I'm afraid I'll hurt her.

DVDM93 · 29-12-2014 12:56AM #1

I wasn't sure where to put this. Relationship Issues? Personal issues? Anyway I've decided to leave it here as it gives me a greater audience which will provide me with serious answers with a mix of expected humour, which to be honest I need as this is a sensitive issue which is bothering me.

Anyway, I've been seeing this girl for a little over two months now. Things are going great. I first met her while I was working, I work in a clothes shop and she was in doing early Xmas buying for her Dad. He's fussy and so I spent quite a will helping her pick out an outfit. Along with this she's the quiet type and rather shy which made the process longer but so be it, we really got on. Anyway, she bought an outfit and that was that. She left and we both got on with our day.

I thought nothing of her until I was out that night and by chance happened to bump in to her in a late bar. She was with her friends and I with mine. She spotted me and I could see that she recognised me so I went over for a chat. We got on great, had a few drinks, had a kiss, exchanged numbers and ended up going home separately.

As that might signal things have been going very slow, which I don't mind at all. She "doesn't want to rush things". I'm perfect with that.

However, our last couple of meetings at my house we've come very close to having sex. I've always found an excuse not to. Why? As the title says I'm afraid of hurting her. My penis is very VERY large and I'm almost certain she won't be able to handle it. It will be physically overwhelming for her but if keep avoiding making love to her will this not hurt her more, mentally?

Any advice/opinions, etc... would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.

Saipanne · 29-12-2014 12:58AM

*popcorn*

The King of Moo · 29-12-2014 12:58AM

Still another week till the schools are back :-(.

Pwindedd · 29-12-2014 12:58AM

I think I know her, don't worry she's a fanny like a bucket, be grand!

pbthevet · 29-12-2014 12:58AM

Pulls up seat, gets chocolate. This will be good

braddun · 29-12-2014 12:59AM

5 inches is not large

awec · 29-12-2014 12:59AM

Trigger Happy wrote: »

You are definitely in the wrong forum.....but before the piss takers get in my advice would be that you can be intimate together without having full sex. Just talk it thru with her. If she is ok to go slow etc then she could be a keeper for you.

Seriously?

PizzamanIRL · 29-12-2014 01:00AM

I won't lie. I laughed.

humbert · 29-12-2014 01:00AM

Pretty good punchline.

uck51js9zml2yt · 29-12-2014 01:00AM

The best advice, if you want genuine advice is to get this post moved to PI/RI .

You'll only get smart answers in this forum.

thelad95 · 29-12-2014 01:00AM

DVDM93 wrote: »

I wasn't sure where to put this. Relationship Issues? Personal issues? Anyway I've decided to leave it here as it gives me a greater audience which will provide me with serious answers with a mix of expected humour, which to be honest I need as this is a sensitive issue which is bothering me.

Anyway, I've been seeing this girl for a little over two months now. Things are going great. I first met her while I was working, I work in a clothes shop and she was in doing early Xmas buying for her Dad. He's fussy and so I spent quite a will helping her pick out an outfit. Along with this she's the quiet type and rather shy which made the process longer but so be it, we really got on. Anyway, she bought an outfit and that was that. She left and we both got on with our day.

I thought nothing of her until I was out that night and by chance happened to bump in to her in a late bar. She was with her friends and I with mine. She spotted me and I could see that she recognised me so I went over for a chat. We got on great, had a few drinks, had a kiss, exchanged numbers and ended up going home separately.

As that might signal things have been going very slow, which I don't mind at all. She "doesn't want to rush things". I'm perfect with that.

However, our last couple of meetings at my house we've come very close to having sex. I've always found an excuse not to. Why? As the title says I'm afraid of hurting her. My penis is very VERY large and I'm almost certain she won't be able to handle it. It will be physically overwhelming for her but if keep avoiding making love to her will this not hurt her more, mentally?

Any advice/opinions, etc... would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.

If you're worried it's too big, you should just cut it in half.

Littlekittylou · 29-12-2014 01:01AM

Best leave her alone so.

Birneybau · 29-12-2014 01:01AM

Big prick eh?

Karl Stein · 29-12-2014 01:01AM

Maybe she has a vag like a bucket?

Letree · 29-12-2014 01:01AM

I'm sure if she has felt it while you and her were kissing she will make the decision if it is too big or not.

You mentioned your member in another thread OP. 3 inches erect is not big btw.

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy · 29-12-2014 01:02AM

Tell her you'll just put in the tip.

michael999999 · 29-12-2014 01:02AM

Is your name Terence?

Quazzie · 29-12-2014 01:03AM

Start with anal and she'll enjoy normal sex in comparison after that .

JaseBelleVie · 29-12-2014 01:03AM

As another poster said, there's a week to go before the schools are back.

suicide_circus · 29-12-2014 01:03AM

braddun wrote: »

5 inches is not large

5 inches....from the ground

Venus In Furs · 29-12-2014 01:04AM

I don't know that it's a schoolkid thing. I know someone who was in that exact situation in their mid-late 20s.

Princess Consuela Bananahammock · 29-12-2014 01:04AM

PI answer - Unless she is seriously small, I doubt you're too big. Most women can take ahell of a lot more than you'd think they can (if they couldn't there'd be lots of average men getting into porn....) And even if it is, thee are other things you so in the bedroom.

AH answer - we're gonna want to see pics....

sabat · 29-12-2014 01:04AM

suicide_circus wrote: »

5 inches....from the ground

Yeah, when you're doing push-ups.

ebbsy · 29-12-2014 01:04AM

D'ont worry, its like throwing a caber down O'Connell street.

christy02 · 29-12-2014 01:05AM

Have you previously broke up other women with your massive schlong? Rips n tears or just stretching?

Saipanne · 29-12-2014 01:05AM

Venus In Furs wrote: »

I don't know that it's a schoolkid thing. I know someone who was in that exact situation in their mid-late 20s.

They got over it in their thirties though?

not yet · 29-12-2014 01:05AM

You sound like a young Bill Bixby, he was always sawing the chicks in half...

Birneybau · 29-12-2014 01:06AM

ebbsy wrote: »

D'ont worry, its like throwing a caber down O'Connell street.

Speak for yourself.

The_Mask · 29-12-2014 01:06AM

If it fits in her mouth it ll fit down south

sh1tstirrer · 29-12-2014 01:06AM

DVDM93 wrote: »

I wasn't sure where to put this. Relationship Issues? Personal issues? Anyway I've decided to leave it here as it gives me a greater audience which will provide me with serious answers with a mix of expected humour, which to be honest I need as this is a sensitive issue which is bothering me.

Anyway, I've been seeing this girl for a little over two months now. Things are going great. I first met her while I was working, I work in a clothes shop and she was in doing early Xmas buying for her Dad. He's fussy and so I spent quite a will helping her pick out an outfit. Along with this she's the quiet type and rather shy which made the process longer but so be it, we really got on. Anyway, she bought an outfit and that was that. She left and we both got on with our day.

I thought nothing of her until I was out that night and by chance happened to bump in to her in a late bar. She was with her friends and I with mine. She spotted me and I could see that she recognised me so I went over for a chat. We got on great, had a few drinks, had a kiss, exchanged numbers and ended up going home separately.

As that might signal things have been going very slow, which I don't mind at all. She "doesn't want to rush things". I'm perfect with that.

However, our last couple of meetings at my house we've come very close to having sex. I've always found an excuse not to. Why? As the title says I'm afraid of hurting her. My penis is very VERY large and I'm almost certain she won't be able to handle it. It will be physically overwhelming for her but if keep avoiding making love to her will this not hurt her more, mentally?

Any advice/opinions, etc... would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.

How do you know your knob is extra large have you compared it with other men :eek: You're a queer, right :pac:

mad m · 29-12-2014 01:07AM

OP, your some P rick for posting it here.....:D

I'm afraid I'll hurt her.

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