman before.. I'd love one of those big ghetto booties :D
    well...

    i like big butts and i cannot lie,
    no other brother can deny,
    when a chick walks in with an ityy bitty waist and a round thing in your face you get ssssspruuuung

    ehhhh, thats a yes then ted

    If black is such a slimming colour, how come black womens arses are always massive?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,254 ✭✭✭Wompa1


    Not in a racist way but no not really. Mixed race women are very attractive but black women for the most part just don't appeal to me at all. I don't know what it is. Beyonce is gorgeous and has a great body but she's lighter toned.

    Most men are into Asian chicks but I've never found them particularly appealing. Although if the legends are true then they are the for men what black men are to women in regards to pleasure zones....awwww yeah!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,944 ✭✭✭✭Links234


    Oh god how could I forget her! Freema Agyeman! :D

    http://venus.provocateuse.com/images/photos/freema__agyeman_03.jpg

    /geek

    but I don't even think about race, I just like who I like and that's that


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,456 ✭✭✭✭Mr Benevolent


    Yes I would.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    I should be so lucky.

    I have seen tons of hot black girls I'd love to date.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,903 ✭✭✭Napper Hawkins


    --Kaiser-- wrote: »
    Never seen a photo of Halle Berry before, no?

    Halle Berry is half white so I'm not sure if she counts.

    An attractive person is an attractive person regardless of their ethnicity though.

    I don't think the OP is a racist but his family certainly appears to be.


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 35,919 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    charlemont wrote: »
    black woman have a personality that irish women will never have....

    What about black Irish women?

    What about if you fell for a woman and only found out she was black afterwards - would you change your mind?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,401 ✭✭✭Royal Irish


    charlemont wrote: »
    black woman have a personality that irish women will never have....

    Thats not f#cking hard :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 370 ✭✭Fallen Buckshot


    has a pulse ...Check
    Smells good ... Check
    can hold a convo... Check
    has a job ... Check

    those are my requirements :P

    blind people have it easy .. doesnt matter what color you are they will never know :P


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,351 ✭✭✭✭starlit


    A lot depends on who you are attracted too! What ever floats your boat!;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,944 ✭✭✭✭Links234


    What about black Irish women?

    What about if you fell for a woman and only found out she was black afterwards - would you change your mind?

    What? :confused:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,750 ✭✭✭liah


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    Why did you ignore the black people on Boards in your OP and just address AH as if it where 100% white?

    An ethnicity poll in AH would be interesting..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,178 ✭✭✭✭NothingMan


    As a race there are some very distinguishing features that are very different to other races, same as Asians have their typical features and us Irish have our freckles and paleness, but on the right black woman the nose, lips and especially the a$$ are very sexy.

    I have seen plenty of African women around Dublin that have almost made me walk into poles, and I don't mean light toned or mixed race but proper stunning African women.

    So yes, yes I would.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    charlemont wrote: »
    black woman have a personality that irish women will never have....

    All black women have the same personality? :rolleyes:

    Jaysus - that'd be news to the few black girls I've been out with.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 53,267 ✭✭✭✭GavRedKing


    Short answer, yes, I would as long as I found her attractive and was drawn to her personality then it wouldnt bother me to go out with a black girl.


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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,360 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    has a pulse ...Check
    Smells good ... Check
    can hold a convo... Check
    has a job ... Check

    those are my requirements :P

    blind people have it easy .. doesnt matter what color you are they will never know :P

    Like the way you check for a Pulse first...

    ...You haven't been caught out on that before have you?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,274 ✭✭✭_feedback_


    charlemont wrote: »
    black woman have a personality that irish women will never have....

    Wow, there are so many things wrong with this statement.

    I don't have enough fingers to count them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,037 ✭✭✭✭SEPT 23 1989


    I only date Eskimo women


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,874 ✭✭✭✭Ash.J.Williams


    charlemont wrote: »
    black woman have a personality that irish women will never have....
    generalise much


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,762 ✭✭✭✭stupidusername


    I don't seem to find black guys attractive. It's nothing necessarily to do with their skin colour, it just happens that i haven't fancied any black guys. Half n halves are a different story though..... there's a few guys there that i could fancy....

    such as seth gilliam.... ohm!

    MV5BMTgxNDExMTIwNV5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTcwNDM2ODQ1MQ@@._V1._SX290_SY400_.jpg


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,817 ✭✭✭✭po0k




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 230 ✭✭Under A Funeral Moon


    No, definitely not. Sure, some of them have nice personalities etc., but I don't find them in any way attractive. Never have and the odds are that I probably never will.

    Scandinavian looks are what does it for me. Can't beat the pale skin, blonde hair and big *ahem* stature. :D;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    charlemont wrote: »
    black woman have a personality that irish women will never have....

    Around where I live there are 18 and 19 year old girls with very thick Dublin accents that seem to have the same personalities as their Irish friends.

    I think personality is pretty much down to environment and up briging, skin colour would have little or no bearing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,316 ✭✭✭✭amacachi


    liah wrote: »
    Based on looks alone? Probably not. There's something about their bone structure that just doesn't appeal to me. Crackin' bodies on some of them, though. And there are a few I find immediately attractive, but they tend to be mixed race (e.g. that black dude on CSI Las Vegas, daaamn!)
    Are there any non-mixed blacks widely represented in the media who aren't mixed somewhat? Whenever I say I don't find black women attractive people will list off a load of brown women. :pac:

    I don't see me ever going out with a black woman, I just don't find them attractive. Middle Easterners and Southeast Asians though, that's a whole other kettle of fish.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,949 ✭✭✭The Waltzing Consumer


    I don't seem to find black guys attractive. It's nothing necessarily to do with their skin colour, it just happens that i haven't fancied any black guys. Half n halves are a different story though..... there's a few guys there that i could fancy....

    such as seth gilliam.... ohm!

    MV5BMTgxNDExMTIwNV5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTcwNDM2ODQ1MQ@@._V1._SX290_SY400_.jpg

    It's Carver!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,903 ✭✭✭Napper Hawkins


    charlemont wrote: »
    black woman have a personality that irish women will never have....

    Right yeah, and pray tell which black women are you talking about?

    I mean obviously English, American, French, African, German and Irish black women/men all think, sound and act exactly the same don't they?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,739 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    In general I don't find black men sexy, but then I don't find blonds all that sexy either. However, personality is a lot more important, and attractive, than appearances.

    That said, Danny John-Jules is hella-sexy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,762 ✭✭✭✭stupidusername


    It's Carver!

    It can be whatever he wants it to be ... nyom!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 58,456 ✭✭✭✭ibarelycare


    People still say "coloured"?? :confused:


    Anyway, I'm generally not attracted to black men, but there are a couple that I find very sexy, for example Pharrell Williams


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,591 ✭✭✭✭Aidric





    To answer your question it depends on the scale. Anything in the Guinness range I don't find attractive but a more cappuccino type skin tone I find very agreeable.


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