What do attractive girls think about being checked out by hopeless people?

paleoperson

By hopeless I mean anyone without any connection and never will have any connection with them.

I'm curious.

Do they (or you if you are one) feel complimented?
Do they dislike it?
Is the person completely invisible?
What do they think?

Jim Bob Scratcher

Ego boost most likely.

TheLastMohican

Next!

dreamers75

Free beer is free beer......

Fleawuss

If you don't have a connection why ask them out? Oh because they're attractive. And the Hopeless One can offer: no connection, hopelessness and ...? So they feel...that would be a very very hard question.

SimonTemplar

Ridiculous thread.

Day Lewin

I always like being admired. I smile back. They haven't a hope, but why be mean? It's still a compliment!

YungKeo

T-thanks for the drink, bye

DareGod

Here's how to answer your question and end the thread. Ask yourself, what do you think about being checked by people you consider to be hopeless people?

Everyone else probably thinks the same.

suicide_circus

Read that as "homeless"

endacl

What's a 'hopeless person'? Shabby thread, OP.

Satriale

I'm fairly ugly but attractive girls are always smiling and winking at me. Stop lassies, I'm married, it p1sses off the Mrs and it makes ye look weird. Find a good looking lad to pester, will ye?

housetypeb

They yell mean things at me and draw the blinds in my neighborhood.

LETHAL LADY

I've a few attractive friends who recite the prayer to St. Jude on such occasions.

NachoBusiness

I'd suspect it's the same thing most salmon fishermen think when minnows start eyeing up their expensive bait.

DareGod

endacl wrote: »

What's a 'hopeless person'? Shabby thread, OP.

Literally, the first thing the OP did was explain what they meant by "hopeless person."

Azalea

Women being afraid of posting as it would mean they're saying they're attractive.

There shouldn't be negative reactions to mere glances, smiling, saying hi etc (although I know there are some women who react like right ***** if the man has the audacity not to be attractive to her). It should be taken as a compliment. She should be polite back to him, just not to the point of giving him the wrong idea.

Eugene Norman

Nobody male or female lower than a 9.5 should even think about glancing in my direction.

LETHAL LADY

Eugene Norman wrote: »

Nobody male or female lower than a 9.5 should even think about glancing in my direction.

Do you mean IQ?

Eugene Norman

LETHAL LADY wrote: »

Do you mean IQ?

*sob*

irish son

I wonder this too OP, I give attractive women I see walking around during the day a kind of stare to say I think you're good looking. I'm not looking to start a conversation with them or anything like that, I'm just trying to let them now I find them attractive.

I don't know if they take it as a compliment or think I'm some sort of freak

pickarooney

Azalea wrote: »

Women being afraid of posting as it would mean they're saying they're attractive.

There shouldn't be negative reactions to mere glances, smiling, saying hi etc (although I know there are some women who react like right ***** if the man has the audacity not to be attractive to her). It should be taken as a compliment. She should be polite back to him, just not to the point of giving him the wrong idea.

Because that's simple isn't, being just nice enough so that some hopeless ****er won't get ideas above his station. It's up to the uggo to aim within his own league and not get the hump when a pretty girl does not want to bang him.

Medusa22

Azalea wrote: »

Women being afraid of posting as it would mean they're saying they're attractive.

There shouldn't be negative reactions to mere glances, smiling, saying hi etc (although I know there are some women who react like right ***** if the man has the audacity not to be attractive to her). It should be taken as a compliment. She should be polite back to him, just not to the point of giving him the wrong idea.

I'm with Azalea on this one, and I'm not saying that I'm a model or anything but I wouldn't react negatively to a smile or polite conversation or whatever (I'd feel flattered and take it as a compliment). If someone though is leering or being sleazy or creepy I'd just try to get away to be honest.

The Backwards Man

What does checking someone out actually mean? Like staring at them? I think staring at anyone is rude and a bit creepy, but that's just me

wakka12

Most girls Ive talked to about this don't think being stared at is a compliment unless the guy is attractive to them

paleoperson

The Backwards Man wrote: »

What does checking someone out actually mean? Like staring at them? I think staring at anyone is rude and a bit creepy, but that's just me

Well staring kind of implies looking at too for too long, it's kind of built into the word that it's too much. I'm talking about normal looking, or getting "caught" looking, not staring.

harry Bailey esq

Satriale wrote: »

I'm fairly ugly but attractive girls are always smiling and winking at me. Find a good looking lad to pester, will ye?

:pac: :pac: there is some science behind this though, us males,apparantly,are apparently more 'visual' when it comes to the laws of attraction,whereas with women,its a multitude of things. Well groomed,confident,generous,good at holding conversation,witty,emphatic,the list goes on.I personally reckon I punch way above my weight concerning affairs of the heart.I look seriously shady,but some ladies like that too it seems,I'm sure several of my aestheticly challenged boards brothers,and maybe even some of the ladies will agree.I suppose the point I'm trying to make goes back to the old adage 'don't judge a book by its cover'.

Medusa22

paleoperson wrote: »

Well staring kind of implies looking at too for too long, it's kind of built into the word that it's too much. I'm talking about normal looking, or getting "caught" looking, not staring.

I've lost nearly 5 stone in the last few years and when I was heavier I was well used to being invisible. I still forget that I've lost weight sometimes so when I occasionally see a fella looking at me I automatically assume that there's something on my face or I look down at my outfit to see if I have toilet paper on my shoe or something :pac: Then I think ''oh wait, I'm not invisible any more, maybe he's actually just checking me out''

quarefarmers

What qualifies as hopeless?
On the file?
Living with parents?
No personality?

paleoperson

quarefarmers wrote: »

What qualifies as hopeless?
On the file?
Living with parents?
No personality?

Let's just say random people that you see that you will never see again or else something else that means you will never hook up with them.

harry Bailey esq

Medusa22 wrote: »

I've lost nearly 5 stone in the last few years and when I was heavier I was well used to being invisible. I still forget that I've lost weight sometimes so when I occasionally see a fella looking at me I automatically assume that there's something on my face or I look down at my outfit to see if I have toilet paper on my shoe or something :pac: Then I think ''oh wait, I'm not invisible any more, maybe he's actually just checking me out''

First off,good for you.I used to box,5 stone off is NOT easy.Secondly your probably right, you were being checked out,but women tend to be a lot more self conscious than us chaps.For example, a body part that a woman might hate about herself, let's use hips for example, could be the very thing that caught the chaps attention to begin with.