Trying to Conceive 2016 onwards Chat Thread

applesock wrote: »

Well done scousemouse for getting through work. Sure now it's done and you don't have to worry about it.its crazy all the worries. One thing I'm quiet conscious of is making sure doing the deed doesn't turn into a chore or only having it at the special time of the month!i want to do it because I enjoy but also so it takes the pressure of what ultimately we are trying to achieve. I hope your trip away does you the world of good.

That is so true - we had a chat about that last month as we were tending to leave it until too late when it was more a case of we should, rather than we both really want to. Making an effort not to let that happen this month, it can be hard not to feel the pressure when you know there are only a few very precious days.

im finding this TWW tough! Im only 5 dpo! I have a pinchy feeling on my left side but i think i could be imagining it as i know its a symptom i had first time around! The waiting is killing me

Good luck Jen44, hang in there. It is so hard not to think about symptoms.
Ah sorry to hear that Scouse, you are having a tough time of it in work. Glad to hear the break went well. Fingers crossed for you for the next cycle!

All good here weekend has distracted me a little but now it's over I'm already thinking of testing!! Lovely bit of sun today got loads of gardening done and had a BBQ this evening just the three of us so that was nice!

Jen44 wrote: »

hi guys just to let you know twin pack first response tests are buy one get one free in boots so four tests for 15.99!!

Seen that!!!! Had to buy them!

I'm on a pregnancy test ban!

applesock wrote: »

I'm on a pregnancy test ban!

I should! I'm not testing until Af is missed that's for sure!

Loving the positive vibes

I think im out this month did a first response test this am 11dpo and bfn! Cant stand the 2ww find it the hardest part ,the not knowing! I nearly always feel better even if i do get af just that i know then either way!

Best of luck ladies

applesock wrote: »

I'm apparently a week away from my fertile window , I'm very emotional and weepy today. oh alot of weekends away i love it. Id love a weekend away , but with new house its off the cards for now. I like the idea of a long weekend around fertile time , sounds so nice Im so excited for this month of trying , I'm taking pregnacare fertility or something like that. Maybe its a mix of them and the sunshine.

I'm heading home so doing nothing but eat and drink for the weekend whoop! Then hibernation! I'm at the end of my vitamins shortly so going to try the seven seas as there such a good price!

My doctor told me last time I was pregnant to get folic acid vit d and omega 3 so that's what I take it works out cheap as you can buy tesco own brand of that! 12 dpo today and another bfn!! I have a wedding down in Clare tmw just me and the hubby Lo is going to her nana! So I think I'll do one more first response tmw and if it's another bfn I'll take it at that and drink as normal at the wedding! It would have been hard enough to hide not drinking so I don't want to go through all that and have people guessing when I'm more then likely not pregnant! I got a faint positive at 10 dpo first time around so if there's nothing tmw at day 13 I would say im defo out!! I have learned a valuable lesson about testing early this month I will try my hardest to not turn into this crazy lady next month!!

Meubles wrote: »

BFN this morning at 11dpo, still clinging on to hope but might just buy a bottle of wine in case :P
I had the weirdest chart this month after ovulation my temp rose and just stayed in a straight line except for a big dip on 7dpo (of course I'm over analysing that) normally goes up and up so I'm wondering what that is about...

I completely agree Jen44 it's the not knowing that is killer you just want to get on with it! The weather is looking fab this weekend though so will be making sure to get out and enjoy that!

Oh gosh, that's hard not to get your hopes up with that one. 11 days is very early so hopefully that chart is a good sign and you'll be the bfp in a few days! I find the first week past ovulation ok but then it's becomes very hard, I start scrutinizing my chart like a mad woman! My luteal phase is only around 10/11 days so I guess at least I'm not tortured for too long before AF arrives and rains on my parade!

Ah stop girls I'm the feckin same just got my period three days early so at least that clears up the pregnancy guessing!! However it now means no sex all weekend !! Was looking forward to a nice romantic weekend at the wedding!! You can't win!!!!

I don't know what's going on seems it was just spotting I had AF hasn't really started up have had no more bleeding since that time earlier so weird!!