Lick outs - lads perspective

LegacyUser

is anyone else like me!!

it just repulses me - tried it once never again!!

am i the only one?? Are there lads out there who actually physically enjoy giving them??

Wibbs

I love them. On so many levels.

qz

Awesome, love giving them! And mate I can bet you'll be bj-free for a while if you don't reciprocate.

Otis Driftwood

I take it you are a bloke OP?
Personally I love going down on a girl but like everything in life,its different strokes for different folks.

What didnt you like as a matter of interest?

CDfm

Wibbs wrote: »

I love them. On so many levels.

should we not ask

Silverfish

Unregistered wrote: »

is anyone else like me!!

it just repulses me - tried it once never again!!

am i the only one?? Are there lads out there who actually physically enjoy giving them??

Tbh with you, this shouldn't even be a personal issue for you - it doesn't matter if other people like giving them or not. If you don't like it, don't do it.

Never feel forced or pressured into doing anything you don't want.

ownknee

qz wrote: »

Awesome, love giving them! And mate I can bet you'll be bj-free for a while if you don't reciprocate.

Not true. Not doubting your love of giving but not many are like that. Have a friend who is has a rough patch on her knees from being 'nice'.
Her partner has no rough patches. But she seems happy enough with that arrangement.

Miss Fluff

Why have you copied this first post verbatim dear?

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055499189

Silverfish

Miss Fluff wrote: »

Why have you copied this first post verbatim dear?

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055499189

Miss Fluff, not all threads are just for the benefit of the OP, they may also benefit other readers who are hoping to see something to help them.

If you have an issue with a post, please report it, do not drag the thread off topic.

qz

ownknee wrote: »

Not true. Not doubting your love of giving but not many are like that. Have a friend who is has a rough patch on her knees from being 'nice'.
Her partner has no rough patches. But she seems happy enough with that arrangement.

If that's what works for them that's fine, but I'd honestly wonder why your friend would put up with it.

Anyway, neither here nor there, slightly OT.

minidazzler

Love 'em, extremely intimate, taste is fantastic, smell isn't bad if she washes properly, And I prefer to make a girl cum than myself.

ownknee

qz wrote: »

If that's what works for them that's fine, but I'd honestly wonder why your friend would put up with it.

Anyway, neither here nor there, slightly OT.

Maybe but theres give & take in everything. He doesn't like the way she files her nails down in front of him but he puts up with it.
Yes the world is a strange place.

Overheal

minidazzler wrote: »

taste is fantastic, smell isn't bad if she washes properly

Thats a good point. She could have bad hygiene or be on a piss poor diet and everything down there is going to smell and taste off.

The_Jabberwock

As long as she's got a clean snoo, they're awesome.

ShawnRaven

To quote Peter Griffin, being engaged to a redhead but...
"I LIKE TO EAT RED CARPET!!!!!"

fabman

They're great but girls need to make sure they ain't in any way smelly - otherwise forget about it not a hope in hell.

ShawnRaven

fabman wrote: »

They're great but girls need to make sure they ain't in any way smelly - otherwise forget about it not a hope in hell.

To be fair, that works for guys and blowjobs too
I know if i had a crusty cock, i wouldn't expect a girl to go down on me either!

MIN2511

Hmm....

As a girl i ABSOLUTELY LOVE them but not all females do. Reason's being they feel insecure about having someone down there even if they are waxed and clean.

LD 50

I like giving them. And for the most part, I'm usually not repaid in kind. So its not that I do it to get head after.

Mmmm_Lemony

The girl I'm seeing at the moment doesn't like it, and not because she doesn't enjoy it, but because she is very shy... I'm actually very shy myself, except in the bedroom, and I love doing it, and judging by peoples reactions do a fairly thorough job at it too... It's a shame really that she doesn't like it but she's coming round (excuse the pun)

My take is that its just part of the antics, If you don't like it, you don't like it... No problem, but if its for the wroing reasons maybe you could try a few things... For example if you would actually like to do it but something is putting you off then that something can be sorted...

dny123456

Never liked it myself, but then i found out I was gay, so that might explain it! Recently I've been thinking it might be fun again, but in reality it probably wouldn't be. Always seemed there was no real 'conclusion', just went on forever! Smell didn't bother me, as others have said, if all's been properly washed, it's fine.

Dakeyras

as always whatever you enjoy with your partner is what you you both want. each to your own. what makes you happy and your partner wanting to do that is what its about. each to their own

CDfm

dny123456 wrote: »

Never liked it myself, but then i found out I was gay, so that might explain it! .

that would probably do it -very funny:D

LegacyUser

the feeling of a girl clamping your head down with her legs while lifting her body off the bed in pure pleasure is something all men should experience.

minidazzler

Unregistered wrote: »

the feeling of a girl clamping your head down with her legs while lifting her body off the bed in pure pleasure is something all men should experience.

I totally agree with this statement. It become's even better if your hair is long enough that they can tear at it!!! (But then I am one who enjoys pain)


One of the best things about going muff diving, you will know if she is coming. Usually anyway!!! As I said I love it!!!

Dakeyras

its a sexual wonderful experience with your partner, same goes for the earlier thread about blow jobs. you enjoy making your partner enjoy is the bottom line. if thats not your thing then say so but in an open completely sexual relationship all is permitted with your partners consent

Darthhoob

my partner loves doing them, though he has told me that he has not enjoyed it so much with some of his ex's lol. he says every girl he has done it with tastes different so that would be a factor i imagine. he also isn't keen on blowjobs himself, never has been (though i quite enjoy doing them). he'd much rather give than recieve.

Dakeyras

everyone tastes different. you're all a snowflake!

some like, some dont. such is life. each to their own

Dudess

Unregistered wrote: »

is anyone else like me!!

it just repulses me - tried it once never again!!

am i the only one?? Are there lads out there who actually physically enjoy giving them??

Presume that's a dig at the girl who started the blowjobs thread - some people don't enjoy performing fellatio when they're sexually inexperienced or it's not with the right person. Get over it - it's really not that shocking or unreasonable. And ditto for cunnilingus.

qz wrote: »

Awesome, love giving them! And mate I can bet you'll be bj-free for a while if you don't reciprocate.

qz wrote: »

If that's what works for them that's fine, but I'd honestly wonder why your friend would put up with it.

I agree with others who say that's not exactly mature - if a man doesn't enjoy giving head but his partner does, it would be rather petty for the woman to with-hold oral until her partner does something he doesn't enjoy - that's called coercion. And if she enjoys doing it anyway, why not continue?
That said, I think there's something up with an otherwise intimate, loving, committed, respectful relationship if a partner has reservations about orally pleasuring their partner... and I think it's worth investigating it rather than just leaving it as it is.

fabman wrote: »

They're great but girls need to make sure they ain't in any way smelly - otherwise forget about it not a hope in hell.

Yeah, people who haven't washed in a while and know things are whiffy down there yet whip off their undergarments and let their partner go down on them... are mingers.

AARRRGH

Unregistered wrote: »

it just repulses me - tried it once never again!!

Don't let one fishy vagina put you off! Seriously, it could have just been the particular girl you were with.

Try it a few more times (i.e. different women) and if you still don't like it, well then that's fair enough.

CDfm

I just got a warning-so i edited my post- but really some of the stuff on female hygene of lack of it is just gross and is enough to put anyone off.

Lone Stone

I hate when im making out with my other half and she puts her hand on my head and trys to lead me down there :mad: like that is like the bigist no no in the world !

I think maybe they should have a good old wash down there before hand maybe a warm bubble bath or steamy shower its the least they could do.

MadgeBadge

Lone Stone wrote: »

I hate when im making out with my other half and she puts her hand on my head and trys to lead me down there :mad: like that is like the bigist no no in the world !

I think maybe they should have a good old wash down there before hand maybe a warm bubble bath or steamy shower its the least they could do.

Eh, ditto from our perspective. Works both ways boys!

ManOfMystery

I love them personally, could go down on my gf for hours and I'd be as happy as Larry ................................ I like teasing her for a while and kiss/lick her everywhere BUT the magic spot until she can't wait any longer

Creamy Goodness

<-- i shall just point to my username .

LegacyUser

any one ever drop a level! if you know what i mean..

LegacyUser

Guy I've been seeing recently, been 'with him' lets say 3 or 4 times so far and he still hasn't done it. I haven't let that stop me from giving him oral but I really, really hope he's not one of these guys that don't like it... but sounds like he is... does it?? :(

Stheno

Unregistered wrote: »

Guy I've been seeing recently, been 'with him' lets say 3 or 4 times so far and he still hasn't done it. I haven't let that stop me from giving him oral but I really, really hope he's not one of these guys that don't like it... but sounds like he is... does it?? :(

If you are intimate enough to give him a blowjob then why not ask him about giving you oral?

LegacyUser

nouggatti wrote: »

If you are intimate enough to give him a blowjob then why not ask him about giving you oral?

Before the last time we were together I had the plan to but when it comes to it I guess I'm just too shy to come out and say it.
Pathetic =/

Allison91

Hey! I always wash myself..pfft!.

Zaph

OK, so at this stage I think we're all pretty much in agreement that good personal hygiene is a pre-requisite for wanting to give oral sex to a partner, regardless of whether you're male or female, so let's try to move the discussion on a bit and not get fixated on that one point.

So apart from hygiene, guys, why do you like or dislike, giving oral sex. Is there still a taboo element to the act that turns you on/off? Do you feel comfortable or uncomfortable with that level of intimacy? Do you derive more pleasure from giving than receiving? Does the thought of putting your mouth "down there" excite the hell out of you or repulse you? If it's the latter, is it simply the taste you don't like or is it something else?

There's a lot more to this than simply a hygiene issue, so feel free to share your views, but remember to keep it PG-13 (we're looking for opinions, not tips on improving your technique) or we'll have to move this to Sex & Sexuality.

The_Jabberwock

Zaph wrote: »

OK, so at this stage I think we're all pretty much in agreement that good personal hygiene is a pre-requisite for wanting to give oral sex to a partner, regardless of whether you're male or female, so let's try to move the discussion on a bit and not get fixated on that one point.

So apart from hygiene, guys, why do you like or dislike, giving oral sex. Is there still a taboo element to the act that turns you on/off? Do you feel comfortable or uncomfortable with that level of intimacy? Do you derive more pleasure from giving than receiving? Does the thought of putting your mouth "down there" excite the hell out of you or repulse you? If it's the latter, is it simply the taste you don't like or is it something else?

There's a lot more to this than simply a hygiene issue, so feel free to share your views, but remember to keep it PG-13 (we're looking for opinions, not tips on improving your technique) or we'll have to move this to Sex & Sexuality.

It appeals in much the same way gold did to Goldmember. He covered all the major points anyway. :P

Zaph

The_Jabberwock wrote: »

It appeals in much the same way gold did to Goldmember. He covered all the major points anyway. :P

Would you care to elaborate because I have no idea what you're talking about.

Lone Stone

Ah i dont know i was always up for it but my last girlfriend wasnt to keen on having someone go down there i think girls are more self conscious about there lady parts being fiddled with than guys. I wasnt to keen on her going down on me cause she had a bad case of lock jaw and bj's just arent worth the risk !

The_Jabberwock

Zaph wrote: »

Would you care to elaborate because I have no idea what you're talking about.

I love g-o-o-o-ld! The look of it! The shmell of it! The tashte of it! The texture!

Zaph

The_Jabberwock wrote: »

I love g-o-o-o-ld! The look of it! The shmell of it! The tashte of it! The texture!

Nope, still not a clue I'm afraid.

Maybe you'd like to be a little less cryptic and just tell us out straight?

grenache

Personally, i don't really know how any man could ''love'' giving lick-outs. I mean you don't gain any stimulation or pleasure from them and for me they're just a mean to receiving same from my girlfriend. At best, if the girl is clean down there, the smell is neutral, and at worst it smells like dead fish. So there's no 'loving them' for me, but they gotta be done all the same

BaubleFreak

grenache wrote: »

Personally, i don't really know how any man could ''love'' giving lick-outs. I mean you don't gain any stimulation or pleasure from them and for me they're just a mean to receiving same from my girlfriend. At best, if the girl is clean down there, the smell is neutral, and at worst it smells like dead fish. So there's no 'loving them' for me, but they gotta be done all the same

if i thought a boyfriend shared that attitude i'd rather he didn't bother.

krudler

grenache wrote: »

Personally, i don't really know how any man could ''love'' giving lick-outs. I mean you don't gain any stimulation or pleasure from them and for me they're just a mean to receiving same from my girlfriend. At best, if the girl is clean down there, the smell is neutral, and at worst it smells like dead fish. So there's no 'loving them' for me, but they gotta be done all the same

translation: I'm crap at them:D

I really dont get why guys are all standoffish about giving them, I have friends who wont go near there but yet expect blowjobs on a regular basis, ladies will agree with me here, going down on someone is on equal terms, thou who wont give wont recieve either, I love doing it, the stimulation comes from the fact you're doing something that gives a girl a huge amount of pleasure, there may not be anything to gain from it physically but the sensual side of it is amazing, plus if you do it right they;ll love you for it, once you master the act of making a girl cum in a few minutes by going down on her she'll remember you forever;)

minidazzler

grenache wrote: »

Personally, i don't really know how any man could ''love'' giving lick-outs. I mean you don't gain any stimulation or pleasure from them and for me they're just a mean to receiving same from my girlfriend. At best, if the girl is clean down there, the smell is neutral, and at worst it smells like dead fish. So there's no 'loving them' for me, but they gotta be done all the same

Cunnilingus transends the physical with male's who love it!!! It is generally about the pleasure of her pleasure, not our own. I personnally love it.

I have to say, while I usually prefer a clean vag, I have given done a bit of Cunnilingus on female's who had not cleaned the shop in more than 48 hour's, and while it sounds disgusting, it was fantastic.

I simply love the scent of a Woman.

yourmano

Love it, always did but like most things worth doing, takes practise.