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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,510 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    Cydoniac wrote: »
    I could smell a bit of alcohol on his breath so I imagine there may have been a bit of judgement impairment. He knew not to go any further but it was pretty unpleasant, even more so when I think about how surreal it was now.

    Sad to say, as a woman this doesn't surprise me- happens to a lot of girls. (That's not to take anything away from how horrible and invasive it was, I hope you're ok.)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 481 ✭✭mr.anonymous


    The People's Debate with Vincent Browne

    Wed 4th June, 22:00, TV3

    Topic for debate is 'Homophobia in Ireland'

    It should be interesting. Hopefully Paddy Manning wasn't invited...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,510 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    Hopefully Paddy Manning wasn't invited...

    I actually think one of these days he's going to explode live on tv. That amount of anger and self hatred just is not healthy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,734 ✭✭✭J_E


    I actually think one of these days he's going to explode live on tv. That amount of anger and self hatred just is not healthy.
    It's just a bit sad seeing someone feel the need to be politically relevant, so much so that they'll play themselves down to 'impress' their peers. He's also so caught up in US style left and right labels that I think he forgets to have proper discussions. The kind of people who put me off having an interest in politics, for sure. You only have to go onto his Twitter to see what I mean.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,734 ✭✭✭J_E


    http://www.sundayworld.com/top-stories/news/shameless-sex-acts-take-place-in-broad-daylight-phoenix-park-gay-sex

    Looks like Sunday World have started their smear campaign with the referendum coming along. I don't personally like outdoor cruising but this is just ****-stirring at its finest, a really nasty cheap attack, especially the mother-child statement just to get people emotionally involved.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 367 ✭✭qweerty


    Cydoniac wrote: »
    http://www.sundayworld.com/top-stories/news/shameless-sex-acts-take-place-in-broad-daylight-phoenix-park-gay-sex

    Looks like Sunday World have started their smear campaign with the referendum coming along. I don't personally like outdoor cruising but this is just ****-stirring at its finest, a really nasty cheap attack, especially the mother-child statement just to get people emotionally involved.

    Before considering the potential consequences of such negativity, I actually thought it was quite funny. It's laced with sensationalism - "packs of men", "Michael D Higgin's back garden", etc - and seems to be implying that this is a scoop and the result of some indepth investigation!

    However, I think it has unpleasant undertones, and portrays those involved as one-dimensional sex-crazed creeps. It has a byline, so maybe a few of us such contact him.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 367 ✭✭qweerty


    Cydoniac wrote: »
    http://www.sundayworld.com/top-stories/news/shameless-sex-acts-take-place-in-broad-daylight-phoenix-park-gay-sex

    Looks like Sunday World have started their smear campaign with the referendum coming along. I don't personally like outdoor cruising but this is just ****-stirring at its finest, a really nasty cheap attack, especially the mother-child statement just to get people emotionally involved.

    Before considering the potential consequences of such negativity, I actually thought it was quite funny. It's laced with sensationalism - "packs of men", "Michael D Higgins' back garden", etc - and seems to be implying that this is a scoop and the result of some indepth investigation!

    However, I think it has unpleasant undertones, and portrays those involved as one-dimensional sex-crazed creeps. It has a byline, so maybe a few of us such contact him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,821 ✭✭✭floggg


    qweerty wrote: »
    Before considering the potential consequences of such negativity, I actually thought it was quite funny. It's laced with sensationalism - "packs of men", "Michael D Higgins' back garden", etc - and seems to be implying that this is a scoop and the result of some indepth investigation!

    However, I think it has unpleasant undertones, and portrays those involved as one-dimensional sex-crazed creeps. It has a byline, so maybe a few of us such contact him.

    I wouldn't get too paranoid lads. It's a rag paper publishing a sensationalist article for clicks and newspaper sales. This sort of nonsense goes down well with their readership - regardless of the sexual orientation of those involved.

    I've seen similar guff about dogging and swingers parties too where it's was mainly straight couples involved.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,381 ✭✭✭Daith


    qweerty wrote: »
    Before considering the potential consequences of such negativity, I actually thought it was quite funny. It's laced with sensationalism - "packs of men", "Michael D Higgin's back garden", etc - and seems to be implying that this is a scoop and the result of some indepth investigation!

    Fully agreed. I loved the fact that it was only "women and children" walking past. The reference to a Pope was a nice touch.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,629 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    I thought these two images taken in a Vancouver photo booth in 1953 were lovely, and very brave. They could have easily been arrested for this photo at the time.

    They are part of ONE National Gay & Lesbian Archives at the University of Southern California.

    The image donor Joseph John Bertrund Belanger, the man on the right in the images, was a member of the Mattachine society - a very early LGBT organisation.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,235 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,734 ✭✭✭J_E




    Video from about 2 years ago that has only started to become more known when it was covered on US television just the other night. It's quite hard to watch in parts, but Pepe is a true beacon of hope for reason and understanding in Uganda, worth watching if you have the time.

    Oh, and utter confirmation that Pastor Sempa (eat da poo poo) is as dangerous as he is lunatic.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,235 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Sad to see Ruairi Quinn go.

    He has been one of Irelands most pro gay rights TDs for maybe 30 years.

    One of the first candidates ever to canvass in the George in the 80s

    Very instrumental in forcing decriminalisation onto the cabinet agenda in 93

    Very reforming in Education in terms of bringing in homophobic bullying codes and changes to section 37.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Posts: 4,824 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    My gaydar sucks but s/o to the cute guy in the black jumper and hipster glasses who's sitting across from me on the Dublin to Cork train. ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,734 ✭✭✭J_E


    My gaydar sucks but s/o to the cute guy in the black jumper and hipster glasses who's sitting across from me on the Dublin to Cork train. ;)
    Panti had this to say at the Big Gay Sing, or something along the lines of - "It's tragic - now you can't tell the gay guys from the straight ones!"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,734 ✭✭✭J_E


    A trans friend of mine has been kicked out of home after coming out and adopting her gender. Absolutely heartbreaking :( There is a long way to go...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,235 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Over 100 AIDS activists and researchers killed in Ukraine !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!@!

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 75,459 ✭✭✭✭L1011


    Over 100 AIDS activists and researchers killed in Ukraine !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!@!

    I don't think the headline figure of 100 is correct on some of the articles saying that, but there's definitely quite a few including some very notable individuals.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,734 ✭✭✭J_E


    Over 100 AIDS activists and researchers killed in Ukraine !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!@!
    Not possible that it was over 100 but a lot of prominent figures...so senseless :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,235 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    A number of reports are specific in saying 108

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,734 ✭✭✭J_E


    That's going to severely set back research into prevention and treatment...not to mention families ruined...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,235 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,629 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    I thought this students message to the guy that punched him for kissing his boyfriend was very dignified
    To the guy who punched me tonight for kissing my boyfriend, I’m sorry that you called me fag. I’m sorry you hit me for no reason. I’m sorry that whatever insecurities you have don’t allow you to accept others for who they are. I’m sorry that I threaten you.

    I’m NOT sorry I’m gay. I’m proud to be this way. I’m proud to be confident enough to love who I love and to love me. I’m proud to have friends and family that love me regardless of me. Honestly, I’m not sorry.

    https://twitter.com/ColeLedford11/status/530578094823055361/photo/1


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,713 ✭✭✭cloudatlas


    I was sitting in Waterstones the other day and I sat down with Graham Norton's and Panti Bliss's memoir. I have to say reading excerpts I thought Panti's memoir isn't really well written, Graham was surprisingly good writing. Panti's memoir was like a rushed diary entry really plainly written I wonder how long Rory took to write it. There is a bit of a love in with this book at the moment, sure there is an interesting perspective but it's not all that well written in my opinion.


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 7,916 Mod ✭✭✭✭Irish Aris


    cloudatlas wrote: »
    I was sitting in Waterstones the other day and I sat down with Graham Norton's and Panti Bliss's memoir. I have to say reading excerpts I thought Panti's memoir isn't really well written, Graham was surprisingly good writing. Panti's memoir was like a rushed diary entry really plainly written I wonder how long Rory took to write it. There is a bit of a love in with this book at the moment, sure there is an interesting perspective but it's not all that well written in my opinion.

    I started reading it a couple days ago, 70 pages into it at the moment.
    I won't see it's badly written, but you are right, to an extend, it is written in a plain, straightforward way.

    What I find interesting so far is the descriptions of Ireland of that era (the 80's). For me especially as a foreigner, who knows very little about Ireland of those days..

    Upcoming gigs and events: VNV Nation, Lord Of The Lost, Dry Cleaning, The Shawshank Redemption, These Charming Men, Sasha Velour, Disorder Festival, David Byrne, The Cure, Garbage, Bob The Drag Queen, Sigur Ros, Olafur Arnalds, Cabaret Voltaire, Cardinals



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 75,459 ✭✭✭✭L1011


    TommieBoy wrote: »
    ...perhaps it was written by a ghostwriter? ...as so many memoirs seem to be.

    'n hi everyone :)

    Ghost-written stuff wouldn't seem rushed, so I don't think so. Rory seems well able to write lengthy passages (speeches, blog posts) anyway so shouldn't need a ghost writer.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,734 ✭✭✭J_E


    Oh it definitely reads and feels like his own style, I wouldn't say it's ghostwritten. I really enjoyed it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 639 ✭✭✭Ash885


    I really enjoyed Panti's book. Although I'd agree in certain parts it doesn't seem as polished as Graham's (which I'm reading now), I do think it's a stellar book. It's nice to get his view on a lot of gay culture I've never known, and there's such a personal flow to the writing that I think we're not use to in autobiographics which as someone said, is usually written by a ghost writer.


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 7,916 Mod ✭✭✭✭Irish Aris


    I finished Panti's memoirs couple of days ago.
    Overall very enjoyable, he/she had an interesting life so far.

    I also attended her performance High Heels in Low Places last night at Project Arts Theatre. There are some common stories between the book and the performance (around the events of this year) and some of the non-common stories are simply hilarious (e.g. the Madonna incident!!!)

    She simply made my day!!!

    Upcoming gigs and events: VNV Nation, Lord Of The Lost, Dry Cleaning, The Shawshank Redemption, These Charming Men, Sasha Velour, Disorder Festival, David Byrne, The Cure, Garbage, Bob The Drag Queen, Sigur Ros, Olafur Arnalds, Cabaret Voltaire, Cardinals



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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 415 ✭✭Jentle Grenade


    Just finished Panti's book a few minutes ago. Some parts were genuinely laugh out loud funny but I did find some parts a bit..boring :o As someone else said further up it was kind of like a rushed diary entry in parts but I still completely enjoyed it. My mam wants to read it next!


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