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Do Females Watch Porn
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Deleted User wrote: »Far from it - at least in my own experience (which is all I can attest to).
I have monthly house parties which usually descend into all kinds of things. Sometimes things like truth and dare and the like. And one of these nights - for example - we had a "Lets all tell our as yet unfullfilled sex fantasies".
The guys in the group mainly had all the standards. Threesomes. Sex in public places. The standards you might guess and expect.
The gals however had very intricate - very deeply thought out - and very sexed up ones. Some scenarios and ideas which sent the eye brows to the back of my head.
Not the least from my own girlfriends who I thought I knew well enough to know what their answers would be - but theirs really knocked me over. Not just what they were - but the detail of them that they went into.
It was clear not only were these girls in my party every bit as sexed up as the guys - but they appear to put a lot more thought and imagination into it too.
My girlfriends appear to just lust after the occasional TV or movie character. They used to binge watch True Blood - for example - and had quite a thing for the two lead male vampires in it. They would come out of a season binge watch of that almost rabid with arousal.
They would not buy porn mags or any mags for this purpose though. They are quite interested in certain forms of porn however - and are long time subscribers to hard core porn sites of the amateur but well done type - like Abby Winters for example.
And they were quite happy when Abby Winters finally caved into pressure and started including porn with guys and not just girls.
Again speaking only for my own direct experience - my girlfriends certainly do masturbate. Every bit as much as I do. Together and alone. They would masturbate certainly while watching stuff from things like Abby Winters - which they do alone or together or with me too. And they have a whole drawer full of implements which will provide an abundance of battery power should the apocalypse come and batteries were to go into high demand.
I would 100% agree. I see little difference between men and women really when it comes to sex - except maybe an over all lower average of people who would take sex wherever the opportunity presented itself. I would not share your impression that they keep it to themselves as much as you think though - let alone for the purposes of superiority.
That would be stuff like Abby Winters which I mentioned above yes. We even wrote a porn script we keep joking about putting into production with our friends some day - which is like a hard core porn script mixed with Game of Thrones type medieval setting and political intrigue (though without the magic and dragons - just a deep political story written against a back drop of porn).
Not a bad script if I do say so myself - a hell of a lot going on in it even without the sex. We even got as far as deciding who would be cast in what role - and even what locations we would rent to shoot a lot if it in. All we need is good lighting and to find some camera operators some day
wow what a post! in fact this is the best post ever on boards....so are you seriously saying that you and your friends masturbate together?????0 -
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That would be stuff like Abby Winters which I mentioned above yes. We even wrote a porn script we keep joking about putting into production with our friends some day - which is like a hard core porn script mixed with Game of Thrones type medieval setting and political intrigue (though without the magic and dragons - just a deep political story written against a back drop of porn).
Not a bad script if I do say so myself - a hell of a lot going on in it even without the sex. We even got as far as deciding who would be cast in what role - and even what locations we would rent to shoot a lot if it in. All we need is good lighting and to find some camera operators some day
"I just love it when porn attempts to have a storyline"
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mynameis905 wrote: »"I just love it when porn attempts to have a storyline" - No one ever.
Not sure how true that is. I have very often heard the complaint that pornography does not have a good script or actors.
That said however - were we ever to implement our porn script ourselves - we would be doing it _for_ ourselves - so whether the greater world actually wants porn with a story or not is less than relevant.
It was quite enjoyable to write and talk about - and share with our friends and have their input and changes - and the fun of casting people in the roles we were writing and more. It is an internal project and one that gave us all a lot of fun to engage with.
And in the end I think the script as it stands is quite interesting and stand alone even without the sex element. A very deep story line with a lot of complex political intrigue with many layers similar to something like Game of Thrones where many groups are trying to over throw - capture - or both - the throne. And a few side story lines of people affected by - or tangential - to that main story.
And then lots of sex So it has it all really. I find myself hoping we really do make it sometime on some levels 0 -
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mynameis905 wrote: »Slightly off-topic, but do you mind if I ask how open you are with that to say, work colleagues or family members? I can only imagine the stunned silence if I dropped that on the folks over Christmas dinner.
Perfectly open.
In terms of family my own family were ok with it from the start. The older girlfriends family were - iffy but are perfectly fine with it now. The younger girls family took it very badly at the beginning - almost to the point of homicidal violence against me personally.
They were convinced I was manipulating them somehow and using them for jollies (of course me being the guy - it must be me doing the manipulation and using - because you know girls could never do that - no chance it would be me being manipulated or used ).
But we refused to rise to it and just kept on keeping on and time - and our dedication to each other and the relationship converted them entirely and they have come around entirely now to the whole thing - with full on Christmas dinners and watching sport with beers with her dad and the whole works you would expect from any relationship.
We have 2 of a planned 4 children now (they want two each but the younger girlfriend does not want kids until she is in the 30s) - and her parents are every bit "grand parents" of their non-biological grand children as the biological grand parents are.
They adore the kids - baby sit - gifts on the relevant holidays - the works. And I have every reason to expect the _actual_ grand parents of my 2 kids will be every bit as much invested in the next 2 children when they arrive in the future.
As for work - everyone is aware of it. It hardly ever - if ever - comes up. And work parties like the work Christmas party which we have over near the head office in the UK - I merely alternate which partner I bring to it.
We did lose a few friends over it. A few friends went weird on us. Most of them were ok with it in the end. But a small couple of people simply could not get around it. They thought it too weird. They thought it abusive or damaging to any children we might bring into that environment. Or they had other emotional or ethical or religious issues to contend with.
It was sad to lose friends of course and I truly lament it to this day. But a rational part of me also mediates that sadness by rightly informing the rest of my heart and mind that "Who needs friends like that who can not support you for you anyway?".
Strangers however - most would not even cop the dynamic at all. Out in public - bars or gigs or whatever - you would hardly know we were together at all. So generally people have no issue with us.
On the occasions were some drunken knight of chivalry in a pub or some such has copped the dynamic - for whatever reason - a small few have decided the right thing to do to uphold chivalry in the world was to attempt to beat all 7 shades out of me. Who knows why.
But thankfully a combination of having _some_ combat training (BJJ mostly) and - probably more relevant - that I do not drink all that much and tend to be several levels more sober than my assailant - it has _so far_ never ended well for them. Long may that continue.0 -
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Ice Maiden wrote: »Objectively even, I can't think of a single visually pleasing aspect to them. If the same sight was not a fanny would you think it looked amazing?
well it is amazing looking because it is a fanny, i cant go into ascetic detail here because i will probably be blocked but i love the look of it, do women in general not like their fannies?0 -
hang on, you are a man who has two girlfriends???? seriously??? how does this work?
Pretty well thanks. Have a house, a canine, 2 of a 4 planned kids, cars, jobs, the usual. Aside from the one detail of numbers we are pretty much in every other way exactly like most couples you probably know. Call it a truple if you willIce Maiden wrote: »Objectively even, I can't think of a single visually pleasing aspect to them. If the same sight was not a fanny would you think it looked amazing?
I probably can not give you any objective reasons why I like them either - I just do Though being a human attribute like any other - there is a range - and some of them are awful and some of them are heart stoppingly beautiful Perhaps you have just been unlucky enough to have experience only of the former and less of the latter?
They are certainly (maybe even objectively) more attractive than the male equivalent to the offering with all those lumps and veins and weird purple shades that many of them have. Not my own of course - which is unimpeachably beautiful and fantastic from any angle. 0 -
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Deleted User wrote: »Perfectly open.
In terms of family my own family were ok with it from the start. The older girlfriends family were - iffy but are perfectly fine with it now. The younger girls family took it very badly at the beginning - almost to the point of homicidal violence against me personally.
They were convinced I was manipulating them somehow and using them for jollies (of course me being the guy - it must be me doing the manipulation and using - because you know girls could never do that - no chance it would be me being manipulated or used ).
But we refused to rise to it and just kept on keeping on and time - and our dedication to each other and the relationship converted them entirely and they have come around entirely now to the whole thing - with full on Christmas dinners and watching sport with beers with her dad and the whole works you would expect from any relationship.
We have 2 of a planned 4 children now (they want two each but the younger girlfriend does not want kids until she is in the 30s) - and her parents are every bit "grand parents" of their non-biological grand children as the biological grand parents are.
They adore the kids - baby sit - gifts on the relevant holidays - the works. And I have every reason to expect the _actual_ grand parents of my 2 kids will be every bit as much invested in the next 2 children when they arrive in the future.
As for work - everyone is aware of it. It hardly ever - if ever - comes up. And work parties like the work Christmas party which we have over near the head office in the UK - I merely alternate which partner I bring to it.
We did lose a few friends over it. A few friends went weird on us. Most of them were ok with it in the end. But a small couple of people simply could not get around it. They thought it too weird. They thought it abusive or damaging to any children we might bring into that environment. Or they had other emotional or ethical or religious issues to contend with.
It was sad to lose friends of course and I truly lament it to this day. But a rational part of me also mediates that sadness by rightly informing the rest of my heart and mind that "Who needs friends like that who can not support you for you anyway?".
Strangers however - most would not even cop the dynamic at all. Out in public - bars or gigs or whatever - you would hardly know we were together at all. So generally people have no issue with us.
On the occasions were some drunken knight of chivalry in a pub or some such has copped the dynamic - for whatever reason - a small few have decided the right thing to do to uphold chivalry in the world was to attempt to beat all 7 shades out of me. Who knows why.
But thankfully a combination of having _some_ combat training (BJJ mostly) and - probably more relevant - that I do not drink all that much and tend to be several levels more sober than my assailant - it has _so far_ never ended well for them. Long may that continue.
I just cant get my head around this at all, the only person i ever heard of doing this was the general or some of them arab lads....so like are the two girls lesbiens? do all 3 of ye go to bed in the one bed at night? someone is bound to feel left out at some stage...3 is a crowd as they say...0 -
Is it more what it's associated with, rather than how it looks, so, would that maybe be it? It's certainly a great bodypart but as my male friend (who has been with many many a lady) says, while he enjoys giving the pleasure of an oral nature, it's all about context - he'd be wtf if he got a plate of something that looked the same when in a restaurant.well it is amazing looking because it is a fanny, i cant go into ascetic detail here because i will probably be blocked but i love the look of it, do women in general not like their fannies?
Crude I know, but I see his point.
I don't dislike my own - I just don't think it or any I've seen on the screen look nice. Male genitalia don't look "nice" either but as a hetero woman I could stare at them for ages. I think also the more you like the person the more you find their bits visually appealing!0 -
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Ice Maiden wrote: »Is it more what it's associated with, rather than how it looks, so, would that maybe be it? It's certainly a great bodypart but as my male friend (who has been with many many a lady) says, while he enjoys giving the pleasure of an oral nature, it's all about context - he'd be wtf if he got a plate of something that looked the same when in a restaurant.
Crude I know, but I see his point.
I don't dislike my own - I just don't think it or any I've seen on the screen look nice. Male genitalia don't look "nice" either but as a hetero woman I could stare at them for ages. I think also the more you like the person the more you find their bits visually appealing!
you might have hit the nail on the head there, you could stare at dicks for ages whilst i could stare at a fanny for ages, i gues its because it belongs to a woman and vice versa and as part of our make up we are attracted to them, although i dont know why most women see the need to shave them.0 -
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Deleted User wrote: »Pretty well thanks. Have a house, a canine, 2 of a 4 planned kids, cars, jobs, the usual. Aside from the one detail of numbers we are pretty much in every other way exactly like most couples you probably know. Call it a truple if you will
i just cant see how it works, what if you want to ride one of them and not the other, or to state the obvious you only have one willy, how does this even work?0 -
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