Best Flirting Tips

Brian

If a girl came over and said "hello" to me, I'd think she was an annoying extrovert. Get a tshirt with "hello" printed on it and then stand in their peripheral vision.

RedXIV

Pen1987 wrote: »

word... fake steal it buy or make it, but always have confidence.


I reckon half of my and RedXIV previous replies to PI/Ladies lounge thread are this "do/don't re: women topic"...Book is in the making.

It'd be a crime not to share some of the knowledge we gathered

OP, if you really REALLY want an answer to these kind of questions, as Pen1987 says, look up old replies on the subject, the detail that this has been interrogated to is pretty intense and if you don't learn anything then accept the fact that the lack of knowledge isn't your stumbling block

but it'll probably all boil down to make sure you have confidence. if you can't nail that one aspect, you're fighting a losing battle


Edit: if the book is released, i want my name on top......

Tar.Aldarion

Well for a lot of people, including me, you will have to practically hit them shouting I LIKE YOU before they figure it out. None of this eye contact across the room stuff, talk to the bloke, make it clear that you like him. Men are simple.

t-ha

Depends on the situation. For arguments sake we'll say it's a noisy bar/club - eye contact and a flirty smile is definitely the way to start with almost zero embaressment on either side if it's not returned.
I'd say keep it fairly subtle - if he can't spot it then you'ld have to assume he's also incapable of pleasing you sexually. No I'm not kidding.
Also, know when to back off. If you've talked to him, laughed at his jokes, playfully put your hand on his shoulder/leg/whatever :O and he still doesn't seem to be making an effort towards you, it's possible that he's not interested in which case it's time to move on. If it turns out he was interested, he'll find you.

Zaph

kyub wrote: »

Flash your gash.

Please behave yourself.

Heathen

RedXIV wrote: »

I'll show ya someday



NEVER EVER BUY A DRINK! trust me, this doesn't work. thanks to people getting worried about rape drugs, people are reluctant to recieve drinks off strangers. treat them as you'd treat anyone else, try and get them to buy you a drink*


*no seriously, for some reason this works. at least it's a converstation

jaysus a lot has changhed i guess since i was single last i suppose... its a different place to what it was 8 years ago im sure i'll figure it out after a few slaps to the face hehe

samhail

ever try just "Hey stranger, want to buy a girl a drink?"

It actually works ! or maybe thats just one of *yer* lines on getting free drink... bah !

anonymous_joe

I have never ever not once noticed if someone's looking at me from across the room. Often enough it['s because I can't quite make it out (downside of being not that blind that you'd wear glasses the whole time.) Also, I'm not very observant.

One thing I'd say is, just be yourself, if that's not good enough for someone, no point going near 'em. And start a conversation. If you're in a pub, or a club or whatever, just go up and say hello. It's far and away the easiest way.

siobhanc

well I like to buy him a drink...it has worked!

homerun_homer

Twice I've had women do a 'come tither' finger motion at me to make me get off my arse to do something. Obviously the smiling and flirty glances weren't enough, the kick on the backside nearly did it but that certainly got me into action.
Try that.

Dord

Tara Le d'Arion wrote: »

Well for a lot of people, including me, you will have to practically hit them shouting I LIKE YOU before they figure it out. None of this eye contact across the room stuff, talk to the bloke, make it clear that you like him. Men are simple.

Pretty much sums it up. Also a 40ft billboard helps... :pac:

anonymous_joe

Simple sentences in a clear precise tone indicating interest are helpful.

Anything more subtle will not indicate you are interested. Some guys might try it on anyway, plenty won't.

BKtje

well I like to buy him a drink...it has worked!

Aye happened to me once. Was pretty shocked but had a good night talking to her

GirlInterrupted

Eye contact, big smile, pat the empty seat beside you or pantomine throwing the person next to you off the seat for them. More smiling.

If he blushes (many do), but you think he's interested, do him a big favour and approach him yourself.

brianthebard

homerun_homer wrote: »

Twice I've had women do a 'come tither' finger motion at me to make me get off my arse to do something. Obviously the smiling and flirty glances weren't enough, the kick on the backside nearly did it but that certainly got me into action.
Try that.

I did that before to a girl, it works.

homerun_homer

brianthebard wrote: »

I did that before to a girl, it works.

Sweet:D

dfx-

Tara Le d'Arion wrote: »

Well for a lot of people, including me, you will have to practically hit them shouting I LIKE YOU before they figure it out. None of this eye contact across the room stuff, talk to the bloke, make it clear that you like him. Men are simple.

Agreed. Uncomplicated.

I've had the renowned eye contact all night long, but with attached smile or looks of horror in equal measure.:eek:

A simple solution is a conversation