What do you find attractive?

honeybear · 26-12-2018 5:17pm

Someone who is kind. Think a guy who is kind to animals is generally speaking a nice person.

Galwayguy35 · 26-12-2018 5:56pm

Deleted User wrote: »

I'm impatient, selfish, a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.

I've lost count of the number of profiles I've seen that quoted on dating sites, to me it makes the person sound like a right drama queen.

completedit · 26-12-2018 6:08pm

can't flirt
slight build
a goof but not funny

I'm screwed tbh.

Omackeral · 26-12-2018 6:11pm

completedit wrote: »

can't flirt
slight build
a goof but not funny

I'm screwed tbh.

EH I think you're hilarious

Ariadne · 26-12-2018 6:40pm

I've learned that I just cannot stand arrogance or someone who is very tight with money.

Kindness, intelligence and also emotional intelligence are very important. Someone who is direct, I overanalyse too much to have someone be vague or play mind games with me.

A nice tattoo doesn't hurt, and green eyes.

Edited to say similar sense of humour to my own.

Paddy Cow · 26-12-2018 6:51pm

Succubus_ wrote: »

I've learned that I just cannot stand arrogance or someone who is very tight with money.

Kindness, intelligence and also emotional intelligence are very important. Someone who is direct, I overanalyse too much to have someone be vague or play mind games with me.

A nice tattoo doesn't hurt, and green eyes.

Money is one of the biggest issues in relationships. Someone who is tight or someone who spends excessively is a pain in the ar$e. There is a happy medium.

Dalomanakora · 26-12-2018 6:55pm

Aside from a pulse as I mentioned earlier -

Kindness.
Nice smile, or at least a frequent smile.
Honesty.
Someone who treats people in service or retail with respect.
Loyalty.
Dark hair.
Nice eyes.

BilboBagOfCans · 26-12-2018 6:58pm

Dalomanakora wrote: »

Someone who treats people in service or retail with respect

Is this common that people don't do this? I always see this listed but I have never been out with anyone who wasn't polite to service staff,maybe I've been lucky!

Dirtdrifter · 26-12-2018 7:00pm

Succubus_ wrote: »

I've learned that I just cannot stand arrogance or someone who is very tight with money.

Kindness, intelligence and also emotional intelligence are very important. Someone who is direct, I overanalyse too much to have someone be vague or play mind games with me.

A nice tattoo doesn't hurt, and green eyes.

If you overanalyze what happens when someone direct approaches you

I get chatted up a lot -not boasting, I'm usually still thinking of a reply a week later after the ship has sailed

Dalomanakora · 26-12-2018 7:02pm

BilboBagOfCans wrote: »

Is this common that people don't do this? I always see this listed but I have never been out with anyone who wasn't polite to service staff,maybe I've been lucky!

Without getting into the treatment I've experienced first hand in those industries, I've unfortunately met several people in my personal life who show utter disdain for retail workers.

Thankfully I know far, far more who treat them with respect, but it's a huge red flag for me if a guy I'm seeing doesn't.

Ariadne · 26-12-2018 7:03pm

Dirtdrifter wrote: »

If you overanalyze what happens when someone direct approaches you

I get chatted up a lot -not boasting, I'm usually still thinking of a reply a week later after the ship has sailed

Outside of a bar I don't pick up on someone flirting with me because I don't expect it to happen outside that setting. It'd be a week before I even realised never mind responded!

bfa1509 · 26-12-2018 7:07pm

BilboBagOfCans wrote: »

Don't think I've seen a thread like this here but mods please move if not!
My friends and I were talking about those little things you notice which make someone go from meh to something a bit more interesting.

What does it for you?
As a woman, I can't resist broad shoulders and a guy who can drive really well &#55357;&#56883;

I work with a girl who doesn't wear makeup but she still looks gorgaeious. Body parts do nothing for me unless the face passes. The "downside" is that she keeps talking to me at work and I can never get a bloody thing done!

Just a question for the OP. What is it with broad shoulders?? I've heard this many times before. I like to think I have broad shoulders but never had a girl comment on or compliment them!

BilboBagOfCans · 26-12-2018 7:10pm

bfa1509 wrote: »

Just a question for the OP. What is it with broad shoulders?? I've heard this many times before. I like to think I have broad shoulders but never had a girl comment on or compliment them!

They are typically a manly feature, great for hugs

Badly Drunk Boy · 26-12-2018 7:30pm

myshirt wrote: »

They all look the same face down in the pillow.

I saw Les Dawson's daughter on telly recently where she showed the tattoo she had done of her father...gurning, on the nape of her neck.

How would you like this view?

mohawk · 26-12-2018 7:41pm

There is the usual stuff like shared sense of humour.
Love broad shoulders and strong arms.
Someone who has a sense of fun about them.
Someone not tight but not a spendthrift either.

My partner is very emotionally intelligent he is first guy I have dated who is and it is a seriously attractive trait.

In my younger days I would of said tall but my partner isn’t tall and I have never been this attracted to anyone ever. Who the person is matters most for me.

Triceratops Ballet · 26-12-2018 8:09pm

Succubus_ wrote:

Outside of a bar I don't pick up on someone flirting with me because I don't expect it to happen outside that setting. It'd be a week before I even realised never mind responded!

I don't think I ever flirt with men in bars, unless I already knew them in advance of going to the bar with them!

orourkeda1977 · 26-12-2018 8:12pm

I have a real thing for girls who have a nice voice or a sexy accent (preferably both)

Provided they are not a complete mess I love girls who sound good.

BilboBagOfCans · 26-12-2018 10:27pm

orourkeda1977 wrote: »

I have a real thing for girls who have a nice voice or a sexy accent (preferably both)

Provided they are not a complete mess I love girls who sound good.

I love when men have a deep, almost base-y voice!

ZX7R · 26-12-2018 11:19pm

DrPhilG wrote: »

Surely you mean bite their bottom lip?

Sucking their bottom lip might look a bit rare!

Same thing either does it for me

padd b1975 · 26-12-2018 11:30pm

Dark hair.

Red lips.

Doesn't wear trousers all the forking time.

rani24 · 26-12-2018 11:38pm

Gurls less than 60kg ðŸ€©ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ€©

pgj2015 · 26-12-2018 11:49pm

honeybear wrote: »

Someone who is kind. Think a guy who is kind to animals is generally speaking a nice person.

I kind of agree but I think Hitler loved animals.

Red Lightning · 26-12-2018 11:58pm

It would be interesting if people added their age to the posts because I'm sure you would see trends in different age groups.

27-12-2018 12:07am

rani24 wrote: »

Gurls less than 60kg ðŸ€©ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ€©

Girls over 60kg

La.de.da · 27-12-2018 12:11am

Jaysus going by this thread, I'm fooked.

But Shane McGowan got married..... there's hope for everyone.

gmisk · 27-12-2018 12:32am

Badly Drunk Boy wrote: »

I saw Les Dawson's daughter on telly recently where she showed the tattoo she had done of her father...gurning, on the nape of her neck.

How would you like this view?

If its the person I am thinking of... I think most people would prefer that view to her face...

I says · 27-12-2018 12:47am

I like blondes,redheads,brunettes and everything in between I don’t have a type but you know when ya know.

Hallaz · 27-12-2018 12:49am

A small nose

honeybear · 27-12-2018 1:06am

pgj2015 wrote: »

I kind of agree but I think Hitler loved animals.

Always an exception to every rule

Dakota Dan · 27-12-2018 12:33pm

La.de.da wrote: »

Jaysus going by this thread, I'm fooked.

But Shane McGowan got married..... there's hope for everyone.

His wife is a tasty bird, I reckon it was his money as he is absolutely useless to her otherwise. Did you see her on RTE the other night asking him a few questions? The only answer she got was his hissing like a snake.

Dakota Dan · 27-12-2018 12:36pm

I says wrote: »

I like blondes,redheads,brunettes and everything in between I don’t have a type but you know when ya know.

So anything with a pussy?

Avatar MIA · 27-12-2018 12:58pm

padd b1975 wrote: »

Doesn't wear trousers all the forking time.

I like a girl to be naked, but not all the time, you'd never get any work done!

There's a long naturally curly haired look (similar to permed, but natural) that's devastatingly attractive.

DrPhilG · 27-12-2018 1:54pm

Avatar MIA wrote: »

There's a long naturally curly haired look (similar to permed, but natural) that's devastatingly attractive.

As in Valeria Golino from Hot Shots?

Avatar MIA · 27-12-2018 1:57pm

DrPhilG wrote: »

As in Valeria Golino from Hot Shots?

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Er, sorry, yes...

Mickboy21 · 27-12-2018 2:39pm

BilboBagOfCans wrote: »

Don't think I've seen a thread like this here but mods please move if not!
My friends and I were talking about those little things you notice which make someone go from meh to something a bit more interesting.

What does it for you?
As a woman, I can't resist broad shoulders and a guy who can drive really well ðŸ˜³

What kind of driving ? ðŸ€”

Avatar MIA · 27-12-2018 2:44pm

Mickboy21 wrote: »

What kind of driving ? ��

The boy racer type that can do donuts. Extra marks if driven with a hole in the exhaust of their micra.

She answered this further on.

I says · 27-12-2018 2:45pm

Mickboy21 wrote: »

What kind of driving ? ðŸ€”

To the makers name

Dirtdrifter · 27-12-2018 2:45pm

Good-

Women who are forward without being pushy

Smile and intelligence, sexy eyes

Bad-

Yappers and social media addicts

Any sort of drama queens

And women that pull 100 different faces in the day

Fake-lesbian feminist types

Avatar MIA · 27-12-2018 2:49pm

Dirtdrifter wrote: »

And women that pull 100 different faces in the day

Fake-lesbian feminist types

What do you mean by the first one, and... Actually, what do you mean by the second one?

Undividual · 27-12-2018 5:53pm

To go to bed with:

Nice bum
Nice face and smile
Slim or curvy

To date/marry:

Intelligent/creative, especially a woman who knows a lot about a certain topic/field
A woman who enjoys food as much as I do but isn't overweight
Non-smoker (don't know why this is such a turn off for me)
A woman who is good with kids
Accepting of how much of a maniac I am
Has a good relationship with her and my family

suicide_circus · 27-12-2018 6:36pm

proportionality

Paddy Cow · 27-12-2018 8:16pm

Undividual wrote: »

To go to bed with:

Nice bum
Nice face and smile
Slim or curvy

To date/marry:

Intelligent/creative, especially a woman who knows a lot about a certain topic/field
A woman who enjoys food as much as I do but isn't overweight
Non-smoker (don't know why this is such a turn off for me)
A woman who is good with kids
Accepting of how much of a maniac I am
Has a good relationship with her and my family

Is that the male version of "If you can't accept me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"?

Carlingford Locked · 27-12-2018 8:43pm

Paddy Cow wrote: »

Is that the male version of "If you can't accept me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"?

I have this on my Tinder profile

27-12-2018 9:11pm

Carlingford Locked wrote: »

I have this on my Tinder profile

Jaysus

Avatar MIA · 27-12-2018 9:15pm

Deleted User wrote: »

Jaysus

BBFAN · 27-12-2018 9:36pm

Physically-that defined V that leads to the groin area-don't know what it's called but a well defined one will make me weak at the knees.

Other than that I'm very old-fashioned, I love a man who can fix things and do all the traditional "male" jobs. I don't mind doing all the traditional "female" ones.

Such a pain being single, have to pay to get all the DIY jobs done.

:D:D

Ipso · 27-12-2018 9:37pm

No make up. The whole competetive oompa loonpa fake tan thing bemuses me.

mvl · 27-12-2018 10:33pm

BBFAN wrote: »

Other than that I'm very old-fashioned, I love a man who can fix things and do all the traditional "male" jobs. I don't mind doing all the traditional "female" ones.
Such a pain being single, have to pay to get all the DIY jobs done. :D:D

hahaha - I also know if my SO decides to leave me, I would be the one suffering from this point of view, as he's very DIY + can do chores such as cooking/sewing, while I can't fix things

Matta Harri · 27-12-2018 10:59pm

Kindness No1 and a sense of humour a close 2nd! As I get older I put a lot less focus on looks. The sad thing is, I would have let kind, funny lads go in favour of some passing ride in my superficial early twenties.

Paddy Cow · 27-12-2018 11:07pm

Carlingford Locked wrote: »

I have this on my Tinder profile

So how many matches have you got? :P

What do you find attractive?

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