What do attractive girls think about being checked out by hopeless people?

paleoperson · 27-11-2015 11:55PM #1

By hopeless I mean anyone without any connection and never will have any connection with them.

I'm curious.

Do they (or you if you are one) feel complimented?
Do they dislike it?
Is the person completely invisible?
What do they think?

Jim Bob Scratcher · 27-11-2015 11:56PM

Ego boost most likely.

TheLastMohican · 27-11-2015 11:57PM

Next!

dreamers75 · 27-11-2015 11:59PM

Free beer is free beer......

Fleawuss · 28-11-2015 12:01AM

If you don't have a connection why ask them out? Oh because they're attractive. And the Hopeless One can offer: no connection, hopelessness and ...? So they feel...that would be a very very hard question.

SimonTemplar · 28-11-2015 12:50AM

Ridiculous thread.

Day Lewin · 28-11-2015 12:54AM

I always like being admired. I smile back. They haven't a hope, but why be mean? It's still a compliment!

YungKeo · 28-11-2015 12:54AM

T-thanks for the drink, bye

DareGod · 28-11-2015 01:47AM

Here's how to answer your question and end the thread. Ask yourself, what do you think about being checked by people you consider to be hopeless people?

Everyone else probably thinks the same.

suicide_circus · 28-11-2015 01:49AM

Read that as "homeless"

endacl · 28-11-2015 01:54AM

What's a 'hopeless person'? Shabby thread, OP.

Satriale · 28-11-2015 01:58AM

I'm fairly ugly but attractive girls are always smiling and winking at me. Stop lassies, I'm married, it p1sses off the Mrs and it makes ye look weird. Find a good looking lad to pester, will ye?

housetypeb · 28-11-2015 02:04AM

They yell mean things at me and draw the blinds in my neighborhood.

LETHAL LADY · 28-11-2015 02:08AM

I've a few attractive friends who recite the prayer to St. Jude on such occasions.

NachoBusiness · 28-11-2015 02:11AM

I'd suspect it's the same thing most salmon fishermen think when minnows start eyeing up their expensive bait.

DareGod · 28-11-2015 02:20AM

endacl wrote: »

What's a 'hopeless person'? Shabby thread, OP.

Literally, the first thing the OP did was explain what they meant by "hopeless person."

Azalea · 28-11-2015 02:25AM

Women being afraid of posting as it would mean they're saying they're attractive.

There shouldn't be negative reactions to mere glances, smiling, saying hi etc (although I know there are some women who react like right ***** if the man has the audacity not to be attractive to her). It should be taken as a compliment. She should be polite back to him, just not to the point of giving him the wrong idea.

Eugene Norman · 28-11-2015 02:30AM

Nobody male or female lower than a 9.5 should even think about glancing in my direction.

LETHAL LADY · 28-11-2015 02:51AM

Eugene Norman wrote: »

Nobody male or female lower than a 9.5 should even think about glancing in my direction.

Do you mean IQ?

Eugene Norman · 28-11-2015 02:53AM

LETHAL LADY wrote: »

Do you mean IQ?

*sob*

irish son · 28-11-2015 02:42PM

I wonder this too OP, I give attractive women I see walking around during the day a kind of stare to say I think you're good looking. I'm not looking to start a conversation with them or anything like that, I'm just trying to let them now I find them attractive.

I don't know if they take it as a compliment or think I'm some sort of freak

pickarooney · 28-11-2015 03:33PM

Azalea wrote: »

Women being afraid of posting as it would mean they're saying they're attractive.

There shouldn't be negative reactions to mere glances, smiling, saying hi etc (although I know there are some women who react like right ***** if the man has the audacity not to be attractive to her). It should be taken as a compliment. She should be polite back to him, just not to the point of giving him the wrong idea.

Because that's simple isn't, being just nice enough so that some hopeless ****er won't get ideas above his station. It's up to the uggo to aim within his own league and not get the hump when a pretty girl does not want to bang him.

Medusa22 · 28-11-2015 03:37PM

Azalea wrote: »

Women being afraid of posting as it would mean they're saying they're attractive.

There shouldn't be negative reactions to mere glances, smiling, saying hi etc (although I know there are some women who react like right ***** if the man has the audacity not to be attractive to her). It should be taken as a compliment. She should be polite back to him, just not to the point of giving him the wrong idea.

I'm with Azalea on this one, and I'm not saying that I'm a model or anything but I wouldn't react negatively to a smile or polite conversation or whatever (I'd feel flattered and take it as a compliment). If someone though is leering or being sleazy or creepy I'd just try to get away to be honest.

The Backwards Man · 28-11-2015 03:41PM

What does checking someone out actually mean? Like staring at them? I think staring at anyone is rude and a bit creepy, but that's just me

wakka12 · 28-11-2015 03:49PM

Most girls Ive talked to about this don't think being stared at is a compliment unless the guy is attractive to them

paleoperson · 28-11-2015 04:05PM

The Backwards Man wrote: »

What does checking someone out actually mean? Like staring at them? I think staring at anyone is rude and a bit creepy, but that's just me

Well staring kind of implies looking at too for too long, it's kind of built into the word that it's too much. I'm talking about normal looking, or getting "caught" looking, not staring.

harry Bailey esq · 28-11-2015 04:06PM

Satriale wrote: »

I'm fairly ugly but attractive girls are always smiling and winking at me. Find a good looking lad to pester, will ye?

:pac: :pac: there is some science behind this though, us males,apparantly,are apparently more 'visual' when it comes to the laws of attraction,whereas with women,its a multitude of things. Well groomed,confident,generous,good at holding conversation,witty,emphatic,the list goes on.I personally reckon I punch way above my weight concerning affairs of the heart.I look seriously shady,but some ladies like that too it seems,I'm sure several of my aestheticly challenged boards brothers,and maybe even some of the ladies will agree.I suppose the point I'm trying to make goes back to the old adage 'don't judge a book by its cover'.

Medusa22 · 28-11-2015 04:07PM

paleoperson wrote: »

Well staring kind of implies looking at too for too long, it's kind of built into the word that it's too much. I'm talking about normal looking, or getting "caught" looking, not staring.

I've lost nearly 5 stone in the last few years and when I was heavier I was well used to being invisible. I still forget that I've lost weight sometimes so when I occasionally see a fella looking at me I automatically assume that there's something on my face or I look down at my outfit to see if I have toilet paper on my shoe or something :pac: Then I think ''oh wait, I'm not invisible any more, maybe he's actually just checking me out''

quarefarmers · 28-11-2015 04:09PM

What qualifies as hopeless?
On the file?
Living with parents?
No personality?

paleoperson · 28-11-2015 04:13PM

quarefarmers wrote: »

What qualifies as hopeless?
On the file?
Living with parents?
No personality?

Let's just say random people that you see that you will never see again or else something else that means you will never hook up with them.

harry Bailey esq · 28-11-2015 04:20PM

Medusa22 wrote: »

I've lost nearly 5 stone in the last few years and when I was heavier I was well used to being invisible. I still forget that I've lost weight sometimes so when I occasionally see a fella looking at me I automatically assume that there's something on my face or I look down at my outfit to see if I have toilet paper on my shoe or something :pac: Then I think ''oh wait, I'm not invisible any more, maybe he's actually just checking me out''

First off,good for you.I used to box,5 stone off is NOT easy.Secondly your probably right, you were being checked out,but women tend to be a lot more self conscious than us chaps.For example, a body part that a woman might hate about herself, let's use hips for example, could be the very thing that caught the chaps attention to begin with.

What do attractive girls think about being checked out by hopeless people?

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