What practice/beliefs make you instantly lose respect for someone?

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I hold doors for all - men, women (not a patriarchal oppressor) and children. A simple "thank you" generally suffices. Entitled cases don't acknowledge.

I was in a restaurant, Linnanes in Newquay co Clare actually and some entitled lady actually closed the door behind her, knowing myself and my girlfriend were right behind her.

So my partner is very well spoken and has that church of Ireland disposition.

Said lady sat down with her sugar daddy, my partner basically walked over to the so called lady and put it nicely to her.

Ironically the sugar daddy knew my partner well as he is great friends with my partner's dad.
Made it all the better

They're from the South side in the Dublin Wicklow border.
Anyhow he was mortified his madam was so rude and aloof to people.

Of all places to bump into someone from year's ago.

Your wan was mortified and sat like a bunny rabbit in head lights.

We looked quite rough after hill walking,as we were wearing muddy boot's and looked like drowned rats lol

Be careful who you're closing the door to

If I think you're an essentially good person then I wouldn't just lose respect and small things are just quirks. .

A herd mentality and strict conformism are two things that repel me. So does trying to be a rebel or shock people for fun. Being snobby (including inverted snobbery), having no patience or understanding for people who need it, spiteful gossiping and genuine racism I don't understand and can't live with .


I don't mind about religious beliefs if you're not embodying the worst aspects of a religion and you live by your own principles first ..

Attempting to push me into something I said no to . Or doing it to anyone . Particularly using words like ''but mary does it (drives the group somewhere after drinking ) ''.