why do good guys finish last??

Red Alert · 02-05-2004 12:14pm

nice guys for example will always be the first to text/ring. it's sometimes better to be a bit of a bastard and not ring/text her for about a day or 2.

The Corinthian · 02-05-2004 12:55pm

I really can’t say if any of the self-espoused nice guys in this thread are actually nice, but I can say that they’re certainly the greatest collection of whinging pussies I’ve come across in a good long while.

Boston · 02-05-2004 1:02pm

Originally posted by The Corinthian
I really can’t say if any of the self-espoused nice guys in this thread are actually nice

I was thinking that myself. Is all the nice guy crap just an excuse to cover up actually being a boring person, or someone who doesn't take any notice of their partner.

isolde · 02-05-2004 1:55pm

It's all relative if you ask me. In the short-term, yea, good guys probably do finish last. There's something about someone who gives off very confident vibes that is extremely sexy, in my opinion. I hate to say that I'm attracted to "bad boys" but, for purely sexual reasons, I am. However, it's the "nice guys" that I end up having relationships with, because they're genuine, trustworthy, after more than just a one-night-stand and.. eh.. nice.

wes · 02-05-2004 10:26pm

If the nice guy thing ain't working for you try something else. Be a bastard if it works. If thats what the ladies want give it to them.

Sarky · 02-05-2004 10:40pm

Or stay yourself and let those women realise they're wrong.

wes · 02-05-2004 10:48pm

Originally posted by Sarky
Or stay yourself and let those women realise they're wrong.

Could work.

Also Car's and money never hurt your chances either.

Chinafoot · 02-05-2004 10:59pm

Originally posted by wes

Also Car's and money never hurt your chances either.

yea if u want to end up with some shallow bimbo.....then u really would be finishing last.

wes · 02-05-2004 11:03pm

Originally posted by peachypants
yea if u want to end up with some shallow bimbo.....then u really would be finishing last.

Now i think most guys would know that and would be away before ending up with aforementione shallow Bimbo for an extended period of time.

Anyway i was mostly being tongue in cheek about the whole thing. I probably should have used a smiley face or something

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The Sweeper · 03-05-2004 1:09pm

Originally posted by The Corinthian
I really can’t say if any of the self-espoused nice guys in this thread are actually nice, but I can say that they’re certainly the greatest collection of whinging pussies I’ve come across in a good long while.

HISTORICAL MOMENT

For the first time ever on boards, I agree with Corinthian.

You'll have to go and wield your penis and oppress someone soon or I wont know what to do with myself.

The Corinthian · 03-05-2004 7:49pm

Originally posted by Minesajackdaniels
HISTORICAL MOMENT

For the first time ever on boards, I agree with Corinthian.

You'll have to go and wield your penis and oppress someone soon or I wont know what to do with myself.

I think you're confusing me with someone that is actually interested in your opinion.

Boston · 03-05-2004 8:08pm

Originally posted by The Corinthian
I think you're confusing me with someone that is actually interested in your opinion.

You can't say that, she's a girl on the intraweb. Seriously Corinthian does any one opinion on here interest you in the slightest.

LegacyUser · 02-07-2005 5:07pm

It all comes back to cavemen.

Women (initially) are excited by males who can lie to get into their pants so, if she gets pregnant, then the woman's sons will be more effective at getting sex too and the woman's genes will live on.

Put some punch into your spiel.

jonny68 · 02-07-2005 10:40pm

vorbis wrote:

I don't think women want nice guys. They're more interested in guys who exude confidence. Such guys realise this and thus can act like a bastard since it doesn't matter. Morale of the story, theres no value to be gained (in either business, love etc.) from being a nice guy.

Your spot on there mate as ive found out myself

TheIceMaker · 02-07-2005 10:47pm

I wish I could find a nice guy
All the guys I get are the same, only interested in sex, treat me so well, and because I'm not a slapper, I woludnt sleep with em, they make me feel like im about 2 inches tall.
I just wish I could find someone genuinely nice.

Fast_Mover · 02-07-2005 11:36pm

in same boat as TheIceMaker!!

im not asking for much...or am i? but surely there is a nice decent genuine guy out there for me..i know im fussy/have high standards but isnt there someone out there for all of us?

CaptainPeacock · 02-07-2005 11:46pm

It's not that you haven't found someone, you just haven't learned to stop looking and live with it. Living with your mother and talking or meeting no-one outside of your immediate family is normal. If you expect anything more it's because you're watching too much TV. That's not life. Now close this thread, somebody, please.

Fast_Mover · 03-07-2005 12:43am

if that advise is directed at me CaptainPeacock dont worry i have stopped looking and learning to live with it..im meant to be a spinster i believe(even tho im in my late teens..

).
ya suppose i watch alot of tv alryt..according to you its leading me into false pretences of life...btr stop watching it so then!

lol
great il be a spinster without a tv..

what a life ay..suppose i join the nuns or something..hehe

Celticwarrior · 03-07-2005 12:48am

Nice guys and girls are out there, they just hang around with nice people! So just concentrate on getting to know a nicer type of person!

BlitzKrieg · 03-07-2005 2:24am

Memmoch hit the problem straight on waaaaaay back on page 1.

i use to be (and still am in parts) like the pathetic loser he describes but thankfully six years of torment and depression got me on track, i'm still single but i aint depressed i just try to have a good time and enjoy life and despite being single, alot of the girls i *whinged* over are now close friends, but the idea of a relationship is very much a distant star of nieve hope.

tetsujin1979 · 03-07-2005 2:26am

I often thought that nice girls and guys aren't so successful at the dating game, because they're not willing to go the extra step to make themselves seem interesting. They're not going to lie to a potential partner out of respect and will often not approach someone in a public place for fear of being labelled a total stalker. It just takes confidence and once someone does get to know you as a nice person, a relationship will blossom. Trust me on this one, I've been there. A girl I knew only went with total scumbags, then complained when they treated her badly. The first decent guy she went out with wasn't until into her twenties and she's still with him.

The Corinthian · 03-07-2005 2:44am

CaptainPeacock wrote:

Living with your mother and talking or meeting no-one outside of your immediate family is normal.

Only for individuals who are eventually found to have buried two dozen bodies under their patio.

CaptainPeacock · 03-07-2005 5:36pm

The Corinthian wrote:

Only for individuals who are eventually found to have buried two dozen bodies under their patio.

You see what I mean about watching too much TV? Loners tend to be murderers (or murderers turn out to be loners) on TV so that must be the case in real life? It's not.

nesf · 03-07-2005 5:40pm

CaptainPeacock wrote:

You see what I mean about watching too much TV? Loners tend to be murderers (or murderers turn out to be loners) on TV so that must be the case in real life? It's not.

The fact that you just got owned hasn't caught up with you yet has it?

CaptainPeacock · 03-07-2005 5:43pm

Fast_Mover wrote:

if that advise is directed at me CaptainPeacock dont worry i have stopped looking and learning to live with it..im meant to be a spinster i believe(even tho im in my late teens.. ).
ya suppose i watch alot of tv alryt..according to you its leading me into false pretences of life...btr stop watching it so then! lol
great il be a spinster without a tv.. what a life ay..suppose i join the nuns or something..hehe

Oh, God! Advice only benefits the adviser, so don't take my advice too seriously. I don't want you to end up like me.

nesf · 03-07-2005 5:45pm

Anyways, back on topic...

Most "nice guys" who bitch about how they can't get women aren't nice. They just don't want to come to terms with the fact that they are either:

a) unattractive and don't know how to remedy it
b) haven't figured out how to pull women. It really isn't hard tbh.
c) are desperate or something.
d) muppets.

or occasionally

e) actual nice guys who for some reason are attracted to women who don't want them. The fact that they are nice has little to do with this. It's just handy for them to blame something other than their taste in women.

The term "nice guy" being applied to someone very rarely means that someone is nice. There are plenty happy confident men beign suffocated by a sea of women, who are nice. They just wouldn't be described as "nice guys".

CaptainPeacock · 03-07-2005 5:46pm

nesf wrote:

The fact that you just got owned hasn't caught up with you yet has it?

Where did I "get owned?" Surely not the stupid patio gag. I don't post here to "own" anyone and if that's what others are doing then they need to get out even more than me.

You're coming across as a spa, by the way.

nesf · 03-07-2005 5:48pm

CaptainPeacock wrote:

You're coming across as a spa, by the way.

Your opinion matters to me. Really it does. I hope you're happy now. I'm crying and my mascara is running.

*sniffs*

Bastard.

Sarky · 03-07-2005 6:06pm

nesf wrote:

mascara

I KNEW it!

Nevyn · 03-07-2005 6:08pm

CaptainPeacock wrote:

You're coming across as a spa, by the way.

Consider this a second warning CaptainPeacock.
Personal insults will not be tolerated, (this is not the cs board).
Again I urge you READ the charter,
HAVe a nice day, ( not nice days are when I have to ban you)
Thaed

Nesf behave dont encourage him or you will get a warning to,
and god damn it invest in some decent water proof mascara.

why do good guys finish last??

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