so my girlfriends a hooker.

Kovu · 30-01-2015 01:22PM

Deleted User wrote: »

Thats the OP. The question was "No one said she was having unprotected sex, did he ask?" about whether SHE was having unprotected sex. That is to say - at work.

I never said she was, I speculated that we didn't know and she could be.

Tilly · 30-01-2015 01:23PM

What's the male version of blue waffle?

30-01-2015 01:24PM

Kovu wrote: »

I never said she was, I speculated that we didn't know and she could be.

"Yep, OP said she was on the pill." - is not speculation or "could". It is a direct answer to the question.

To establish the facts:

1) The girl is using the pill.
2) The girl is having unprotected sex with the boyfriend.
3) We have no idea at this time if she is doing so with clients.

Raoul · 30-01-2015 01:25PM

What if .... the OP is actually the lady of the night!!! And set up the thread to gauge reactions.

whiskeyman · 30-01-2015 01:27PM

Tilly wrote: »

What's the male version of blue waffle?

Green sausage

aphex™ · 30-01-2015 01:28PM

Tilly wrote: »

I feel itchy down there just reading this thread!!!

Does it hurt when you pee?

The OP might have an ointment for that......

beertons · 30-01-2015 01:30PM

Do you pay more?

AndonHandon · 30-01-2015 01:32PM

And people say hookers are exploited pfffffft!

eeeee · 30-01-2015 01:33PM

You like this woman enough to be in a relationship, what does her job matter?

I think you'll find she gets herself tested regularly (she would have to), have you ever gotten yourself tested OP?

What does it matter how many people she's had sex with. It's a job. She chases to spend time with you. You don't know why she's working as a prostitute, how long she's done it or intends to. To be honest your relationship seems lacking, you don't seem to know that much about each other.

Judging by your infantile reaction to news about someone you supposedly care deeply about I thinly She can do a lot better.

readyletsgo · 30-01-2015 01:33PM

Oh man, bad place to post!

I think you should meet up with her in your normal places, talk to her about it, see what she says and go from there.

It's kinda unfair to just turn up on her doorstep.

Give her a chance to explain herself first.

And yeah, as someone else said already, it's been 6 months, do you think it's love?

Personally, I would confront her, talk it out, see how you feel after and make a decision. She most likely is happy doing what she's doing but wouldn't talk about it, clearly.

Kovu · 30-01-2015 01:33PM

Deleted User wrote: »

"Yep, OP said she was on the pill." - is not speculation or "could". It is a direct answer to the question.

To establish the facts:

1) The girl is using the pill.
2) The girl is having unprotected sex with the boyfriend.
3) We have no idea at this time if she is doing so with clients.

I answered it as the OP & her were having unprotected sex, although I probably could have phrased it better as I see now how you took me up wrong. We don't know if she is having unprotected sex with clients or not but even so, there are certain things that condoms don't protect against like genital warts.
Anyway, us arguing over the semantics over how I phrased an answer is not contributing to the thread.

Baggy Trousers · 30-01-2015 01:33PM

Dr Turk Turkelton wrote: »

What I find most worrying here is that people are more worried about breaking down my figures for ops girlfriend's daily intake of c0cks rather than worrying if the poor op has caught any sort of disease from the hooker.

Ah now Turk, don't be playing the slippery eel. You said 20 c0cks a day on average. There is no data on how disease ridden those c0cks might be.
In any case, let's say she apportions 30 mins per each of the 20 customers - thats a 10 hour day with no breaks!

Irishcrx · 30-01-2015 01:35PM

wandatowell wrote: »

Maybe she was afraid of how he'd would react ?????? I'd think she knew exactly how he would react which is exactly why she's been lying to him.

Dude, I'd meet up and explain you found out then break up with her.

She's probably had something similar happen to her before tbf

Yeah sure , she's only a slut don't bother treating her like a human being. She'd be well used to men treating her like crap.

I'm sure on future dates the best way to get to know someone is to tell them on the first date that she has sex for money, I'm sure that's the best way to get to know someone's heart first and not just their dick.

I reckon , you'll feel you should have known and your probably right. But from her perspective maybe she thought she found someone who in time she might be able to confide in , who might love her and understand these thing's when their explained and maybe they could even be worked out...or maybe not, maybe your not that bloke in which case just walk away but don't shame the girl in doing so.

Maybe you are the type who will insult her , go to her place of work and confront her and put it up on an internet forum. Maybe she actually deserves better.

30-01-2015 01:36PM

Dr Turk Turkelton wrote: »

What I find most worrying here is that people are more worried about breaking down my figures for ops girlfriend's daily intake of c0cks rather than worrying if the poor op has caught any sort of disease from the hooker.

Yet throwing out figures fueled by little other than fantastical hyperbole is not likely to assist the OP in a time of turmoil and confusion. He likely has enough to be concerned about without being made paranoid by imaginary nonsense.

Baggy Trousers wrote: »

In any case, let's say she apportions 30 mins per each of the 20 customers - thats a 10 hour day with no breaks!

Depends on what positions she works in. There migtht have been breaks.

smash · 30-01-2015 01:37PM

gadetra wrote: »

You like this woman enough to be in a relationship, what does her job matter?

Come on.... really? It's not like she's a preacher and he's an atheist. She fcuks people for a living!!!

Mesrine65 · 30-01-2015 01:39PM

At €80 for 30 minutes I seriously doubt the girl is having unprotected jollies with clients, she's a professional FFS

SEPT 23 1989 · 30-01-2015 01:39PM

Girlfriend is a hooker,i know i know its serious

30-01-2015 01:41PM

I don't think it's unreasonable to assume that the person you are in a monogamous relationship is not getting fcuked regularly by other people. I really don't.

And that's not shaming someone for being a prostitute, I've zero issue with that as a profession as long as it's all consensual, but I don't think it's fair not to be honest with someone who may just fall in love with you that that's what you do. I also think it's pretty understandable that if you found out your other half was getting fcuked/fcuking other people (paid or not), you would be upset about it.

eeeee · 30-01-2015 01:42PM

smash wrote: »

Come on.... really? It's not like she's a preacher and he's an atheist. She fcuks people for a living!!!

And? It's a job. It's petty, small minded unenlightened attitudes like this that made it hard for her to be honest about her job in the first place.

She made a bad choice in the OP judging by his reaction. She obviously felt loved and happy with OP, she's gonna be let down now.

NachoBusiness · 30-01-2015 01:43PM

False alarm. The website was just a notice board for amateur female rugby players.

One eyed Jack · 30-01-2015 01:44PM

I was wondering where the rest of AH had gone until I spotted this thread, seven pages in less than an hour, must surely be a record for a thread containing a sniff of sex!

Well done OP, this is an early contender for this years legendary thread status, beat off some stiff competition already!

dricko_lim · 30-01-2015 01:46PM

Thread followed

Dr Turk Turkelton · 30-01-2015 01:46PM

gadetra wrote: »

And? It's a job. It's petty, small minded unenlightened attitudes like this that made it hard for her to be honest about her job in the first place.

She made a bad choice in the OP judging by his reaction. She obviously felt loved and happy with OP, she's gonna be let down now.

So now it's not politically correct to want more from a partner than a career involving taking numerous c0cks daily?
My jaysis but the world is gone mad.

hullaballoo · 30-01-2015 01:47PM

One eyed Jack wrote: »

I was wondering where the rest of AH had gone until I spotted this thread, seven pages in less than an hour, must surely be a record for a thread containing a sniff of sex!

Well done OP, this is an early contender for this years legendary thread status, beat off some stiff competition already!

It's not just stiff competition he'll be beating off wha?

Gatling · 30-01-2015 01:48PM

Whip around for a boardsies Gang bang

smash · 30-01-2015 01:48PM

gadetra wrote: »

And? It's a job. It's petty, small minded unenlightened attitudes like this that made it hard for her to be honest about her job in the first place.

It's not just a job. A job involves working and paying tax etc. Prostitution is illegal and for a lot of people the act of sex holds an emotional attachment. So it's in no way small minded to expect your partner to not engage in prostitution and get rammed by random blokes on a daily basis.

It's not an 'enlightened attitude' to just accept that your other half sleeps with other people on the regular for money. That they could catch any disease or end up in prison...

Grayson · 30-01-2015 01:48PM

smash wrote: »

Come on.... really? It's not like she's a preacher and he's an atheist. She fcuks people for a living!!!

Actually as an atheist I'd have to say I find the idea of a bible bashing bigot to be less attractive than a sex worker.

Magico Gonzalez · 30-01-2015 01:48PM

Seriously, her job is riding other people.

It's reasonable for the OP to expect an exclusive relationship.

It's not about "her job" it's about not being able to commit to a sexually exclusive relationship. If you would be OK with that, congratulations. Me, I'd confirm it was true and calmly explain that I wanted an exclusive relationship and end it now before I went any further.

The right on crowd here are trying to shame you OP for wanting something that the overwhelming majority of all other couples want. You can be rest assured if the roles were reversed you'd be the bad guy in this scenario too.

I suspect they would all behave differently if the shoe was on the other foot!

Grayson · 30-01-2015 01:49PM

smash wrote: »

It's not just a job. A job involves working and paying tax etc. Prostitution is illegal and for a lot of people the act of sex holds an emotional attachment. So it's in no way small minded to expect your partner to not engage in prostitution and get rammed by random blokes on a daily basis.

It's not an 'enlightened attitude' to just accept that your other half sleeps with other people on the regular for money. That they could catch any disease or end up in prison...

It's not.

Dr Turk Turkelton wrote: »

What I find most worrying here is that people are more worried about breaking down my figures for ops girlfriend's daily intake of c0cks rather than worrying if the poor op has caught any sort of disease from the hooker.

Studies in germany have shown that since legalisation the % of sex workers who get an STD is actually the same as the % of non sex workers.

jester77 · 30-01-2015 01:50PM

As long as she doesn't take her work home with her! On the plus side, you are doing a hooker for free.

I remember reading an article about Jenna Jameson and she was saying that she wouldn't do anal in any of her movies. She saved it for her partner, so romantic of her. You could look into setting up such an arrangement as well... for health reasons, of course.

so my girlfriends a hooker.

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